₦airaland Forum

akwabassey:
is anambra the only state in nigeria? if not why is it that the state has cornered almost 50% of all the good news coming to nigeria leaving just paltry 50% for 35 states to share? there must be more to the word 'anambra'

anambra ayaya

Proudly Nwa Anambra!

multikolour:
I am northerner, I cannot abandoned my family, all our investment is there.

Little wonder why d lady's dressing seems like a taboo to U..

olowoba:
This is a source of concern. I write for a few friends of mine - hardworking and nice guys (30+ years) working in various reputable firms in Nigeria. But 3, 4, 5 years after, they are still searching for the lady of their heart desires. I also notice the trend everywhere I go.

Just as we complain about the growing number of unmarried ladies, I'm also worried abt the growing number of unmarried, comfortable men who are over 30 years.

A case in study is a popular friend of mine who has been working in the oil sector for more than 5 years. He clocks 33 this year. He still remains unmarried. He says he is still searching. I can count more than 10 of my friends - comfortable, hale and healthy, gainfully employed but single after working for more than 5 years..What can be the cause?
Are ladies getting scarce, or is it that there are few "wife materials" in town now? or are they simply afraid of making commitment?

olowoba:
This is a source of concern. I write for a few friends of mine - hardworking and nice guys (30+ years) working in various reputable firms in Nigeria. But 3, 4, 5 years after, they are still searching for the lady of their heart desires. I also notice the trend everywhere I go.

Just as we complain about the growing number of unmarried ladies, I'm also worried abt the growing number of unmarried, comfortable men who are over 30 years.

A case in study is a popular friend of mine who has been working in the oil sector for more than 5 years. He clocks 33 this year. He still remains unmarried. He says he is still searching. I can count more than 10 of my friends - comfortable, hale and healthy, gainfully employed but single after working for more than 5 years..What can be the cause?
Are ladies getting scarce, or is it that there are few "wife materials" in town now? or are they simply afraid of making commitment?

I can say that they ar simply afraid of making commitment due to some fears: the fear of break up/divorces after marriage, the fear of putting a stop to their social life, sleeping with any girl of their thirst, some ve issues taking a life decision. some ar still with d philosophy of ''the beautiful ones are not yet born'' that makes them not very sure of settling down with d woman around them as d ''real'' lady might show up a week after his wedding. Some are simply enjoying singlehood and yet supports their friend's marriage ceremony/child dedication

olowoba:
This is a source of concern. I write for a few friends of mine - hardworking and nice guys (30+ years) working in various reputable firms in Nigeria. But 3, 4, 5 years after, they are still searching for the lady of their heart desires. I also notice the trend everywhere I go.

Just as we complain about the growing number of unmarried ladies, I'm also worried abt the growing number of unmarried, comfortable men who are over 30 years.

A case in study is a popular friend of mine who has been working in the oil sector for more than 5 years. He clocks 33 this year. He still remains unmarried. He says he is still searching. I can count more than 10 of my friends - comfortable, hale and healthy, gainfully employed but single after working for more than 5 years..What can be the cause?
Are ladies getting scarce, or is it that there are few "wife materials" in town now? or are they simply afraid of making commitment?

I can say that they ar simply afraid of making commitment due to some fears: the fear of break up/divorces after marriage, the fear of putting a stop to their social life, sleeping with any girl of their thirst, some ve issues taking a life decision. some ar still with d philosophy of ''the beautiful ones are not yet born'' that makes them not very sure of settling down with d woman around them as d ''real'' lady might show up a week after his wedding. Some are simply enjoying singlehood

yokiti:
A big congratulations to all our fast becoming senior friends.
Appreciating God on your behalf for a successful selfless service to your fatherland; may God reward you all abundandly.
Wishing you guys journey mercies in advance to your various states of abode.
May God be with you all till we meet again. Ciao!

Amen.... Tnx to U

missKiffy:
Did he apply for the job? Cos am wondering how come he was invited for an interview when he knows nothing about it

Good question cos invitations do not jst come without an uploaded interested CV

starlingslimnet:
I tell you

Funny enough! Am not guilty of these lies..

Unwanted341:
Deleted account can you get it back on here?

This question will be relevant and perhaps answered if U go to d Nl general section not romance.

What a cut off dream. Oh Lord! May our dreams never be cut off in Jesus name... Amen. RIP to d dead.

[quote
author=searching4love post=30774359]If they are not sex workers what are they How many of you is
willing to stand by a guy and grow with him believing in his dreams and
potentials All most Nigerian girls want is MONEY, MONEY and more
MONEY Many of you have more than 3 boyfriends you play and get what u
want from all in the name of love. That mentality makes it difficult to
find love because by default every potential girl out there is a
relationship scammer. You complain about guys using u as sexx toys but
isn't sex a mutual enjoyment Sex is natural and it shouldn't be paid
for like most of you make it sound. None of you will stay with someone
who is financially down but will come on social media and preach
[/quote]Oga U know ladies to be sex workers and having more than 3bf yet U are looking for true love? people like U dat call ladies names are actually d most broke ass any lady can date and pretends to love because he is actually down.. one canneva know an humble man when he is poor. can U date a lady who has nothing doing cos I'm sure d first question guys pop up to ladies is ''what do U do for a living'' simply because U wouldnt need a reliability for a gf. so why then will a lady go for a financially broke guy?

searching4love:
If you're not the one that disvirgined her Then I'm sorry you're marrying a HOE

If U ve dat mentality.. u can never find a true love till eternity. wake up and stop seeing ladies as sex hawkers.

searching4love:
If you're not the one that disvirgined her Then I'm sorry you're marrying a HOE

If U ve dat mentality.. u can never find a true love till eternity.

gone are the days when r/ships are built without sex, those times when a lady explicitely defines her r/ship to a guy to be void of sex and there will be mutual agreement.. those are d times when one finds and gets true love. the lady is sure dat her guy do not like her for sex, they play, gist laugh and even sleep on same bed without trespasses... ladies of such time are not money freak. but now a good r/ship is d type in which a lady knows how and what to do on bed, satisfy his man sexually and always at his service whenever he calls for her. what do U expect she ask for in return? Ur heart? abi Ur love? when she is sure dat U ar not even faithful.
if U need a true love define Ur r/ship to be sex free, then she can show U a true love....

i think U should give a brief description of Urself for easy application

my sweet n attractive smiles displaying my sexy tooth gap n d two sided cheek dimples.. perfectly irresistable

papawemba:
And that is why they mess your likes without condom. Nansense

I take an exception to be quoted by Ur kinds. grow up already..

juniormusa:
I like this actor

Same here.. Mike Godson has been the most handsome that I admired so much in nollywood. maybe its due to my high flays for handsome guys esp the ones with red lips... wishing them a sweet romance.

[quote
author=decryptme post=29817012]...a young man in my late 20's, who's
needs a prospective single working class lady in her late 20's for as my
better-half; whose origin is from the South East of Nigeria. Should be
quite tall or of average height; with average body or quite plump, could
be either fair or dark in complexion. Kindly, drop a few lines here:
posts.ben@bk.ru[/quote]unable to check my mail...

Cikoloko:
Not new #patoranking tapping current through his manhood since 50DC

@ Cikoloko.. i saw d notification for d mail U sent but unfortunately could not ascess my mail account.

CFCfan:
That guy was a tad too intrusive! Hope you didn't have nightmares of him

My Dear, thank God that I didn't. lol...

[quote
author=234GT post=29620349]That is what I am saying. You are a queen because a clueless guy who
does not know what dating is all about is desperate about marriage.

Any guy that asks for you genotype so soon should not be good enough to
make you feel like a royal superstar![/quote]U sounded like U are in pains.. or is it Ur nature being envious of people?

234GT:
And you felt like a superstar?

I'm the queen in my kingdom. man...

@op.. very much on point. some guys can be really annoying on chatts that one tends to wonder the specie he is made of. one annoying chatt dat I received yesternight on FB that almost ruin my sleep....
guy: hi... desharon, tnx for accepting me.
me: U ar heartly welcome
guy: Ur profile says dat U graduated frm my sch, wot yr?
me: *no reply..
guy: it also says U ar in lagos, where in lagos?
me: *no reply..
guy: are U working, if U are working what do U do for a living, I mean what kind of work or job do U do?
me: who are are U?
guy: my name is Ola... a very hardworking guy, Godfearing, honest, goodlooking, single and searching. are U single?
me: U ask too much questions, what exactly did U study in school?
I have to turn off the chatt but he wouldn't stop calling n asking me to come online. eventually, I decided to help his lonely self by going online n the next question was.. what is Ur genotype and Ur blood group?
Imagine!

@domstarice.. dis one dat U ar dropping a 2go Id, are U a school boy?
#justaquestion#

GoodFaith:
Sorry
Not all men are willing to sleep with their ex

But he once did..
dnt try to paint the truth. except he refused his responsibilities as d father of those kids. if they remain wit d mother, he tends to visit n as such there would be exchange of phone calls even if it is once in a while. if he decides to take d kids, which d mother may not accept.. she will visit once in a while thereby making that house uncomfortable for the wife. this marriage would work if only d intending couple lives far n in different state with d mother to d kids. in such way.. she can ve her man to herself ONLY.

For as long as those kids exist and their mother remaining single, d guy will for one reason or the other visit the ex who is also the mother of the twins, and U know what that means.. some more ''night stands''
my advice to Ur friend is to give up on that marriage else expect battles of ownership even while they are married.