Obo Boco:

if you know your intentions are real and that you would love and respect her for real, then there is nothing wrong in that
but i don't know know how she would take it.
for me, when one of my brother's friends asked me out i turned him down in a polite way because i was not comfortable with dating my brother's friend, my excuse was that i also see him as my brother cos he and my brother are very close.
BUT
i have these two friends ( sisters ) they both dated their elder brother's friends and it really went well and both of them are getting married soon to the guys in question, so i guess it depends on you and your friends sister.
Another of my brother's friend is also asking me out presently and he is a cool guy, so i may consider dating him.

HMMMMM, now you are confessing on N/L, but when i asked you, whats up with both of you,
you were forming '' stay out of my business because am 2mins your senior ''
i will tell him, this evening what you wrote, he asked me yesterday and i told him to ask you that i don't know
i go burn your cable this evening ( lol ). girl stop stressing him, we both know he is a cool guy. lol.

steve_101:

It's a terrible condition,am even shivering reading this,sincerlly I will give her all the support I can,I will stand by her and pray for a miracle,I will put on hold anything concerning marriage for like 1 year or more,( deep sigh) I will move on with life,but may God forbid,he will not suffer us to see evil.

Hey steve if you are still here pls check you mail box, thanks.

@ topic,
i will give all the support i can and stand by my partner because it is not his doing that he should be on a wheel chair, i will put the marriage on hold.
and also lets all remember  GOD DOES NOT PUT US IN DEEP WATER TO DROWN US BUT TO CLEANSE US THOROUGHLY.
he will not put you in a condition that is more than you to handle.
but all the same lets pray we don't even have a condition.

@ Rokiatu and Odunnu
pls you ladies should be nice to the poster
you never can tell where he would find love, so let him post it anywhere he wants ( joking )

@ poster
don't worry you would one day find your heart desire.

steve_101:

Are u efik too? What is your mail add maybe I will have something to say in there.

@ steve,
check your YIM

Coolabbie:

Hey dazzle how u dey? Where is obo your evil twin? Gudluck wit your search.

@ COOLABBIE
am good thanks for asking, my Twin is not evil ( lol ), she is in a training.
thanks, i hope my search is not in vain. lol.

ZIM DRILL:

why does your mum have to think for you ? i think she enfluenced your thinking now you think it is also the right time

next it will be the right time to have a child etc

date first and let the relationship role and led you to whatever you want to take it

@ ZIM DRILL, my mum is not thinking for me, its just a discussion we had and i realized we were thinking alike.
and YES i will sure date the person first and see where it goes, if you read my other post you would see that, not because i want an Efik guy, i would just settle for anything less in an ideal man in the name of Efik.

Tosinville:

Dazzle37,

Yeah! i understand your point and at the same time, let me ask you a question, why are u so obsessed with an Efik guy that u can't get in some other tribes if u aint efik urself? i think there must be some major reasons why u wanna hook-up with one, i'll be grateful if you can tell me your real reason for makin an efik guy as your number of choice, i'm hearing, dear.

@ Tosinville, Iam not OBSESSED, like i wrote some where already, i said am open to other people but its like a scale of preference thing ( sure you know what i mean ). and also note that i have not mentioned where i am from, so you can't determind that am Efik or Not, the interested person will get that part of the information directly. i am interested in Efik, maybe because i have stayed in that part for a while, understand a bit of their culture and some other things i will not mention here, but really make want to get closer to them.
and also if i may ask why are you so curious too ?

@ DAY 11, Thanks for the link.

banttieman:

We don't even know if you look pretty or not. I suggest you upload a pic here so our EFIK nairalanders will be twice interested. Ooooooooooooshe.

@ banttieman, i may not be miss world, but i can assure you that they will not be disappionted.

Tosinville:

Make u enter Efik land na go find one or make dem help u arrange one efik guy down there before u go home for next xmas.

@ Tosinville, like i said before, i never mentioned if am Efik or not, so i don't understand you saying before i go home for xmas, so can't ladies from other tribes wish to marry Efik guys ?

Orton1_0:

^
Then In vat case, better buckle up and be ready for a wild goose chase.

My dear don't put all your eggs in one basket, So far gone are those old days when intra-tribal marriges were a do-or-die affair. 8-)

***Efik guys c'mon out here, someone needs to make a choice outta y'all***

@ orton,
i never said its a do or die that he must be EFIK
i said prefer,  you can view that from an economic point of view, just like saying you are putting things  on a scale of preference.
i understand that you can find love from any part of the world, and believe me, i am one person that is sure going to marry for the very right reasons of marrying, so i would not say am putting all my eggs in one basket. i am open to other people too, but let me exhaust all the Efik options first.
At the bolded, i never said anything about where am from, so you can't be sure about that.

@ WOKE
lol, thanks for the encouragement, but like i said its not for every guy, i specified EFIK
but it does not matter where he stays, lagos, ph, abj, cafanchang, china, india, any where.
and i can't drop my phone number or email. if the person is serious, i will contact the person, on my own.

This might sound funny but its true
my mum wishes i should settle down soon, i agree with her on that,
but the problem is we would like the person am going to settle down with, to be an EFIK guy
from a good and responsible EFIK family
and i reside in lagos, i don't even know where or how am going to meet the person
so please i would appreciate any suggestion, help and if possible a hookup ( lol ).
thanks you all for the help in advance.

pls unserious minds stay off my thread.

This might sound funny but its true
my mum wishes i should settle down soon, i agree with her on that,
but the problem is we would like the person am going to settle down with, to be an EFIK guy
from a good and responsible EFIK family
and i reside in lagos, i don't even know where or how am going to meet the person
so please i would appreciate any suggestion, help and if possible a hookup ( lol ).
thanks you all for the help in advance.

pls unserious minds stay off my thread.

There is no need to search again,
bring seun, am going to marry him and make a good wife for him
i will make the kind of wife he wants.
so stop looking, just start planning the wedding and invite all N/Lders.

@ op
you did not say where you are from.

i pick RANOSCKY
And am joining my sister to say happy new year to all N/L people.
missed you guys/ ladies.
we are back from vacation and it was a blast.
kisses from N/L twins.

He is the BEST of the BEST
i love him to a fault.

best of the best.

oyinmama:

My husband had a similar experience last Friday. His flight to Abuja from Benin with Arik was scheduled for 11.15 a.m. As at 12p.m., there was no boarding announcement, only for them to[i] hear[/i] that GEJ was coming to town for the Gov's wife's burial, and so the airspace was being cleared, after he arrived and set off to Auchi by road for the burial, they heard that there would be no flights until GEJ finished from the burial, flew to Enugu for another function, AND returned to Abj. Subsequently, they learnt the flight had been postponed till 5 p.m. in the evening. At 4.30p.m, they got a text that the flight had been pushed till 5.30 p.m, to cut a long story short, they eventually boarded at 7p.m., only to get to Abuja at abt 8p.m. and be dropped off AT THE DOMESTIC WING of the Nnamdi Azikiwe Airport, instead of the usual International wing, without any explanations of the sort, I no fit shout

That was the same story they were giving us in Lagos that friday, that GEJ was around and so the air space was to be cleared. him try, only him was in Lagos, Abuja,Benin, Port Harcourt e.t.c, all on the same day and the same time frame. Na wa for Naija. the same thing happen when we got to PH. we were to use the millitary base , but they rather dumped us at omagwa with no apologies or explanations. meanwhile my people were at the millitary base waiting, i hard to start looking for my way alone because the coud not come and meet me any more by that time. They were even lucky they got a text, our's in lagos we did not get any.

I was about to open my own thread on my experience with Arik Air this weekend when i saw this one.
I can boldly say that Arik Air is the worst flight i have used in years of flying.
My flight was to leave lagos by 4:10pm in the afternoon, from Lagos to Port Harcourt.
but unbelieveably, the flight was delayed for about 6hours, we were all sitting in the hot with no apologies ant the funny part is that at first they did not even announce that the flight was going to be delayed untill 3hrs later when customer had to go make enquires on their own before they deem it fit to tell us the flight was delayed, and we ended up leaving lagos by 9:30pm, after a very long wait since 4pm. the funny part is when we were on board the air craft, the engine refused to come on for about 20mins more, we got to port harcourt at about 11pm in the night. and even coming back to lagos yesterday ( sunday ), i still experience the delay in flight for about 5 hours before i finally got to lagos by 8:30pm, but there was nothing i could do yesterday since it was a return ticket i used and could not change my air craft. after that i made up my mind never to fly Arik Again, and i would not even tell my worst enemy to fly Arik Air.
the worst part is when i went to pay for my flight on thursday in the bank, i met an Arik Staff at the counter and we got talking, she told me that as a staff, she does not even fly arik, that she flies with Aero, because its better and that the management always think they are stealling Ariks money so even when you want to fly the change their names so that they will not know them.
the experience was very annoying.

23 of december is cool.
cos after that a lot of people will be travelling.

Hey, Googles

Happy birthday to you.

from
dazzle37 and Obo boco ( N/L ) twins.

Hope you have a blast.

Donmeca:

Calabar here I come! Dazzle let me av your IM so we cud hook up, I'm thinkin of attending d carnival but also want to be with ma pple. May be we cu just be 2geda, me I nor wan dey lonely 2oo

Donmeca, thanks jor, thats so cool, pls send me your IM, and i will buzz you. i can't drop mine here for security reasons. but i will sure hook up with you. thanks.

please, N/L for those of us spending our Xmas IN CALABAR,
pls lets try and hook up.
Am going to calabar and i don't want to be lonely. thanks.

CROSS RIVER STATE
XMAS CARNIVAL and OBUDU RANCH

this thread is hilarious,
i have told N/L family not to make me lose my JOB or get queried because nobody seems to understand why am laughing to myself
unless you have another job for me.

@ op
i met him in his house when i followed my parents to go see his cos they are friends
and their son started to eye me and then some how manage to corner me, when i went out side to receive a call and got my number.
since then it has been smiles and blushing 2yrs going now.

i light this candle for a very dear friend OGECHI, who passed on two weeks to her wedding ( August 2009 )
i have never for once forgotten about you, even when the day seems so busy, i still see you smiling at me
i can't believe when you came to spend 3days with me b4 you passed on, it was your way of saying good bye
and you then passed on a day after you left my house, i still can't believe that we spoke few hours b4 you passed on, when you called to give me update about your wedding plans, i remember very clearly it was 10:30 pm and then i told you i was going to call you during the midnight call,
but you never picked the call untill today. i did not know you had started the everlasting journey b4 the night call. all i remember was you telling me you had tummyache because of your MP. and i find myself still asking if tummyaches kill. AK like you were fondly called R.I.P.

i also light this candle for a friend TOMIWA, who passed on few days to our passing out from NYSC ( JULY 2010 )
i saw you two days before, its unfortunate you were no longer with us when we were getting our discharge letter,
but i guess God had his own discharge letter to give to you for a job well done to your friends cos you were truly a friend.
Even when we were giving you the last respect and we were doing the lying in state for you, still looked so handsome like you were sleeping. i almost shouted April Fool that you were just joking with us because i can till swear that you smiled at me when i was passing by you. ''Showstopper'' like you were fondly called by friends R.I.P.

P. U. M. B. A:

This really got me totally, honestly.

you are right. it really got me too.

tailor

Team B
286

yes,
and i know he would too,
just shy to say it.

Am pretty
and i love swimming,
and i have nice curves.
the only way you can get me to strip in public

Not a new thing,
infact am tired of it.

Good heavens
NO
cos she my twin.