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Romance / Re: Men: Do You Like Assertive Women? by dbabahimse(m): 9:27am On Apr 19, 2012
Onegai: My love, I'm gonna hazard a guess at your age. About 25 or a little above or below. You sound like me at that age.
I see from your signature you're a christian. Now let me refer you to the bible. Go point out all the assertive ladies in there, let me know how it worked out for them. I'll wait (pours myself a drink of OJ).

See the difference btw Jezebel, Esther, Bathsheba, Mary and Deborah? Both strong,but one was calm, and the other didn't take shit and was equal to her man in screwing up. Guess who suffered? The bible says "Men, love your wives as Christ loves the church". So your man is meant to cover and protect you. So what does the church do? It worships Christ. Ergo, you're meant to worship your man. The church does not say "'xcuse Jesus, I don't like what you just said or did so I'm not gonna follow" and sit down glaring at him. So what's the shi.t about "I won't take crap, get to stepping if you piss me off, I am Woman hear me roarrrrr!!"?
A strong woman, does not need to be like what you described to be strong. I know a lot of strong, i-dont-take-crap girls. They declare their strength, then go to the kitchen, dish their man's food, serve him and prefix every sentence to him with "darling". They're submissive. If they couldn't be, they'd be single. To quote a white, aethist relationship coach (so you know that ALL men are alike) "men have to be strong in front of their friends and the world and it gets exhausting. They don't want to marry and keep fighting for strength at home. So it's great that you have a Ph.d, speak 4 languages and climbed Mt. Everest, if you don't make him feel like a man, he won't care about that and marry you."
What men want is for you to be emotionally stable and strong, in case they're not home, to hold down the fort, but when they show up, baby, get on your knees.



Its so funny the way people interprete the bible to suit the situation at hand. In those days you were referin to, do u realize that the husband were not like most men nowadays? The bible did not say you should turn your wife to a corporate slave. The bible only say she should respect the husband and not fear him. Men of then will provide everytin the woman needs and all d woman do is attend house chores but nowadays, the woman brings home income just like the husband and does virtually wot the husband does yet the husband still abuses her, maltreat her and make her life miserable and unhappy. The question now is, is it right as a woman to stay in an unhealthy relationship where you do all ur responsibilities diligently yet your husband cheats on you, he beats you and makes you unhappy for the rest of your life.

We guys say we want this and that but the truth is respect is reciprocal and for every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction. If u treat your wife badly, she should be able to tell you that and if you persist she faces the brutal facts and frees herself frm the shackles of oppression and captivity. DO TO OTHERS AS YOU WANT OTHERS TO DO UNTO YOU.

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Forum Games / Re: Second Vowel Letter Game. by dbabahimse(m): 6:14pm On Apr 10, 2011
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Forum Games / Re: Second Vowel Letter Game. by dbabahimse(m): 9:25pm On Apr 09, 2011
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Forum Games / Re: Second Vowel Letter Game. by dbabahimse(m): 8:53pm On Apr 09, 2011
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Forum Games / Re: Second Vowel Letter Game. by dbabahimse(m): 8:43pm On Apr 09, 2011
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Forum Games / Re: Second Vowel Letter Game. by dbabahimse(m): 8:27pm On Apr 09, 2011
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Forum Games / Re: Second Vowel Letter Game. by dbabahimse(m): 8:23pm On Apr 09, 2011
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Politics / Re: Bomb Explosion In Inec Office At Suleja.niger State by dbabahimse(m): 9:53pm On Apr 08, 2011
The result of do or die election. Now we Nigerians need to say no to stuffs like this. May the soul of the victims rest in perfect peace
Family / Re: Would You Die For You Kid, by dbabahimse(m): 1:34am On Mar 19, 2011
I think ladies are not giving it a second thought. Besides, there is no certainty that the child wont die in an auto crash or of natural cause(s) not long afterwards even if the operation is successful. cry sad . I think i'll let the child go and cater for the rest
Culture / Re: Yoruba Idioms: Owe Yoruba, Itunmo Re Ati Lilo Re by dbabahimse(m): 11:35pm On Mar 02, 2011
Akini n je akini, afinihan n je afinihan, ewo ni pele ara ijaye ti o n koja lojude Ogunmola
meaning, if u are greetin, greet and if u want to expose me, do so why say good day a native of Ijaye land passing infront of Ogunmola's court

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