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wahabian:
Abeg o,I filled for payoneer master card since October 10 or so,dem send me message say my card go enter 9ja Oct 27 - NOV 3 ,up until now I never see anytin. Post office said they ddnt receive it.

After registeration, Mine took me 4-5 month to get it delivered at my door step by a postman...But are you sure you filling in your postal address correctly, especially your zip code area?

P3trCruzZ:
Buying an ebook which comes with Master or Private sells right, and reselling it.Thats what i meant.

Yes MRR/PLR ebook ain't allowed on amazon but sitting down to edit the whole content and adding more information to make it unique & different is a better idea..
Amazon kindle publishing requires UNIQUENESS!

If YOU haven't receive your payoneer card yet, do these;
1. Make sure the address you used while registering is correct, especially your area zip code.
2. If you are sure its correct, visit the nearest post office to request for it.

Blackkie:
This is good.
What you offered looks great but how can you DISH it all out in few hours?
One thing is attending the event, the next is making an impact.
I want to LEARN not LOOK.
How possible is it?

i don't get this question of yours well but do you mean you just don't want to attend without having something as a gain that will help you?
Such as materials you can go through again?

As a kindle publisher...while making research on how to improve my businezz, i came accross this;
http://alternativeincomeng.com/kdp/
It's a seminar to learn more on kindle publishing by a mentor right here in Lagos, Nigeria.
Check it out here;
http://alternativeincomeng.com/kdp/

Your child isn't an animal but human as you(The parent).They are just too naive on how to live life, they are just learning how to live. You know? They will make mistakes...even we parent make mistakes at times and no one beats us.
"we are all fallible and because of our fallibility...we are bound to make mistakes, do wrongs, offend some, go against the rule given..."
To me, when our children do the wrongs we just need to exercise patience in putting them through...don't allow anger to take control.
This kids have thier own nature and temprament...we need to know what kinda discipline works on then.
Beating/Spanking/Hitting your kids is part of discipline...it should be use fast/quickly to correct a kid, but what makes it an Abuse is that many parent don't care about the pains/feelings the child ingested included with maybe the anger YOU(Parent) used in the process.
My advice, don't use this discipline method as your only discipline tool.When you find yourself using it...make sure you clear off the air and start afreash... by bringing you kids closer, let them know you are sorry and let them know what they did is wrong.

These are great works...i wonder why The Winner's Chapel Canaanland is not included. It's a masterpiece too, infact it's beyond human comprehension.

Good Evening Great Nigerian Designers,

Please, how do i make professional Ecover using Photoshop Element?
Guidance plzzz...am a newbie.

Corporal Punishment - beating/ flogging/ spanking.etc are mostly used in Africa seems it fits our culture, we are bought up with this effective discipline strategy by our parents. Some how, some way it has helped shaped our life but on the other hand it has cause some harms to some little lives.

To me, I'd say corporal punishment can only be effective at childhood stage let's say from 4 to 9... years of age. Spanking a child at teenage age will or might bring destruction to your parent-child relationship which is the Ultimate connection to imbibe good discipline/teachings to our kids.
I'd like us to acknowledge this, that our kids are totally different from each other in nature,they are also fallible and naïve too...which means they will make mistakes,do wrongs,disobey,act naughty .etc we parent,guardians or elders are to correct and put them on the right track but not with CORPRAL PUNISHMENT ALONE. The negative side of corporal punishment in kids when its too much are Fears, hatred, pretense, aggression, bullying, suicide thought and also that of running away from home with all these they won't learn at all but go worse behind you...I will only advice if you choose to use corporal punishment as your CHIOCE for parenting, make sure you get back with your child...I mean, clear off the air and start this afresh after the fight you know.


Read this to understand me better and see other ways apart from using corporal punishment...
Three Answers To Your Spanking Issues/Questions
http://childguidetrends..com/2013/07/three-good-answers-to-spanking-issues.html?m=1

And Reasons You Should Not Use Spanking As The Only Discipline Tool As A Parent
http://childguidetrends..com/2013/05/reasons-you-should-not-use-spankind-as.html?m=1

Please, On this issue of CREATING AN E-BOOK COVER what's the easy & simple way to create the one that KDP will accept?

mk82: Yes you can do all that. Just make sure you get materials from diverse sources and add your own touch. Do not just rewrite a particular PLR/MRR ebook.
***Do not spin. Rewrite the material and make a new "original".
One other thing, check your work with copyscape before you upload to kdp.

Thanks so much...

ecomerceguru: To spin PLR, MRR, you must make sure you achieve a 100% spin, for you to know you have that you'll have to pass it through copyscape, that way you would know you're 100% safe. Also, if you plan on copying recipe online, you must know how to change the title, they must not be the same, also you cant write the same description as it is, you have to give your own Description. This it what U.S copyright have to say


So for now Bro, Stick with what you know.

Thank You very Much!

Wow!
Am so so much happy to find this thread after lots of research on how to "Write amazon kindle easily"
Thank God I find it here!

Please,here is my questions:
Is it right to copy and spin some informations on PLR,MRR and public domain works,articles or ebook?

For example, If I wanna write on recipes...can I copy from other peoples work (like a PLR articles/ebooks or a Public domain work) and spin them and change them to look unique?
Mind you these recipes I wanna write on, have not seen or tasted them before

Wow!
Am so so much happy to find this thread after lots of research on how to "Write amazon kindle easily"
Thank God I find it here!

Please,here is my questions:
Is it right to copy and spin some informations on PLR,MRR and public domain works,articles or ebook?

For example, If I wanna write on recipes...can I copy from other peoples work (like a PLR articles/ebooks or a Public domain work) and spin them and change them to look unique?
Mind you these recipes I wanna write on, have not seen or tasted them before.

lakefist: if ure in Ibadan i can take you one on one, give you all i trade on fiverr that make me average of $30 daily but it will attract a little charge very affordable.

Please,I'd love it if you package this information in MS Word or pdf format...for some of us who ain't in Ibadan. And name the price!

Single parenting?!
Made easy? Wow!

Chillisauce: Nice one, no further comment. This one is ok for me.

@Chillisauce,
Am glad you found this okay for you...THANKS!

@Salloti,
Do you agree with the word that says 'We all are fallible and imperfect'?
Anywhere we find ourselves...we will see or come to realize the flaws and wrongs of others and others will see ours too.
Truly at times its good to stay away, give space, keep away from others flaws like bullying to avoid problems and most importantly inflicting you with their flaws and wrong doings BUT have you considered this?
Too much Running or staying away from wrong human behaviours such as BULLYING will MAKE YOU WEAK & TIMID to people around, I meant you will not be able to STAND,OVERCOME and SAY NO to other people's act you don't like when giving space or running away from them.
Please, answer this...for example, if there's bullying report and you wanna move your kids to another school but there's no funds to do the transfer, what will you do? Don't say Home schooling!

mgbeketoto: My kid is not the one that needs help. BULLIES OPERATE IN GANGS. . .never in a one-on-one fashion.
The ill-brought up ones should be the focus.
I am sure I can NEVER raise a child with low-self esteem to be intimidated by a human with ONE HEAD like his or hers.
I'd rather not distract him or her from what I AM PAYING FOR. . . to stay in school and FOCUS ON HIS OR HER STUDIES. . .without the interference from those ALREADY LOST IN TRANSLATION!

The main job of ANY PARENT is to protect his or her child. . .NOT RELINQUISH such tasks to minor children who are not yet ready for the WICKEDNESS OF THE WORLD. . . .

I really do not care how many they maybe o. . .I WILL SPEND MONEY AND TIME. . .AND RESOURCES TO PROTECT MY CHILD. PUSH COME TO SHOVE. . . I WILL MOVE MY KIDS TO ANOTHER SCHOOL DISTRICT! Simple.

I don't want them to handle adult problems. . . BULLIES SHOULD BE HANDLED BY ADULTS ONLY before your children become ONLINE OR OFFLINE COWARDLY THUGS LIKE THE OTHERS!!!!

NO. . .THEY REPORT TO ME ONLY. . .TO DEAL WITH SUCH THINGS. . . I WILL TAKE CARE OF THE REST. If I am not around. . . I WILL TEACH THEM TO REPORT TO SOMEONE ELSE!!!! NEVER TO BE CONFRONTATIONAL. . . . THEY COULD GET THEMSELVES KILLED!

Do you know what those low-lives are smoking for breakfast. . .or how their parents conceived them aka children from BABALAWOS?

Tufiakwa to that!

@mgbeketoto
U made mention of two things I'd like you to explain;
You said some kids ain't ready yet for this wicked world...Do u mean here that some kids strong naturally while some are weaklings naturally?
And that these weak ones should be protect by there parent by all cost...So, if this weak kid is bullied in one school,you prefer taking him/her away to another school?
What if he/she is bullied in that school again,will you still take to another one?

kulyie: @ d easy Once you are able to grow balls and face your fears,that is the last time they become fears.since i got over bullying in jss1,i met another form of bullying in 100 level in the university very similar to yours.

I had this roomate who was very nasty,impossible and rude.when its about time we all sleep,this girl will start playing music,and she wont play it in such a way that only her will hear,she will increase it to the highest volume and i will be like eniole for goodness sakes you have an earpiece,use it please,she said she doesnt like it,and i am like but i want to sleep and i cant sleep in a noisy environment.i need perfect silence to sleep,before i knew whats up,she yelled at me,are you the only one in the room,are there not 6 other people in the room,why is it only you complaining.i am going to play this music and if you know you cant sleep,too bad.i said really?she said yes,i said eniola, 2 of us wont have peace in this room as long as you cannot respect other peoples feeling,i snapped my fingers at her and ent to sleep in my friends room.


The following day she went for lectures and fortunatly the lecturer didnt come for his lectures,he sent his secretary to us to tell us he was ill and so we can go till next class,i was so happy and headed straight to the room

i took hermusic player from her bed,put it inside a big bag and took it to town so that when she reports and they say they want to search room and everybody,they wont find it.

So after i had dropped it in my coursemates house in town,1 and a half hour from school, she came 2 hours later and as she dropped her bag,she noticed her music player wasnt where she keeps it on her bed.

She started shouting please who took my player,whoever that did should respect herself bla bla bla,i continued doing my assignment,i didnt pay attention to her because i was soo prepared for her that day and as my prayer will be answered,she came to meet me in my corner and said shewa i know you are the one that took my music player because i know you never liked me and was jealous because i had a music player,so it is better you return my music player if you dont want me to disgrace you,as she was still talking,i just got up from my bed and slapped her,as she was about attempting to slap me back,i held her hand,beat her silly,used my nails to tear her skin and almost tore her clothes,after then,i let her go,so she went to report me to the hall administrator that shewa assaulted her,they called me to the hall administrators office and asked me why i assaulted her and i told her she accused me of theft because i begged her a day before that she should reduce the volume of her music player or use her earpiece.she plays the music to the loudest and i cant sleep or wake up at night to read,the hall administrator then asked,are you sure you didnt take her stuff,i said yes,she said ok then


she called 3 secureity ladies to search my room,my wardrobe and stuffs,i said excuse me ma,before they go to my room and search my stuffs,if they dont find it,what will happen

ehen,she will apologize to you and go and find it herself,i said lai lai.then the hall administrator said then what do you want? I said i dont want her in that room,she is more of an inconvenience,so the hall administrator paused like 3 minutes and said,shewa,eniola,this is what i will do,i will call more security personnels to search the whole hall and if they dont find it,then i can agree to that,you will sign for change of room,eniola will not only apologize but she will sign too that she has agreed to change her room,deal? I said yes,she said ok.

My room mate put her hand on her waist,was shaking it,in my mind i said omo yi o mo meme.for 5 hours they searched all the rooms up till the fourth floor,they didnt see it

so they came back to the hall administrator that they didnt see it.she said eniola can you see she didnt take your stiff and are you sure you left t in the room before you went for lectures,she said yes,she now said,ok,sign it,she signed and i signed the document,put date and time,hall administrator asked me to apologize to her for assaulting her,i said sorry and left,that was the last time she ever saw her music player

my friend who stays in town asked me shewa come and carry your music player o,it is consuming space in my room,i said abeg throw the thing away joor.she said ha,let me sell it na,i said dont sell it o,before they trace the origin,just throw it into the dustbin away from where you stay.that was how i dealt with her.

Of course she was sure and knew i was the one that took it,but there was nothing to prove that.in my mind i said see this smallie that wants to feel like someone that is sturbborn o.she doesnt know i have seen worse from secondary school.infact,she was not a threat for me,i just said,its a walk over

Wow!
Fight back and facing your fears changed you ooo...anyway it's you now.

Kanwulia: Find out the NAMES OF ALL the bullies and have a TALK with their parents!
File a complaint with the COPS(IF YOU LIVE IN A CIVILIZED COUNTRY LIKE MINE THE USA). . . .If you are in NIGERIA. . . go straight to the parents of ALL THE BULLIES and let them know THEIR KIDS LIVES ARE IN DANGER!!!! Just a warning.

Simple!

After all, the rotten apple does not fall too far from the rotten tree abi?

My only job is to protect the wellbeing of my kids. . . I WILL START WITH THEIR PARENTS FIRST!

I can protect myself. . . THEY HAVE TRIED AND CAN'T DO SHYTE! We deeeeeeey kampkpeeeeeee. . . dem dey quench on NL 'obituary' sections one by one!!! MU CHE CHE CHE CHE CHE CHE!!!!

May more continue to perish for their mischief making. . .so they may die before their parents. . . Iseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!

@kanwulia,
Nice one thanks!!!
But as a parent,I'd say you face your child first...help him or her with his or her feelings,help him or her to take care of himself or herself. So,he or she would be able to handle it when you ain't around.

If not,the list of bullies and their parent names will full ooo...Rest of mind is good!

kulyie: ignore them ke?bitibawo.the first and last time i know i experienced bullying was in jss1 and my mom is partly to blame for the other students bullying me by telling me to ignore them.by jss2 when i was frustrated with the bullying and was always depressed,that was when i made up my mind that i will not ignore and accept any form of bullying whether na verbal or physical bullying from anybody,whether na seniour or not.operation gbe funmi kin dapada ni

why you think say my mouth sharp now.even nairaland bullying i no dey accept am talkless of face to face.i never see that person,nbolotin jabo 8-) it was when i took the bull by the horn that i got delivered from secondary school bullying.ignoring didnt work.

Those days,there was no phone so i couldnt call my parents,the only option is for me to wait for them to come during visiting days in school before i can pour out my heart to them or go to the hall mistress office and beg her to use her office land line and that was a rare priviledge before she can allow you to use her land line of which you will say whatever you want to say in her presence.

Those days,my parents will bring orisirisi provisions for me like sadine,spaghetti,toileteries,carbonated drinks,milo,milk etc,senious will slap me,beat me and collect everything for me.i will cry and cry and beg them,for where.the time dey tried that stunt with me again because they thought they could get away as usual and the only thing i would do was to cry and beg,they said,hey shewa,come here,them don bring provisions for you abi?oy give me that cornbeef now.i said abi eleyi yawere ni,shon di e ni they looked at each other,they couldnt believe the transformation,so they wanted to confirm whether i was just making ordinary mouth,so they came to meet me and one of them attempted to slap me,i said walahi ti owo ye ba kan mi,oni fowo ye shey nkan gidi mo,try me.the hand hang ni.

The other girl tried pulling my skirt so she could drag the stuffs from my hand,i just raised alarm 'olllleeeeee', ashewo eyin agbaya oshi'everybodys attention was drawn to the scene including the hostel misstresses around so they came to find out what was going and why i was yelling at them,when i told them they tried bullying me so they could collect my provisions from me,they took all those girls to the vice principals office.the vice principal said they should empty all the dustbins in the hostel and wash all the bathrooms as punishment for bullying for a month.after then.no seniour tried bullying.

If i have a child i can NEVER TELL MY CHILD TO IGNORE THE BULLY BECAUSE IGNORING BULLIES IS INDIRECTLY ENCOURAGING THEM TO CONTINUE.I WONT ALWAYS BE WITH THEM 24 HRS.what if i dont have acess to reach them,they wont solve their issh.i will tell them to face their fears.if you ignore them,you have giving them licence to continue.moreover,there is an addage that says no one has the right to disrespect you without your conscent.ignore nbo?face them,stand up for yourself because if you dont,no one else will.infact,its when you stand up for yourself you will receieve support,if you dont,you will just be living a miserable and depressed life.

Throughout my jss1,i couldnt concentrate in class,i couldnt read because i was so scared of my seniours and what they will do to me.ignoring them gave them the impression i was weak and afraid of them so they continued.but till i finished secondary school,for any seniour to even send me message,na with fear.bullies are everywhere,even among adults but it is you that will say lai lai,mo ko iwosi yi.nibo?

@kulyie,
Thanks so much...for sharing this.
Truly is good to let them face their fears and stand up for themselves when we ain't their BUT I'd say this is gonna have a kind of effect or bring a change into them(behaviors).
For example,let me share my own experience on bullying...
It happened when I was in J.S.S 2, during closing hour I decided to stay in school to read because I hardly have chance to read at home.
With me and other students(mostly girls) studying in class,this tiny and slimy classmate of mine just came as if he was sent to disturb me from what am doing.
You know looking for trouble and trying to make me look stupid in front of the girls...Oh boy!
I dropped my books and stand up for myself ooo...
But atlas,I was bitten hands down with all my figure and strength to the extent that I bleeded.
This tiny and slimy boy as been on BOXING TRAINING in his neighborhood HAVE FORGOTTEN THIS!!!
I for no fight that day but act or deal with him wisely...anyway I never received BULLYING again though it was the first and the last!

But this is what am driving at...I believe this particular boy that bullied me must have been bullied before, so he went for Boxing Trainings.

Get this, his bullying experience,pains,aggression and the power he had received made him to bully me...So he could gain all he has loosed(self esteem).He changed!
And as for me,through my schooling I wasn't the sweet and brilliant boy people knew in school not until SS2.It change me too!

Do you get the change?

greatgod2012: Ignore them!

Just like we do here!

@greatgod2012,
IGNORE BULLYING?!
Wow! Wait ooo...You mean some parent just tell their kid/s to ignore it?
OMG!!!
Parent should read my post well...IGNORING will only kill such kid mentally,emotionally,spiritually then physically.
Thanks!!!

[quote author=tpia@]Nothing irritates me more than cowardly cyberbullies hiding behind their cowardly monikers.

I say beat them up like the chinese would do, that's why they ( chinese) are respected worldwide.[/quote]@tpia
Truly let's name them COWARDS...because they hide behind their "Monikers" or Monitors?

So, the Chinese says "beat them up", then you learn kung-fu...To beat cyber bullies up?

How?

martha: My suggestion: Put grinded pepper into the eyes of the bullies
Hey OP, cyber bullying nko? It is more popular than school and environmental bullying

@Martha,
Wow!
E reach that level?
Pepper...For human being eye?
Wow! You dey vex ooo...lol
Am sure this will begin WAR!

Anyway hold on for CYBER BULLYING TIP...Am on it.
It's gonna be HOT!!!

Bullying! Bullying!! Bullying!!!
Do you wanna know how to stop this?
If Yes, then this article is for YOU only.
Make sure you read from start to the end...

Bullying is always a serious issue, every parent must be fully prepared for it because its a normal and natural occurrence,is part of our nature and get this...it's not our fault or the child's fault,if they get bullied, we should acknowledge this!

Bullying in my own view as just only 2(two) types,we have; The Physical Bullying and
The Verbal Bullying.
Both can be done either by an individual(a kid) or a group(a gang of kids).I so much believe that kids who involve in bullying others are troubled ones,they kids who are facing a lot of troubles at home,which they can't handle,some have bottled up a lot of pains from what they've gone through and this have affected their emotions. So in order to express their feelings,share,mingle and to create awareness among their fellows is kinda difficult for them,instead of being positive they go negative with others. This is another parenting issue on is own.

Actions such as,picking on a fellow,demeaning,shoving,pushing etc are done in various places especially in schools and in the neighborhood where no adult sees it...this is what makes bullying a hard issue to tackle. Yet you must tackle it!

Most parent, do use this Traditional Method to stop bullying,traditional methods such as;
1. Telling Your kids To Never Mind Or Ignore Bullying,
2. Fighting Or Hit Back Bullying, and
3. Challenging the kid that bullied or their parent.
Truly this methods do work but it does live a mark in a little kid's life for God knows how long!
Imagine, a kid who as been trained on how to ignore bullying and not to worry about it...and such kids will keep on going through this pains and hurt from his or her fellow. Or a child who as been trained on how fight back whenever he/she is been bullied. Or you do help your kids fight back and challenge the kid who bullied or their parent...what do you think both kids will become?
What kinda atmosphere do you think you are creating for your kid and yourself?
To me, both kids will arbor pains in themselves,including you...The ignoring bully kid might one day commit suicide when it's too much while The fight back kid, will definitely become a bully too (because of too much aggression in defense whenever been bullied). And for the involving parent,who do challenge the kid that bullied or their parent, this might create a strong lasting enmity between your kid and the other kid even between you parents too!
So,I don't use this methods...will you?

Here Are 4 Helpful Ways To Stop Bullying

1.Respond To Your Child's Feelings: If your child is being bullied,let your child know that you do care about their feelings and value their life as well. This alone,will give your child hope and even courage for solution because they have someone they can rely on,someone who they can share what they feel in the inside with...teenagers wants to know that they've being heard and that their feelings matter but this depends on the kind of Parent-Child relationship you've built.
This will then bring up the step of what you both will do to stop the bullying.

2.Report To The Authorities: Here after responding to your child's feelings, you have to do something...so,go ahead and prove it to them that you care and value them...Take note of caution, don't do this with anger or aggressiveness because it will send a wrong message to your child and it will not help stop the bullying but make it worse!
Approaching the Authorities (I mean School authorities or the other parent directly) should be done in a very mature way. The way you approach really matters,when you approach some people while you're angry, you might inflict them with it and this will bring more problem. Try as best as you can to ease you anger and pain on what had happen to your child. Though, is gonna be easy...just keep your sanity!
(Responding to your child's feelings and reporting to the authorities are actions you must take)

3.Teach Your kid To Stand Up For Themselves: The reason why most kid get bullied is For Being Different. So,teach them these;
(A) to look naturally confident and self-assured,
(B) have good self-esteem,
(C) how to care about their appearance ( to be well presented) and
(D) to use eye contact.
I assure this will help them a lot!

4. Empower them-(Positive Peer Group): To me, this is very helpful when you're not around or far away. It's also a very helpful tool to stop bullying for care givers such as, Teachers,Proprietors etc.
At times,when you report to schools authorities about bullying you find out it doesn't stop,don't blame them bullying reports is just too much. In fact,most schools don't permit kids to fight back or defend themselves when bullied.
So,teach or empower them to stop bullying themselves. How you ask?
It's simple,just tell them to work/walk in group...its like having or creating a PRIDE OF TEENAGERS not PRIDE OF LIONS.
Encourage,motivate and challenge them on this group thing...it's gonna be difficult for bullying to occur!
(Teaching your kid/s how to stand up for themselves and empowering them are ways to boost your child self esteem)

Do you have any other ways to help stop bullying?
If you do...please share/post here.

Bullying! Bullying!! Bullying!!!
Do you wanna know how to stop this?
If Yes, then this article is for YOU only.
Make sure you read from start to the end...

Bullying is always a serious issue, every parent must be fully prepared for it because its a normal and natural occurrence,is part of our nature and get this...it's not our fault or the child's fault,if they get bullied, we should acknowledge this!

Bullying in my own view as just only 2(two) types,we have; The Physical Bullying and
The Verbal Bullying.
Both can be done either by an individual(a kid) or a group(a gang of kids).I so much believe that kids who involve in bullying others are troubled ones,they kids who are facing a lot of troubles at home,which they can't handle,some have bottled up a lot of pains from what they've gone through and this have affected their emotions. So in order to express their feelings,share,mingle and to create awareness among their fellows is kinda difficult for them,instead of being positive they go negative with others. This is another parenting issue on is own.

Actions such as,picking on a fellow,demeaning,shoving,pushing etc are done in various places especially in schools and in the neighborhood where no adult sees it...this is what makes bullying a hard issue to tackle. Yet you must tackle it!

Most parent, do use this Traditional Method to stop bullying,traditional methods such as;
1. Telling Your kids To Never Mind Or Ignore Bullying,
2. Fighting Or Hit Back Bullying, and
3. Challenging the kid that bullied or their parent.
Truly this methods do work but it does live a mark in a little kid's life for God knows how long!
Imagine, a kid who as been trained on how to ignore bullying and not to worry about it...and such kids will keep on going through this pains and hurt from his or her fellow. Or a child who as been trained on how fight back whenever he/she is been bullied. Or you do help your kids fight back and challenge the kid who bullied or their parent...what do you think both kids will become?
What kinda atmosphere do you think you are creating for your kid and yourself?
To me, both kids will arbor pains in themselves,including you...The ignoring bully kid might one day commit suicide when it's too much while The fight back kid, will definitely become a bully too (because of too much aggression in defense whenever been bullied). And for the involving parent,who do challenge the kid that bullied or their parent, this might create a strong lasting enmity between your kid and the other kid even between you parents too!
So,I don't use this methods...will you?

Here Are 4 Helpful Ways To Stop Bullying

1.Respond To Your Child's Feelings: If your child is being bullied,let your child know that you do care about their feelings and value their life as well. This alone,will give your child hope and even courage for solution because they have someone they can rely on,someone who they can share what they feel in the inside with...teenagers wants to know that they've being heard and that their feelings matter but this depends on the kind of Parent-Child relationship you've built.
This will then bring up the step of what you both will do to stop the bullying.

2.Report To The Authorities: Here after responding to your child's feelings, you have to do something...so,go ahead and prove it to them that you care and value them...Take note of caution, don't do this with anger or aggressiveness because it will send a wrong message to your child and it will not help stop the bullying but make it worse!
Approaching the Authorities (I mean School authorities or the other parent directly) should be done in a very mature way. The way you approach really matters,when you approach some people while you're angry, you might inflict them with it and this will bring more problem. Try as best as you can to ease you anger and pain on what had happen to your child. Though, is gonna be easy...just keep your sanity!
(Responding to your child's feelings and reporting to the authorities are actions you must take)

3.Teach Your kid To Stand Up For Themselves: The reason why most kid get bullied is For Being Different. So,teach them these;
(A) to look naturally confident and self-assured,
(B) have good self-esteem,
(C) how to care about their appearance ( to be well presented) and
(D) to use eye contact.
I assure this will help them a lot!

4. Empower them-(Positive Peer Group): To me, this is very helpful when you're not around or far away. It's also a very helpful tool to stop bullying for care givers such as, Teachers,Proprietors etc.
At times,when you report to schools authorities about bullying you find out it doesn't stop,don't blame them bullying reports is just too much. In fact,most schools don't permit kids to fight back or defend themselves when bullied.
So,teach or empower them to stop bullying themselves. How you ask?
It's simple,just tell them to work/walk in group...its like having or creating a PRIDE OF TEENAGERS not PRIDE OF LIONS.
Encourage,motivate and challenge them on this group thing...it's gonna be difficult for bullying to occur!
(Teaching your kid/s how to stand up for themselves and empowering them are ways to boost your child self esteem)

Do you have any other ways to help stop bullying?
If you do...please share/post here.

Dear Nairalander Parents,

Medically/Scientifically after child birth staying away off sex is necessary because you might get an infection,You need to wait until bleeding after child birth as stopped and wounds in the inside as healed.

Some say staying away for 3weeks,
Some say 6weeks,
Some say months or even a year...after childbirth is okay to wait before you resume sex with your partner. Some are advice to use contraception (Birth Control) when they wanna start sex again in order not to get pregnant again.

Okay as a mother/father how long did it take you to resume sex with you partner after child birth?
If you gave birth through CS how long did it take you to resume sex?

donexcess: my keyword how ....give me instances plz. i dont understand bro

Keywords means short words that relates to your service. For example, if you create a gig such as;
'I will get 100+ US organic traffic to your website for 3days'
Your keywords with a gig like this are: traffic, Organic, real, visitors,website, US traffic, website ranking, etc

If you type any of these words(keywords) into google search and click on image...google will give you different type of pictures that's on 'website traffic' you can use for your gigs.

N:B - Please, don't use your mobile phone to create fiverr gigs...it will be very difficult!