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Emzyme:
Are you also self clicking
What VPN do u use?
Have you been played? Thanks

Emzyme:
jeez i just used another pphone with my app got 2usd straight up


when it took me plenty plenty clicks with days to get 3.usd

imagine i could get over 30 usd today alone with this o

lordchizzy:
but right now she's asking me if I would continue the relationship if she's giving admission. cos she applied in same school I'm studying. so what would be my reply to this kinda question and what does it suggest.
and again I tink long distance relationship is shitty in a way tho. so quite the relationship or continue or probably act nonchalant about it, which should I do or any better suggestionbut right now she's asking me if I would continue the relationship if she's giving admission. cos she applied in same school I'm studying. so what would be my reply to this kinda question and what does it suggest.
and again I tink long distance relationship is shitty in a way tho. so quite the relationship or continue or probably act nonchalant about it, which should I do or any better suggestion

lordchizzy:
hi admin
my girlfriend and I ve been dating for close to 3months now. we were together in the first one month. the love was okay then. but we are on long distance relationship now for the last two months. just recently, she has changed a bit. she no longer call like b4. I don't seem to feel the love any more. thou I sent her a love text recently telling her how I love and missed her. but she replied telling me she loves me too and even more. but right now she keeps uploading guys pics and saying all those kinda loves shit and attachment of love emojis on them. she has been doing this for the past 3weeks now. always posting guys pics. I don't know if she's trying to make me jealous or something. am saying these cos there are times she do complain I ignore her chats on WhatsApp( like taking time to reply her). but I don't tink that's wat is making her behave this way. cos right now I can conclude she's not investing much in the relationship as she use to.
am thinking of dropping her or I should probably call her and ask her if she's still serious with the rlstp or not whether she wants to roll with me or not.(if she says yes then I would warn her not to post those shits on her WhatsApp status anymore. if anyone should be doing that, then I should be the one, am the man. and I ve to decide and control what happens in the relationship) but my guys are telling me not to break. that I should just leave it at there and move on with my life


what can you say about this.
leave her hanging or break up with her or try to define the relationship again and know my stand. cos I don't wanna waste my time

AutoElectNG:
“Most people think good relationships are 50/50—meaning there is give and take in equal measure—but in the “best” relationships it’s 90/10, with both giving 90…”

Jazzcelestin:
Mehn I can't believe I just read from page 1 to page 215 in just a week

Ladybec:
oga sir I didn't hear from you again

frank4578:
So guys I had a fight with my gf of two years because I suspected she was cheating (long distance relationship) . She blocked me on fb and WhatsApp and this is her demands before we can get back together again

HARDDON:
Do not seek to follow in the footsteps of the wise. Seek what they sought. ” ― Matsuo Basho

HARDDON:
"With words, you'll warm a girl's heart, with action, you'll warm a girl's panties"




DavidTheGeek yaff spoilt gabadaya! Oh holy heavens!

Sleek!

futurevizi:
Here lies my problem
I really bleeped up yesterday ..
A gal in my uni,different dept sha came and paid a visit for the second time ,my roommates were out. I know deep down ,I need to Bleep her as I have pressed all her keys, she so much into me she wants to date me (she told me she has heavy crush on me) she wants a relationship with me .. My friends all around likes her, she's social, playful the kind of gal I love to be around... Yesterday after playing games, she lie on my bed forming sleep(i knew that was a green light) , I couldn't make a move on her with all the signals she was oozing.. I knew I bleeped up.. I tried playing around with her, it really didn't work.. After she got up, she playfully told me she hates me, that I hurt her and I am never serious with her and she have told me everything emotional about herself and I have for once told her anything emotional about my self..
Suddenly she switch how she so much love and why I don't wanna ask her out.. I have to make up a story to confuse her which didn't work . I just have to tell her that asking a gal out kills the fun, she said I should try her. Which I didn't.. I knew my body language was really oozing to Bleep her. Suddenly she switch again when I told her to give me a dance she told me she's not like other gals out there, when she's my wife she will give me that.. After everything we didn't have sex...I feel I have really blown my chance of making her gal. I know sex=love.
How do I go around this situation next time..
To be sincere I love that gal and really wanna date her.
I have an inner feeling that after what happened between me and her yesterday she will start avoiding me, because I believe deep inside me she getting tired how do I go about this also?
I didn't Bleep her and I am not showing any sign of seriousness with her...
Secondly using your drills makes some women afraid of me or hate me.
I don't know why?
Can one ever defeat the fear of approaching new women??

With words, you'll warm a girl's heart, with action, you'll warm a girl's panties

Clearly, you have learned words, now you need to learn action.

It's difficult to teach what to do when you're alone with a girl in a room. Different scenarios, different moves.

If you've done your homework well with words, know that by coming over to your place, she expects/wants you to make a move on her. So feel free to make a move or else she's going to be disappointed.

On how to go around this next time....

Next time you have a girl over, let your hand WANDER to her laps, her butt, her boobs, anywhere, just touch something "you're not supposed to touch". Don't think about it, just touch.

If she asks you "what are you doing?",
answer with: "Nothing. Oh! Don't mind my hand, it likes touching fresh laps" and keep touching.

If she objects, you should know the difference between a girl playing hard to get and a girl who is rejecting your advances and act accordingly.

NOTE: Right from when she knocked on your door, "the game" has started. You deploy words and innocent touches to warm her up. Hug her at the door. Tell her the way she's dressing so sexy, it's like she came to seduce you..... bla bla bla.

On the issue of you want to date her...
I've addressed this issue of officially dating a girl before.

We say don't ask a girl out so you don't make her too comfortable and kill the fun. If you can maintain the fun while you guys are dating, you're free to make her your girlfriend.

NOTE: Just because a girl is now your girlfriend doesn't mean you should stop using the drills on her.

Usually, it's just best to keep things going without making the relationship official.

On the issue of the drills making girls afraid or hate you...

You're doing something wrong.

It's likely you're being just cocky and not being funny so it makes you sound arrogant.

Learn to blend the two.

futurevizi:
She's acting funny now
HARDDON
DavidTheGeek

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drnoel:
Yes my son, u have a misguided sense of what is right or wrong. That thing u call social psychology in that sense only works in Nigeria hence i call it Nigerian sense.
It also depends on the types of ladies u have been meeting and from what u wrote obviously riffraffs like u. No insults meant just a statement of fact cos in my time ladies had class and respect for themselves, not like these days.
Like I said, run along. Only comment when u have something worthwhile to say unless I won't be replying u again.

drnoel:
Ur Nigerian sense of right and wrong is battling in ur head. Leave that country like many Nigerians have and u will see the light.
What is said in public maynot be what is practical, that may be true, but do u think running the home and looking after the kids is an easy feat? U have no idea.
U also have no sense of right and wrong. Very ignorant.
My son please leave adults to comment next time. Now run along.

I need "Nigerian sense" because i'm in Nigeria. When i travel abroad, i will use "abroad sense" They say "When in Rome act like the Romans".

For the record, it isn't "Nigerian sense", It's "social psychology".

When we were kids, we'd cry and cry to get our parents to buy us sweets or biscuits. That's MANIPULATION. That was our way of trying to get our parents to give us what we want.

Whether you know it or you don't know it, there's a silent power tussle in relationships of any kind. Everyone wants to have his or her way.

It's either you're a leader or you're a follower. No such thing as "co-leader". 50:50 exits in your head. Two captains can't be on a ship.

Obviously you don't know, but instead of going back to observe for yourself to know whether I'm right or wrong, you have resorted to cheap insults to look big.

Well Grandpa, I'm not here to argue with you, you are old enough to reason for yourself.

drnoel:
What an egocentric ignoramus. [s]Lead d home,...in what context? Are u there to be the government, ruler, king or are u there to be the stronghold? Is she there to be ur slave, house girl or Ur support?[/s]
Ur comments screams of ignorance obviously cos u are unmarried. Let me tell u my son, marriage is no bed of roses but both have to work to make it work. [s]Sometimes the man takes the initiative, sometimes the woman does. It's a 50:50 percent ratio and when one party gives more than that it makes the base shakey.[/s]

'The Pu77y a33 Sissy big baiby' I see here is u my child cos no matter how much u huff and puff if Ur marriage has no base it will crumble but ofcos u won't know that cos u are unmarried.

On the contrary to maintain peace one doesn't have to be battle ready, that's Trumps silly idea and I now understand how it is that u don't know anything since Trump is ur school of thought.

Let me re-educate u, to maintain peace one has to be prepared to do what it takes. Sometimes one gives ground, sometimes one may have to fight.

I repeat Hardon is a bad influence on small boys like u here. I repeat if u do the rubbish he sells here. Get ready to loose ur spouse. If it's just a relationship then it's irrelevant, u can do whatever u wish but once u put a ring on that finger, then best u look elsewhere for advice and not with this bitter celibate.

crunchyg:
Na dem, we know dem

McOrezi:
What country is this?

ucosuagwu:
Come my WhatsApp sharp.