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In this 21st century? Winch dem sef dey busy dey facebook and tweet jor. No time for time

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It will not be destroyed. Everything will turn out for the best. Watch and see.

All those will mean nothing if Christians live by the examples set by Christ. Let your character and attitude do the evangelism and people will see your light shine so bright and will wish to partake of it.
But come o, does this include call for prayers from the mosques too?

Seems like they cleaned up before the photoshoot
Or the woman did not have tear plus maybe the placenta is still inside.

PinkBarbie:
Seen something like this before?

Researched it when we were expecting our kids

They still have a midwife/Duala around. Yes they are in charge but they have someone who is experienced and professional birth attendant hanging around incase they need help at any point in time during the birthing process. It is called a home birth. This is home water birth.

But yes! Women are strong beings

She is not all by herself. She has a midwife around.

Hallelujah!

The hunter is about to be hunted. Detol una go soon learn.
I feel your pain brother.

Toks2008:
Women are their own worst enemies.

A sexually decent single mum of 2 children is better than a sexually reckless single lady with no child.

Exactly. Women have learnt to be their own police.

blesoh:
If she can't understand with you,let her sponsor her trip.

Hahaha, you harsh O. But OP is the one in this shii, there are things he may avoid to say for the sake of peace. Me think he should just tell her okay, let us pray and hope that God provides before then.
I am sure OP knew his wife loves Owanbe even before marriage O he was thinking she will reason it herself and calm down after marriage.
Eh, OP, na so some women be. Hug your honey today and give her a nice mother's day gift. And tell her you are working on her trip

Toks2008:
Remnant of three men?

is that really an issue? many ladies are remnant of 10 men or more.

You can imagine o. Coming from a fellow woman too.

ClassCaptain:
make God protect and enrich you.

Amen. Thank you

yusufyusuf1:
wife dey hustle husband dey house dey feed their pinkin God this shall not be my potion

So a father feed him pikin mean say the father has lost his manhood? What kind of sons are women producing in Nigeria?

Is it today?wow many things no dey enter man pikin mind these days o. Anyho, my momsie don go the land of the unseen ones. So wishing all those mamas still hanging here with us Happy Mama day.

adipemcanis1:
Stop right there. What do you mean you were expecting to pass? Unless you had expo before the exam?

Keep in mind that you may have answered the questions wrongly.....

P.S: Maybe we have to go back to the good old days....when people wrote WASC O and A level.

Only those who passed WASC O level at a certain level (not 5 credits!)....went to A level....and only those who passed A level at a certain cutoff went to University.

I support this move. Nigerian educational system is a cursed joke. Depriving our youth knowledge and our society, development. How can a nation advance with such idiotic and evil minded educational system? We always import foreign brains to do advanced technological work in Naija because we can not produce adequate man and brain power. Shame on those in charge.

but she no talk bad na. She is promoting the ministry of Naija women. She clearly said she will not let a man hit it. That it is reserved even though it is the sweetest.

Kity Kat? This girl na nairalander O. See what Seuns auto correct has caused?

lezz:

Women are societally conditioned .....
This is the well-worn excuse I'm always treated to whenever i raised an age-long human code of behaviour.

Only _prostitutes can have sex without emotional entanglement. The average woman out there isn't programmed for that.

The everyday woman is more of an emotional cheat than a physical one. Flings and crushes she could have alright and it usually revolve in the realms of fantasy and daydreaming which they find more enthralling than the physical experience itself.



It is of no masterful reckoning that were women to have the same sexual drive and indiscretion as men do, the parentage of the entire human race will be lost in the quagmire of her raging hormones.

Brother, testosterone and estrogen no be mate as far as sexual drive is concerned.

Evidently, the natural women will need emotion to really tangle, that's why they are emotional creatures.


Know this, any woman properly circumcised by her man will always squinch in disgust to another man's physical advances.


Abi, society also condition women not to ever forget their proper deflowerers too?

Evolution covered her for a purpose, bro.

She'll cry and let out blood, her drawbridge will be lowered and her temple shall receive a devout whose offering and worship will mark her being forever.

Is this what you experienced or what you were thought to believe? Many women beg to differ. As usual, you are telling me what you have been conditioned to believe. Many men believe they know the ways and life of women more than women themselves.
All you stated goes to prove what I said. Because women have been subjected to a certain expectation and character for centuries, it is only normal that they act and behave instinctively how the society expects them to behave. For to do otherwise, would reduce their chances for survival and reproduction which is the main force guiding every living thing.
Lock up kids male and female and tell them they are designed to serve and make a certain group of people happy. Deny those kids every right and make sure they have no say in the midst of their masters. Keep this going since the creation of Adam and never change the rule. Then watch and see if generations, after generations from those kids will not be wired to act according to the conditioning of their ancestors. Does that mean they were created to be that way by God?


What you call evidence is the result of centuries of brain washing and mind control. Yes women need love but news flash! So do men. My point was, if you remove the stigma that says any woman that sleeps with a man that is not her husband is a LovePeddler and condition girl children that they are being natural and adventurous by sleeping with any man that catches their fancy. Believe me, they will lose that feeling of being cheap, dirty and loose. Their concience will not let them cringe when they sleep with a fellow they are not married to. They have been conditioned to act that way. Its like a man conditioned to not cheating in marriage or not killing any living thing. When he does any of the above he becomes uncomfortable.

Just like children are conditioned by parents to behave a certain way so that they can have control over the family. Children were not wired that way. They were not born obidient or disobedient they were wired to be that way by their parents and the society at large. And even though they want to do otherwise, their trained instinct makes them remember how they are supposed to and expected to behave and act as kids. This conditioning keeps them in check even when mom and dad are not there.

repogirl:
Can HIV now be contracted via swallowing / licking stuff?

Yes.

alanposh:
I so much appreciate your advice...



am not sitting down.. everyday I pray n go out there n submit my CV...

secondly I face a task of carrying much responsibilities cos am the first child .. my siblings though all in diff universities are already looking up to me for one thing or the other Buh I keep promising them to hold on..

I understand you. I know you are not sitting down physically I am sorry if I sounded so. When you blame people it seems as though you have taken a sit spiritually. God is able. He is in you. Na prayer we go use follow you. Silver or gold I have none.

lezz:
Women will always attach love and sexual loyalty together. It's in their genes and natural disposition --- the unblemished ones that is.

Because that is what they have been programmed to believe. Keep your virginity for the one man who will love and respect you. That is all a girl hears from birth and that ideology sticks in her head. It's like if you are born a racist in a racially biased society with so called proof, scientific, religious and otherwise and someone says all those proofs are not correct that people of the other race are as smart and blessed as yours. Even if you can do it and not be jailed how easy will it be for you to change that mentality? Then people will do research and say so so group of people are wired to hate on other races. With all the proof you believe you have, and what you see and hear around you that seem to be supporting the racist theory. How easy will you change?
A woman can have flings as well as a man. They just can't because they will be called hoes and bitches when found out. And that may spoil their chances of getting another partner in future. Men on the other hand do not face such pressures.

FTBOY:
i don't support married men cheating......but you must understand that most men who cheat do not share the same emotional feelings they have for their wives with the girls they meet outside. it's simply what they do out of curiosity....and it ends immediately such curiosity is satisfied. on the other hand, a woman's achilles heel is getting your dick in her pvssy for the first time..........because fvcking her subsequently would be very much easy. that's the reason some married women still run after their exes, especially when the husbands can't do it better. no hate, but they can be silly like that

I never argued about that fact all I ever said was that a woman could do same too. So it is not a man only thing. If a woman can control her urges or is expected to do so, then a man can also do same.

Na wetin monkey dey chop, dem use catch monkey.
Both him and the girl need to repent.

Kondomatic:
Nah everybody God create?


Methinks people like Kim K, Maheeda, Afro Candy and there likes were created by Satan on the seventh day while God was resting.

Hahaha, na God create them all O. Because one day dem fit turn around and call on God for mercy and him go accept them as they are and make dem new again in spirit.

Moana:
I hope you speed up the process. Make sure its something you can afford to start up too. Once she knows how hard it is earn something she will start spending wisely

I thought of this but I know some women with this I dont care mentality will still hide their own income and demand from their husbands the full amount they need for partying. But yes, she should get busy too.

Nowadays, I see God in everyone, thus it is not a wise move to mock anyone. For in mocking a person, I am as well mocking God in them.

Hian, na wetin dey happen for naija o.

None! The man is a husband and a son. He should not be shared like a piece of meat. He can decide to leave both mom and wife and none will arrest him for doing that. He is a person an individual and as such belongs to none.
Now if the question is 'Mother or wife whom should a man first attend/pay more attention to ' then we may have a debate

Ferraricash:
so u be person papa not person mama, bros u should know it's high time our Nigerian wives needs to understand that the economy is not smiling on anyone, I recently told a family friend who stays abroad that, If you want to commit suicide just get on a plane and land in nigeria at the current state of economy,that's suicidal

Hahaha, very true talk.

God help us all. Look, do not sit down and look for whom to blame. People play their role in our lives according to the directions from God. If no one responds to the first one, then try again and keep an open mind. Wrap your request with love and genuine feelings of hope. Know exactly what you want and pray. Do not blame anyone, it is the begining of a persons downfall.
That woman that was helped, that is her own turn to be helped designed by God himself. It wasnt because she is a woman. Keep faith and keep on pressing on. Maybe your redeemer was not around when you made the first, the second, third and fourth pleas. Maybe he will meet the 10th. What then becomes of you if you start blaming people on the 4th and quit?
You will smile soon. Remember to come back to let us know about it

Ferraricash:
you should understand what I mean, some women are party freaks and they can too disturb their husband for cloth money, bag money, shoe money , gele money infact dance money. Abeg person wife ,U don't have to be everywhere

Hahaha, I dey help women fight this war wey naija boys dey wage against them na. Too many women this, women that. I get daughter na, if we no wage this war, my daughter could end up marrying a bad apple

If money no spare for her to go that party, tell her say she no pray well. Say she no dey support you as a wife is supposed to do blame her for that