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HealthRe: Being An Albino Nigerian VIDEO by DejiSantos: 3:02pm On Jan 08, 2018
Good video
FamilyRe: Is Smacking Your Children The Best Way Of Discipline? by DejiSantos(op): 2:59pm On Jan 08, 2018
I'm not asking anyone elses opinion.

I'm asking yours?

mrphysics:
I made it clear that I do not need anyone's opinion on that.
CultureRe: Are Nigerian Parents Too Strict? (share Your Experiences) by DejiSantos(op): 11:26am On Jan 08, 2018
And rightfully so

RedboneSmith:
Spanking is still legal in many first world countries.
FamilyRe: Is Smacking Your Children The Best Way Of Discipline? by DejiSantos(op): 11:21am On Jan 08, 2018
So where do you draw the line at abuse?

Or is abuse not a word in your vocabluary.

mrphysics:
Anyone's decision is irrelevant here. I will flog/beat my children whenever I dim it necessary to correct them using that method. I don't care how it is done in US, Ghana or Germany.
CultureRe: IMO Vs ANAMBRA In Nigerian Cookoff Show. (pick Your Side) by DejiSantos(op): 6:54pm On Jan 07, 2018
Hahahahahaha

Probz:
Not when it’s made like that. Sorry.
FamilyRe: Is Smacking Your Children The Best Way Of Discipline? by DejiSantos(op): 6:54pm On Jan 07, 2018
I agree.

sodiqapril:
it depends, but excessive beating sometimes hardens children. it instills the mindset of "beating doesn't kill " in them. I think the best way to discipline a child is by speaking sense into his head though there are some children that spoken words have no effect on them. at the end it all boils to the nature of the child. some children might need more spanking less speaking and vice versa.
CultureRe: Are Nigerian Parents Too Strict? (share Your Experiences) by DejiSantos(op): 5:11pm On Jan 07, 2018
Because I will not agree with you ridiculous assertions lol

Probz:
Shut up man. Pissing me off.
TravelRe: New Series About Igbo Youth Living Outside Of Nigeria And Their Stories. by DejiSantos: 2:32pm On Jan 07, 2018
FamilyRe: Is Smacking Your Children The Best Way Of Discipline? by DejiSantos(op): 2:29pm On Jan 07, 2018
I'm against it.

Preetiex:
dat is y we are Nigerians even d bible approve of it
CultureRe: Are Nigerian Parents Too Strict? (share Your Experiences) by DejiSantos(op): 12:20pm On Jan 07, 2018
White people dont have culture?

Probz:
There’s a reason oyinbo people don’t have culture. It’s not just their melanin that’s peeled off.
CultureRe: Are Nigerian Parents Too Strict? (share Your Experiences) by DejiSantos(op): 10:57am On Jan 07, 2018
Theres a reason why European nations are less violent.

Normalising violence from young with smacking is not good.

Im sure you cam out fine. Buy you might have come out better if your parents had spoken to you instead of hitting you.



Probz:
But it’s not a bad way either. I would’ve turned out a lot worse if my mum was scared of putting me in check. There’s a reason oyibo people don’t always respect their parents.
CultureRe: Are Nigerian Parents Too Strict? (share Your Experiences) by DejiSantos(op): 8:50am On Jan 07, 2018
As Nigerian as you.

I just don't believe that adults beating kids is a progressive way of raising children.

Probz:
Assault or discipline?

Are you an oyibo?
CultureRe: Are Nigerian Parents Too Strict? (share Your Experiences) by DejiSantos(op): 8:49am On Jan 07, 2018
I'm as Nigerian as you.

I just don't believe grown ups beating minors is the best method of raising children.

Probz:
Assault or discipline?

Are you an oyibo?
CultureRe: Igbo Man Discusses Why There Will Never Be A Biafra by DejiSantos(op): 1:48am On Jan 07, 2018
hmmm

SilverChinedu:
biafra is a real possibility
FamilyIs Smacking Your Children The Best Way Of Discipline? by DejiSantos(op): 1:12am On Jan 07, 2018
Young Nigerians discuss smacking and what effect it had on them and whether there are more effective ways of discipline.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NSFEeqZH8VA
CultureRe: Are Nigerian Parents Too Strict? (share Your Experiences) by DejiSantos(op): 1:08am On Jan 07, 2018
Being in Nigeria makes assaulting children okay?

Probz:
Assault. LMAO. This is Nigeria we’re talking about.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Suo Igbo Online by DejiSantos: 12:36am On Jan 07, 2018
Do I need to speak Igbo?
RomanceRe: Igbo Woman Discusses Her Experiences Growing Up With Yoruba Men by DejiSantos: 12:25am On Jan 07, 2018
Bawoni >cheesy
CultureRe: Are Nigerian Parents Too Strict? (share Your Experiences) by DejiSantos(op): 12:24am On Jan 07, 2018
There are other ways to teach your child without assaulting them.

staytravel:
Disagree for what?? Some of these guys are utterly clueless!
CultureRe: Are Nigerian Parents Too Strict? (share Your Experiences) by DejiSantos(op): 6:15pm On Jan 06, 2018
I disagree.

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staytravel:
To be honest, they should all go back to Nigeria, is because they are there that they can say such things.
SO your parents dont say I love you. But you know they love sha.
EducationRe: Is Smacking Your Children The Best Way Of Discipline? by DejiSantos(op): 6:14pm On Jan 06, 2018
Agreed.

staytravel:
It is good that they are discussing this, another thing which can be discussed is mental illness.
A lot of Africans, Nigerians don't do this enough.
EducationRe: Is Smacking Your Children The Best Way Of Discipline? by DejiSantos(op): 5:07pm On Jan 06, 2018
On what?

Studentcosmos:
It depends
EducationRe: Is Smacking Your Children The Best Way Of Discipline? by DejiSantos(op): 3:55pm On Jan 06, 2018
You don't think someone can abuse their child with beatings?

babyfaceafrica:
no line... The same
EducationRe: Is Smacking Your Children The Best Way Of Discipline? by DejiSantos(op): 3:40pm On Jan 06, 2018
What is the line between smacking and abuse for you then?

babyfaceafrica:
Yes
CultureRe: IMO Vs ANAMBRA In Nigerian Cookoff Show. (pick Your Side) by DejiSantos(op): 3:40pm On Jan 06, 2018
No just a fan lol

Probz:
Hold up, are you the omalicha who cooked that correct yam porridge?
EducationIs Smacking Your Children The Best Way Of Discipline? by DejiSantos(op): 3:29pm On Jan 06, 2018
Panel weigh in on African parents and the hitting of children.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NSFEeqZH8VA
RomanceRe: Igbo Woman Discusses Her Experiences Growing Up With Yoruba Men by DejiSantos: 3:09pm On Jan 06, 2018
Yoruba men are amazing!

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