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acidtalk: Rarely respond to threads if I can't relate to the message 100%. As for this, I can relate to it 101%.

I have found out most people than render advice here are not mature enough and only do it for the sake of 'make me sef talk'.

@Poster, your message is a very serious and deep thinking one.

From what I can see (based on your explanation);

* the ex banker friend of yours likes you but never liked your job. That's very understandable. Which woman wouldn't want her man to earn 6 digit figures? It is only normal.

* she lost her job during the downsizing period as as such the fear that she might not get another job for the fear of her kind of course is what is bothering you.

* you assume she wants to marry you to save herself the shame of returning to the East with her family.

Questions I will ask you are;

* while this girl had her banking job was she rude, bossy, and being in control all the time? Because you mentioned something like being 'oga'. If the answer is yes. Then I will let you know she can never change as if she gets a better job or flowing business tomorrow, she will certainly do worse. But if the answer is No! Then I will let you know you just had a complex and felt inferior to her.

* prior to when she discovered her uncle was relocating, has she ever mentioned marriage plans between you both? If the answer is No! Then I suggest you need to tell her to give you more time to prepare yourself first psychologically and financially as the news just came too sudden. And if the answer is Yes! You still need more time though.

* do you love her enough to live with her flaws? If it is yes! Then you can consider her for marriage, if the answer is No! Let he go as partners only get worse in most cases after marriage.

As for her putting you under a condition of her getting you a job after marriage, don't fall for the bait. Let her know you will ONLY marry her when you get a better job. If she can really help get a job, she will put pressure on that her under to get you the Oil and Gas Job as she won't be able to wait.

I see both of you getting to understand yourself better rathan that just rushing to tie the knot due to circumstances.

cyrexx: cant you see your foolishness? are there not people in nigeria and all over the world who read the same bible you are carrying about and notice so many errors and irrational claims therein such that no truly omniscient being would commit such blunders. your deluded mind will close its eyes to all those contradictions and errors from that book and declare that Jesus is coming soon or some people are going to hell.
you see, your delusion is similar to other religion's delusions https://www.nairaland.com/972251/understanding-religious-delusion
your scare tactics and threats of hell fire can only work on deluded and gullible fools like you, it cant work on rational people. the same way a threat of hell from muslims dont bother you is the same way your threat dont bother me.

wake up from your delusion. there is no Jesus anywhere who is coming back. he is dead gone forever like everyone else will die out eventually.

cyrexx: i cant blame your judgement because your religion has screwed your mind to believe all these fairy tales so my words will sound foolish to your foolish mind. if you can believe something (god) is without cause, others can believe that the universe too is without cause.... so keep wallowing in your stupidity, if your mother has given birth to you and raised you in Iran or India you will probably be a staunch Muslim or a chronic Hindu and all these nonsense you are talking now wont have made any sense to you....

cyrexx: believing in fairy tales is not good.. it shows you have no respect for yourself. well, if you have decided to spend the rest of your life believing a fairy tale and and a non-existent second life, keep on the good job of believing your fairy tales.

man has no immortal "soul", the so-called soul has a beginning at your birth and it will surely have an end at your death, religion invented all these myths including soon coming apocalypse in order to control your mind.
wake up from your dream state. best wishes

cyrexx: believing in fairy tales is not good.. it shows you have no respect for yourself. well, if you have decided to spend the rest of your life believing a fairy tale and and a non-existent second life, keep on the good job of believing your fairy tales.

man has no immortal "soul", the so-called soul has a beginning at your birth and it will surely have an end at your death, religion invented all these myths including soon coming apocalypse in order to control your mind.
wake up from your dream state. best wishes

alexleo: At least you can now see from the bible that there is an event coming which you need to be prepared for so as not to be left out. Pls pray for the salvation of your soul. You need to make heaven with us my dear.

Delafruita: oga,check your bible,there is nothing like rapture.the doctrine was invented and isnt biblical.knowledgeable christians know that