They are going down together

You just described my life. I never hammer still struggling but am learning how to be wicked on my daughters grave… that little 6year old can confess the world is wicked before she left me.

obinna58:

The thing Dey shock person to the inner core
My sister and brother Dey show me shege banza

You’ll be treated with high disregard and disrespect, you’ll be dared to do your worst, everything you do will be the most useless and stupid thing ever bcoz they’re trying to pepper you, if you not strong you die of heart attack, these are same people that use to love you and ready to do anything to help, one time you genuinely need their help and you’ll see their real personality is to pepper you for nothing sake except it gives them vibes to dominate, laugh and gossip about you. You’ll be wondering what you did to them.

Thanks there will still be someone who would be there for you, a genuine friend

We need ourselves

Myopic. Thinking beating her will make her miscarry.

Orinechi:
Just take a look at what has been browzing this fine lady 's kpekus. Women una matter tire person.

It's pathetic.

Price of Noodles has dropped in my area too.
Let's keep Hope for Nigeria Alive

Operation Celebrities: 'Watch Your Back'. 2 Down! Many more to go.

Politicians awaiting listing. Let's go.

If it’s government job he should apply for transfer. If it’s private and it becomes life threatening, he should come home we go start business.

chidekings:
women......if your husband tells you he will resign from his place of work over mere words spoken out of anger.....how would you feel?

Of course I reported her words to management. And yes am leaving because of her words not because she use correct me. The title of this thread says it all.

My life now, if you give me headache. I waka. Biko.
I have grown pass the phase of changing the world.

I shared my experience to know how others will handle such situation.

Kobojunkie:
How can I be talking of perfection when we are instead speaking of you doubly editing your work, something you are well aware you are out to do more of?

If the unethical words she used are what you have a problem with then the commonsense thing to do would be to file a report against her for just that. That is what team members do. But you didn't do that at all, did you? Instead, you can here to give us the impression that she is somehow the one to blame for you wanting to run away from your current job. I don't think so.

She is picking on me for a reason.
Month end I give her the space she wants.

haggai247:

Type your documents or proof read using goggle docs it's free. Just get good at doing your job na she go tire.

You are sounding like you are talking about perfection. My colleague has an agenda here. We are suppose to work as a team. Are you ok with the unethical words she use?

Kobojunkie:
Nobody is talking about perfection here but instead about making sure to double-check one's work to greatly minimize problems. If you have ever been hit by a typo problem yourself, you would understand how important it is for documents to be scrutinized.

She is telling to edit a graphic document. I use to do this for her before.
I told her I don't know how to do it.
She better send an official email.
Hence, till I leave I won't do anything outside the designation on my contract anymore.
When you try to be nice, some people will think you are a fool.

We are supposed to work as team. I have been condoling her for months until she made this unethical comment today. She’s had many victims on record.

Kobojunkie:
How does upping your game amount to fighting dirty? You are aware that your work might contain typos and even gave examples of how those typos could be used as a weapon against your performance. So, what does telling you to make sure to doubly proofread your work amount to asking you to fight dirty?

2. Now you are simply sounding like a typical Nigerian, always thinking enemies are everywhere when they are merely running from their own shadows.

Make you no jam them o.
Some people re weirdos.
I fear human especially when they don’t settle right with me.

kalufelix:
Maybe you are not professional and competent enough...as a man i have had this sort of work place scenario several times...even the staffs that have worked for a decade i conquer and silence them all with my competence in just under a month...infact na me go come carry ship like captain...don't run from bad energy...show your own energy.

Not at all.

AcadaWriter:
Did she catch you with her boyfriend?

I don’t fight dirty Biko. The sky is wide enough for all. If am not wanted I will continue moving until I start up my own business again.

This is why some people get poisoned. I repeat. “Bad energy stay far away” is the motto of successful people. You don’t manage a self acclaimed wicked person. They don’t change. You won’t grow.

Kobojunkie:
And when you get to the new job and find someone exactly like her there, hope you also intend to find a new job even then rather than upping your game?

LoL I dey fear all these diabolic prophet visiting girls these day o. No be my papa company. E get why na only her don dey for over five years.

BigYash:
Girl like you wan make you run? Fear is why she has been winning,nothing wen she fit do.. As she told you she will cause you pain,you sef go say you go cut her ear.. she sef go start fear..

WoW na you feel me pass.
I wonder why they are like that or is it because the grace is sufficient for them, they now feel they can be evil and ask for favour?
Am indeed baffled

dopedan:

Those people that listen to that YouTube nsspd or whatever most of them have very bad character and use the prayers to cover up. I had one neighbor that always shout amen every morning disturbing my ears yet shes very envious and has bad mouth

I’ll start looking. I know I will find.
Thanks. Kids are fine. Dad is supportive of them.

This is a wake up call. Am taking it in good faith.

Kobojunkie:
I am sorry what? What bad energy? Anyway, I hope you don't intend to have your kids struggle as a result of this. Do you already have another job lined up? Is that why you don't mind resigning at this point?

I don't do well with bad energies.
I avoid them.

Kobojunkie:
Why?

She has been setting people up for so long. She is the only staff that has stayed for more than 5 years.

Don't underate a threat from a self acclaimed evil person.

blazingyou:
She can not do more than a dead rat...

Don't be afraid of her instead, always be self conscious around her and PRAY...

If you see my own office space, as quiet as it is uhmmm God know say I go paja


I sell fabulous Ankara and Ankara Adire. It is very durable and affordable.

Thanks. Am planning my resignation by the end of this month. I will struggle to keep my cool till then.

Kobojunkie:
If she is evil, then you can always choose to be the power for good, and make sure to stand up against all evil she perpetrates in the office against you or others by using appropriate channels.

She isn't necessarily the problem with the work environment. The disproportionate ratio of evil to good workers is. If we had more "good" workers in an office than evil ones, then office life would be a saner one.

May we not see evil or cross path with evil as we seek our daily bread.
My fellow female colleague told me that "She is evil and she will give me pains".
The only mistakes I do occasionally that I am aware of is typo. Because am a typist and editor.
I have never had any issue with her on the job from what I know.
She reported a mistake another colleague of ours made few minutes later.
Claiming I made that mistake.
Well, I have prove to show I didn't type that document scheduled to be submitted outside our office.
And every morning she dey on Youtube prayers very loud on her phone

NB: I wonder why Nigerian work environment is normally hostile. How productive can we...

And boys are not losing it these days

And boys need not have body count

Double standard smelling like rotten egg

Continue disrespecting your ancestors that fought for the life you have today.

PaNnamdi:

Useless barbaric traditions that can never lead to progress na e you dey wan dey practice. Africans deserved to be left without civilization so that you can practice your traditions like the lost sentinelese tribes.black man hate progress

All these counseling, marriages are breaking everyday. Una better turn marriage to renewable contract and forget religion.

Lol…
Really? Some girls can be unbelievable.

Mikuni:
" Baby what about the money you promised to send"

Amidst all these tragic incidents.

Life is still going on like a moving train.

Wahala for who no sabi move quickly after a tragedy hits.

Time waits for no one. May God heal us.

I don kuku download am

You know how many people I don lost?
Well, different stroke for different folks.

We react based on our experience in life.
Make I no exchange words with you.

Peace

blackgold2018:
mugu with no remorse or experience.

Let one of your sibling, papa or mama die. And eventually see his or her dead corpse pictures in the internet.
Then come back here and say this thrash you wrote.

Foolish being

When we refuse to respect our ancestors and claim to be Arabs and European descendants.

Some should explain this.

There is nothing wrong here. The man is a public figure and will want his death and life to be celebrated. Nigerians and emotional attachment.
RIP Pope, till we meet again.

Safety Measures; must a tragedy occur before these measures should be put in place.

It’s only in Nigeria that a whole resident will not have a First Aid Box or Fire Extinguisher.

An average Nigeria can neither not swim nor perform a CPR our own is to pray and shout.

May we not be victims.

There are more than a thousand ways to die.

Let’s talk small. We all have our own coming.

Peace.