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"have you met me?? I'm too good"...



Read that part
And i knew the pastor was right

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150??
Go to jahi... You'd see ur price range there

It's actually a sad reality I've had to come to terms with.
Emotional abuse is more potent (quote me anywhere) than physical abuse
Because the man has to live with the fact that his wife could cut him deep into his soul, has to endure being pulled down.


Well i don't flinch when i see cases of battered faces l, bruises or whatnot
My first question is always WHAT DID U SAY TO HIM
don't think manipulative tactics work on everyone
Because you're crying doesn't mean i will move the world
WHAT DID U SAY
WHAT DID U SAY...


And to the wenches up there spewing gab
Like someone rightly said
Old age without a man is depressing i know
And if either of you two have a man
I'm really sorry for them

Tegr3fj:
>:

People of God
Or should i say people that gamble
Hope you don't fall for cheap scammers such as this?
Nigha went an edited his slip


I tried verifying, and this is what showed
An old slip dating june 27
Omo ale ni e

Coping good

Training my boy on how to be a real. Man
Peace of mind
Zero drama...


And God's helping us sort our lives and bills

Nahhh this got me howling!


Op. Wtf is launching a missile!!!? some dooe. Pun youknow

For you to enjoy the goodies of Abuja
You want responsibilities



Anyways check mpape or galadima for night
Lotta wife materials are there

She's tryna gas light you

The mere thought of another guy mounting ur wife should disgust the soul out of you
It should fuel your dislike and disgust for her



Don't let her guilt trip u
But i doubt u can hold on

Op
I feel you
Aswear i do
Success is the best revenge
I'm glad you didn't agree to be a backup plan
Kudos to you



God bless you
No be everytime make person dey read simp stories

Girl been masturbating on ur mention and Martinez's Since 20...

Nice talk cave
Man's love is closest to what Jesus did for us

heartofcity12:
Tonnyray, your attention is needed here, one of your “angels” needs your support.

Brahhhhh
Pls nau
After the guy's useless talks (as always) i was scrolling down, praying you won't dignify the dingbat with a reply...
HeartOfcity why na
Leave that nigga
He won't stay off
But still spewing nonsense
Avoid him next time
You've absolutely nothing to prove

Yoruba culture
Beautiful and respectful

Proud to be one

SmartMen:
Not taking her because there is a risk with taking such a lady. A woman who does not consider you as the first option, despite being there long before the one she chose can hardly like, love, or respect you enough because you are not what they wanted in the first place but just happen to be the available one.

As they say: "When the desirable is not available, the available becomes desirable"

I am not what she wants and will never be.

She was asking me if I still like her. I scuff

But I thank God for the experience. My life has been wild in the last 1 year with about 5 ladies HOPING I would give them a second chance. I wished I had known this secret long ago.

Make money, take care of yourself. You are only useful to them because of the security that you offer them. No more, no less.

You said you're benin bred
How did the Igbo blood come in?

Mind u, i schooled in uniben

Man!
You write fluently sha!



So girls see this and take u for a ride?
Well for me yea
I've never been a man of love
I've always been the what society calls toxic
But they keep coming back?

poshestmina:
Are you serious?
Lmao!!

Man in the ring ,woman in Court.
These people have truly gone mad.

I swear!!!!!!



Btw
hello
What's good?

The. Follow up to this story is that they wanna sue the guy that knocked the trans out for putting hands on a woman


White rabbits have lost it

Astagfirullah
This was me yesterday


God abeg I'm sorry

My 2 inch revolver

Interesting topic sha
I won't be a Muslim
Never will


But you see their women
Iffa leave them, make i die
Their women epitomize everything a man wants
Maybe because the religion clips their wing
But any how


Hijabis are the best!!
Ramadan Kareem all

I hope she isn't married sha

Men need to check most laides social Media handles, their replies to dicey topics so as to understand what they're getting into
If a mod here on nairaland is heaping blame of paternity fraud on men... What holds for the average woman outside??


There's a reason Nigeria is second on the list of paternity fraud in the world...
Well, as my oga untop rightly said "that' she's a mod, doesn't make her sensible"

Unconfirmed reports
But seems Roger Federer (im sure we all know him... He's considered to be the greatest ever tennis player) just found out that his two daughters aren't his


Make do with whatever you want with this info

What kind of relationship do you people keep
That you can't tell them hard unadulterated truth
Everyday, i pray to God to keep friends like u far from me!!


If you as my guy no ft tell me say my mouth dey smell
Of what use are you to me??



Well maybe because I'm not the guy to be in a relationship
Cause e no get howgirl go form reach
I go catch am
Just saying

DrFunmisticGlow:
you talk as if men don't have emotions too. Emotions are not a bad thing, they just are.

We do
It just doesn't override our thought process


Can't say same for your gender

JessicaRabbit:
Subtlety isn't your strong suit, is it? Next time, try @-ing me so I can join the party 😉.

By the way, I'm actually impressed that you managed to fit more fallacies in one tiny rant than a circus tent can fit clowns. Your passionate little submission deserves a standing ovation, if I can peel myself off the floor from laughing at the logic holes.

Stating that all women will back each other up no matter what the truth is, is not only false, but also beside the point. The OP is looking for guidance based on her own situation, not on some fanciful "girl power" allegiance. You've also committed a red herring fallacy, referencing actions by the girl that you perceive to be disrespectful, but are ultimately irrelevant to the core issue. Whether OP donned a shirt from a male pal or stashed away some chow from her partner are trivial matters that do not excuse the abusive actions of her partner. You are attempting to sidetrack from the real problem here, which is the absence of regard and love in their relationship.

Furthermore, you are just setting up straw men and knocking them down by yourself. The OP didn't claim to be flawless or infallible. She just shared her feelings about how her partner treats her. You're acting like there are only two options: she's a "vile creature" or he's a saint. But life is not black and white, it's full of shades of gray. Maybe you should try to see things from a different perspective. You write off the poster's emotions as a sign of madness and prejudice, then insinuate that because she is a woman, she is unfit for rational thinking and fair judgment. This is not only sexist, but also nonsensical. Emotions are not evil or good, they are human. They can guide our choices, but they do not negate them. Besides, you are being two-faced, since you are obviously emotional yourself, as shown by your overuse of exclamation marks and emojis.

So you don't expect me to get Ed12's point when he says "she should be happy with the bf", huh? Please indulge me. What point are you making exactly? That women should kiss the feet of any guy who hires them, even if he's a jerk? Sorry, but that's not a point, that's a red pill delusion, a toxic and dubious worldview that you have swallowed without any proof or reason, and has produced an army of bitter dudes who hate women, facts, and logic. They live in a fantasy world where they are the oppressed heroes and women are the evil villains who want to ruin their lives. And they have no clue how to relate to other human beings, and they use their twisted ideology as a cover for being socially inept. I repeat that the OP should dump that loser who follows the red pill nonsense and treats her like dirt. She should find a partner who will treat her like a queen and who will appreciate her as a person, not as a prize. She should be happy, and she has the power to walk away from a relationship that is hurting her. And so should you, if you ever end up with a lady who makes you feel like you ain't worth shit.

I hope you'll snap out of your delusions and get some therapy if you have to. The red pill is a bitter placebo, and relationships are not a game of chess. They are about love, trust and compassion. And those are the things that truly matter.

Sigh
Okay baby dragon

Look at the ****** above me
Women will always support their own
The sisterhood so strongggg

Now let's get down to business.

The lady disrespecting him Is not abuse?
Or you didn't read the first part of what happened?
How on earth can't you deduce she's just a vile creature that wants to have things her way!!?
Ohh i know why!
Emotions!!!! The dominate feature of every woman
I don't expect You to understand what the gentle man meant by saying "she should be thankful for the bf"

I expect you to think " you're the exception to the rule"

See them.
"You have a lady here in Nigeria why don't u go for her"


Op!!!
Do you like a better life?
Move for the one abroad.
Your generations unborn will thank you
You self no deh forbid hypergamy

Wise Man dey let una know say women keep their. Options open
Hence they don't personalize nobody!! Even if he's always in her gut

But you people, blinded by love and wet hole just want to argue
Fr tho, I've never read a lady here saying "my guy"
She'll rather say the guy I'm seeing

PinkNature:
https://www.nairaland.com/7959111/helping-man-vs-helping-woman

From Seun. I can see that he's low key, following the teachings.

It's always fun to see and read when they all want to pass an information pertaining to inter gender dynamics
And the first thing they say is "I'm not a red piller"
Then go on to affirm everything being said


Seun probably helped a lady one time
And she remembered him when she was in trouble again


Experience teaches people faster

Lol
As a Christian yea
Denying your partner their due benevolence is Sin towards God.
That being said
So i as a Man, that suffered to get a wife, the wife will na be using shag as a weapon ..







Well seeing that I'm a guy with no option
I'll beg her like mad
Even if it means doing her laundry

Poshvector12345:
I have followed this thread for a long time now... Just dropping from time to time
I witness the opening of this thread but actively followed it from about the 1000th page..
There's is absolutely no new thing you people talk about.
Always rehashing the same talking points over and over.
You people say the redpoll is not about women only but I have never seen anyone of you post about it's application somewhere else.
A tv character once says anyone who continuously calls himself king is no true king...
Running around calling yourself alpha and sigma(sigma is an internet meme to mock you guys for crying out loud but you co-opted it into your lexicon)
All form of pseudo intellectual theories even when they clearly contradict each other.
Do you guys think that anybody believe the bullshit stories that you lie to each other about here?
And to think that some of you are actually older than twenty five, meaning this is not just a phase some you actually believe this and live your life continually chasing an alpha status that is non-existent. It makes it quite sad
I'll pray for y'all, because while coming here is quite entertaining the indoctrination and women hate doesn't stop here it spills intlrhe real world and some here actually believe it making life difficult for all the sisters and female cousins I have in this world.

Kk

Cc Hayden!!!!!!
Do you want me to overdose on some pills?








Keep it up brother
Much respect
Kudos to everyone keeping the thread sane and alive
Future generations will thank us for this

Aisha no dey fall my hand na