₦airaland Forum

Interesting15:
Romantic relationship with the opposite gender has placed many young folks into grevious issues that has left terrible indelible scars on a lot of them; while some have been unfortunately sent directly or indirectly to their early graves by these sweet-turned-sour affairs.


The core reason young people will keep having unpleasant experiences from boyfriend and girlfriend romantic relationships is because it was never in the original Will and Plan of God - the Wise Creator of everything, in the first place.


The Will of God is that when a man (not a boy) has attained a certain stature where marriage can be embraced, (after such a man has discovered his identity and purpose on earth), He (God) should be approached to provide a woman (not a girl) who will become his wife. After God has provided the woman, prior to marriage, the couple embark on what we call courtship, where they learn to know more about themselves (in an attempt to make necessary adjustments before they tie the knot), and must not defile the marriage bed during the courting period (that is, must not indulge in premarital sex).


There are different things that attempts to compell young people into a romantic relationship at the wrong time and in the wrong manner. There will be members of the opposite gender who wants to pull you into a romantic relationship when it's wrong. Your parents might even be an agent of pressure - trying to force you into a relationship directly or indirectly. Your friends and even the media are also prominent agents. Nevertheless, you must be resolute and be patient enough to do the right thing at the right time.


Now, this is one of the major things pushing many young people into premature romantic relationships and entanglements outside God's Will for them. Loneliness (or the fear of it). Two major things sponsors this: idlness and lack of self esteem (thinking you are totally not complete without a partner).


Even at the basic level, an important solution to eradicating loneliness is getting busy and occupied. Now, I'm aware that some (probably many) young people still feel empty even as they are occupied with several jobs. There are several things to say about that. One is, the emptiness they feel might emanates as a result of neglect of certain important things, such as an intimate relationship with God their Creator (which means, in such a case, the problem is not about loneliness). Also, it is possible to be engaged with several things and still feel inadequate, if you are engaging yourself in things that doesn't bring fulfilment (particularly things that are not God's purpose for you).


Hence, two things I've seen worked for me as well as some other persons I know, are:

1. Being very occupied with seeking and knowing GOD
2. Being very occupied with purpose exploration

A primary function of man is to seek, know and keep exploring God. The truth is, God is very deep and inexhaustible. Even the 24 elders who have been with Him for ages, are yet to know all about Him. And I must tell you, GOD is very exciting, and we can't have enough of Him. Focus on knowing God and you won't be empty. You will get to a stage where you enjoy spending hours alone with God in the secret place, and you enjoy God's presence, always looking forward to the daily experience. The first step is to make Jesus Christ your Lord and Savior.


Finally, get busy with discovering yourself, your talents and gifts and purpose, and occupy yourself with developing and deploying. These things brings fulfilment, and you won't have time for unproductive affairs.

If you are in an immoral relationship with a member of the opposite gender, break it immediately. Receive grace to do so in Jesus Name. Amen.

sundayakanni.com

Please back up all your stories with Biblical verses supporting them else they're all just your imagination

lebron7:
Most Nigerians have extremely low iq and they try their best not to gain knowledge

Imagine the fools above claiming NDA is for only northerners
The ignoramuses don't know that each state has an equal amount of admission slot

Let me correct you there, all states don't have same number of slot and even if they do, are all the zones having equal number of states? There's gross in-equilibrium of things in the Nigerian state and let's not always shy away from this injustice

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No wonder we dey treat typhoid every other month. Smh

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Ilaumoh:
Nonsense and ingredients.. Next time ask your brother to develop only your village

Your Principal will be exposed after his time in office, so much spent yet so little to show.
I just tracked you a d I realised that you're just a t*ut with an android phone and an educated illiterate.
If you continue this rubbish you will see me face to face when you're in cuffs just so you know there are boys and there are MEN.

Ilaumoh:
shut up there , why didn’t your brother Akpabio do it for your village and when didn’t your bush village became a standard for measuring Udom achievement in government..

You really don't know how to speak in public right?
You don't know whom you're talking to and you spit out trash.
I hope you were paid well last month by your political paymasters??
Don't ever tell me to shut up else I'll seek you out and take legal action against you. Be warned!!! �

bolanto24:
Nice one. I wish my governor Douye Diri will take a cue from this. Akwa Ibom has always had good leaders.

You say Akwa Ibom has always done what?!!!
The road he is constructing in my Local government is taking over 3 years now still at stone base stage.

ogastanlee:
Don’t you think that at this point we should talk abt my consultation fee. LOL.

I guessed right. Lol
Alright you can do this as a pro bono then we'll discuss business next time ✌️

ogastanlee I would like you to be talk about the following:

1. Legality of the mode of entry to his home(focusing on if he can be searched without a warrant at home duly signed by the court).

2. If found and established that in the course to his arrest there were breach of law or rights from the government agencies, can the case be heard in the court?

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Zico777
A simple question. Have you ever seen an armed soldier inside the banking hall? No because it's an organisational laid down rule and no single person is supposed to be greater than an organisation.

kereman1:
FG don suffer. Everyone is talking tough to her. What a shame.

Na see finish cause am....

You have no idea what a government should be like

We are just in a country where we play squid game looking for how to oust someone at every point.
You just said she's intelligent.
My country is just a sh*t hole. If she had gone ahead to ask for another paper then another employer would say she doesn't have good management skills.
This is how we tend to lose good manpower.

Idamond
Take a drop of kerosene and put in the affected area you'll immediately start to feel the soothing relief

NGpatriot:
I know patriotism to people like you mean acts of terrorism like burning and destroying public and private infrastructures, killing law enforcement people, same thing you are currently doing in your ipob villages, killing doctors, students, burning up businesses and other people's means of livelihood.

I know your kind very well.

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NGpatriot:
If den born you terrorist well, show face anywhere near that toll gate.

I can see how patriotic you are
Spitting fire to your citizens because they are demanding for what is right?
You don't want us to divide, then if we must stay together it must be better or best for us all.
That is what I want for me and my children unborn.

Philipponzaghi:
Lekki massacre lol.

Who will they now be doing remembrance for when the victims are unknown since 1 year ago?

Personally I think the theme of the protest should be changed. EndSarz sound dumb because SARS was already abolished and 1 year after there is still no SARS.

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Favfables:
In the absence of a will, the next inline to inherit a deadman properties is his next of kin...

And sometimes people use different names as next of kin for different stuff, for instance, when opening a bank account, I can use you as next of kin and then not use you as next or kin when I get a land(or make a business transaction)...

Their best bet is to know who the next of kin is in the individual property of the man...

I disagree with you.
Next of kin is someone that can be contacted in a case of emergency and has nothing to do with inheritance.

Iyaebe I'll advice you seek legal counsel and forget what everyone except the Lawyers on here will tell you.

flyca
Let me be honest with you.
To follow up this case is as easy as it can get but it'll cost you money and time. If she wants to catch the thieves just be ready to spend like 100k and get to work. Local police is always crucial to this and then follow up the case with the DSS they'll pick them up like sitting ducks but be sure you'll not get back the money you spent.
Almost everything now has a digital footprint but it's made hard for everyone in our country in the guise of Security intelligence.

flyca:
MTN: She called the MTN customer care service to block her SIM and after explaning the incidence the responser said “Madam, I would like to help you block your line o, but I'm sorry, my supervisor is not on duty now”

There are many things to say o, many anyhowness in Nigeria but I'll wait and read from you guys first.

Thanks

Update:
Thank you all for your helpful comments.
Please how can one password their SIM?

You see that mtn own and Police own na that one I no dey understand.
You call MTN and tell them that you want to block your aim and they'll tell you that they cannot block and you should retrieve it when they know its weekend and you can't retrieve it then.
Another one you go to the Police station and say you want to report a case and they'll be telling you to pay money for entry

This is more than enough reason for �� to evade ��

Walking the student out is more than enough to handle this situation

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"Adjournment" This is the part of judicial process I hate the most and it is what will make people like me who loves to abide by the Law to hate the justice system and same reason people engage in jungle justice. Imagine the resources the state is loosing per individual awaiting trial for years yet we want to curb poverty and if at the end he's found not to be guilty, what happens next??
All the time he wasted who pays for it??
His lost time can never be redeemed.
Let's talk about this......
The country is ours, we are not strangers in our own land.
You may be a victim tomorrow if you don't raise your voice against injustice in the Justice system.

Imagine being arrested for a trumped up charge and you are a sole proprietor to your business and the bread winner and your case is adjourned as such in an alleged case, what then happens to your business and your dependents?? In a country where the 'state' does not have a business friendly environment and the state that lacks social services.

JAMB is no longer sincere in the scores they put up for people.
Previously, everyone had the option of seeing their scores immediately after submission and the scores that year was quite high because the marking was integrated into the questions.
But for reasons best known to them they removed that option

Why don't we change the narrative to production cost in Nigeria ��

Petroleum refining is not a rocket science for God's sake.

Paperbag:
Fullz for sell

Na which kind fullz?
You have my calm permission to DM me for more info on this.

But Bella shmurda says everybody don't fear God, only scared of death......?

SavageResponse:
Do network providers keep records of private conversations?

Yes of course but can't release without a warrant from as they say here “a court of competent jurisdiction".