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BusinessFacebook Is A Pure Sca!m by Debalanza(op): 9:08pm On Mar 10, 2025
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Help Me Decide by Debalanza: 3:33pm On Dec 12, 2024
Where you able to start either of them bro?
AutosRe: Sold: Used 2007 Toyota Camry by Debalanza: 12:46am On Nov 29, 2024
Baba, is this still available or do you have available ones?
AutosRe: Sold: Toks Standard Used 2014 Kia Rio by Debalanza: 12:33am On Nov 29, 2024
Is this still available?
Car TalkRe: The HONDA Club by Debalanza: 11:53am On Nov 27, 2024
Sheuns:
If it’s accord, it’s not the best in terms of fuel consumption for uber. A city or civic would be better. Aside fuel consumption, accord beats those two.
Thanks for your input, when you say aside fuel consumption the Accord is good, does that means it has low maintenances and is more stronger than the civic?
Car TalkRe: The HONDA Club by Debalanza: 3:23am On Nov 27, 2024
Please Honda people, advice me, I want to go into uber biz and I have been researching for the best car for this and my budget is 5m, please is the Honda worth it? As I hear it has many issues and always have alignment problems, pls I need your humble opinion and advice🙏
InvestmentRe: Crypto Currency Investors Thread by Debalanza: 1:37pm On Nov 24, 2024
This ORDI just dey do anyhow, it just love this 35-39, it’s mate don rise finish😡
InvestmentRe: Crypto Currency Investors Thread by Debalanza: 3:35pm On Oct 29, 2024
clems88:
Shey them swear for altcoins?? Non are any way near their ath undecided btc will move yet altcoin will be dragging like slot, but when btc starts to bleed , altcoins will bleed even harder than btc
I’m telling you bro, so frustrating
RomanceRe: 30 Days No Masturbation Challenge by Debalanza: 9:41pm On Oct 10, 2024
UnclePrincipal:

Thank you bro.

I do most things on this list, except for avoiding solitude. Currently, I'm struggling with loneliness, and although I'm working on it, I find that being alone is necessary for certain activities, such as learning online courses, which require focus without distractions. However, when I decide to venture out, my loneliness often intensifies, especially when I see people working in groups or couples being romantic. This triggers feelings of inadequacy, making me wonder if I'll ever experience such connections. It's a vicious cycle: going outside makes me feel worse, yet staying indoors does the same. Honestly, I'm unsure what to do.
Hmmmm! First make peace with your mind, I used to be nervous and freak out especially when meeting new people, am ambivert by the way, but when I dive deep into myself, I discovered that nervousness is a coping mechanism trying to protect you from the unknown and this helped me to make peace with it, I still do get nervous, everyone does but it’s just that now I see it more as a friend than enemy or lack of inadequacy.

Feeling of inadequacy is as a result of long time consumption of pornography combined with quick gratification of masturbation. I gurantee you bro, just look at your self within the first couple of weeks of not watching porn of masturbating, you will see this feeling disappearing.

I used to also have that feelings, will I ever even be bold enough to talk to a woman let alone establishing a connection but guess what, I have multiple of girls bro. Let me tell you little secret bro, women smell it when you have this high testosterone and it kinda attract them and you get this by not beating your meat or damaging your mind with demining words.
Now I advise you bro.

1. Master communication, I can tell you the problem of inadequacy is not even emif you can f!Kc or build that connection but the ability to hold communication

2. I repeat go to the gym bro, if you can’t afford it, at least challenge yourself to do 100push ups and 100squts everyday atleast 5times in a week and gradually learn other workout exercises you can do at home, I assure you in the first week your mind will thank you.

3. Have something that motivates you and focuse on it each day especially when the thoughts of inadequacy comes up, it can be your life as a mess and the fight to be better, money, family etc

4. Seems you are high in neuroticism as well as introverted? But that’s a discovery you can do on your own to understand yourself better and all these are online, for free bro, all you need is your phone, data, google and the right “words to search”


Expose yourself gradually, no one, including me is born with specially ability, but we become better with exposure, repetition and the right tools and all these are learnable skills, it’s just that you have not learned them yet and now I give you the secret to life👌
RomanceRe: 30 Days No Masturbation Challenge by Debalanza: 12:13am On Oct 07, 2024
You have taken a good step bro, seems we have similar story, but I will tell you this, just as you have made a decision to stop it, your mind won’t rest, you will continuously be thinking about it, especially if you don’t have anything that keeps you busy or if it is one of the coping mechanism you use to release stress, now all you need to do is this and it’s not all about accountability because you will always fail in that aspect is more deep, and it is now a part of habit since you have been masturbating for that long and you know habits are hard to break in the beginning. So do this
1. Have a solid reason why you’re stopping, internalize this reason, it can be, “imagine all these woman roaming around and hungry for preeq, but here you are jerking off with hands you suppose to use to be fingering them pussy”

2. Delete everything that triggers you, in my case I have to go to my IPhone to block my browser from accessing such website, so none of my browser can locate it, and then the devil introduced me to twitter porn, but again I fought and deleted it, sometimes when the urge is too much, I access it through my browser I finally overcame.

3. Have a tight schedule, I mean purposeful schedule that will drive you towards your goal or plan, it can be self-development will is the best option, become the best version of yourself, gym, communication etc, if you don’t have a schedule, devil will make out time for you


4. Avoid being alone, especially when the urge is about to come.

5. Read purposeful books and listen to podcast, Bible if you’re a Christian.

Bro; masturbation makes you weak and kills you slowly especially if you’re addicted to it, I can’t tell you how happy I am and what I am achieving since I decided to let go of that shit. Yes, when I do come across porn I do watch it but with different intentions, though I hardly come across it and can’t remember when last I comfortably watch porn or masturbate.

I can help you if you want to👌
BusinessRe: Anyone In Other African Country : Which Business Can 4 Million Do There ? by Debalanza: 1:27am On Oct 03, 2024
Dude101:
Pls I meant 10,000 cedis for the machine not 1000 cedis. 10,000 cedis is roughly 1 million naira.
Running cost 10,500 cedis ie 1.5 million which is inclusive of materials to buy for producing and shop payment for space and other logistics cost.
House rent 300k. I don't know your taste. But for a room and porches with toilet kitchen and bathroom inside.
Other miscellaneous 800k.
So you can still have around 1 million naira in your balance.
But it's a good business and you can make back your investment very quickly especially if you are sending back to Nigeria due to the exchange rates
What about working permit and resident permit should in case Ghana police or Immigration comes for him? You know these people don’t like it when you don’t have the necessary documents
BusinessRe: If You Are Uber Partner In Lagos, Please Share Your Experience Here by Debalanza: 3:30pm On Sep 30, 2024
Pearl1910:
Nothing special to be honest... I have been singing it here for many years.
1. U have to be prepared to work hard, start early and close late.
2. Avoid traffic as much as u can. Traffic is a time waster. Medium trips in the morning and evening within VI, Lekki Phase 1, Ikeja, Yaba etc rather than enter long trip and meet traffic.
In the evening rush hour, I would rather do VI to Yaba and back to VI/Lekki. Or VI to Phase 1 and back to VI, than enter 2hrs traffic on Vi to Ogba or VI to Ajah.
Although traffic is not much again now, so u can always check ur gmap before u decide whether to take the trip or not.
3. Except it's a very long surge and juicy trip, Don't take trip to where u will not easily get a trip back from. I will rather do 3, N2,000 trips each within VI than do VI to Sangotedo or VI to Satellite town for 10k. Sometimes back to back short short trips pay more than long trip that's is not back to back.
4. Master residential and commercial area dynamics very well to know how to position yourself and were to accept trips to per time.
5. Target long trips when u r against traffic.
6. Avoid corner corner roads like Ejigbo, Alimosho, Agege axis. U will spend time on the trip but cover shorter distance.
7. Balance your time, and your fuel consumption to maximize profits. If u stay too long and u aren't getting a good trip, Instead of driving empty to reposition yourself, u can take a "silly" trip which can cover your fuel cost. E.g u have stayed in GRA for too long and u begin to think of repositioning, u can accept a trip from Isaac John to opebi or allen. Just so your time wasted is not completely invain. Some people will rather drive empty than pick a short trip. That mindset has to change in this era of expensive fuel.
8. Never do big boy for bonus, if u can chop it, then gladly go for it. U know how difficult it is to make 10k so if u see 10k or 5k bonus, don't joke with it.
9. Don't be distracted when u see trip to Christ embassy/Redeem camp, Ota, Ibeju or Agbara for big money. U may end up regretting taking the trip as d energy, fuel and time u will waste to get back to civilization will not b worth the fare trip. Although, sometimes u can be lucky to get a return trip back to town from outskirts.
10. Don't overspeed, don't accelerate sharply, drive carefully and gently, I don't exceed 80km/hr even on third mainland bridge on a Sunday morning. If u drive speed, u waste more fuel and arrive earlier, double loss to you.
11. Stick to the "L" shaped trunk of Lagos metropolis. From Berger to Chevron. U can cherry pick other destinations occasionally especially public holidays or weekends.
12. All these points can be very subjective to particular timing and circumstances, it can also be a function of luck and God's grace.

Typically, most people learn from personal experience so someone will still read this and take a trip to Igboelerin, then come to d thread and lament "I have been here since 2hrs, I no see trip, is there something wrong with my app, what can I do to get out of here?"
Wow! A well detailed tips😎
Which car do you suggest I go for?
I’m starting new and I’m driving it by myself.
Budget of 5m or lesser
And also which company, UBER, BOLT AND INDRIVE
BusinessRe: If You Are Uber Partner In Lagos, Please Share Your Experience Here by Debalanza: 7:49pm On Sep 21, 2024
izzou:
[color=royalblue]The idea is not for you to like.

You are looking for how to break even and make returns on your investment.

Do your research. If it is profitable, enter it. You don't have to like it.

I made good money this year from selling Home furnitures, and i don't even like the business[/color]
Wisdom, but I Love getting Ideals from people that have firsthand experience in whatever that I want to go into, nevertheless thanks for your input and time🙏
BusinessRe: If You Are Uber Partner In Lagos, Please Share Your Experience Here by Debalanza: 5:17pm On Sep 21, 2024
Kaymaxi2222:
go buy electric maruwa and move on to charge the maruwa is very easy also .......but work out how you will be charging it before you dip.
Hmmm, thanks anyways but I don’t like the Idea of electric vehicle especially in Nigeria and for commercial purposes also
BusinessRe: If You Are Uber Partner In Lagos, Please Share Your Experience Here by Debalanza: 4:50pm On Sep 21, 2024
Please My people, I am new here. I need Advice. I’m currently thinking of Starting UBER/Minibus business. I have 4m currently and I’m single at the moment😎
Which do you suggest I join, honest opinion. I can relocate if possible. I’m currently in Lagos though and I have a target👌
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Real Madrid Vs Chelsea UCL (2 - 3) On 12th April 2022 by Debalanza: 10:06pm On Apr 12, 2022
ThankGod noise don reduce,I can sleep well tonight �
BusinessRe: What To Do To Make Money Online? by Debalanza: 1:37am On Feb 18, 2022
I want to go into domaining, who go mentor me bayi?
SportsRe: Nigeria Vs Tunisia AFCON 2021.Round-of-16: (0 - 1) On 23rd January 2022 by Debalanza: 8:08pm On Jan 23, 2022
Let's go Eagles......
InvestmentRe: Crypto Currency Investors Thread by Debalanza: 9:52pm On Jun 07, 2021
Niggafckyou07:
Taking notes.
I will focus on smart contracts and Oracle projects.
What other pointers do you have for a newbie like me?
Neither FOMO nor FUD,just take it bit by bit,the game still remains buy low sell high.

You only loose or gain once you sell.

No matter how bloody the street is,it must surely green again cool

Avoid trading if you don't have the knowledge.

Not a financial advice grin
InvestmentRe: Us Stocks Pick Alert by Debalanza: 6:04pm On Jun 06, 2021
Leezah:
join fellow newbies on WhatsApp https://chatDOTwhatsappDOTcom/DZCOqR6brCx0rkeqixMQG4
wink
Thanks for the share!
BusinessRe: What Business Can I Start With 200k To 300k by Debalanza: 5:49pm On Jun 06, 2021
lovelyboi71:
I’m a student still in school but I’m finishing my Nd program early next year and I’m into phone engineering I’m still learning it you know phone Engr is very broad you can’t know it all, I started learning the hardware but due to school 2018 before jamb gave me admission, now I’m learning the software part I’m still learning it till now.
So now the money that I have with me is 200k I think if I can keep it till December the money will reach 300k
Someone told me to go for phone accessories while others said I should into football viewing center, I don’t know the one to go for
Please if you have any business you can share with me , so now I’m looking for a business to start with the 200k so I’m planning that if I can see a good and reliable business I will put a sales girl or boy there then it won’t affect my school and work
I’m clocking 23 next year
I need your word of advice �
I’m
Since you are a student why not look into online business that will fetch u money in dollars?am current into crypto and so far it has been rewarding for me,you only loose or gain once you sell.You can venture into *Blockchain* and thank yourself later,
Better still invest in yourself which is the best investment,by learning skills that will make you flexible abi UAR n it's uaira no dey tire you?
InvestmentRe: Crypto Currency Investors Thread by Debalanza: 5:36pm On Jun 06, 2021
Miracle112:
Hey Guys please what are top 5 Altcoins to buy now. I have want invest 100k+.
I already have
doge,
Ada,
matic,
shiba,
Trx and Ethereum classic... should I add more of the coins I’ve listed to my wallet Or add new coins?
Please I need suggestions.. thank you.
cool

If it's not Smart contract and Oracle based project,you are missing out,it's not all about having all the coins,that 100k+ can make you a millionaire if you focuse on 1or 2 real project.
Am not seeing.
PokalDot
Solana
Chainlink in thy list never the less beware of Shiba that shit,I see it going no where.
FoodRe: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Debalanza: 5:27pm On Jun 06, 2021
Petyprincess:
Dinner tonight, bringing back the old vibes cheesy
wink
Though not a big fan of Rice but this is appetizing to me.
FoodRe: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Debalanza: 5:24pm On Jun 06, 2021
Born2winnx:
Goat Asun
shocked
No wonder there is no money on ground,it has been on the table with hynee
TravelRe: What Africa Country Is Good To Reside Apart From SA by Debalanza: 5:07pm On Jun 06, 2021
Historicalee:
Move to Ivory coast.
Have you been there or you are currently there?how is the standard of living there?
TravelRe: What Africa Country Is Good To Reside Apart From SA by Debalanza: 4:50pm On Jun 04, 2021
Blurpy:
Lol. Frying pan to fire
Really?but a friend of mine one told me it's a good place to be,that apart from xenophobia which have been settled,that they got no ish with foreigners�
TravelRe: What Africa Country Is Good To Reside Apart From SA by Debalanza: 4:49pm On Jun 04, 2021
AfriqueDuZuid:
South Africans are not fond of Nigerians,

Anyway 2m is small money in South Africa
Wow!thanks for the eye opener,which other African Country you suggest with that kinda budget?
RomanceRe: From Zero Naira to Freedom and Laziness — The Unspoken Truth [Picture] by Debalanza: 5:16am On Jun 04, 2021
If you still have usdt hit me up.08133815437
TravelRe: What Africa Country Is Good To Reside Apart From SA by Debalanza: 4:42am On Jun 04, 2021
This is an interesting thread, currently eyeing S.A with a budget of 2m,how realistic is it? currently in Ghana,they are not good for Nigerians at all.
FoodRe: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Debalanza: 12:14am On Jun 03, 2021
cococandy:
it’s an omelette
Thanks,I have to try it sometime grin
FoodRe: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Debalanza: 7:32pm On Jun 02, 2021
cococandy:
How it started vs how it finally came out.
Good morning people
Though am a big fan of swallow,this looks good��
what's the name?
BusinessRe: "My RESULTS Speaks For Themselves." by Debalanza(op): 2:58am On Mar 13, 2021
It speaks for themselves,staked with 1500.

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