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 Romance › Re: His New Girlfriend He Found On Nairaland Is A Hunch Back by DExplorer1: 9:44pm On Jul 25, 2013 |
Shollypopz: God gave you a brain so you can use it. It doesn't hurt to think!Your comment is simply ridiculous just as the thread itself. Ok, tell me, after you know the ID, what's next for you? Funny! |
| Romance › Re: His New Girlfriend He Found On Nairaland Is A Hunch Back by DExplorer1: 9:28pm On Jul 25, 2013 |
Shollypopz: If the op doesn't post the ID of the girl in question, then this is all bull shitAsking for her ID to do what? Congratulate her?  |
| Romance › Re: Which Is Your Relationship Status? by DExplorer1: 8:59pm On Jul 25, 2013 |
. . .and this thread keeps producing liars. |
| Romance › Re: Do You Feel Threatened When Others Find Your Partner Attractive, And Why? by DExplorer1: 10:06pm On Jul 24, 2013 |
[quote author=190-the-clown]  hehehe aint no one in his/her right senses would find skydeep attractive the person smoke kola [/quote]Damn! On behalf of Skydeep, you're a hippopotamus |
| Romance › Re: Write A Letter To Your Ex by DExplorer1: 8:36pm On Jul 22, 2013 |
xynerise: I dont have an exHope my dear Skydeep can verify this claim. |
| Business › Re: My Bad Experience with Konga.com and Its Resolution by DExplorer1: 5:50pm On Jul 19, 2013 |
Konga should improve their customer service, it's not about promises but acting it. This thread got their attention and to save their head, they acted. Why allow your customers to wait too long before a response or doing the right thing? Good cover up for this thread anyways. Got nothing against you dudes but such cases should be swiftly avoided. #Kongacares |
| Romance › Re: I Did Something Horrible by DExplorer1: 5:27pm On Jul 19, 2013 |
Hating yourself is the right thing to do now since you went about it your way - the wrong way! An adage says, if we are to burn a snake according to its length, we just might burn a house too. You're a wife and not a street fighter, you got his ring and you're leaving in his house then you should have involved those he respects rather than that ugly scene. That's the problem with most women, they think after acting silly. 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: Guys Who Cheat Love Their Partners More…...evidence!!! by DExplorer1: 5:05pm On Jul 19, 2013 |
alutacontinua:That clown is healing but not -cork-, his own came with a sealed curse |
| Romance › Re: Must He Propose On His Knees And Publicly Too? by DExplorer1: 4:59pm On Jul 19, 2013 |
bennyraz: why should i ever go down on my knees to ask a girl to marry me? it's not in my tradition ooo!! in fact, i go jst call am 4 phone.. ask her do you you wana marry me? talk now or remain silent for the rest of your life.. if she says YES!! i will tell her to go to my house and pick the engagement ring inside one of my shoe.. shekenaAnother reason why NL is fun, we got crazy people all over  |
| Romance › Re: Guys Who Cheat Love Their Partners More…...evidence!!! by DExplorer1: 4:38pm On Jul 19, 2013 |
alutacontinua: Just when i thought u were beginning to get well.Never had a good laugh like this today. Maddening hilarious! Oh goodness. LOL |
| Romance › Re: Dating My Best Friend - Is It A Good Idea by DExplorer1: 12:24pm On Jul 19, 2013*. Modified: 5:32pm On Jul 19, 2013 |
Hit at the topic - I'm sure we don't date our best enemies anyways. But hey, some people are better kept on friendship level. Don't mistake attraction for affection. |
| Romance › Re: How Do You Stop Loving Someone You're Really Not Suppose To Love? by DExplorer1: 9:18pm On Jul 18, 2013 |
Simeoneyituoyo: Help me pls! am in love with someone whom am not suppose to love. l want to stop this feeling. it kills. pls give honest answer.Do the things she hates! More trouble, more distance, love dies. |
| Romance › Re: In Love With A Local Girl! by DExplorer1: 9:09pm On Jul 18, 2013 |
MRbrownJAY: bro, thats what makes her a "local" girl, remove that and you probably have someone completely different. you cannot say:" i like this bush lady, but i will change her so that she has Nikki Minaj swag"....no cant do, lol!A complete different person and a better one. You see bro, these people we call 'archaic' knows the in things but kept to fate because they can't afford them. Being archaic mostly comes with being poor, a comfortable lady understand trends and got 'exposed' friends to enlighten her except she's stucked to religious beliefs. I got your point, but i think this' not about 'changing' a person but 'making' her better; her looks, lifestyle and whatnot. If she's demoded, she could want to be free and 'meet up' if a dude can truly love and be patient for the process. MBJ bro, even village girls knows that living in centuries backward is gross but who's gonna love and help? The issue now is, many of those we never gave a chance are better lovers than those we picked by our supposed 'standards' 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: Simple Steps To Get A Kiss On A First Date by DExplorer1(op): 4:33pm On Jul 17, 2013 |
MRbrownJAY: Bro Dexplorer, come on now, if women were that easy then it wouldnt be fun anymore to chase them. although you made a lot of sense, you failed in the three replies.......let me be the devil's advocate here (or lets just pretend we are dealing with REAL smart babes) as your replies are just too cheap:MBJ bro, the feeling won't permit those questions, trust me! She definitely would know what's coming but you see, that won't be too sudden for her not to have a choice, those steps does it. You could get over your usual and hit on this. You'd thank me |
| Romance › Re: The Dangers Of Cohabitation by DExplorer1(op): 4:22pm On Jul 17, 2013 |
MRbrownJAY: brotha D-explorer, if you want to keep you NL poster of the year crown, you have to stop posting such thread. |
| Romance › Re: The Dangers Of Cohabitation by DExplorer1(op): 4:22pm On Jul 17, 2013 |
MRbrownJAY: brotha D-explorer, if you want to keep you NL poster of the year crown, you have to stop posting such thread.Hahahaha, MBJ bro, i wasn't careful about that. LOL. . . Just making the best of every second i spend on NL, nothing more I think if i'd spend up to 10 years or even more in your world, i would think like you. You guys sees it as a lifestyle, hence, the dangers is also seen as normal relationship troubles but no, it has a source. |
| Romance › Re: GET ANY FEMALE!!! -- 5 Ultimate Swaaga Steps!! by DExplorer1: 10:10pm On Jul 16, 2013 |
[quote author=-Mr Cork-]...how teh hell did they fly acroosss the atlantic ocean to London?  [/quote] |
| Romance › Re: Help, Her Birthday Is Fast Approaching. by DExplorer1: 9:53pm On Jul 16, 2013 |
If your words can't then your gift won't. . .except! Don't force it. It's just 2 months. |
| Romance › Re: Help, Her Birthday Is Fast Approaching. by DExplorer1: 9:49pm On Jul 16, 2013 |
fredopayee: Kondo?? She's still a "v" oo as she told me. But am tryn to blow her mind so I can ride on her. LolBlow her mind with a gift? Then she's around. |
| Romance › Re: I Need Serious Help And Advice by DExplorer1: 9:44pm On Jul 16, 2013 |
nwaibagwa: pls my fellow nairalanders is there any side effect of masturbation cos i do it daily. pls your advice is seriously needed cos i need to stop it as it is now affecting my love life.If it is affecting your love life then that's one side-effect. |
| Romance › Re: In Love With A Local Girl! by DExplorer1: 9:37pm On Jul 16, 2013 |
MBJ bro, i think there's a twist to his case. He actually loved the 'local' girl but not alright with her demoded lifestyle. @OP, It's simple, identify what you like/love about this girl, appreciate her on it while you 'work on her'. . .upgrading isn't easy and that's because she has lived years of her life 'feeling good' about her lifestyle. You coming in to change that demands process and patience. If you truly love her, then, that's much possible to get done. |
| Romance › Simple Steps To Get A Kiss On A First Date by DExplorer1(op): 5:39pm On Jul 15, 2013*. Modified: 5:57pm On Jul 15, 2013 |
Crowning your efforts for a good first date with a kiss could be a good romantic reward, it's like having a successful date, but you must have read and understood the 5 Simple Ways To Hypnotize Your Partner On A First Date to get you started. After the careful selection of the location, your complete dress sense and powered conservation, getting a kiss on a first date is just too simple to fail at. As a relationship coach, it's been deduced that the general threat on the mind of every guy are the words, "what if" - "what if she resist me", "what if she doesn't like it" and you are always quick to console yourself with, "if not today, there's another time" - but you just lost! There's nothing too fast about sharing a kiss on a first date if the connection is right. How do you get to do that? STEP 1 - CHANGE THE ATMOSPHERE Don't get this wrong, I’m not asking you to change the conversation. In fact, you make the lady uncomfortable if you think changing a conversation to anything sexually related would place her on speed dial. That's like the norm and a smart lady won't fall for that. At that level, knowing it's a first date, a kiss can only be earned when the emotions are overruned. Your assignment here is to make your partner-in-process lose control of her emotions or just wake it. Now, that's simple, because women are emotional by default and they could be compelled like-wise. How do you wake it or overrun it? STEP 2 - GET CLOSER Few lines up, I made mention of the careful selection of the location. Observe the table setting of the restaurant or eatery. On a first date, everything starts and ends at the table. It’s a bit more difficult to get a kiss before she picks a cab or drive home, you could be begging for it at that time and that isn't ego-friendly. You can't get closer to her if the table setting is restricting you and you also can't re-arrange it, else, you mess things up. If the position is right, move on to the next. STEP 3 - CREATE A CONNECTION Yeah, that's right! Go right on and make a body contact. Knowing it's a first date and considering the seating position, the easiest body part to access is her hand and the simplest thing you can do, is to place yours on it. Don't go playing with her fingers, you have no such right yet but you can run your finger at the back of her hand without moving your hand. If your conversations before the first date were somewhat intimate, then you could make the move to slowly stroke her hair. Whichever you subscribed to, watch her body response. If it's negative, go get STEP 1 right, if it's positive, leave your hand on hers/continue stroking her hair while you move on to the next. STEP 4 - KEEP IT CLOSE At step 3, you just passed a message of a desire, so keep it close. Your conversation should be appreciating the smoothness of her skin or the slickness of her hair. You could ask what makes it so beautiful. Watch her explain while you keep your eyes deep on her. Look with a desire; somewhat sensual - navigating between her eyes and her lips. She could look back at you or be a little shy. Whatever it is, dude, you got her right there. The combo is complete! STEP 5 - GO GET THE KISS Do i still have to tell you to move your head closer? LOL. At this point, don't go deep kissing her, it's obviously open and she might not be cool with open affections. Just keep it on her lips. Seize your breath and you could remain there for at least 5 seconds, that's another bold message! Ok dude, that's enough! LOL. Withdraw and just say, "that was sweet" and don't be too quick to change the conversation. It leaves certain memories with her. Now, three (3) things would happened to her, she could blush, shy and not be able to look at you or she could say some words, like "That was too fast" Your answer: "I couldn't help it" OR "I wasn't expecting that" Your answer: "It was the perfect moment" OR "You stole that" Your answer: "That makes me a good criminal" Now that the ‘job’ is done, you've passed a first date and a good one, so add it to your C.V, LOL. You could be nervous at the start, it's normal because at that point, emotions could be pretty intense. Don't misuse or abuse it! It’s a good connection on a first date and it creates the possibility of things working out between you two. Happy Living! SOURCE http://www.coachdexplorer.com/2013/07/simple-steps-to-get-kiss-on-first-date.html |
| Romance › Re: "To Keep A Man, Treat Him Like A Dog'' by DExplorer1: 8:02pm On Jul 14, 2013 |
[quote author='mide eniafe]Dude, you should stick to your advice. [/quote]Just when i was about asking where you at. . . |
| Romance › Re: Are We Underestimating Nairaland As A Means To Meet A Partner? by DExplorer1: 7:55pm On Jul 14, 2013 |
ogugua88: No, he's not an antelope lol.I thought that was right until i remembered i only typed in german |
| Romance › Re: Are We Underestimating Nairaland As A Means To Meet A Partner? by DExplorer1: 7:38pm On Jul 14, 2013 |
xynerise: Sexkillz was trying to warn us from posting foreign languages which Seun rightly pointed out that it sometimes bans the poster and some people dey yarn dust.To the topic |
| Romance › Re: The Dangers Of Cohabitation by DExplorer1(op): 7:36pm On Jul 14, 2013 |
Beync:*lifts her up* sorry! |
| Romance › Re: Are We Underestimating Nairaland As A Means To Meet A Partner? by DExplorer1: 7:29pm On Jul 14, 2013 |
sexkillz: [color=#000030]Is this English?Your job as a mod BTW, i write my way, don't look out |
| Romance › Re: The Dangers Of Cohabitation by DExplorer1(op): 7:25pm On Jul 14, 2013 |
Beync: hahahaDon't make it worse, i still care. |
| Romance › Re: Are We Underestimating Nairaland As A Means To Meet A Partner? by DExplorer1: 7:23pm On Jul 14, 2013 |
sexkillz: [color=#000030]The spambot thinks a foreign language is spam. So before you copy and paste from google, think twice, before it hands you a ban. [/color]Don't tell me you tried making an English out of those? |
| Romance › Re: Are We Underestimating Nairaland As A Means To Meet A Partner? by DExplorer1: 7:19pm On Jul 14, 2013 |
Seun: False. The spambot doesn't care about language. Sometimes it mistakenly marks foreign languages as spam but that's why we have mods. It's their duty to correct these mistakes so that the spambot will have a better idea of what is spam and what is not spam. When they fail to do this, then you can have situation where people are wrongly banned. Don't be afraid to post anything that's not spam or against the rules of Nairaland.Oh SK, i thought you knew better  |
| Romance › Re: Ask The Last Poster A Romantic Question!!! by DExplorer1: 7:03pm On Jul 14, 2013 |
Kirinwa:Don't be scared, not your dirty mind |
| Romance › Re: Are We Underestimating Nairaland As A Means To Meet A Partner? by DExplorer1: 7:00pm On Jul 14, 2013 |
sanb: That's good; aber warum sind Sie nicht lächeln....auf sie. . .ihre email antworten, wir reden von dort. |
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