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Jobs/VacanciesRe: Econometrics With Eview, Excel Theory And Practical Made Simple by deborsky(m): 3:29pm On May 23, 2017
ok. Location pls?
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Vacancy : 3 Car Wash Boys Needed Urgently (with Benefits) by deborsky(m): 9:00pm On May 22, 2017
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Jobs/VacanciesRe: Oritamefa Baptist Model Schools 2017 Latest Recruitment (33 Positions) by deborsky(m): 9:07pm On May 18, 2017
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Jobs/VacanciesRe: Supermarket Vacancy In Ibadan by deborsky(m): 7:49pm On May 18, 2017
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Jobs/VacanciesRe: Koladaisi University Applicant, Let's Meet Here! by deborsky(m): 12:32pm On May 16, 2017
pls did u submit ur application by hand? I want to apply, pls give details on how u did yours. thanks.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Job Vacancies (DRIVERS) by deborsky(m): 10:27am On May 08, 2017
invalid email address.
AutosRe: Full CARFAX & AUTOCHECK Vehicle VIN Reports In 30 MINS Via Whatsapp 07062725752 by deborsky(m): 4:52pm On May 06, 2017
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Jobs/VacanciesRe: Bank Teller by deborsky(m): 12:41pm On May 06, 2017
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Jobs/VacanciesRe: Cleaner Supervisor Needed In Ibadan by deborsky(m): 7:27am On May 04, 2017
08050442089.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: 2017 ECOWAS Massive Job Recruitment For Graduate And Non-graduate Apply Now by deborsky(m): 7:52pm On Apr 28, 2017
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FamilyRe: My Family Treats Her Bad And Now My Wife Wants To Leave Me by deborsky(m): 4:41pm On Apr 26, 2017
Eno38151:
1st things first, when you get the chance have a sit down (you and your parents only dont allow your other siblings to come and join or chuck mouth, they may be the ones poisoning your parents mind) if they have some false notions about her, you can easily clear it, or just for the sake of peace you can ask your wife to accept the blame (even though she isnt guilty) and apologize to them. If they just hate her kuma na patience things 4 both of una.

By the way whatever your parents do dont spark or quarrel with them, appeal to them with gentle/kind emotions to see what they are doing to "the mother of their grandchild". And defend her whenever you get the chance. You can even do some good things for your family and when they want to thank you, you tell them no its your wife that did it, they should thank her (that will show your wife that you are not allowing your family to ride over her anyhow)

That was for your parents.

As for siblings, if they do anyhow show them anyhow. With them your can be harsh to a certain degree (not the level that will make them call your parents and they will start sparking for you)

As for the wife you have to be the loving husband, always try to come up with new stuff that your wife will find fun and exciting to help her forget the way your family is treating her even if it is for a little while. You can help with some simple house choirs, spare her the wahala of cooking by occasionally taking her out to eat (by the way inform her, its not that afta she cook finish you go come tell her say lets go and eat elsewhere).

Finally you said she is making plans to run away with the child to her parents​, YOU HAVE TO MAKE HER REALISE THAT HE IS AS MUCH YOUR CHILD AS HE IS HERS (not by verbally telling her oh), play with the child, be a loving doting father, help her when you see her tired of taking care of the child, when you're free keep the child around you develop a real strong bond with the child, and God willing even if your family is brewing a storm outside at least you and your wife can be safe from their troubles in your home.

NO FORGET GUY, PATIENCE!!!

And try and console her whenever your family pulls their stunts on her, at least she will know that you realise the injustice in her situation.

If you can afford you can all go on holiday to whatever country her mother is based in.
Best advice so far.
LiteratureRe: Ibale{virginity} by deborsky(m): 8:45am On Apr 13, 2017
interesting
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Vacancy For The Position of Luggage Carrier by deborsky(m): 3:01pm On Apr 10, 2017
maficool:
Job is still available
Do u pay weekly or monthly?
AutosRe: Apply And Get Your Original Drivers License/Vehicle Registration (NO STRESS)! by deborsky(m): 4:48pm On Mar 08, 2017
pls how much for renewal for drivers license. Must i be on ground or u just process it n send it to me?
Technology MarketRe: Buy Plasma, Lcd And Led Televisions For Affordable Pricein Lagos. by deborsky(m): 6:00pm On Mar 04, 2017
acunon:
Hi sir There are no plasma for those lower sizes
22"/21" LCD is 20k 19"/20" LCD is 18k
how would it get to me in Ogun state, ijebu ode? I hope they are lg n Samsung.
PoliticsDr.Bukola Saraki Appoints Dr. Hakeem Ahmed As His Chief Of Staff. by deborsky(op): 8:40am On Feb 08, 2017
*Saraki Appoints Baba Ahmed as Chief of Staff*
Senate President, Dr. Abubakar Bukola Saraki has appointed Dr. Hakeem Baba Ahmed, as his new Chief of Staff.
In a statement by his Special Adviser (Media and Publicity), Yusuph Olaniyonu, Saraki said the appointment takes immediate effect.
Baba Ahmed, 61, was educated at the Ahmadu Bello University, Zaria, London School of Economics and University of Sussex, both in the United Kingdom. He holds a Doctor of Philosophy degree.
A consummate public servant and intellectual, he started his working career as a lecturer with the then University of Sokoto now known as Usman Dan Fodio University, Sokoto, before joining the Kaduna State Civil Service. He later transferred his service to the Federal Civil Service where he rose to become Permanent Secretary.
He was permanent Secretary at various times in the Presidency and later Ministry of Commerce and Industry. He later became Secretary of the Independent National Electoral Commission (INEC). He is a holder of the national honour of Officer of the Federal Republic (OFR).
The new Chief of Staff to the Senate President is a columnist with the Daily Trust newspapers.
PoliticsRe: Senate President, Bukola Saraki Appoints Baba Ahmed As Chief Of Army Staff by deborsky(op): 8:30am On Feb 08, 2017
Master Strategist!
PoliticsSenate President, Bukola Saraki Appoints Baba Ahmed As Chief Of Army Staff by deborsky(op): 8:28am On Feb 08, 2017
*Saraki Appoints Baba Ahmed as Chief of Staff*
Senate President, Dr. Abubakar Bukola Saraki has appointed Dr. Hakeem Baba Ahmed, as his new Chief of Staff.
In a statement by his Special Adviser (Media and Publicity), Yusuph Olaniyonu, Saraki said the appointment takes immediate effect.
Baba Ahmed, 61, was educated at the Ahmadu Bello University, Zaria, London School of Economics and University of Sussex, both in the United Kingdom. He holds a Doctor of Philosophy degree.
A consummate public servant and intellectual, he started his working career as a lecturer with the then University of Sokoto now known as Usman Dan Fodio University, Sokoto, before joining the Kaduna State Civil Service. He later transferred his service to the Federal Civil Service where he rose to become Permanent Secretary.
He was permanent Secretary at various times in the Presidency and later Ministry of Commerce and Industry. He later became Secretary of the Independent National Electoral Commission (INEC). He is a holder of the national honour of Officer of the Federal Republic (OFR).
The new Chief of Staff to the Senate President is a columnist with the Daily Trust newspapers.
Christianity EtcRe: Jehovah Witness Lady Dies After Refusing Transfusion During Childbirth (photo) by deborsky(m): 2:17pm On Feb 04, 2017
That sister that died, has strong faith in the above scriptures. Hence she refused blood transfusion. Her faith also include the resurrection hope, 9 different resurrection are written in d bible, she also believed in a new world that will soon be established on earth. Her death is painful, but let's respect her strong faith, because she willingly rejected the blood transfusion. She will only b MISSED, we didn't LOSE her. SEE HER SOON IN A WORLD THAT IS NEW.
Christianity EtcRe: Jehovah Witness Lady Dies After Refusing Transfusion During Childbirth (photo) by deborsky(m): 2:07pm On Feb 04, 2017
The Bible’s answer
The Bible commands that we not ingest blood. So we should not accept whole blood or its primary components in any form, whether offered as food or as a transfusion. Note the following scriptures:
Genesis 9:4 . God allowed Noah and his family to add animal flesh to their diet after the Flood but commanded them not to eat the blood. God told Noah: “Only flesh with its soul—its blood—you must not eat.” This command applies to all mankind from that time on because all are descendants of Noah.
Leviticus 17:14. “You must not eat the blood of any sort of flesh, because the soul of every sort of flesh is its blood. Anyone eating it will be cut off.” God viewed the soul, or life, as being in the blood and belonging to him. Although this law was given only to the nation of Israel, it shows how seriously God viewed the law against eating blood.
Acts 15:20 . “Abstain . . . from blood.” God gave Christians the same command that he had given to Noah. History shows that early Christians refused to consume whole blood or even to use it for medical reasons.
Why does God command us to abstain from blood?
God commands that we abstain from blood because what it represents is sacred to him.— Leviticus 17:11; Colossians 1:20 .
Christianity EtcRe: Jehovah Witness Lady Dies After Refusing Transfusion During Childbirth (photo) by deborsky(m): 1:59pm On Feb 04, 2017
hahn:
What is the verse in the bible that supports refusal of accepting blood transfusion?
Why don’t Jehovah’s Witnesses accept blood transfusions?
This is a religious issue rather than a medical one. Both the Old and New Testaments clearly command us to abstain from blood. ( Genesis 9:4; Leviticus 17:10; Deuteronomy 12:23; Acts 15:28, 29) Also, God views blood as representing life. ( Leviticus 17:14) So we avoid taking blood not only in obedience to God but also out of respect for him as the Giver of life.
Changing viewpoints
Complex surgeries can be successfully performed without blood transfusions
At one time, the medical community generally viewed strategies for avoiding transfusions, so-called bloodless medicine, as extreme, even suicidal, but this has changed in recent years. For example, in 2004, an article published in a medical education journal stated that “many of the techniques developed for use in Jehovah’s Witness patients will become standard practice in years to come.” * An article in the journal Heart, Lung and Circulation said in 2010 that “‘bloodless surgery’ should not be limited to J[ehovah’s] W[itnesses] but should form an integral part of everyday surgical practice.”
Thousands of doctors worldwide now use blood-conservation techniques to perform complex surgeries without transfusions. Such alternatives to blood transfusions are used even in developing countries and are requested by many patients who are not Jehovah’s Witnesses.
EducationRe: Please Help With My Research Project by deborsky(m): 1:54pm On Jan 31, 2017
I can be of help. adelaw4jah@gmail.com
FoodRe: Types Of Foods To Avoid If You Have Stomach Ulcers by deborsky(m): 7:05pm On Jan 28, 2017
SFTW:
Yeah!!!
All you wrote here are great! And awesome!
My mum have been suffering from chronic ulcers until just last week when I saw a post on faceboook by a friend's friend who was testifying how his mum got completely cured! I thought it's a. Joke cos Ulcers are one of those disease I feel have no cure until I saw his brothers testifying under the comment!

My mum is great today too!!!

Medicine is advancing daily
pls how was d ulcer cured, which type of drug?
Jobs/VacanciesRe: NSCDC Recruitment Of 10,000 Set To Begin by deborsky(m): 6:46pm On Jan 08, 2017
1stdammy:
You dey that film............seriously afraid of it too
pls wat is it about d age gap? kindly enlighten me.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Nigeria Civil Defence Corps, Immigration, SSS 2012/2013 by deborsky(m): 8:23am On Jan 03, 2017
nasjeje:
My nscdc people, has any1 recieve tag no from nscdc?
Not yet
Car TalkRe: What Is Tge Advantage Of Hybrid Cars Over Non Hybrids by deborsky(m): 7:17am On Dec 18, 2016
lalasticlala, and other moderators!!!!! pls ban this guy. He is a real scammer!!!! He recently duped me of #1000. He keep changing usersame. He blocked me on whatsapp. Ban him so that other will not fall victim. I will not curse u, but I surely know that u will reap wat u sow.I AM REFERRING TO "KINGDATA24CF".
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Nigeria Civil Defence Corps, Immigration, SSS 2012/2013 by deborsky(m): 9:21pm On Dec 08, 2016
bishopplux:
Please there will be update by tomorrow,as those at the top are still consulting,after the CG annonce they are looking forward to employ 100,000 nigerians into nscdc
Is it 100,000 or 10,000? Saw 10,000 in d link, anyway..any update about d meeting....?
Jobs/VacanciesRe: 2016 Firstbank Graduate Trainee Programme by deborsky(m): 9:09pm On Dec 05, 2016
I received the email too

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