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What if you and your best friend have been through a lot and you could almost lay down your life for her?
What if your best friend has been complaining that she suspects her man to be cheating on her but she has no idea who the girl is?
What if you and your best friend have planned to find out who the girl is and deal with her?
What if you find out that the girl your best friend's man has been sleeping with is your younger sister?
Will you tell your best friend or will you lie to her? Will you protect your sister? What would you do?

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Nice.

Zykod:
Tell her to master her emotions and thoughts. Relationships don't go smoothly the entire lifespan of most relationships. This is an excuse to harbor grudge, if she has sense, she will let it go, otherwise she can bail and start a new search ( But what's the guaranty the next one won't do the same? Love comes with risks, tell her this.

Wahs dis one now?

thorpido:
Dey dia dey deceive yasef.

That's what I thought too but it's hard for her. She Don dey cry since.

Olalan:
I just don't subscribe to the idea of fighting for love, if the man truly loves and respect her he would not continue with the relationship with the other girl after been caught. Except she wants to play second fiddle she should face the reality of the guy no longer loving her.

My friend says she loves the guy. That's the problem.

thorpido:
It's you Op,isn't it?
You still want to remain with a cheat?

... Meaning gini?

sweetetlove:
Its always a friend's story

I like this.

fuckerstard:
She should put more effort, tell her to keep the pressure on her bf otherwise husband snatcher would stop at nothing.

She should call the girl and tell her she going to kill her with juju if she no leave her man.

How? She's trying her best na? Will she now kill herself for the guy??

fuckerstard:
She should put more effort

... Ammunitions?? Ewo.

vengedre:
Yes!!! She should even buy ammunitions

I have a friend who has been in a relationship with this guy for close to three years. Recently, the guy protects his phone like his life depends on it and his behavior got my friend worried. She then took his phone when he was in the bathroom and went through his text messages and whatsapp messages only to see disturbing text messages and chats between her man and another girl. My friend knows the girl even though they haven’t really met. There were so many love messages between my friend’s man and the girl. My friend was heart broken and she confronted her man who admitted that he was seeing the girl but they have already broken up and he only cheated because he was confused. My friend forgave him and continued the relationship. The thing now is that she doesn’t trust him anymore and she keeps going through his phone and from the messages on his phone, it seems her man is still seeing the girl. She doesn’t know if she should confront her man again or harass the girl. She really loves her man and doesn’t wanna lose him. I advised her to just chill and not talk to the girl but I’m beginning to think that wasn’t a very good advice. What do you guys advice? Should she fight for her man or just pretend like he is not cheating on her?

...please don't kill me with laugh

anuofia:
when I called you won't allow me to listen to ur callertunez!you pick up instantly,!you re anxious and too selfish!it over

Jesus!!!

Headlesschicken:
You've gat serious mouth odour n v been cool wiv it cos d $ex x great buh i can't take it anymore,gotta take a walk it hurts me as i do this,buh i would always b praying 4u...

Lol...Oga u need Jesus

coolestofall:
Y na? She too will run on her own when she notices little guy does not operate authomatic anymore. She will b tired of manual booting.

Ifa catch you and that your pastor ehn

purem:
"Bae my pastor told me there's no future for both of us in marriage

He said staying in this relationship with you is dragging my destiny backward, am sorry bae"


If this post finally get to FP ehn


CRAZY COMMENTS LOADING..........

Shift lemme faint.

Purebeerry:
Anything I say you accept, you don't argue, I feel you are cheating cos you are way too nice, its over between us.

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Hahaha. If the girl kills you, I won't blame her.

coolestofall:
My dick n ur pussy r no longer compatible, I need an upgrade.

This is one topic that always cracks me up whenever it comes up.
When you think you've had enough of your boyfriend or girlfriend and you want your freedom, what lines do you use? Apart from the conventional 'its not you, its me' or 'You are such a nice person and you deserve someone better' lines, I have heard some really bleeped up lines.
'I saw you in my dream and you were holding another man's hand with a ring on your finger and so I'm breaking up with you so you can find that man'. I know it sounds crazy but this line was actually used on me and I can't seem to understand it till today. Hilarious���.
Dude, if you are tired of a girl, just tell her you wanna break up cos its not working for you but dragging God and your dreams into it is just too low.
Here's another one, 'I don't want to be blocking your way because you are ripe for marriage'. Heard this from a friend.
I mean all these breakup lines are just stupid and they make the breakup hurt more.
Maybe people come up with these silly breakup lines because their partners need a solid reason why they are being dumped. What do you think? And what's the worst breakup line you have used on someone or has been used on you?

In other words, rape victims should go hang themselves. Or they can't have a chance to get married and be happy because someone decided to take it by force.

ubunja:
if she was raped then she is worse.coz she can never trust a man again or feel safe with a man.she is damaged beyond repair.in her mind a man is the devil.
if i walk from sluts,then i run from rape victims.they have been psychologically massacred. i cant be with a woman who gets rape flashbacks when i touch her.or freezes when i suprise her with a hug from behind coz she still has rape visions and issues. i really cant.i need someone with a fresh outlook on men and life.

Bad guy.

bitchcrafts:
For somebody with my kind of mentality, don't you think I will have test run the package before I agree to put a ring on it?

I agree with you.

BenShammer:
Spot on. I wonder why people lay so much emphasis on virginity not chastity. The presence of a hymen does not prevent a girl from giving countless guys blowjobs, being fingered, humping her private part on a guy's organ or even taking it from the back. If a guy's obsession with virginity is to be with a girl that hasn't been intimate with many guys, then he's just deceiving himself

I hope you ain't having sex with any girl now and contributing to the enlargement of her 'borehole'.

MatricNumber:
if it requires me just a night of 'going slow'. Then i'm so satisfied. Even if it a week of 'going slow'. Its better i 'go slow' for the first time and enjoy tight sex with my wife henceforth. Than entering borehole all the time. The space in some ruined vag1nas is enough to hide samsung galaxy tab.

I don't have to justify myself cos I ain't ashamed of anything.

IamHeWrites:
Trying to justify yourself for losing your virginity?

And what if the girl was raped. Your mind is so closed.

ubunja:
since gals lose their virginity to men not ghosts WHY DONT YOU ASK THOSE EXACT MEN YOU GAVE YOUR VIRGINITY TO MARRY YOU?
were they only good enough to get your virginity to but not good enough to marry you?
any man that marries a woman not a virgin is a loser who is paying for what others got for free.

Love your ideas.

bitchcrafts:
The highlighted is where the problem is MrBrownJay1.
If you've ever fallen in Love and have nurtured a relationship that lasted, you should agree that Love induces some sort of amnesia tendencies. People happen to forget the specifics after an active while and tend to hang on to hope when things begin to crumble presumably becos theyre so used to that one's company and hv built an imaginary future castle with that one playing active role in it with their mind. Even when the relationship crashes, one's still going away with a portion of that person and when one heals from the effect of the crash, the scars are still there and a part of one still wish things had worked out. That doesn't seem like a fade away to me, it seems more of letting go of your favorite meal the doctor said you should stop eating and that doesn't also have to mean you've stopped loving that food...

I was shocked when I heard the story of a man who ended his marriage with his new wife because he found out she wasn't a virgin as he had thought. I was baffled and I thought, when a woman loses her virginity before marriage, has she also lost her capacity to love and care for her husband and family or the ability to be a good wife and helpmate to her husband?.
I know some guys who say they must get married to virgins and I always ask them who would marry the ones they have screwed.
Virginity they say is the pride of a woman. I'm not going to argue that and I'm really proud of those that are able to keep theirs till marriage. Still, I have seen men who had terrible marriages even though they married virgins and I have also seen men who ended up in blissful marriages even though they got married to non virgins. Virginity has nothing to do with a woman's attitude. That she is not a virgin doesn't make her a LovePeddler or doesn't mean she has slept with a hundred men and have had a hundred abortions.
Girls lose their virginities to men not ghosts under different circumstances. Some were deceived, some were raped, some gave it up out of love, some just lost it because they wanted to. None of these make non virgins bad people or potential bad wives. Its all in the attitude.
I honestly do not think virgins have any advantage over non virgins or what do you think?

Kai...God bless you.

MrBrownJay1:
some people are funny indeed... although we fall in love, it doesnt mean we love foolishly regadless of acts and issues between you both. there are specific reason why you fell in love with a person, and so long as these foundations are in place, love will remain. the minute that person is NOT the same on any of these important foundations of love, then automatically any smart person must re-evaluate their stand on that union.....and love will start to fade away.

example: you fell in love with him because of his good heart, great humble character and gentle spirit, yet after a few yrs, he turns into a bitter abusive demon, do you seriously think that the love will still be present? of course not, it would have died a natural slow death. the sad issue here is that some people are so hell bent on hanging unto love that they will stay around these demons, and try to reignite the fire of the old days, while its just IMPOSSIBLE.

Exjoker:
One of my gf whom I love very well decided to move to another town since I then we haven't communicated whatsoever. You see, Love was never alive talk more of dying.

I'm so tempted to agree with you. The whole love thing sucks.

music4me:
Love Is A Scam.

So true.

MrBrownJay1:
if you dont water a flower, then it will naturally die, same with love.