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helinues:
Seriously, i do not know may be their great great grandfather kept some money with me that made most of them to believe I have money. Fine things are going fine but I am still looking for more better life. Need to save a lot in order to achieve my dream.. A friend borrowed $400 like 2 years ago, he never even talked about it. I have dodged others but this particular person has been on my neck for months now. He needs N500,000 .. Just imagine..

My problem now is " Never lend money you can't afford to lose" . N500,000 no be wasa.. How should I handle the situation without hurting his feeling cos I am not even sure of lending N100,000 talkess of N500,000

OP,
Pls are you based in Naija or outside?
I have my reason for asking o...

StevensJojo:
What i do in situations like this is to dash the person a fraction of thr money.Like i say i dont have that money but let me dash you this.
It works all the time.Both your money and your relationship is saved.You can dash the guy 10k or whatever you can afford

They never see it like that ooooo.....
10k out of 500k? Trust me, dem go abuse you on top of ur money.
Pls don't ask me how I know....
If dem no abuse you, na keeping malice be next.

The comments here na elele o....

HBD to you OP.
LLNP.
That's a good gesture.

I hope the hospital will not end up selling to a patient in need of it sha.
They should also give freely to a needy patient too.
By the way,
O pos rules!!!!

girl4rmspace:
Yeah thanks but that has been covered long before now

Lol,
Just saw it jare n thot I should contribute too..
But wait o, no one named d song...

ifyalways:
Why not try at least to get him to the military hospital? You've not been there so you can't tell for sure how much his admission or treatment there would cost.

I'm also surprised that same Yaba people that referred him to the military hospital admitted him back again after a couple of days to demand for MRI scan.

Leaving him at home is dangerous. Both to you and your neighbour's.

Don't be surprised ma'am ,
Sebi na dis Naija, na d money dey need na.

Sorry for your predicament OP.
The Lord is your strength , pls don't give up on him.

Prognose:
You started the right course of action too late. You didn't state how much you spent on herbal medications. We don't know what your uncle did to him while he was away. A truly complicated case.

Leave the MRI, what are they requesting for it for?
Even if it shows a lesion in the brain will they operate it? Instead of them to sedate him first. Nonsense insensitive people.

It's a pity you are far from Benin. I would have advised you to take him to uselu psychiatric hospital and have him admitted. Don't mention the MRI to them but tell them about his prediagnosed catatonic schizophrenia. I don't think it's as costly as Yaba. Let them know that he is very violent. If u say he's not they will hand him back to u.

Like someone said above, he is not in touch with reality. Schizophrenia is a severe and chronic mental disorder in which there is a total distortion of the person's ability to perceive things. And it's obvious u need help in handling him. He needs to be admitted and taken care of by experts.

Pls don't leave him to roam. He will be exposed to so many dangers if u do so e.g ritualists, kidnappers, beaten by angry mobs, dangerous animal bites, etc.

Flogging him will not help either. In fact it might tilt him unto full scale violence.

Sorry about your predicament. Take heart.

Nicely said.
More blessings.

Won n se baba yen ni o....

girl4rmspace:
Its an old 9ja song in yoruba, it talks about the head knowing tomorrow.

The chorus is something like....ori lo mo lola ori lo mo ola..boya ma..Lola lola ori lo mo ,......etc

i think the singer is lightskinned.

Anybody got a clue?

The chorus is on ur thread

" Ori agbe lo n gbere pade agbe lona o...
Ori aluko lo n gbere pade aluko....
Ori mi tete gbere pade mi lona ooooo,
Boya ma d'olola Lola ,
Ori lo mo oooo"

That's the chorus right there....

It's a real oldie....

Back in d days,
They used to sing for lil girls with hairs plaited like that in this way,
"Ajankolokolo,
Eleshinshin Lori..."

Wehdon ma.....

500 lala...

Is that a Baltimore County police cruiser?

It is well....
Im no get im own village ni fa?
Why Kuvuki land and not Osegere?

Nice one OP...
You good...

Nice....
Battabox is cool ....
More blessings to all involved/concerned....

Koko master noni

Is it possible she is not holding "that" and that her fist is just clenched?
And that the pic was just taken at that time?
You weren't there OP or were you the one that took the pinshure?

Cool?
Or not cool?

Still a shadow of Etisalat....

ShawttySoFyne:
Wow，
weve got the same hair weave on

But you no show us yours nau....

Maybe pples no like am ni....

This thing never full one page?
Ok.
Lemme kontribute my quota to make one page na...
And e don dey FP since...

These people no dey learn o....
That's too barbaric now....
RIP to d baby...

Nice of him....
Very "Guber" like...

Good for him...
Make im dey flex niso....

Jostico:
Ronaldo pric k is baby factory.

Im own still dey pre-k where others don graduate college...

Na today?
No b Arik?

The man don enter one shans ....

A woman scorned ......

He/she don deactivate

Dem fit each oda?
Dem no fit each oda?
Ur pik....