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Re: 4 Helpful Ways To Help Stop Bullying by Sallotti: 3:22pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
deasy: mgbeketoto replies as Sallotti. . . . I think I have stated clearly what I would do. One thing that helped my growing up as a child was that MY FATHER NEVER ALLOWED US TO ASSOCIATE WITH COMMONERS! Bullies included. The reason we are all strong today is because. . .our childhood experiences remained free from negative influences. If you encourage your children to respond to bullies. . . YOU ARE A RIFF-RAFF YOURSELF. Dealing with bullies is a like dealing with domestic violence from children who have been exposed to domestic violence! And that these weak ones should be protect by there parent by all cost...So, if this weak kid is bullied in one school,you prefer taking him/her away to another school again, will you still take to another one? Like I stated somewhere. . . -As children, WE WERE NEVER EXPOSED TO RIFF-RAFFS AND LOWLIVES!!!! By the time we had left the house, we had been too sheltered to acquire 'riff-raff' mentalities. We had developed the mentalities of well-adjusted HUMANS. Rather than allow my children to be exposed to such riff-raffs. . . I will relocate from such an area. Unfortunately for most of you. . . you fail to understand that avoiding confrontation is not a sign of weakness till someone ends up dead! You will learn the hard way. . . . WHEN YOU GET TO BE PARENTS AND REALIZE HOW MANY CHILDREN HAVE TURNED TO SERIAL KILLERS BECAUSE OF RIFF-RAFFS AKA BULLIES. I refuse to allow my kids grow up with such TOUTS! YES!!! I WIL!L KEEP MOVING. . . BECAUSE I UNDERSTAND WHAT KIND OF DAMAGE THE MENTALITIES OF BULLIES CAN HAVE ON THE FRAGILE SENSIBILITIES OF A CHILD! If he or she is bullied in A NEW school. . . chances are that my child must be attracting the wrong attention. BULLIES ARE NOT LIKE LIGHTNING. . . . THEY NEVER STRIKE TWICE ON THE SAME SPOT! PUSH COME TO SHOVE. . . I WILL KEEP MY KIDS AT HOME AND HOME-SCHOOL THEM MYSELF. In Nigeria. . . .BULLIES KNOW WHAT KIND OF CHILDREN TO MESS WITH. . . .my family name alone will not allow such nonentities to come near us. . . .UNLESS YOU WANT THE KID DEAD. The reason I try to walk. . . BEFORE I DO SOMETHING I WOULD REGRET. Haba! Ever heard of OBJ'S KID OR ANENIH'S KID COMPLAINING ABOUT BULLYING? Bullies know their targets ke. . . . .YOU DARE NOT! You can only try such nonsense as FACELESS COWARDS ON NL OR ON THE INTERNET. Make my pickin reach school. . . make dem tell the bully who be her papa and mama. . . make I see where the 'bully' go pass!!!! I DEY LAUGH!!!!! Please. . . I want my children to remain AJEBUTTERS. . . NOT KPAKOROROS WHO MOVE AROUND IN CULTS AKA BULLIES!!! A BULLY'S WORLD IS A PARENT'S WAR. . . IF PARENTS ALLOW THEIR CHILDREN TO CONFRONT SUCH DREGS OF SOCIETY. . . THE APPLE DID NOT FALL TOO FAR FROM THE TREE. I will pass! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bt-ySTx3xH8 SEE THE LIVES OF BULLIED CHILDREN. . . .TUFIAAAAAAAAAAKWA!!!!! When they go crazy in the future. . . they will say they are joining ISLAM. HA! |
Re: 4 Helpful Ways To Help Stop Bullying by Nobody: 3:32pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
I'll rather Salloti's method for my kids. |
Re: 4 Helpful Ways To Help Stop Bullying by Nobody: 4:35pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
^^ LoL When was the last time calloti raised little kids? We are talking about Today and not decades ago. Kids have grown wilder I tell ya regardless of how ajebutter they seem to be. Visit the best private school with high end kids ( professionals , name it) yet they still bully themselves. What do you call that en? I agree to method of her walking away After warning the bully to respect her space. How many days in a year would a parent go in and report to the Authority? That alone even possess the kid as baby to his/her peers and subject the kid further to bully's trap (Bully will say- what are you gonna do? Call your mommy to call the principal?) Sometimes I mull over the thot of raising kids a bit more ajekpako a good idea just because of this Bully issue. It's a wild world filled with diverse personalities from diff background out there. |
Re: 4 Helpful Ways To Help Stop Bullying by Nobody: 4:55pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
deasy:yes na |
Re: 4 Helpful Ways To Help Stop Bullying by Sallotti: 5:03pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
Ewuro707: ^^ LoL Abeg you. . . .JIDEGIRL OR WHATEVER YOU CALL YOURSELF now and forever. Don't address me OR REFER TO ME. Face the topic. Thank you! I tactfully side-stepped further exchanges with kulyie for a reason. . . I REPLIED THE ORIGINAL POSTER. . . POLYMONIKERER OR NOT. . . legitmate questions were asked and I answered. I AM NOT IN COMPETITION WITH YOU. Abeg. . .you nor see me. . .i nor see you! Happy 2014-3014 coming up! o da bo! GREAT THREAD. . . . Topic unfollowed! |
Re: 4 Helpful Ways To Help Stop Bullying by Nobody: 5:11pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
Great! Just stating the obvious reality. O da bo Besides I can refer to ANYBODY on here now and forever. |
Re: 4 Helpful Ways To Help Stop Bullying by Nobody: 5:13pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
deasy: Bullying! Bullying!! Bullying!!! Nice one, no further comment. This one is ok for me. 1 Like |
Re: 4 Helpful Ways To Help Stop Bullying by Sallotti: 5:17pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
Ewuro707: Great! Just stating the obvious reality. Then get ready for me to refer to YOU! Love is not by force ma. I don't care about your posts. . .or THREADS. . . SO, PLEASE DON'T CARE ABOUT MINEZZZZZZ! Take your 'groupy' life somewhere else! I am not interested. Thank you! Muah! |
Re: 4 Helpful Ways To Help Stop Bullying by Nobody: 5:21pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
Sallotti: but I thought you 'unfollowed' the thread Groupy life? Works for Vanessa Bryant. Definitely working for me at the mo I'm digging my groupie lifestyle happy new year in advance , Muah! |
Re: 4 Helpful Ways To Help Stop Bullying by Nobody: 6:12pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
Pls, don't do this! Ayam begging yous! |
Re: 4 Helpful Ways To Help Stop Bullying by Nobody: 6:15pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
alutacontinua: Pls, don't do this! Don't worry babes. I'm cool as a cucumber. Honestly I'm cool. |
Re: 4 Helpful Ways To Help Stop Bullying by Nobody: 6:18pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
Ewuro707: Thank you! 1 Like |
Re: 4 Helpful Ways To Help Stop Bullying by deasy(m): 10:48pm On Dec 28, 2013 |
@Salloti, Do you agree with the word that says 'We all are fallible and imperfect'? Anywhere we find ourselves...we will see or come to realize the flaws and wrongs of others and others will see ours too. Truly at times its good to stay away, give space, keep away from others flaws like bullying to avoid problems and most importantly inflicting you with their flaws and wrong doings BUT have you considered this? Too much Running or staying away from wrong human behaviours such as BULLYING will MAKE YOU WEAK & TIMID to people around, I meant you will not be able to STAND,OVERCOME and SAY NO to other people's act you don't like when giving space or running away from them. Please, answer this...for example, if there's bullying report and you wanna move your kids to another school but there's no funds to do the transfer, what will you do? Don't say Home schooling! |
Re: 4 Helpful Ways To Help Stop Bullying by deasy(m): 10:51pm On Dec 28, 2013 |
Chillisauce: @Chillisauce, Am glad you found this okay for you...THANKS! |
Re: 4 Helpful Ways To Help Stop Bullying by chival(f): 10:31am On Dec 05, 2021 |
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