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Romance / Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by diamond88: 7:19am On May 19, 2018
franchasng:
my sister, with all due respect, I want to disagree with u, its not true. I don't know his financial status, but don't think or believe that because a guy raised this kind of question means he is broke, I will share my personal experience here for u and others to learn and reason with this op.

You know, I am born into normal Nigerian family; struggling family...grew up not having anything like girlfriend not until towards final year in school which ended when I went for NYSC due to financial issues; I couldn't cope with her financial demands with my NYSC allawee plus the distance, so we ended it against her wish though because she cried and begged but I couldn't continue; no money to foot your frequent requests, no money to transport u to and fro to come visit me in far away place I was serving, so there's no need to continue, we ended it after several dialogue failed. I really liked her cos she was so cute as in lol, and has manners but money, mba shocked shocked

During my NYSC, I met ladies from all tribes and class, thank God where I served lol. I met ladies from rich family who schooled abroad, I had so many options of ladies to date cos I was ladies' man during my NYSC even though I no fine cheesy cheesy

There was this Igbo chick from very rich family that came to NYSC with a driver, she so liked me and was just waiting for me to say; be my girlfriend, but there were many other chicks; Yoruba, Ibira, Hausa, etc that I was also close to and they were all waiting for me to pop the question, but because I tied myself again with NCCF (born again matter lol), I couldn't have the courage to start dating any.

But this Igbo chick was so into me, I was the only corper she talks with and hangs out with even during CDS. From our closeness, I got to discover she gets monthly upkeep of 100k from her rich parents, but guess what Sometimes she gulps this big money before month end and will be complaining to me....so I sat her down and we made a spending plan for her to cut down her expenses and I removed some unnecessary things from her to-do and to-have list, still who sai cheesy cheesy

There was this month her parents traveled for vac abroad and she gulped her upkeep before 16th of the month, so she ran to me, I shouted at her, scolded her, told her point blank that its wrong and totally unacceptable, she almost cried and even fell on my arms, I was tempted to begin kissing, I remembered my religious position, I held back and later made a transfer of 20k to her account, towards ending she repaid me though.

I observed her and noticed that I can't cope with her financial needs, so against fellow corpers and friends advice to date this girl o and marry her, I said never because only me knew what I was passing through cheesy cheesy

From my closeness to some of these ladies, I came to realize that this is a Nigerian women mentality and belief.

Now, back to op's lamentation lol and why I said he might not be broke like u said, I am going to use myself again as example.

Right now, I am not broke, I can't say if I am rich, I am far from it sha....but God is extremely awesome to me, and I am grateful....thats where I stand financially now....so I want to tell u my sister, at a point in every man's life, he do reflects on life, and this is one of the things he reflects on...especially when he is approaching 30yrs plus and still single and looking to settle down.

No reasonable guy with focus and big ambition desires to marry a liability or a financial baggage called a lady in the name of marriage, most that did it are regretting, I have such friends who made such mistakes and are regretting even though they are doing well financially.

My last ex that I nearly fell madly in love with, do u know why I broke up with her This demanding of a thing. Remember, I can foot all her bills, but cmon, its wrong for me considering I want to marry this lady na.

She's is this kind of hot lady that looks almost like Nadia Buari, from a rich family, working and above 26yrs, but she spends more than she earns and her parents are now retired; top civil servants as in directors with CBN and min of edu...

She doesn't ask for money though, but she is a fashionista, she can wear different super clothes everyday for one month...so the spending was on poor me lol...she will send me link of clothes from Jumia, Amazon (she knows my friends will help me get it and send cos I buy stuff a lot from Amazon). She will be like: "hun, check this out, dont u like it, I love it o, get it lets see how's gonna be on ya queen lol', and I couldn't turn down cos I really liked her, some out of say 10 links she sends, I may buy like 5 when in good mood.

It got to a point, I got tired after a friend met an Angel lady, a pretty doctor living in US, and this girl who even came from a poor family has awesome character, respect, manner, hardworking, gosh....I was swept away. Another friend met another angelic lady, as they told me about their lady and I saw with my korokoro eyes, I began to feel bad about my current relationship so I put a test, a financial test, my chick fell into the trap. She loved me yes, she was a virgin, even wanted me to de-v her, I refused cos I wanted to marry her and wanted her to keep it since we lived in far away cities, but i didn't consider all these, I quit angrily, she is still pleading to come back, but I have found another sha


This current one is very okay at the moment and being tipped for the final decision but I observing her on 3D. She seems cool-headed but I won't conclude until she passes all the tests I am about to set cos my childhood friends who are rich have been burnt, an uncle has been burnt too, close family members have, so I can't allow such in my and God will never allow me, baba God I beg o please have mercy, don't let me enter into an unfruitful marriage with a bad wife please father cry cry cry

Love ur epistle. I think I learn a lot though am still hustling I get there.

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Romance / Re: How Can You Keep Up With A Girl That Replies Your Chat With "Yes,ok,no,fine,? by diamond88: 6:21am On May 19, 2018
HeyCorleone:


You just want to turn yourself to a sugar daddy. Then the only time she'd type full sentences is when she needs something.

True.... Experiencing that right now and I know what to do
Romance / Re: How Can You Keep Up With A Girl That Replies Your Chat With "Yes,ok,no,fine,? by diamond88: 6:13am On May 19, 2018
Yoshy:
Lols....she is ready to come visiting for days but just can't maintain a conversation during chat or calls. One word: Run from such girls, Olosho is another word.

Talking from experience.


Lol u got a point

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Sports / Re: Waheed Jimoh Slumps And Dies While Playing Basketball by diamond88: 5:30pm On May 17, 2018
foer we that ball, this the risk involved
Technology Market / Re: Romoss PeA60 60Kmah, Romoss Pea40 Pro 40kmah, Romoss Sense 8pf+ 30kmah, etc by diamond88: 9:20pm On May 16, 2018
diamond88:
Thanks for a nairalander that order for romoss Sense 6P 20,000mah all the way from Maza maza,lagos after payment was confirmed. Thanks for the trust and believe even though we havent meant. cheesy wink

Thanks for ordering.... It was swift despite the far distance

Technology Market / Re: Romoss PeA60 60Kmah, Romoss Pea40 Pro 40kmah, Romoss Sense 8pf+ 30kmah, etc by diamond88: 9:19pm On May 16, 2018
@Enouwem

I have seen ur chat and I could ask few questions if you buy the original Romoss powerbank and what model of Romoss powerbank is that?

Did you verify the authenticity of what u buy through scratching of authenticity seal found on the powerbank?

Check it on Romoss.com

Where did u buy it from? Just like Samsung phones, there are perfectly cloned Romoss u won't know it looks so much like original but packaging alone differentiate it from the rest.
Investment / Re: Treasury Bills In Nigeria by diamond88: 4:58pm On May 16, 2018
KpagoGIN:
please what was the Tenor.
That's 85 days.
Investment / Re: Treasury Bills In Nigeria by diamond88: 1:28pm On May 16, 2018
sunvick:
So I got 9.5% for 91days from Zenith Bank for the last primary market bid. TB is just going down every dem day. Sad

very poor i say. I think i am dam lucky to get rate on secondary market through stanbic---12.40%


Effective Date : 14-May-2018
Maturity Date : 09-August-2018
Rate : 12.400

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Technology Market / Re: Romoss PeA60 60Kmah, Romoss Pea40 Pro 40kmah, Romoss Sense 8pf+ 30kmah, etc by diamond88: 12:58pm On May 16, 2018
Thanks for a nairalander that order for romoss Sense 6P 20,000mah all the way from Maza maza,lagos after payment was confirmed. Thanks for the trust and believe even though we havent meant. cheesy wink
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Premiere Urgence Internationale (PUI) Latest Job Recruitment (23 Positions) by diamond88: 12:55pm On May 16, 2018
most location is borno. Na waoh.
Technology Market / Re: Romoss PeA60 60Kmah, Romoss Pea40 Pro 40kmah, Romoss Sense 8pf+ 30kmah, etc by diamond88: 5:53am On May 16, 2018
It's another good day
Fashion / Re: Pls Help... Black And Fair Skin On One Person by diamond88: 7:43pm On May 15, 2018
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Contact me for milk and honey scrub with happy skin. Lotion 08142721851

Hello, I have replied ur DM
Politics / Re: Ibrahim Magu Wears Buhari's Campaign Lapel, Nigerians React by diamond88: 2:07pm On May 15, 2018
Paperwhite:
EFCC is an agency of government created by enabling Nigerian laws as an independent body & not a Buhari' support group.
But Nigeria is at a level where sycophancy have been elevated to a very low level by the failed APC regime.Any wonder all the appointees of Buhari are all clueless like him

he should be sack honestly
Politics / Re: President Buhari Launches State Social Intervention Programme In Jigawa by diamond88: 1:34pm On May 15, 2018
deprive the people of education....they will be ur slave
Investment / Re: Treasury Bills In Nigeria by diamond88: 8:50am On May 15, 2018
aaronson:
hi bro, is it listed somewhere when you get in the bank or your account officer informs you.


My account officer never pick my calls. Frontdesk help me out by contacting other branch to get the irresistible rate. I asked her if she was sure of the rate and she said yes. I quickly grab it.
Technology Market / Re: Romoss PeA60 60Kmah, Romoss Pea40 Pro 40kmah, Romoss Sense 8pf+ 30kmah, etc by diamond88: 8:45pm On May 14, 2018
Pls keep the whatsapp chat coming and thanks for those that are making inquiry
Investment / Re: Treasury Bills In Nigeria by diamond88: 5:51pm On May 14, 2018
Ok I got 12.4% for 84days at stanbic this morning.
120days at 12.1% I went for the 12.4%

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Romance / Re: Lady Dumps Man Who Wants To Marry Her Because He Can't Cook, Leaks Their Chat by diamond88: 9:41am On May 14, 2018
i am a good cook but her questions is irrelevant
Technology Market / Re: Romoss PeA60 60Kmah, Romoss Pea40 Pro 40kmah, Romoss Sense 8pf+ 30kmah, etc by diamond88: 9:37am On May 14, 2018
please keep the chat coming
Technology Market / Re: For All Your SanDisk Microsd, Flash drives, OTG and all your HDD/SSD by diamond88: 8:59am On May 14, 2018
Get original SanDisk MicroSd card class 10
Investment / Re: Treasury Bills In Nigeria by diamond88: 5:35pm On May 13, 2018
Inflation rate fell again to approximately 12%. It means TB going to fall to one digits interest rate at the end.

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Technology Market / Re: Romoss PeA60 60Kmah, Romoss Pea40 Pro 40kmah, Romoss Sense 8pf+ 30kmah, etc by diamond88: 5:24pm On May 13, 2018
lanre316:


How much is it and how much to send to Ibadan. Does it have black colour?

Thanks for reaching us. I will like to know the capacity u prefer and powerbanks come in only white colour. It will cost 1k and/or I could send it free. All options open when we chat
Politics / Re: Why Electricity Is Cut When There Is A Rainstorm In Nigeria - IKEDC by diamond88: 11:43am On May 13, 2018
Pesuzok:


There is a fault somewhere that would require cash to fix. Considering Nigeria factor, it might take sometime before cash is released. That is why every home need a prepaid meter, this would make the discos to quickly restore electricity because without it, no money from the consumers

Area have not been metered yet. Still on estimated billing and I guess that's why they are not giving it a top priority coz at the end of the month, they are going to bring crazy bills. We are tye one at loss here if they can't fix it within few days.
Politics / Re: Why Electricity Is Cut When There Is A Rainstorm In Nigeria - IKEDC by diamond88: 11:26am On May 13, 2018
Ever since the heavy storm and rain that happened last week Saturdaypower had not been restored here. It's 8 days now
Technology Market / Re: For All Your SanDisk Microsd, Flash drives, OTG and all your HDD/SSD by diamond88: 7:31am On May 13, 2018
Get the best
Programming / Re: I Want To Learn Programming. Which Language Should I Start With? by diamond88: 8:30pm On May 12, 2018
Pls can anyone help me where I will download latest w3school folder?
Technology Market / Re: Romoss PeA60 60Kmah, Romoss Pea40 Pro 40kmah, Romoss Sense 8pf+ 30kmah, etc by diamond88: 8:10pm On May 12, 2018
Meeting up with a nairalander today despite the rain was a great experience. He got the Romoss Sense6P 20,000mah
Travel / Re: How Did You Raise Funds For Your First Trip Abroad? by diamond88: 6:00pm On May 12, 2018
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Im still gathering information dear. Sweden is cool. I'm interested in Germany cos of the free education.

Do you mind, I have sent you a pm coz I will like to have a chat with you.. Information is power
Politics / Re: Who Is Dr Alvan Ikoku And Why Is His Face On N10 Note? by diamond88: 3:41pm On May 12, 2018
He's more qualified than bubu. See men with vision

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