@ Lord Reed, sometimes you let go BECAUSE you love.

some situations arise and the only way you can prove you LOVE is to let go.
some may be letting go for a while and other maybe letting go forever.

Calabar, Cross River State is the neatest

What makes her wrong ??
Would you prefer the right woman that loves you soooo Wrong ?

IMO --- Then try to turn her into the right woman for you.
( Since you did not give details on what makes her wrong e.g. her looks, culture or level of education or exposure )
but if they are physcial attributes, they can be a way around them.

1. Yes i believe in LOVE
2. I don't FALL in love, I GROW in love ( if you fall in love, chances are that you would fall out of love ) so rather learn to GROW in love.
3. Love is a decision.

I really feel sorry for the corpers today is 16th june, their mates are passing out from the NYSC to go join their families again
but there are suffering in the den of some crazy kidnappers.

Before you start praising Arik, go thru the thread on Arik, Happy reading

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-569731.0.html

Arik is the worst airline in nigeria, On the 1st of may, my flight from calabar to lagos, just before the airport was shut down for repairs
was for 12noon, before i knew it the flight was shifted to 6pm, but at the end of the day we ended up leaving calabar by 1:30am and got to lagos by 2:30 am, so can you imagine ? from 12noon to 2: 30am, i can NEVER fly Arik again.

@ OP,

Just move on with your life, you deserve better than a cheat
The best revenge you can give is to forget it all and channel your energy to more productive things
so that the next time they hear of you or come across you, they would not even be able to look at you in the face because of shame
because by then you would achieve alot and your level would be different.
take care of yourself, keep your head high and look dashing, when next he see's you, he would know that he was just the failure holding you back and now that he is gone you are doing exceedingly well.
like you said, good riddance to bad rubbish.

nettan:

Nice to know you are OCP. I am currently studying for PL/SQL program unit exam(oracle 10g) and would not mind to rub minds with you. Could you please shed more light on Oracle opportunities in Nigeria. Also i've been trying to solve a problem using PL/SQL table for days now. would be glad if you could have a look, my email is 'n e t t a n 3 7@gmail.com'. many more oracle questions,

Sorry i am just seeing your comment now, what is the problem you have been trying to solve with PL/SQL table, drop it here and i would come back to check it later, b/t : where are you studying or where did you learn oracle ? or it is self taught ? i would like to know.
and a little tip, to make it easier for you, transfar your SQL problems to enterprise manager first, its easier for me to do my SQL via enterprise manager rather than doing it straight from the domain.

davrem:

police are your friends beware

@ Davrem,
Are you in the NPF ?

@ Op


Yes there is no crime in becoming a programmer, i am a female too and i also love programming, but i have never really contributed to this section of

nairaland because every time i come in here, i only see the ( M ) status so i did not want to be the odd one out or the only female in this section.

With the right tools and determination, you can be what ever you want to be. e.g for me,

its not just programming alone, i am also oracle certified, i studied oracle 10g, i run my oracle on linux not even on windows, windows is now strange to

me, not just that alone, i am also a software quality tester, software testing and auditing is actually a new aspect of IT in nigeria, Nigeria has not yet fully

explored that aspect of IT yet, And the funny part is not just that you know software testing, there is really alot of money in it too if you know your

onions but it is what i really love doing too. i like the challenges that comes with programming and managing or creating a

database, it keeps me going everyday, infact, i see it as part of my daily balance diet. LOL.i also come to nairaland programming section to read and learn

new stuffs everyday, though i have never

commented reason being that, i did not want to be the odd one out, the only female among the guys here.

so i really want to encourage you to do what you enjoy doing and the sky is your limit.

@ Hooklover,

oh my dear friend, you got that all wrong, i don't have a weight problem, i am currently not even up to a size 12

getting slimming tea is just like a precaution for me, because i don't even want to get to a size 12, i am currently a size 10 but the tendency of

getting to a size 12 or fatter is possible because of family genes, and since i am too busy to have time to go to the gym, i considered using the

slimming tea to put myself in check. And for you saying that the guys have screwed my sis and i, i know you are just trying to get a pound of flesh

from me cos i had touched a sensitive part that is hurting you so much . lol , so i will not even bother getting into that brawl with you, i am too

matured and too responsible for all that. stay well, i got work to do.

i am reading different versions of this story, what vanguard wrote is different from what the sun newspaper wrote
but the bottom line is that the trigger happy police man was the first to shoot the gun.
Seriously, i really don't care if it's 100 police men that were killed in the process,
my concern is that innocent citizens should not be involved in the fight or injured.
The police men should learn to be diciplined and control their anger, they don't have to shoot at everybody in the slightest provocation.
what they even do to innocent citizens on daily basis is worst than what this soliders have done to them.

To me, the difference between this police men and the real arm robbers is just the uniform they wear to differentiat themselves.

i know a man that is on wheel chair now for the past 7 years because of police men and their greed.
The man was working as a supervisor for a construction company, he was supervising a project for the company in one of the remote communities,
on one of those pay days, he had to carry money to the site to pay the labourer's because back then they was no bank in the area
on his way, he was stopped by police men on the road and was asked what he was carrying in the bag, he explained to them that it was money for the labourers working for his company, rather than the police to ensure that he got there safely, they pretended to escort him but diverted into a bush a shot the man and his driver and took the money and ran away, luckily for the man, some villagers heard the gun shot and came to check what was going on, and saw him and the driver by the bush where the policemen dumped them, the villagers then raised alarm and tried to save them, the driver died but the man survived abd is now permently on wheel chair as his spinal cord was affected in the shooting.
he lost his job and is now constantly a liability to his family, in such a case do you think the man or even his family would ever be happy to associate with the NPF

@ HOOKLOVER,

i don't believe in coming to bash people or their families, first of all i don't even know them let alone their families, what ever you feel like saying is up to you, its your fingers and your laptop you are using to type.
For your information, i don't even have to advertise myself or my sister, i am glad that atleast a few people here in N/L have actually met us in person so i don't need any adverts. you can as well go back to read your thread again and most of the replies that you have dropped for different comments and you would see why i wrote what i did at that time, and why is it that you only saw the one i wrote for my sister and i ?
why did you not see the part that i wrote about a collegue of mine in the office who is about 6.7 and wears a size 50 shoe and also plays basket ball ? i wrote about the money because you were bragging how someone should come to ph and you are going to spoil the person with money.
As for the part of insulting my family, Go child and SIN no more, you are already forgiven, because you don't know what you are saying.
in all these, how come you even managed to miss my point ?
my point is that there is no big deal in being 6ft or above, that the important thing should be your personality
and that it should not be over rated.

you need to start reading carefully before you jump to reply.

IMHO, love is a decision.

i would not want to use this 18 year old girls story as an example.
But all i would say is that, we all have conscience and the ability to differntiate what is right from what is wrong
so let all live our lifes in a way we know is right and try to do the right things, search your conscience and allow it to guide you.

Yes heaven is real and hell is real too, i believe in the Holy Bible and what it says
in as much i am not perfect, i would try my best to live my life according to the instuctions in the Holy Bible
and try to let my conscience guide me and help me differenciate the right from wrong, the good and Bad.

God be with us all.

hmmmm, i have read 99, 100 will not blind me

can't contribute
still single

like i always say, nobody is perfect and i have always grown up to believe in myself and have confidence in myself, i tell you what i can do and what i can't do, i lay it out for you and the decision is all your's, if you think you can stay with me fine, if you can't, all you can do is walk away, not that i have never liked any guy before but i have never been the kind of person to displease myself for another person, if at all i get to do anything, it should be that i am the one that wants to do it that way, not because a guy wants me to. i have principles that guide me, and one of the principles is 1. Don't ever make any decision that has to do with your life or your future based on someone else.
so that if it does not work out, you will be responsible for your actions and not trying to point fingers to some other person. 2. i can never try to be who i an not, because a guy wants me to be miss perfect, either you take me for who i am or you leave me alone for some other person that will love me, just for me. for the ladies, the best thing you can do for yourself, is to first love yourself.
if i am with someone that seems not be into me, i rather walk away no matter how hurtful it maybe at that time, but i will know that its all for the best, i don't even like all the emotional stress, so as soon as i start seeing the signs, hmmmm, sorry i am off, i think i have other things to do with my time, e.g pursing my career.

i really don't see the big deal in someone being 6ft +
my collegue in the office is about 6.7 and his shoe size is 50, and believe me when its time for shopping, he does not find it funny because getting something his size is usually difficult, and funny enough, he is really handsome, but i don't see it getting to his head, he is still very calm and humble and respects everyone, he is a qualified architect and very good with 3d architecture and just recently finished his masters, so he has it all in one package and yet he has not come to a public forum to brag about ladies or people falling all over him, he plays basketball too so atleast he puts the height to good use, so in my opinion its not a big deal.
Don't even think that i am short, I am also 6ft, and i am a twin so imagine the stares we get from people when they see us walking together, we are always asking whats the big deal ? or maybe becos we are so identical you can't tell us apart, but my opinion, i prefer going for some one with brains and a good personality and character rather than just the height i Thank God that he has also been very faithfull to us so its not just about being a twin, but very pretty ladies with the right shape and every other thing in their right propotion and good brains too to go with, it was really funny i read this thread and saw peoples comments, to be being tall or over 6ft should not be over rated.
@ poster, you are talking about oil money and spoiling people with money, i can assure you, i have friends and people in ph, whom i can confidently tell you, that you can never match up to them, infact with your height, you would still feel intimidated by them, in terms of money and spending and some of them, you would even be bowing when giving them handshakes so your height at the end of the day would amount to nothing. Just thank God for making you who you are, because with God all thing s are possible.

hmmmm, i don't mean to be rude to you or your girl friend,

but before i ask, you must know that i am a very civilized and matured minded lady

Is your new girl friend so much of a whimp

can't she show the crazy ex her place ?

Is the ex the only one that chop craze ?

In as much as i appreciate peace and understanding through dialogue,

but if the other party is not willing to co-operate, then i would show her that whatever that thing she things she has, other people have it too >:

( , the phone calls were not enough for her, but for her to have the guts to show up at my door simply means she is looking for someone to tame

her and trust me, i will treat her as though am trying to tame a wild animal. what rubbish, why is she scared ? did she do anything wrong? is it a

crime to date someone you like well Thank God sha, its like this kind of people already know who to carry their rubbish to, cos they know its not

every girl they can do that to, i don't support a guy hitting a girl, but trust me, some girls sure deserve it, to knock some sense back into their heads.

Orton1_0:

Iya I can't find my wallet . . .gimme back my atm card!

Hey, orton


You are such a bad friend.

@ post

My hobby is traveling, i love visiting new places and learning about them.

please i have this feeling in my throat like something is stuck there, most times when i drink water forcefully or swallow something like Eba, its like it

pushes the thing down and i will not feel it for some time, but it later comes back to that same position, it makes me feel so uncomfortable but the

fuuny part is that it is not painfull, but as a human, you would feel it and you know very well its not suppose to be there, it has been disturbing me

for the past four days now and has refused to go.

someone said its possible that it may be worm that must have moved from my tummy to the throat, that it has happened to her before, so i tried to

deworm myself with zentel but uptill now, three days after the deworming, i can still feel it, though it now feels like it has moved just a little bit

down, i don't like the feeling, i have tried all possible ways to make it go, including forcing myself to throw up, and trying to cough hard so that it

may either come out or go down but all to no avail, some other person said i should try taking B complex, which i have also been trying but its not

also worked, so my question is

1. Is it possible for worm to be stuck in someones throat ?

2 if its possible, pls how best can i get rid of it ?

3. if its not the worm, what else could it be ? and how can i also make it go away ?

pls i need urgent response as it is making me uncomfortable. thank you.

akunta:

@lastpage,
u r rite, story line was a great 1,
i really did enjoy it.
i think it was jimmy solanke tat anchored it
cant rem properly nw, but the stories were fun!

@ Akunta and Lastpage

i think the name you guys are looking for is '' TALES BY MOONLIGHT ''

This is one of the disadvantages of free internet browsing or cheap internet browsing
because any body can come in here and start writing nonsence.
And what is suprising me is the fact that some people even believe this crap.

its not wrong to ask,
and the lady should not get upset if her request is not met.
my brothers and my boyfriend help me out with my braids and they sure do it more gently than in the saloon,
so i enjoy it when my boyfriend helps lossen my braids
he is the only boy in the mist of many sisters so he knows the girlie thing, and my brothers have us too around them so they had to learn.
it does not make them gay.

taio luv:


@dazzle77 just like your name  said you DAZZLE!!! d nonsense guy for common past questions, am so impressed wt your knowledge, you mean d password was a walk in the park, kudos to you lady.

Thanks, it was really nothing, i am happy doing it, and its  ''37'' ( no offence ). i got principles.
1. Be kind to people you meet, cos you may one day need their help too.
2. Do to others what you would want other people do to you.
and lots more.

i wish all of us writing all the best.

tonene:

@ dazzle, sorry for the mix up,was just too engrossed with the past question thing.thanks for the mail, I will go check it out now and is your centre airforce base?

yes thats my centre but i don't even know the place. well am not bothered i know i will find it some how, people say its not hard to find.

tonene:

Hello guys, I would love to have the past questions too my email is tonero247@yahoo.com and my centre is airforce base for the guy that asked.pls deem fit to send me the question

am not a guy, my status saYS '' f ''
I have sent to your inbox.

Spritpin,
there are people who have passion for computer and technology that they can do any task given to them, you never know who you are dealing with so always try and be good to people, the things i can do with a computer and in the field of professional IT, i bet you can't, you are just a toddler in the IT and computer world. WELCOME TO MY WORLD.

opening your document was just a walk in the park, its not fair collecting money from something as cheap as that. i have sent it to every email here.