What is unconditional love self
It seems y'all are misunderstanding it

Kobojunkie:
Unconditional love ? Where is this coming from?

Because women are what, useless to you

ChizzyBuna:

There are 3 types of people that take relationship adivce from women.
1. Children
2. Fools
3. Simps

What if the other party is not interested in the union

Try bail her

Babe, Move. Before you get pregnant. Don't bring a child to this mess

I speak from experience. If you know, you know

Your moniker suits your imagination

LuvSwollenPussy:
Lol. This divorcee 19 girl, you sha want to dey talk like woman of all wisdom and you never get the experience enough. Calm down you never reach that level. You don't sound responsible yourself let alone knowing what responsibility costs

It can. There are always exemptions in life.
Myself cannot be one alone.
I know alot more

Notorioustroll:
Money cannot tame the desire to have a taste of another dick.

Speak for yourself, not every woman is like you.

I get your drift. Am talking about family values and blood line.
Am talking about accepting our family and learning how to appreciate our differences without being judgemental with family members. Am talking about reducing our expectations from our bloodlines, we didn't chose our family

Klass99:

I can go on but I am sure you catch my drift. Unconditional love is a crap load of BS, I think only the Lord God Almighty is capable of it, but even with Him, you go collect when your cup is full and you don't want to repent.

.... It is deep..

izzou:


Okay

This is the point where i sign off from your thread.

Thank you

Yes.
Unconditional.
Leave judgement to our creator.

izzou:


So the child that was dumped at the roadside by his biological mother should love her ?

Is this part of your point?

This is where religion has come to destroy our history and brotherhood bloodline..

This is why we condemn ourselves and claim to be from where we have no ties with.

This is why we raise children to hate/envy themselves on little dispute.

If we can't love our own blood regardless, how do we then love another.

Let us learn to value and respect family ties

izzou:


God will always value a relationship over blood

Jacob and Esau were brothers. Yet Jacob remained relevant

Ruth was a Moabite. She chose to stick with Naomi, and became a descendant of Jesus...A Moabite..

So if my brother hates me, I should choose him first because he is my brother?

What makes us family is my relationship with you. If it is not there, nothing can be forced

The foundation for us to bind ourselves as family is the Lord's making. You are already binded by blood. Now it's your duty to create a relationship...

God didn't choose our spouse for us. We did.
God chosed our family for us. There is a reason.

izzou:


How can i uphold a value that does not exist?

There has to be a foundation for us to bind ourselves as a family; and that foundation is our relationship

If we don't have any relationship, we can't call ourselves family

If we have a relationship, we can call ourselves family

By upgrading your bedroom skills/stamina and be responsible financially

If you want to keep her for yourself alone.

It's tested and trusted

Family members are related by blood. Relationship or no relationship.

If this value is upheld rightly there will always be a relationship within the family and the society at large will benefit.

Remember, family is our first society.

izzou:


Being in a family does not qualify us to have a relationship

It is being in a relationship that qualifies us to be a family

So the phrase "irrespective of your relationship" flaws the point.

The relationship gan gan, is what defines us as a family

Ok, so the baby is your blood but you have memories with your wife and you can still make more babies with her

My friends call me Moses. Omo I dey trek fire commot from my legs

What God Has Joined Together, No Man Put Asunder To Is Family.
See, you can choose your spouse or partner to create/procreate a family with. But, you can't choose your family members. A man/woman can lose a partner to the cold hands of death and get remarried within a few months or years but your family members irrespective of your relationship with that member can never be replaced by another.

If parents can adopt this common sense into their household principle then, things will start getting better in our society.

Parents should learn how to teach children to accept their differences as siblings and give unconditional love each other.

Edited: Your family is your history

Good hair cream and conditioner on a clean scalp will keep your wig cool even on hot sunny days

In most cases I see...

Bad spouse, good in-laws
Or
Good spouse bad in-laws

Or is it just me

No. Please

Good move Dino

Na

I fell for his handsome looks but his character almost destroyed my life and my kids

How about the upkeep of their kids?
Maybe his mum will also take better care of her grandchildren too

Why Next Life?
Because it's not paying in this life....my heart bleeds

Solofresh2:
Your goodness will pay for you in your next life

If she loves kids yes. Test her with other kids to find out if she loves kids.

Some people/parents don't like kids

Postinor happiness is just 2days

Postinor:
a night with me and u would experience true happiness

Gawd, this looks like real happiness.
Why don't we (good people) deserve this

Edited: real happiness is natural chemistry from both sides for me.
Am not talking about money.

Am not open for that yet

WantsandMore:
hmm interesting, don't you have a partner who requires your sexual attention?

No other benefit like you mentioned but there is peace of mind and self respect benefit involved especially when you have kids like me

WantsandMore:
but why the sudden choice of celibacy for such a long time though? Asides from spiritual benefits any social or economic benefits?