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Actually,i got no much story but have seen this favouritism happening around.
I do tell people that as parent,having a favourite is a BIG TABOO!
Although let's be sincere here...we are humans,who have blood running in our veins,this feeling of having a favourite might come up due to some things like having the same gene with the child,the child makes you remember someone you love.etc this feel i assure will come up,but it's very very wrong to admit,act and proclaim you love one child than another it's a TABOO! It can destroy the family...DO NOT HAVE A FAVOURITE!
You might be wondering...what will i do when this feeling come up?
Please get this, don't ever show or say one child is your favourite,it ruins...what i advice parent to do is sit and consider what you feel for each child,do you really love one best or you like them all? It may be you love them all but you can't see it.If you still feel you have a favourite,then you get to work on your relationship with the other child/ren...get to know them too.
Please,children at times acts nice and they watch to see who you love the most,they might even ask you...you just gotta becareful,let them know you have no favourite,tell them you love them all.When it come to shares,if there's favouritism they can't have they same share in everything and if you love them equally they can have the share in everything but not all times,love works at this part.
if you do show you love them equally and you get something great for one child due to some reasons,even if because you love him/her most,the other child will feel bad and jealousy or even hatred will come in,but if you are the type that don't show favouritism,you can work up with the other kid...you know? Dialogue with the kid and resolve the issue,just let them know you love them both no favourite.The kids can even resolve issues themselves seems you do share love with them equally.They learn from what you lay.

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sending your child to school is your responsibility,your duty and obligation...to the child its not a priviledge but the child's right,which you must give them!
I don't think sending to school till they become graduate is an achievement really,i will only call it an achievement if the child turns out to be on is own achieveing things in life.
Mind you school only gives information...but the real education should be given by the parent.
When education is given by the parent and the child makes use of those education in life on its own...then that's an achievement!

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Angelique kidjo had a song Ae Ae in her album Djin Djin(2007),which won her a grammy for best contemporary world music album and also NAACP image award for outstanding world music album,but what's so shocking is that this track Ae Ae sounds alike/too close to Mrs Christy Essien-Igbokwe's hit song Seun rere.I mean both song has the same melody.
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