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SportsBREAKING NEWS: Lionel Messi Returns To Argentina Squad by davimus(op): 8:37pm On Aug 12, 2016
The Albiceleste captain announced he has
reversed his decision to step down from
international football, following a conversation
with new coach Edgardo Bauza Lionel Messi has confirmed in a statement his
intention to return to the Argentina national team. The Barcelona star made the decision to retire
from international football after another
heartbreaking loss in the final of the 2016 Copa
America. Having spoken with new Albiceleste
boss Edgardo Bauza, Messi has now made the
decision to represent his country once again. "I see there are lots of problems in Argentine
football and I do not want to create another," he
explained through a statement released on
Friday. PLAY "I do not want to cause any harm, I have always
tried to do the opposite and help wherever I
could. "We have to fix a lot of things in Argentine
football, but I'd rather do that from the inside and
not criticising from the outside." The captain affirmed that it was his love of
Argentina that had convinced him to come back
for the next World Cup qualifiers after initially
stepping down from the team. "A lot of things went through my head the day of
the last final and I seriously thought about
quitting, but I love this country and this shirt too
much," he said. "I thank all the people who want me to keep
playing with Argentina, I hope we can soon
deliver them some joy."
SportsPremier League Transfers: Ins & Outs by davimus(op): 1:06pm On Aug 12, 2016
Keep track of every transfer in the English top
flight! - Only transfers confirmed by either buying or selling club, listed in alphabetical order - Permanent if not otherwise stated, loans with obligation to buy considered permanent ARSENAL IN OUT TAKUMA ASANO
(Sanfrecce Hiroshima)
ROB HOLDING (Bolton
Wanderers)
GRANIT XHAKA
(Gladbach) MIKEL ARTETA
(Retired)
MATHIEU FLAMINI
(Released)
ISAAC HAYDEN
(Newcastle) TOMAS ROSICKY
(Released)
WOJCIECH SZCZESNY
(Loan, Roma) BOURNEMOUTH IN OUT NATHAN AKE (Loan,
Chelsea)
LEWIS COOK (Leeds
United)
EMERSON HYNDMAN
(Fulham) JORDON IBE
(Liverpool)
LYS MOUSSET (Le
Havre)
BRAD SMITH
(Liverpool) SYLVAIN DISTIN
(Released)
TOMMY ELPHICK (Aston
Villa)
GLENN MURRAY (Loan,
Brighton) MATT RITCHIE
(Newcastle)
JAYDEN STOCKLEY
(Aberdeen)
LEE TOMLIN (Bristol
City) STEPHANE ZUBAR
(Released) BURNLEY IN OUT JON FLANAGAN (Loan,
Liverpool)
JOHANN
GUDMUNDSSON
(Charlton)
NICK POPE (Charlton) JOEY BARTON
(Rangers)
MICHAEL DUFF
(Retired)
LLOYD DYER (Released)
MATT GILKS (Released) MATT TAYLOR
(Released) CHELSEA IN OUT MICHY BATSHUAYI
(Marseille)
N'GOLO KANTE
(Leicester City) TAMMY ABRAHAM
(Loan, Bristol City)
NATHAN AKE (Loan,
Bournemouth)
LEWIS BAKER (Loan,
Vitesse Arnhem) PAPY DJILOBODJI
(Sunderland)
TOMAS KALAS (Loan,
Fulham)
CHARLY MUSONDA
(Loan, Real Betis) BABA RAHMAN (Loan,
Schalke)
MOHAMED SALAH
(Roma) CRYSTAL PALACE IN OUT STEVE MANDANDA
(Marseille)
JAMES TOMKINS (West
Ham)
ANDROS TOWNSEND
(Newcastle) EMMANUEL ADEBAYOR
(Released)
MAROUANE CHAMAKH
(Released)
DWIGHT GAYLE
(Newcastle) BREDE HANGELAND
(Released)
ADRIAN MARIAPPA
(Released)
ALEX MCCARTHY
(Southampton) PATRICK MCCARTHY
(Released) EVERTON IN OUT IDRISSA GUEYE (Aston
Villa)
MAARTEN
STEKELENBURG
(Fulham)
ASHLEY WILLIAMS (Swansea City) CONOR GRANT (Loan,
Ipswich Town)
TONY HIBBERT
(Released)
LEON OSMAN
(Released) STEVEN PIENAAR
(Released)
JOHN STONES
(Manchester City) HULL IN OUT None SONE ALUKO
(Released)
MOHAMED DIAME
(Newcastle)
RYAN TAYLOR
(Released) LEICESTER CITY IN OUT LUIS HERNANDEZ
(Sporting Gijon)
BARTOSZ KAPUSTKA
(Cracovia)
NAMPALYS MENDY
(Nice) AHMED MUSA (CSKA
Moscow)
RAUL UCHE RUBIO
(Rayo Vallecano)
RON-ROBERT ZIELER
(Hannover) JACK BARMBY
(Released)
JACOB BLYTH
(Released)
JOE DODOO (Rangers)
CALLUM ELDER (Loan, Brentford)
DEAN HAMMOND
(Released)
N'GOLO KANTE
(Chelsea)
PAUL KONCHESKY (Released)
MARK SCHWARZER
(Released)
ANDREJ KRAMARIC
(Hoffenheim) LIVERPOOL IN OUT LORIS KARIUS (Mainz)
RAGNAR KLAVAN
(Augsburg)
SADIO MANE
(Southampton)
ALEX MANNINGER (Unattached)
JOEL MATIP (Schalke)
GEORGINIO
WIJNALDUM
(Newcastle) JOE ALLEN (Stoke City)
ADAM BOGDAN (Loan,
Wigan Athletic)
SERGI CANOS (Norwich
City)
JOSE ENRIQUE (Released)
JON FLANAGAN (Loan,
Burnley)
JORDAN ROSSITER
(Rangers)
JORDON IBE (Bournemouth)
JEROME SINCLAIR
(Watford)
BRAD SMITH
(Bournemouth)
MARTIN SKRTEL (Fenerbahce)
JOAO TEIXEIRA (FC
Porto)
KOLO TOURE
(Released)
LAWRENCE VIGOUROUX (Swindon Town)
DANNY WARD (Loan,
Huddersfield Town) MANCHESTER CITY IN OUT ILKAY GUNDOGAN
(Borussia Dortmund)
GABRIEL JESUS
(Palmeiras)
AARON MOOY
(Melbourne City) MARLOS MORENO
(Atletico Nacional)
NOLITO (Celta Vigo)
LEROY SANE (Schalke)
JOHN STONES (Everton)
OLEKSANDR ZINCHENKO (FC Ufa) LUKE BRATTAN (Loan,
Melbourne City)
ANTHONY CACERES
(Loan, Melbourne City)
MARTIN DEMICHELIS
(Released) AARON MOOY (Loan,
Huddersfield Town)
RICHARD WRIGHT
(Released)
MARLOS MORENO
(Loan, Deportivo) MANCHESTER UNITED IN OUT ERIC BAILLY
(Villarreal)
ZLATAN IBRAHIMOVIC
(Unattached)
HENRIKH
MKHITARYAN (Dortmund)
PAUL POGBA
(Juventus) ASHLEY FLETCHER
(West Ham United)
NICK POWELL
(Released)
TYLER REID (Swansea
City) VICTOR VALDES
(Released)
GUILLERMO VARELA
(Loan, Frankfurt) MIDDLESBROUGH IN OUT ANTONIO BARRAGAN
(Valencia)
MARTEN DE ROON
(Atalanta)
BERNARDO ESPINOSA
(Sporting Gijon) VIKTOR FISCHER
(Ajax)
BRAD GUZAN (Aston
Villa)
ALVARO NEGREDO
(Loan, Valencia) VICTOR VALDES
(Unattached) DAMIA ABELLA
(Released)
RHYS WILLIAMS
(Released)
JONATHAN WOODGATE
(Released) SOUTHAMPTON IN OUT PIERRE-EMILE
HOJBJERG (Bayern
Munich)
ALEX MCCARTHY
(Crystal Palace)
JEREMY PIED (Nice) NATHAN REDMOND
(Norwich City) KELVIN DAVIS
(Released)
SADIO MANE
(Liverpool)
GRAZIANO PELLE
(Shandong Luneng) GASTON RAMIREZ
(Released)
VICTOR WANYAMA
(Tottenham) STOKE CITY IN OUT JOE ALLEN (Liverpool)
RYAN SWEENEY (AFC
Wimbledon)
RAMADAN SOBHI (Al
Ahly) PETER ODEMWINGIE
(Released)
STEVE SIDWELL
(Released) SUNDERLAND IN OUT PAPY DJILOBODJI
(Chelsea) WES BROWN
(Released)
WILL BUCKLEY (Loan,
Sheff. Wed)
STEVEN FLETCHER
(Released) EMANUELE
GIACCHERINI (Napoli)
DANNY GRAHAM
(Released)
STEVE HARPER
(Released) ADAM MATTHEWS
(Loan, Bristol City) SWANSEA CITY IN OUT MARK BIRIGHITTI
(Newcastle Jets)
LEROY FER (QPR)
FERNANDO LLORENTE
(Sevilla)
TYLER REID (Manchester United)
MIKE VAN DER HOORN
(Ajax) ANDRE AYEW (West
Ham)
KYLE BARTLEY (Loan,
Leeds United)
EDER (Lille)
MATT GRIMES (Loan, Leeds United)
BAFETIMBI GOMIS
(Loan, Marseille)
ALBERTO PALOSCHI
(Atalanta)
ASHLEY WILLIAMS (Everton) TOTTENHAM IN OUT VINCENT JANSSEN (AZ
Alkmaar)
VICTOR WANYAMA
(Southampton) DOMINIC BALL
(Rotherham)
FEDERICO FAZIO (Loan,
Roma)
ALEX PRITCHARD
(Norwich City) GRANT WARD
(Ipswich Town) WATFORD IN OUT BRICE DJA DJEDIE
(Marseille)
CHRISTIAN KABASELE
(Genk)
JEROME SINCLAIR
(Liverpool) ISAAC SUCCESS
(Granada)
JUAN CAMILO ZUNIGA
(Loan, Napoli) ALMEN ABDI (Sheffield
Wednesday)
GABRIELE ANGELLA
(Udinese)
STEVEN BERGHUIS
(Loan, Feyenoord) JOEL EKSTRAND
(Released)
JOSE MANUEL JURADO
(Espanyol)
ADALBERTO
PENARANDA (Loan, Udinese)
DANIEL PUDIL
(Sheffield Wednesday) WEST BROMWICH ALBION IN OUT MATT PHILLIPS (QPR) VICTOR ANICHEBE
(Released)
ANDERS LINDEGAARD
(Released)
STEPHANE SESSEGNON
(Released) WEST HAM UNITED IN OUT ANDRE AYEW (West
Ham)
ASHLEY FLETCHER
(Manchester United)
SOFIANE FEGHOULI
(Valencia) MANUEL LANZINI (Al
Jazira)
ARTHUR MASUAKU
(Olympiacos)
HAVARD NORDTVEIT
(Gladbach) GOKHAN TORE (Loan,
Besiktas) STEPHEN HENDRIE
(Loan, Blackburn)
ELLIOT LEE (Released)
KYLE KNOYLE (Loan,
Wigan Athletic)
JOSH PASK (Loan, Gillingham)
JOEY O'BRIEN
(Released)
JAMES TOMKINS
(Crystal Palace)
SportsRe: Burglars Steal Monday Odigie’s Certificates, Olympic Medals by davimus(op): 9:55am On Aug 12, 2016
Finally made FP
SportsBurglars Steal Monday Odigie’s Certificates, Olympic Medals by davimus(op): 7:13am On Aug 12, 2016
Valuables of the Dream Team VI’s assistant tactician was stolen while on national assignment at the Rio Olympics Nigeria U23 assistant coach Monday Odigie has disclosed that his house was burgled by thieves with treasures taken away.

Odigie who is on national assignment with the Dream Team VI at the Rio Olympics said the incident took place before the team’s opening game against Japan, but insists that would not weigh him down as he eyes success in Brazil.

“Armed Robbers went to burgle my house in Owanoba community kilometer 15 Benin/Sapele road and made away with plenty of my belongings, all my World Cups and Olympic medals, certificates and other valuables,” Odigie told Goal.

"My house was bugled the day we played our first game against Japan on August 4th, 2016 to be precise.

“I have been trying to get over this while also trying to concentrate on the job here at the Olympics.

“It is very sad and discouraging to realise that while one is working out his heart out for his country in Brazil, one’s house is being robbed back home.

“I leave everything to God to judge everyone according to his deeds. This won’t deter me because I am focused and I am happy that members of the team are also focused to achieve something here.

“I didn’t want any distraction for the team that’s the reason why I kept the incident within me and members of the technical crew led before letting you know now.”

It would be recalled that coach Samson Siasia also face a similar ordeal when his car was robbed in front of team’s hotel in Atlanta, United States of America.

Nigeria must negotiate their way past Denmark on Saturday to reach the semifinal of the 2016 Olympic Games.
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Christianity EtcMathematical Differences by davimus(op): 4:23pm On Aug 10, 2016
MATHEMATICAL DIFFERENCES
70/10=7
21/3=7
2+5=7
3+4=7
9+2=7 8-1=7
15-8=7
14/2=7
7+0=7
6+1=7 What is my pointhuh
My point is that there r so many ways of geting 2 ur destination. God may nt take u thro. de same way,
he took ur parent, what matters is that He wil take
u 2 ur destination if u dnt give up. At times u get
dere by adding things n people in ur life. Other
times u wil get dere by subtracting certain tinz n
people frm ur life. Other times, u may need de multiplying effect 2 seed information n
relationship...
Other times, division n seperation might be
inevitable. Some of this may nt be fun. When 2 was
alone it may nt hav been confortable until 5 was
added. What matters is nt the (addition, subtraction, multiplation or division... It's the
ultimate end. Yes the process may be differ, but de
destination is stil de same. All things wil wrk
2gether 4 ur gud n expected end..
DESTNY:When he adds and subtract things. stop
crying, lamenting n drowning in tears of pity.Every circumstances is building you up. pls dnt give up
on the process, Dnt walk away from the game.
Remain blessed
SportsBring On Brazil, Says Chelsea’s Mikel by davimus(op): 4:02pm On Aug 10, 2016
The midfielder does not fear Rogério Micale’s side,
insisting the Dream Team VI are ready to take on
any opposition Nigeria U23 captain John Obi Mikel has stressed
that Samson Siasia’s side don’t fear anyone ahead
of a potential quarter-final clash against hosts
Brazil. Dream Team VI booked their ticket for the final
eight following victories over Japan and Sweden
in their first two games – and the Chelsea star is
brimming with confidence. “There is also a possibility that we might get the
hosts Brazil in the next round but I say “bring it
on”,” Mikel wrote in his Evening Standard column. “If we don’t face them now, we could play them
later so there is no point being worried about
them or anyone else in the tournament. “After all the drama of getting here, the dream of
winning the gold medal is the only thing on my
mind.” Brazil are winless after two games and a defeat
against Denmark in their last group game at the
Arena Fonte Nova, Salvador will end their dreams
of progressing to the knock out phase.
RomanceThe Purple Lane by davimus(op): 3:02pm On Aug 10, 2016
Follow The Purple Lane When I drive to places I am not too familiar with I
rely on the GPS App on my phone. I must confess
that it has come in handy on more than a few
occasions. All I have to do is follow the purple lane
on the screen and obey whatever the "lady" (voice)
says. It is that simple. February, 2015, I was invited by a television station
in Lagos to be a guest on one of their shows. "Mr.
Davimus, please be here by 1:30pm on Monday so we
can prep you up for the show which goes live by
2:00pm." Hauwa said to me during the call three
days earlier. Come Monday, I got into the car by 12noon but had
to drive to the dry cleaner's to pick up my jacket. It
was only after then I finally started the ride to Etim
Inyang Crescent. Time was 12:35pm. Thankfully,
the Third Mainland Bridge is usually free at that time
of the day. I imputed my destination into the navigator and waited for it to plot a route for me. All
I had to do from then on was to follow the purple
lane. Somewhere along the way I took the wrong turn. I
made a right turning before where I was supposed
to make the turn. I got out of the purple lane. This is
where the story gets interesting. Unlike humans, navigators are not emotional. (Well,
not until some guy somewhere decided to design
an abusive navigator). The lady never screamed at
me for being so foolish that I took a wrong turn
when I could clearly see the purple lane on the
screen and see where my position was. No, she never threw any tantrums for my stupidity,
which was very much unlike humans. Instead she
simply re-routed and plotted a new route that will
still get me to my destination and right before my
eyes the wrong turn that I just made became the
purple lane. Isn’t that just awesome? You see, I could have made a hundred wrong
turnings and the navigator will not for once get
mad at me. It will never give up on me for being a
hundred times foolish. It will just keep re-routing
and coming up with a way to get me to my
destination. Can anyone begin to feel where this story is headed? God never gives up on us. He keeps trying to get us
to our destination. He is not just a God of a second
chance. He is a God of infinite chances. But! It is true that the navigator will never scream at me.
It is true that it will always re-route to find me a way
to get to my destination. I could have driven all the
way to Ibadan and the navigator will keep re-
routing to find me a way to get back to Etim Inyang
Crescent which was my final destination. However, with every wrong turn I made, not only
did I increase the distance to my destination, I also
increased the time it will take to get there. Don’t
forget that there was a right time for me to be there
– 1:30pm. And the show was to go live by 2:00pm.
There was nothing the navigator could do about that. Thankfully, I made it to the studio by 1:50pm
instead of 1:30pm. Hauwa was right there to prep
me up for the show and I had a nice time with my
hosts during the show. But I learnt a lesson. When I was working with a multinational company
we had a corporate mantra, "Get it right the first
time." One may say it is not that easy and that's very
true. Navigating through life is a little bit different
from following the purple lane, but the principle
remains the same. Try as much as you can to get it right the first time. Every time you make the wrong
turn in life, you do not only increase the distance to
your destination, you also increase the time it will
take to get there. Trust me, you don't want to be in a career for 15
years and suddenly discover that the ladder is
leaning against the wrong wall. You don't want to
get married to that person and suddenly discover
that you just made the wrong turn. There are some things in life you just want to get
right and get it right the first time. All you have to
do is follow the purple lane and listen to her voice.
Or should I say "His" voice this time? God’s voice. What if you have made a wrong turn already? I
believe we all have at one point or another. Just like
the GPS Navigator re-routed to plot a new route,
God has a way of re-routing, too. He knows how to
make all things beautiful. He will provide a way to
get you from where you are to your right destination. But, I beg you, this time stay within the
purple lane.
RomanceAm Suffering From An Ailment Called Love by davimus(op): 12:35pm On Aug 09, 2016
I was lying like stone on a lonely path,till i
met dis lady who touched me wit d hem of her luv
& life took on a dramatic turn. I felt like i was over d
heavens,we were so glued 2 each other lik d white cloud engulf d sky,i treated her like a golden egg
wich must neva be allowed 2be broken. She's a
paragon of beauty,quality-oriented,her character
tastes like tamarisk honey,an epitome of real luv's
definition she is,indeed i'll 4ever applaud d hand
dat crafted her person. Thus,our luv was almost auditioning 4 d role of 'Romeo & Juliet',until dis ill-
wind of fate blew across our path & left us
flightless....We've been 2years old in relationship &
felt d time was right 4us 2 legalise d union,hence
she took me 2 see her parent 4 a formal
introduction,but upon getting there dey treated me with spite as tho i was nothin but an article of no
commercial value. Dissappointed & with an apex
frustration i left there unfulfilled,for reasons far-
fetched dey discouraged their daughter from
continuing d relationship owing 2 tribal differences
& my current state of poor financial libido. From d trend of things,i'm positive her luv 4me is genuine
but d parental bias therein has kept our luv
captive,d pillars of her affection has started
deteriorating gradually,like stars fading away from
d sky so is d current percentage of her
commitment. Even wen a mirror breaks,it mak some noise,but d cries of a shattered heart is often heard
by none,2 whom do i reveal d pains of luv?pls
advice me cos am suffering from an ailment called
luv...i feel so confused & lost,i need ur counsel...
RomanceWhy First Love Rocks by davimus(op): 3:30pm On Jul 28, 2016
They is an outstanding reason why most FIRST
LOVE seems the best of all... "Unconditional"... The
true colours of love... They love you without any
reason... They don't even know if you have a big
dream or not, if you are working or not... They just
loved you deeply even before they know whatever external things you do... And if you are jobless,
that's not their problem because they believe every
human has a future and they will be there to make
it with you... Unlike the kinds of love we experience
this days, a gal's first question is always, "what do
you do for a living?" FIRST LOVE doesn't ask such question... This days, the love want to find reasons
to love but FIRST LOVE doesn't have reasons... It has
already established a FEELING no one can tell...
That's why people ask, what if those things are
taken away, what if you wake up tomorrow and
those gifts aint there anymore, WILL YOU STILL STAY COMMITTED?
- You can't tell tomorrow... Horatio Spafford was a
wealthy lawyer who lost his assets in the journey of
life... He was married with 5children, a son and
4daughters, he lost his 5children and assets... He's
the original singer of "it is well with my soul"... And the wife still loved him and both were still together.
They are other related stories where their wife or
husband abandoned them because "the reason to
love" is gone... Nothing else to hope for... Tell most
gals you are just a "student"...and 99% of them will
disappear... But tell them a lie and observe what happens... What if those dreams are not there, what
if those dreams is not achieved will you still be
there?...

Dj please play me two songs to cool off and
appreciate those with "unconditional love"... Michael jackson - Will you be there and R.city -
Locked Away ...
RomanceShe Said I Am Not Romantic. by davimus(op): 8:45pm On Jul 13, 2016
She says "I AM NOT ROMANTIC",,
Abeg make una helep Me see dis babe oo..
"I am a christian, a Born Again christian", na I'm dis
babe Don dey tell me for d past 6 months since i
don dey toast her.
So, Just yesternight wey we chat, she begin chat one kian way wey wan dey enter Romantic talks
like
"So tell me, Are u alone in bed?,
What are u putting on?,
Are u cold (because say we dey raining Season
oo)?, I feel like laying on ur chest to sleep fine"..
Ehn! Na so my eyes just open with my mouth, as
These were chats she told me yester-night as my
response was simply respectful &Godfearing,
So i responded,, My dear Interest,, I want to assure
you that even when im not by your side now to be your Warmth,, that JESUS IS UR COMFORTER", His
CHEST remains d one and only comforting chest to
ever lie on when you feel alone,, With a kiss
emoticon sent to her
My people oo, Na im dis babe change am for my
head oo, dey talk say I no dey romantic. Can someone please tell me where i have gone
wrong by doing away with anything that will lead
to Temptations of d Lord's forbidden act (Thoughts
of Fornication)?.
Sincerely and Seriously speaking now, Any lady
here claiming to be or forming BornAgain and expects a Romantic chat &Act from the interested
Guy, thinking that because its not Sex yet, then it
isn't a Sin, Should be brought back to reality that
from " Romantic talks, hugs, Kissings,& touching
body plays, na I'm Sex take dey start oo",,
for anything Romantic is Sexual. So ladies,, If u want a SexFree (No Sex)
Relationship,, you should know that it also includes
a No Romance act too.
Stop pretending and live accordingly to the Laws of
your belief.
Thank you!
RomanceLove Can't Guarantee A Succesful Relationship Guess What Really Does!! by davimus(op): 2:29pm On Jul 09, 2016
In relationships, I have found out that love alone
doesn't guarantee the success of a relationship.
Love cannot help you stick to one person, after all,
cheating isn't always a product of not loving your
partner. In fact, Loving someone doesn't guarantee
not falling in love with any other person. Relationships work out mostly because of our head
not our heart, It's works out because of emotional
maturity, empathetic intelligence and self discipline.
You see, Times will come when you'll see people
that are better than the one you're in a relationship
with. In those times, Love alone will not help you, Self control, Emotion, intelligence and commitment
will help you.
No matter how you feel for someone, The person
you're committed to ranks first in your life. You
think married people don't see better people than
the ones they married? You think they don't feel funny sometimes? You think they don't catch
feelings? They do. But understanding that
commitment is greater than feelings is a great
arsenal to destroy that impulse. You can fall in love
with anyone, but building a relationship takes
absolutely more than what attracted you to them. It takes more than Love. We are too fond of loving
when it's convenient, when it's sweet. We are too
fond of loving when love is there but that can only
last for just the first 3-6 months of the relationship.
After then, You'll realise that the feelings have
dropped, It's now your responsibility to make it work, not love's responsibility.
Building a relationship is hard work, it's like
building a career, It's like pursuing a dream. It's
always tough, it will sometimes be so bitter but you
can always make it work through hard work .
RomanceI Know You Are Fed Up. by davimus(op): 8:55am On Jul 09, 2016
I know you are fed up.... I know you are earnestly
tired.... There is no trouble free marriage. Every marriage
has its "BUTS". The opportunity to leave or stay in a
marriage exist every day. Lack or presence of
money, infidelity or faithfulness, good or bad
health, inability to conceive on time or having
children too soon or nagging or pleasant mother- in-law... it's either one thing or another.... no
marriage is perfectly perfect.
To leave or to stay is a choice every married
individual have to make. It all depends on what
one is looking for. One can be in a good marriage
and want a way out, because what they see is always the wrong stuff - even when everyone
around them can see the good in their spouse, no
matter how good, they'll never see it. The simplest
of thing like a smelly feet or quacky voice can make
some people pack it up- no one can convince them
to see the good in their marriage because they have already made up their mind. On the other
hand, someone in a bad marriage will hang around
because they belief they can make it work. No
matter what people say, they'll always give a
reason to stay - even when is obvious that there's
gross unfairness. We can only see what we want to see. You can see
black in plain white, red can be colourless to who
does not want to see. Until there's a decision to
change our focus and be truthful with the vision of
the picture we behold of our marriage, am afraid,
nothing can be changed. Be ruthlessly honest with yourself, when you look
at your spouse, what do you see? Divorce or future
everlasting? If you are the type that always see
divorce, unless you change your focus, divorce
may be inevitable. It's easier to work and walk in
line with what you see. Tell me, how can you reach a destination you can't see or perceive? To be blind
is not a problem.... but to fail to see through the
eyes of others could be more dangerous than
being blind. I am not saying don't divorce, I am not saying you
should die in there - but before you take that step...
before you head in the direction of "Me do us
apart", make sure you have done your very very
best..... make sure you have think it through with
your inner spirit. Be certain you can bear the burnt of the fire of life.... don't leave a stone unturned
between you and "had I known". Things might be
terrible for now.... but who knows, maybe if you
seek help, may be if you pray it through, may be if
you calm down and let God.... may be if you forgive
you and your spouse...... if you have a little bit more patience, if you listen and talk a little bit more....
who knows, just maybe..... maybe we can have a
new song... where you will look into your spouse's
eyes and say "I love you" again. May your children
can leap into your embrace in gratitude for your
perseverance.... who knows? - just you and God knows. Don't quite too soon. #ifyoumustDOITRIGHT
SportsSeedorf Named New Shenzhen Boss by davimus(op): 1:00pm On Jul 07, 2016
The 40-year-old has returned to coaching two
years after leaving Milan, having been named as
the new coach of the China League One side Chinese side Shenzhen have confirmed that they
have appointed Clarence Seedorf as their new
head coach. The former AC Milan boss has replaced
Tang Yaodong on what is reported to be a one-
year contract. In announcing the deal, Shenzhen stated their
hope that Seedorf's appointment "will help to
improve the overall image" of the club, and
"attract more global attention to China". The 40-year-old's first game in charge will be a
trip to Qingdao Jonoon on Sunday. Seedorf has been out of work since being sacked
by Milan in June 2014, less than five months after
he was appointed as successor to Massimiliano
Allegri. Shenzhen are seventh in the table in China's
second tier after 16 matches, seven points behind
leaders Qingdao Huanghai.
RomanceI Lost A Diamond While Picking Up Stones... by davimus(op): 12:43pm On Jul 07, 2016
Even though she wasn't financially bouyant but she
was physically and mentally there for you. She
knew your situations and problem even your
family doesn't know yet she was there, tolerated
you with understanding, encouraged you and
even though she's not working gave you the little she can. And all you did was make her feel less
than a human? Treated her with no value. You
didn't even notice her sacrifice; all this because you
felt she will always be there for your castrated life.
But I tell you today brother, some day, on a very
long night, she will get over you and she will realize all this while with you has been a nightmare. She
will give glory and a true matured man will make
her a wife.

He believes in you, cherished you and always
apologising even when he's right. He tolerated you and accepted you whole hearted. Even though he's
not financially bouyant yet but he did the little
sacrifices that came from his heart, he did it with joy
to make it count but you placed material things
over everything, you felt having a "car" or "money"
is now a criteria for a successful relationship/ marriage. I tell you today, some day on a long night
he will realize he has been hurting himself all the
while. A matured lady will wipe his silent tears, give
him medication to heal and then you will realize
you have losed it while chasing the stars. Cherish
the love you have, cherish the life
SportsNFF Adopts Fifa’s TMS Domestic Transfer Matching by davimus(op): 6:16pm On Jul 06, 2016
NFF adopts Fifa’s TMS Domestic Transfer Matching NFF The country’s football ruling body becomes the
first Fifa member to implement the domestic
transfer system The Nigeria Football Federation becomes the first
Fifa member body in Africa to implement the
Domestic Transfer Matching System (DTMS). The online platform will help the League Manage
Company and NFF to manage its international and
domestic transfers via one system, which is
moulded on the International Transfer Matching
System (ITMS), which is provided to over 6,500
clubs around the world for the cross-border transfer of players. Aside from that, the tool will help the NFF and its
clubs in Nigeria manage national and
international transfers on one platform, generate
transfer activity reports and have greater
monitoring levels to enhance transparency and
governance. The NFF’s grip to the system was facilitated by the
custodians of the NPFL, the League Management
Company (LMC). Other Confederation of African Football members
are expected to implement the DTMS later this
year.
Romance***suitors Now Prefer Our Maids To Our Daughters For Marriage*** by davimus(op): 6:05pm On Jul 06, 2016
***SUITORS NOW PREFER OUR MAIDS TO OUR
DAUGHTERS FOR MARRIAGE***
Why not? When we devoted time in training the
maids on how to cook well, how to clean the house
and on good mannerisms while leaving our own daughters untrained. We overwork the maids and
they adjust with equanimity because they need us
to survive.
The maids turn out to manage the indignation and
insolence we and our children subject them to. All
these make the maids better wives who can manage even the angriest of men.
Our precious daughters are pampered through
nursery and primary schools. They speak the
English we want and know all the cartoon slangs
by heart. We beat the maids blue black if they ever
ask our girls to help out in domestic duties. We see kitchen things as maids' things.
The girls move from boarding schools to the
university, do their NYSC, Masters and get a job. Of
course, they are ripe for marriage and you wish
that to happen soon.
From one relationship to another, the same story. The guys would parade and dump them. They are
only good in bed, outings, clubs and red carpet
functions.
The boys de-commit when they notice that the
possible wife cannot cook, arrange things and are
very domestically untrained. The rich guys can manage as they would mitigate the handicap by
hiring a domestic help but not all guys can afford
this for a start.
The upcoming and very sensitive guys who would
make good husbands, fathers and leaders would
not manage these parents' inflicted shortcomings. They would settle for well trained ones. They know
the value and the pride in hosting friends at home
to delicious delicacies prepared by a wife.
Not all your maids would remain your servants for
ever. Some of them would finally do part-time
studies and like a train, get to their God ordained destinations sooner or later.
Like a perfume, good guys perceive well trained
wife materials from afar and dump the daughters of
the bourgeois like hot iron. Long time happiness in
at stake. No explanation is given. Sometimes, the
sack message is made through a social medium. Let your daughters learn what you teach your
maids to make them compete for the few available
good men if marriage is important to them. There
are few guys who believe that marriage is for better
for worse.
Don't be deceived; love is an active verb. Yes it is. You love; you loved; and you used to love. You can
also hate who you used to love. Therefore, some
men are immune to pre-marital love blindness. In
practice, love can't cover the stench of bad early
formation of our daughters.
Right now, educated former maids are now cornering better men on offer because they are
well trained and possess the requisite or set skills
the highly perceptible and ready husband materials
need.
Dear Mothers, please take note of this. And ladies,
these are some of the things that cost you responsible men. Men knows what they need in a
woman and very few will tell you the moment they
know you lack those qualities.
PoliticsRe: Effects Of Brexit Results On The African Largest Economies by davimus(m): 5:43pm On Jun 24, 2016
its alright.
CareerRe: How Do I Save And Invest From My Salary? by davimus(m): 6:49am On Jun 22, 2016
dont spend all have a certain amount you can save in the bank always maybe invest 40% of it.
CelebritiesRe: Actress Genevieve Nene Is Dead (Pictured) by davimus(m): 3:04pm On May 04, 2016
RIP
RomanceRe: Miss Nairaland Contest 2016 - CAMPAIGN THREAD by davimus(m): 4:15pm On Apr 29, 2016
one round and i vote for you, i mean you
RomanceRe: Miss Nairaland Contest 2016 - CAMPAIGN THREAD by davimus(m): 7:50pm On Apr 28, 2016
if you want me to vote for you pay one thousand Naira
BusinessRe: Football (+Other Sports) Betting Season 10 by davimus(m): 7:28pm On Apr 28, 2016
Abmbola:
*Most Wanted Picks of the Day*
*28/4/2016*
UEFA Europa League
Villarreal CF -:- Liverpool FC
Home win
Odd:2.55

FC Shakhtar Donetsk -:- FC Sevilla
Handicap 1:0
Odd:1.35
Time:20:05
Total odd:3.44
Confidence 90%
#Team no statistics#
villareal can never win liverpool
BusinessRe: Football (+Other Sports) Betting Season 10 by davimus(m): 7:27pm On Apr 28, 2016
Abmbola:
*Most Wanted Picks of the Day*
*28/4/2016*
UEFA Europa League
Villarreal CF -:- Liverpool FC
Home win
Odd:2.55

FC Shakhtar Donetsk -:- FC Sevilla
Handicap 1:0
Odd:1.35
Time:20:05
Total odd:3.44 villareal can never win liverpool
Confidence 90%
#Team no statistics#
FoodRe: See The Bread I Bought From Onitsha Shoprite Yesterday by davimus(m): 7:12pm On Apr 28, 2016
the bread is baked in the phillipines
RomanceRe: The Real Things Women Want From Men Aside Money by davimus(m): 6:10pm On Nov 03, 2011
They need what we call M .l. s=money, lies and sex.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Kegites by davimus(m): 4:59pm On Mar 25, 2011
dayz elongote iam ab davimus shinning my frequency from ilya du kokoroko if you want to jam at this apointa atyma you have transgbawed via the day i cannot decode so if you jam me you jam aso rock or you can telle wire me via my nitel wireless which the pin code is 08064161442.

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