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Romance / Re: A Common Picture Caused My Break Up With This Guy by Deida: 10:00pm On Jan 26, 2012 |
Mynd_44: No word for you. |
Romance / Re: A Common Picture Caused My Break Up With This Guy by Deida: 8:39am On Jan 26, 2012 |
newmusic: ummm who told u I was still sending my picture and to who? Or do you want to see it with style? And as for the outcome, I'm not begging again, I've stopped. He is even the one coming back now to ask me back. Talking: He is now begging me back. That;s the latest. Everything is fine. |
Romance / Re: What Could Make A Guy Beg For A Relationship Too Soon & Then Want To Be Friends? by Deida: 9:54pm On Jan 24, 2012 |
Please people he asked me for space which I have been giving him yet he keeps texting me asking me how work is and how my new boyfriend is? What does that mean? I've been keeping my space. |
Romance / Re: What Could Make A Guy Beg For A Relationship Too Soon & Then Want To Be Friends? by Deida: 7:02pm On Jan 24, 2012 |
Mynd_44: Bothering a guy I met on BB? How? I met in person not bb. BB was only mentioned because of the display pic I used which you saw and it wasn't that bad. He said he needs space that time will tell if it's meant to be and If i don;t jump into another man's arms, it will tell he was either meant for me or he was one of a kind. kelz88: I tell you very strange. I'm giving him his space though he keeps messaging me and told me that time will tell if he is really the one meant for me and I should not jump into another man;s arms etc, I'm so confused. kpolli: Who? newmusic: I am already myself, if a picture could make him this mad, this early, oh well! And my picture was not displaying anything bad. |
Romance / Re: What Could Make A Guy Beg For A Relationship Too Soon & Then Want To Be Friends? by Deida: 7:38pm On Jan 22, 2012 |
freecocoa: Sorry to say but you sound like a bitter woman! In the name of advice or so, see the arrogance and anger you are using to reply. Please it is not compulsory to give an opinion. Thank u |
Romance / Re: What Could Make A Guy Beg For A Relationship Too Soon & Then Want To Be Friends? by Deida: 7:08pm On Jan 22, 2012 |
Tingles: What response? koolkamzzy: I didn;t demand anything from him. We were still the same, the only change started when the bbm pic incident where he said it was a picture I would have shown only him. aguiyi: Okay let me make it straight. We have been friends, going out and talking and all. He now started asking for a relationship and said he wanted me to be his girlfriend. I now told him aren't the days gone when people say be my bf or gf that we are dating and it would naturally fall into place. That I do like you and we are dating and also getting to know ourselves and then the pic incident happened. |
Romance / Re: What Could Make A Guy Beg For A Relationship Too Soon & Then Want To Be Friends? by Deida: 6:43pm On Jan 22, 2012 |
Tingles: Please read again before commenting. I didn't say YES, I told him to take it slowly but we are in it and dating. |
Romance / Re: What Could Make A Guy Beg For A Relationship Too Soon & Then Want To Be Friends? by Deida: 6:42pm On Jan 22, 2012 |
sexkillz: Smoking what? But I hate things like these. We were fine friends but each time he kept pressuring relationship which I told him to take it slowly and when I began opening up, he needs space. #Sighs omega25red: Chase? How long? He didn't have to chase me. We have been friends even when he had issues with his past relationship and job wise etc. |
Romance / Re: What Could Make A Guy Beg For A Relationship Too Soon & Then Want To Be Friends? by Deida: 6:14pm On Jan 22, 2012 |
omega25red: Nope we never slept together at all. It was just the pic incident which I finally asked him again and he said he just needs space but I reminded him he was the one who begged for a relationship which i told him to take it easy, that it was still new. Oh well |
Romance / What Could Make A Guy Beg For A Relationship Too Soon & Then Want To Be Friends? by Deida: 5:54pm On Jan 22, 2012 |
What are reasons that could possibly make a guy who you were or are friends with beg for a relationship as in make it official boyfriend and girlfriend and then needs space and wants to remain friends? |
Romance / Re: A Common Picture Caused My Break Up With This Guy by Deida: 2:32pm On Jan 20, 2012 |
kpolli: Now I'm so eager to see it lol, I'm waiting for it abeg |
Romance / Re: A Common Picture Caused My Break Up With This Guy by Deida: 2:25pm On Jan 20, 2012 |
kpolli: He's not raising the issue to me again but he is cold to me and I asked him today again through bbm 'cos I can't see today, busy- That he is still being cold to me after I have apologized and all, that is it still the picture, someone else? he should tell me for the fact we have been friends since but if not, have we broken up so i could move on and guess what he sent back to me in his reply ---->"A Hug" Emoticon. Acidosis: I have done that over a million times. Why was he happy to see me afterwards and when I leave, was still giving the cold shoulder. I have asked him, if it's to break up or if we have, he should be able to tell me, all he would just reply is giving me a hug emoticon. |
Romance / Re: A Common Picture Caused My Break Up With This Guy by Deida: 2:07pm On Jan 20, 2012 |
kelz88: Like you are saying the right thing. It is taking forever. Are we broken up or what, let me know and move on and he won;t say anything. kpolli: I have seen him once after the picture incident and he was so happy to see me. We tried talking about it, he explained he had told me the setting etc, which I told him but i removed it and apologized. He kept asking me things about telling my mum about him and all. I thought it was resolved but the cold shoulders are on again and i cannot see him now. Acidosis: That's what kills me 'cos he had told someone that happened to know me about it and the person told me he mentioned he broke up with me because the "bed room" picture I put and he was supposed to be my bf etc but I was confused "cos he still kept on messaging me and all. I'm so confused. |
Romance / Re: A Common Picture Caused My Break Up With This Guy by Deida: 1:49pm On Jan 20, 2012 |
kpolli: Ok he told me, I removed it and changed the pic, yet he is still behaving somehow referring to the pic plus we have spent a lot of time together and he knows and sees me in person so why would a picture like this make him be so cold? I have asked him the problem several times, that he is distant that if it is to break up, he should tell me, we would still be friends. He would not say anything and would just send me a "Hug" emoticon. He is making me look so bad calling it "bedroom picture" Really? Is it that serious? That the picture should have been only between the both of us and not other guys. |
Romance / Re: A Common Picture Caused My Break Up With This Guy by Deida: 1:42pm On Jan 20, 2012 |
kelz88: I should trust you not to do that 'cos there is no reason. |
Romance / Re: A Common Picture Caused My Break Up With This Guy by Deida: 1:38pm On Jan 20, 2012 |
Tosinville: Pls send ur email @ all I'm just worried whether I crop my face out, i have friends that are nairalanders as well and they would know it's me |
Romance / Re: A Common Picture Caused My Break Up With This Guy by Deida: 1:33pm On Jan 20, 2012 |
kpolli: Sent |
Romance / Re: A Common Picture Caused My Break Up With This Guy by Deida: 1:23pm On Jan 20, 2012 |
Please any of you should drop your email, let me send you the picture and then you could judge from it. kpolli: What ultimatum did I give? Hye-Bits: Do you want to see the picture? |
Romance / Re: A Common Picture Caused My Break Up With This Guy by Deida: 11:47am On Jan 20, 2012 |
randyorton: Can I please send the picture to you privately. Skeptical about putting it here on nairaland. i want you to judge and then come on here to testify. And that is why I admitted and apologized to him and removed it, is that enough to still be mad at me especially when the relationship is new plus he knows me better than that. Who else would like to see the picture and judge for me? Don't want to put it here on nairaland. |
Romance / A Common Picture Caused My Break Up With This Guy by Deida: 10:12am On Jan 20, 2012 |
After putting a pic of me on BBM with me on a bed sitting down with a dress that my guy didn't like, I removed it and apologized but he has changed. I now asked him if we were broken up so I know and can move on or at least still be friends because of the emotional shut down but he doesn't want to answer that. At this point, i've decided to let him be and not initiate anything again. Hope i'm making the right choice. |
Romance / Re: Pls My People What Could Possibly The Cause Of His Shut Down? by Deida: 8:07pm On Jan 17, 2012 |
Mynd_44: What kind of game would he be playing. We were dating but he was always bringing up things like "have I told my parents about him?", "If i think he would make a good son in law" etc and he asked me if I loved him and I said yes so what games is he here to play? I don't get. The relationship/dating is still too new for all these. |
Romance / Re: Pls My People What Could Possibly The Cause Of His Shut Down? by Deida: 7:33pm On Jan 17, 2012 |
Mynd_44: Walk as in walk out of the relationship? |
Romance / Pls My People What Could Possibly The Cause Of His Shut Down? by Deida: 7:27pm On Jan 17, 2012 |
I recently met this guy late last year like November who according to me, we were friends then perhaps began dating but he wanted a full relationship with me being his girlfriend which I accepted this January. We had a small misunderstanding with me not acknowleging him on my BBM and he felt I was putting some pics that would attract men which they were not that serious but I removed them because of him. After he had asked me if I loved him and I said yes and the pictures incident, I have noticed him shut down. He doesn't call or text me as much as he used to and when I saw him on one occasion, I asked him why and he said he wanted to see if as his girl I missed and loved him. I thought after confirming that I did, things would change but I'm still noticing the shut down. I don't know what to do, If i should just ignore him quietly or what would be the best thing for me to do? |
Romance / Re: Ladies How Can You Help Upgrade/swag Up A/your Man? by Deida: 12:09am On Jan 10, 2012 |
slimyem: Thank you for this! Noted, |
Romance / Re: Ladies How Can You Help Upgrade/swag Up A/your Man? by Deida: 11:22pm On Jan 09, 2012 |
apocalypse: |
Romance / Re: Ladies How Can You Help Upgrade/swag Up A/your Man? by Deida: 5:22pm On Jan 09, 2012 |
iice: I concur!!! Spotted, MsDarkSkin: Seconded!!! Mrs, Chima: See her mouth you like good things o Also it's not really about his style or wearing flashy things. A guy can wear a simple tee shirt and jeans and still look very good with some swag and simple, just Behind him up a little. |
Romance / Re: Ladies How Can You Help Upgrade/swag Up A/your Man? by Deida: 4:11pm On Jan 09, 2012 |
Mrs, Chima: he even said it with himself that he wants to improve the way he looks as in add body a lil, work out, His dress sense isn't that bad but he can improve to have a little swag, I dont think that's bad. |
Romance / Ladies How Can You Help Upgrade/swag Up A/your Man? by Deida: 3:52pm On Jan 09, 2012 |
There is this guy I met, very financially stable, God fearing, good family background, good guy, good career etc but the problem is he lacks swag and his dress sense, just there. Someone told me I could help Behind him up a little, working out and all but I don;t know how to go about it without making him feel bad. Guys do you feel bad if your/a lady wants to change you in this aspect? |
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