Romance › Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by Dididrumz(m): 8:47am On Jan 22, 2022 |
NovesaTillie: Please I need only matured minds on this. It's a serious matter.
My elder sister and her husband were married for 5 years and separated November last year but not divorced yet, though the families have been trying to reconcile them to come back together but my sister's husband has been adamant about it.
I noticed that ever since his separation from my sister he started visiting my place and now it has become frequent. I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.
He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd. Should I accept his proposal? An honest and simple answer from me to You is, DON"T accept it; You might possibly make an enemy out of Your sister. |
Romance › Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Dididrumz(m): 10:45pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
Fafesot: As for me, I can marry an illiterate. You must be educated as I am.. What are You saying na?? |
Politics › Re: Atiku, Saraki, Tambuwal In Proxy War Over PDP Ticket by Dididrumz(m): 7:55pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
Sleekfingers: And who go vote for saraki? Whether He go lose or win, who go vote for am go vote for am. |
Crime › Re: I Pretended As Herbalist To Dupe Unsuspecting Victims In Osun — Suspect by Dididrumz(m): 10:21am On Jan 21, 2022 |
Funny story |
Politics › Re: Atiku, Saraki, Tambuwal In Proxy War Over PDP Ticket by Dididrumz(m): 10:03am On Jan 21, 2022 |
I'd go for Saraki. |
Family › Re: My Marriage Is On The Verge Of Crashing. by Dididrumz(m): 9:46am On Jan 21, 2022 |
Noah9: I want to thank everyone for their advice and I really appreciate everyone involvement about the thread I created 2week ago. Here is the link. https://www.nairaland.com/6933724/regretted-actions-please-me
Great people of this forum, honestly things have never been better ever since that incident and I wish our minds are like show glass so that y'all would see how sorry I am inside of me. I messed up and I'm really sorry.
5 days after I created that post above, My wife traveled with my daughter to her parents house to stay without telling me. Since that incident my wife haven't said a word to me, Not a single word. Sometimes I wonder if she's the same woman I married. I'm frustrated, incoherent and I'm losing my mind.
I've been good to her, I provide 85% for my family while she bring just 15% yet I don't complain, I'm romantic and good looking, since we married I don't keep female friends not to talk of cheating. Yet She denied me sex over 2 months without any reasons, that was why I acted that way and I'm so sorry.
On Tuesday here, My friend and I traveled to her parents house, they did not even welcome us well, I don't know what she must have told her parents but I explained myself, knelt down and asked for forgiveness.
She refused to come home with me, her parents were just starring at me like I'm some demon, I requested for my daughter but she refused to release her and I've already paid my daughter's school fees for the term. Her parents said they would register my daughter in a new school, that my wife need some space for now.
Please don't call me a weak man, I'm family oriented, I don't want broken home, if she needed some space that's not a problem, I can give her all the space in the world but let her come home. It's not proper raising a child in a broken home...I'm really losing my mind.
I faced query today at work because I traveled without informing my Boss which I know he won't allow me and I know how much would be deducted from my salary. what I'm going through now I can't wish my enemies and I wish I could turn back the hands of time. I messed up.
Beloveth Pls I need advice. Chief, let me give You my own thoughts about this. From what i see, You begging Your wife isn't only because of what You did, but also because You truly love her and don't want to loose her. Now Your wife is using Your love for her against You, not what You did to her. I'd advice that You let her be, and don't apologize anymore but I know it's going to be hard for You but try it. |
Family › Re: My Marriage Is On The Verge Of Crashing. by Dididrumz(m): 9:41am On Jan 21, 2022 |
Iyaebe: Only a foolish woman denies her husband sex for no conc and genuine reasons, you should have ignored her and also refuse her when she starts showing interest, I so much hate it when a woman messes up a good man for no reasons especially if he takes care of her needs. Why are you even begging? Stop those nonsense apologies and act like a man,sometimes I like some of the teachings of the redpill, I hate weak men and they can never attract me.You've already apologized to her,stop going to her parents house to act like a simplyton,please read some of the redpill nuggets and apply it but don't add bitterness to it,it will help you act and reason like a real man.Moderator lalasticlala move to front page let nairalanders see my comment and know that I'm not biased and I have wisdom and very sensible too,let them also know that I'm just entertaining them with most of my comments. Well said. |
Politics › Re: FEC Has Approved N1.4 Billion For Youth Farmers Scheme - Lai Mohammed by Dididrumz(m): 11:36am On Jan 20, 2022 |
These big talks again. |
Sports › Re: What's Your Take; Nigeria Vs Guinea-bissau by Dididrumz(m): 10:49pm On Jan 19, 2022 |
Moses Simon is Man of the Match for Me. |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Brentford Vs Manchester United (1 - 3) On 19th January 2022 by Dididrumz(m): 10:10pm On Jan 19, 2022 |
Watching..... |
Celebrities › Re: 2baba Idibia: I No Dey Give Women Belle Again, I Don Change (Video) by Dididrumz(m): 2:46pm On Jan 13, 2022 |
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Celebrities › Re: EFCC Re-Arrests Mompha For Alleged ‘Money Laundering’ by Dididrumz(m): 9:37pm On Jan 10, 2022 |
We all know He had it coming, No Nairalander is surprised about this. |
Education › Re: JAMB UTME 2022 Thread by Dididrumz(m): 7:40pm On Jan 09, 2022 |
Adranido: Yes boss  Are You serious? Why the laughing face? I need that info for Somebody. has the registration really started? |
Celebrities › Re: Pete Edochie Celebrates His Son, Yul On His 40th Birthday by Dididrumz(m): 8:36pm On Jan 07, 2022 |
Last born |
Education › Re: JAMB UTME 2022 Thread by Dididrumz(m): 12:43am On Jan 02, 2022 |
TrustworthyQ: This thread is open to all aspirants seeking admission to higher institutions across Nigeria.
The AIM » To prepare our minds & self for the examination coming up around April/aMay 2022 » To assist each other with the latest JAMB updates. » To meet fellow aspirants (course and schools)
Undergraduates / Graduates also should help us with the secret they used in taming JAMB difficult questions and how they were able to score high...
WE CAN DO THIS TOGETHER
Let's get to know each other, Let's get ready to get our admission letters together.. Has the registration started? |
Business › Re: Please How True Is This Bitcoin Crypto Trading? My Experience Today. by Dididrumz(m): 7:09pm On Dec 29, 2021 |
queenjoseph: Ok.
Thanks.
The number of people that testified was alarming.
So it's all a fake. Its a very huge scam. Telegram is the platform where You see lots and lots of Crypto currency scammers. Don't even think about giving it a try. |
Politics › Re: Obasanjo To Nigerians: Don’t Expect Anything More From Buhari by Dididrumz(m): 7:53am On Dec 14, 2021 |
These are things we already know.
Buhari is an extremely useless president.
A terrorist is what He is. |
Music/Radio › Re: Ed Sheeran To Remix Fireboy’s 'Peru' (Video) by Dididrumz(m): 7:50pm On Dec 13, 2021*. Modified: 11:34pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Fireboy is an amazingly talented Young Man. I love his songs to the core. KingDash: omah Layy na him fada That's Your own opinion. Although omah layy also good too but I'd pick fireboy anyday any time |
Celebrities › Re: I Am A Materialistic Woman — Angel Smith Of BBNaija (Photos) by Dididrumz(m): 6:27pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
We all know |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Please What Is Confidential Cover? by Dididrumz(m): 5:20pm On Dec 10, 2021 |
Learning... |
Family › Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by Dididrumz(m): 9:07am On Dec 10, 2021 |
mosdii: Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them Brotherly, how far |
Crime › Re: Kemi Okunloyo: Sylvester Omoroni Agreed To Join A Gang, Consented To His Beating by Dididrumz(m): 6:35am On Dec 10, 2021 |
Kemi own don too much oo |
Culture › Re: Oba Elegushi Celebrates His Wife, Hadiza Tanko On Her Birthday (Photos) by Dididrumz(m): 9:33am On Dec 06, 2021 |
She's beautiful |
Crime › Re: Breaking: Faces Of Sylvester Killers At Dowen College Finally Exposed!!! by Dididrumz(m): 11:46pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
Bigredmachine: I won't support that... I would rather wish for a life imprisonment for them with extreme hard labour... Let them taste a difficult life time here on earth Seconded. Death would be blessing for them. Instead the should suffer alive knowing that they are suffering as a result of their devilish actions. |
Education › Re: When Parents Storm School To Beat Their Child's Bully by Dididrumz(m): 10:02pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
Reading... |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: I Rather Make N8M A Year Working For Myself Than N82M Working For Someone Else by Dididrumz(m): 11:56am On Dec 04, 2021 |
Really? |
Technology Market › Re: Hp Laptop Pavillion 14 For Sale!! Abuja by Dididrumz(m): 9:13am On Dec 04, 2021 |
paste007: i have updated the specs above I need to see other pictures of it. |
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Technology Market › Re: Hp Laptop Pavillion 14 For Sale!! Abuja by Dididrumz(m): 7:24am On Dec 04, 2021 |
What are other specs of this system? |
Travel › Re: Skeleton Of Man Trapped In Lava During Mount Vesuvius Eruption In 79 A.D.(Pics) by Dididrumz(m): 9:37pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
Wow |
Politics › Re: Orji Kalu, Umahi ‘in Desperate Move To Return To PDP’ ― Nkole by Dididrumz(m): 9:21pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
Una too dey talk sometimes |
Travel › Re: Intimacy gadget Found In A Passenger's Luggage While Search Was Going On. by Dididrumz(m): 4:35pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
How's that anyone's business? |