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Religion / Re: I’m Not Lucky? by dharmielol(f): 8:47am On Sep 19, 2016 |
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Religion / Re: God Is Not Against Positions Of Affluence And Riches! by dharmielol(f): 8:47am On Sep 19, 2016 |
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Religion / Re: Dealing With Unwanted Thoughts by dharmielol(f): 8:46am On Sep 19, 2016 |
Fashion / Re: Keeping Your Ankara Fabric From Fading by dharmielol(f): 8:46am On Sep 19, 2016 |
Fashion / Re: PEPLUM; The Trend That Isn't Fading (photos) by dharmielol(f): 8:44am On Sep 19, 2016 |
Fashion / Re: How To Match Colours For Your Outfit by dharmielol(f): 8:43am On Sep 19, 2016 |
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Fashion / Re: PEPLUM; The Trend That Isn't Fading (photos) by dharmielol(f): 1:17pm On Sep 16, 2016 |
lolx, you are freeeeeeeeee post the pix here and let us see the style whenever you wear it |
Fashion / Re: How To Match Colours For Your Outfit by dharmielol(f): 9:08am On Sep 15, 2016 |
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Fashion / Re: PEPLUM; The Trend That Isn't Fading (photos) by dharmielol(f): 9:07am On Sep 15, 2016 |
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Business / Re: Learn How To Make Ankara Bags,purses N Accessories Online Free by dharmielol(f): 12:41pm On Sep 08, 2016 |
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Fashion / Re: PEPLUM; The Trend That Isn't Fading (photos) by dharmielol(f): 10:35am On Sep 06, 2016 |
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Fashion / Re: How To Match Colours For Your Outfit by dharmielol(f): 10:34am On Sep 06, 2016 |
Fashion / Re: DIY Tutorials : Let's Get Crafty & Creative by dharmielol(f): 4:47pm On Sep 05, 2016 |
waoh, u really did a great job AlphaHandMaiden: |
Fashion / Re: DIY Tutorials : Let's Get Crafty & Creative by dharmielol(f): 4:46pm On Sep 05, 2016 |
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Fashion / Re: DIY Tutorials : Let's Get Crafty & Creative by dharmielol(f): 4:45pm On Sep 05, 2016 |
waoh, weldone.... how many hours does this take you? nice one |
Fashion / Re: How To Match Colours For Your Outfit by dharmielol(f): 1:34pm On Sep 02, 2016 |
Fashion / Re: For Females Interested In Fashion As A Business by dharmielol(f): 11:30am On Sep 01, 2016 |
corporatechic: im a fashion designer, working parttime on it for now and working from home, looking for sewist who can be assiting tho. i specialised in unisex wears, both office wears and aso ebi styles. Presently in Ibadan. |
Fashion / Re: For Females Interested In Fashion As A Business by dharmielol(f): 11:17am On Sep 01, 2016 |
im a fashion designer, working parttime on it for now and working from home, looking for sewist who can be assiting tho. i specialised in unisex wears, both office wears and aso ebi styles. Presently in Ibadan. |
Romance / Re: Why All Men Hate Babies & We Don't Wany Any. by dharmielol(f): 8:02am On Aug 18, 2016 |
MrCork: lolx, ofcourse i do cuz i love children, fun to be with,freemind, alwys cheerful n generous, the happiest thing that can ever happen to someone, above all they are the heritage of God |
Romance / Re: Why All Men Hate Babies & We Don't Wany Any. by dharmielol(f): 3:55pm On Aug 17, 2016 |
no wonder you've been shouting and asking for help! |
Religion / Re: Life Is A Journey by dharmielol(f): 3:47pm On Aug 17, 2016 |
Boss13:then the write up is not written for you |
Religion / Re: A Wish by dharmielol(f): 3:44pm On Aug 17, 2016 |
the problem of "lack of knowledge" many people have been blindfolded, misoriented,brainwashed,deceived just because they lack knowledge. my pple perish for lack of knowledge 1 Like |
Religion / Dealing With Unwanted Thoughts by dharmielol(f): 3:14pm On Aug 17, 2016 |
Be careful what you think, your life is shaped by your thoughts “Prov. 4:23” In the world we live in, we can’t escape bad thoughts, they can be grasped anywhere, on the TV, Radio, Internet, Streets, Working place, Schools etc. It can be so horrific because all of these places can’t be totally avoided. But as a Christian, we have to always guide our thoughts day in day out. Our mind is like a fertile land awaiting to geminate in abundance any seed planted on it Thoughts are powerful, and there are pretty more ways to guide our thoughts and frustrate the unwanted thoughts out Have a daily positive and motivational confession you read to yourself to come against the spirit of bad thoughts. Read Gods word, study it, memorise it, meditate it, and apply it to your life daily Your mind is fearfully and wonderfully made. It is incredible. Better than man’s best computer, the mind is constantly receiving messages, processing input, and affecting your behaviour. Track down the major source of your bad thought, avoid going to such places, listening to such words or program, Videos, Soap Operas, Music. As soon as a bad thoughts comes up in your mind, rebuke it immediately by SAYING a positive word(s) to cancel the negative thought “An idle mind is the devil’s workshop.” If you are often alone, you may find Satan coming in like a flood during these times. When a mind is unoccupied the devil takes this opportunity to suggest sinful thoughts for you to dwell on. Find something which can occupy your mind, and displace impure thoughts. Anything decent will do; connect to God, Read your bible, listen to messages, read Christian books etc. Fix your thoughts on what is true and good and right…. Think about all you can thank God for and be glad about “Phil. 4:8” HAVE A NICE DAY |
Religion / Re: I’m Not Lucky? by dharmielol(f): 3:00pm On Aug 17, 2016 |
oglalasioux: Sure, nature might not favour us all because people lack knowledge. But why wont nature favour me "According as his divine power hath given unto us ALL THINGS that pertain unto life and godliness, through the knowledge of him that hath called us to glory and virtue" 2 Peter 1:3 See,you can go far in life but to go further, you need divine intervention. success in life comes from 2 main sources,either natural source or super-natural source(this can be demonic or divine) For those who suffer with schizophrenia they should have hope in Jesus for life more abundant (John 10:9-11). The Lord can use all things for their good. |
Religion / God Is Not Against Positions Of Affluence And Riches! by dharmielol(f): 11:49am On Aug 17, 2016 |
“You are the light of the world. A city set on a hill cannot be hidden; nor does anyone light a lamp and put it under a basket, but on the lamp stand, and it gives light to all who are in the house. Let your light shine before men in such a way that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father who is in heaven” Mattew 5: 14-16 Influence is a form of leadership in which you can become a channel God uses to help bring powerful and lasting change of betterness to people who need it. When you spiritually influence people, you help meet their needs for faith, hope, and love, by showing them that they can have faith in God, hope for the future, and rely on God’s love for them. Influencers are people who have power, insight and riches. God is not against positions of affluence and riches, but His question to us is what direction are we utilizing our monies, affluence and authority? Are they for His service or against His will? Just as Paul told the Philippians in his letter to them, To impact lives, you need to become an authority (an influencer). Fortunately, this is within your reach. Too often we believe that influencers are born, not made, and that we can’t learn how to do what they do. Wrong! Becoming an influencer is an ongoing process. Influencers do not pop up overnight; they desire it, pray for it and work for it. They grow and build their credibility, nurture useful, productive relationships with God and man. They continue to improve themselves daily through Gods word. There are so many ways through which we can influence and make an impact in whatever we do and wherever we find ourselves. Influencing is a challenge. You can only succeed as an influencer when people see that what you have to offer is unique and valuable. Steps you can take to become a top influencer. You build your spiritual influence on the foundation of a connection with God, aim to strengthen your relationship with God every day. Incorporate worship and prayer into your life, making a habit of bowing to God’s greatness and goodness often. Ground your relationship with God in spiritual disciplines such as frequent Bible reading and meditation. Joshua vividly told the children of Israel in; Joshua 1:8. “This book of the law shall not depart out of thy mouth; but thou shall meditate there inday and night, that thou mayest observe to do according to all that is written therein; for then thou shall make thy way prosperous, and then thou shall have good success” Doing so motivates you to submit your will to God’s will, putting you in a position where God can best use you as a spiritual influencer. You need to earn people’s trust in order to effectively influence them, and the way to do so is to model a lifestyle of integrity for them. Ask the Holy Spirit to renew your mind every day so you have right motives for what you say and do, and to help you become a person who is more honest, humble, and self-controlled. Seek to bring coherence between your public and private life and between every aspect of your personality so that you behave with integrity in every situation. Expect God to constantly bring you new opportunities to spiritually influence people. Discern if the opportunities you encounter are from God by considering whether or not they’re consistent with biblical values and God’s purposes for your life – and if so, say “yes” to God and take action. Invite God to use you as one of His instruments for making things right in this fallen world. Just as Isaiah responded (Isa 6; “…Here am I Lord, send me” Surrender yourself as an instrument of service. Cooperate with God in His redemptive work by pursuing justice, mercy, and humility. People are especially open to spiritual influence from leaders who help them during crises. Do your best to be a caring presence for people as they go through crises, listening to them, speaking to them with wisdom and grace, praying for them, and giving them practical support as God leads you to do so. Accumulate the knowledge you need to be well-informed before making decisions, and pray for the ability to make decisions with good judgment. Seek wisdom from God rather than from any lesser source. Prov 2;6 “For the Lord giveth wisdom; out of His mouth cometh knowledge and understanding” Make a habit of reading, studying, and meditating on the Bible while asking the Holy Spirit to help you apply its wisdom to your life. Final Takeaways Know what an influencer is and does. Be helpful and add value. Educate yourself by reading wide and meditating on God’s word Educate others. Influencers educate others and offer them actionable and constructive advice and solutions. People around you should learn and gain something really unique and valuable from you-We have the Grace, we have all it takes. Give it all away and God will multiply you in folds Have a great week everyone, and best of luck with your efforts to become an influencer! https://damilolainspires./ |
Religion / Re: I’m Not Lucky? by dharmielol(f): 11:42am On Aug 17, 2016 |
oglalasioux: Well,i still strongly believe that you get what you expect, no matter where you are in this world. you are what you think. Our thoughts are like seeds. The conditions and circumstances of your present life (finance, health, relationships, etc.) are as a result of your collective thoughts over the years. It is your thought power that has created those very circumstances. |
Religion / I’m Not Lucky? by dharmielol(f): 8:20am On Aug 17, 2016 |
You might have heard this common saying about people referring to someone who is successful, everything working out well for and have a happy marriage as being “lucky” and how “unlucky” or sad the other person’s life turned out. Some believe that some fortunate souls are mysteriously born under a lucky star. I kept wondering if actually it is all about “luck” anyway or is it not. After doing some readings and making some findings about what luck is? And how to be lucky? I came up with this definition/explanation of luck: Success or failure apparently brought by chance rather than through one’s own actions or thoughts. Webster’s Dictionary defines luck as “a force that brings good fortune or adversity; a force that operates for or against an individual.” Yes, so now if luck is a force and is brought about by chance, why can’t we tap into it and manipulate it for our own good, after all we all have a free will. No one is stuck with an inevitable destiny. We can make the things we want happen. Abi why will some people’s lives overflow with abundance, vitality, successful careers, and loving relationships and others won’t? I believe luck is the product of our own mental focus, thoughts, beliefs and attitudes. In fact I prefer to call it positive thinking. So Imagine now that by changing your focus, thoughts, beliefs you can intentionally increase the amount of luck you experience in all areas of life, be it finance, good health, happy home, good grades, good relationships and so on. Sounded good right? And now, dear brothers and sisters, one final thing. Fix your thoughts on what is true, and honourable, and right, and pure, and lovely, and admirable. Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise. “Philippians 4:8” Well, believe it or not, you get what you expect, if you are so certain that your future is going to be full of good fortune, definitely it will. And if you think otherwise, well? Just know that these expectations become self-fulfilling prophecies to our lives. The conditions and circumstances of your present life (finance, health, relationships, etc.) are as a result of your collective thoughts over the years. It is your thought power that has created those very circumstances. “Circumstances do not make a man, they reveal him” (James Allen). Thoughts are like seeds, they have a natural tendency to grow and manifest in your life, if you feed them with attention, interest and enthusiasm. “If you realized how powerful your thoughts are, you would never think a negative thought.” (Peace Pilgrim) Change your negative habits and build new, positive habits or skills. Pay attention to the thoughts you think. Do your best to reject negative thoughts, and to allow into your mind only thoughts that bring good, happy, and positive results. (You can read up Dealing With Unwanted Thoughts ) You can use your mind to attract good things, wealth, riches, promotion at work, for building a business, improving health, good relationships, changing circumstances, and practically almost everything you desire. “You are not a helpless victim of your own thoughts, but rather a master of your own mind.” Louise Hay Actions, situations, and objects that you visualize frequently, eventually manifest on the material plane in a natural way. This manifestation does not happen overnight. It needs time, and depends on how ambitious and sincere you are, and how much time and attention you put into this action. Never relax, do not be discourage, keep hoping and believing. “With God in my life, all things are possible.” Matthew 19:26 Remember, don’t just think it, go for it, what your mind can conceive, you can achieve. Always understand that faith and patience work hand in hand I remain confident of this: I will see the goodness of the LORD in the land of the living. (Psalm 27:13) Amen Thank you for your time. 1 Like 1 Share |
Religion / Don't Follow Me, I'm Lost Too! by dharmielol(f): 8:11am On Aug 16, 2016 |
I was in a cab few days ago and I saw a sticker at the back screen of a Toyota Jeep which reads “don’t follow me, I’m lost too.” Looking at the driver of the car, not sure of his religion but has a crucifix hung on to the inner mirror. Unfortunately, this is the state of the world of many Christians. They preach what they don’t do. Their act is totally different from their words. We are living in the midst of the people who are in a state of spiritual darkness. As a Christian, we should be a role model for others. We have been made the light of this world, (Matt. 5:14). We have become the transmitters of light. We should allow our lights to shine for others and the unbelievers to see because, they are in darkness. Let them see your good works ‘’Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven’’ (Matt. 5:16). Let them see how we love even when we’re treated unfairly. “But I say to you, love your enemies, and pray for those who persecute you (Matt 5:44). Let them see how we’re kind and generous in situations of favouritism and injustice. Let’s not forget to show how we’re patient and self-controlled in the midst of irritation and inefficiency. We should live a life that will influence them positively and bring them to asking us how we are making it and how we are doing fine at our chosen career. Even though it seems the unbelievers don’t care, they are always watching us. Allowing our lives to influence them can lead them to finding Christ. Many times, sharing tracts and doing early morning cries are not enough to bring people to Christ. In fact, people just throw the tracts away after you’ve given it to them. So, many times, our lives are like banners, fliers and posters that will attract them to Christ. Have a great day. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Fashion / Re: PEPLUM; The Trend That Isn't Fading (photos) by dharmielol(f): 5:13pm On Aug 15, 2016 |
Fashion / Re: PEPLUM; The Trend That Isn't Fading (photos) by dharmielol(f): 5:11pm On Aug 15, 2016 |
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Fashion / PEPLUM; The Trend That Isn't Fading (photos) by dharmielol(f): 5:07pm On Aug 15, 2016 |
If you don’t have a peplum blouse/top, it’s high time you got one. Peplum is a short full flounce or an extension of a garment below the waist, covering the hips. The peplum design is a trend which has kept gaining more popularity in our society. It’s a design that can be worn either corporately or made with in lovely traditional or aso ebi style. With peplum, you don’t have to worry much about your body shape. It’s a design that can be worn and use to re define your body shape. It’s a design that gives an illusion of a cinched waist and with the fullness of the flare sitting well on the hip or creating an illusion of one. Peplum can be made at approximately 2” below your hip bones to give a well-defined figure. It can be paired with jeans trouser, pencil skirt, pants and so on. Here is a compilation of some peplum designs collated together for your view and make. You can also add yours
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Religion / Don't Give Up......... Keep Moving by dharmielol(f): 2:44pm On Aug 15, 2016 |
I don’t know where you are reading this from at the moment, neither do I know what you are going through but I’m here to tell you this, do not give up yet…. Keep moving on. It does not matter how slowly you go as long as you do not stop. Most times, the enemy uses many things in this world to scare us and make us feel insecure but you’ve got to free yourself and take your power back by believing in yourself, being secure in who you are. For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind. 2 Timothy 1:7 (KJV) Don’t even give it a thought to give up because as soon as you think of leaving, a part of you has already left. But it’s never too late to get it back. It doesn’t matter how many times you get knocked down. All that matters is you getting up each time and get going remember Success is determined by not giving up. Winners never quit. Be determined, be focused, be enthusiastic, yes because that’s the key, that’s the spirit, with determination, nothing in this world can stop you. |
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