₦airaland Forum

2500 am about to resign

Depends on the conditions attached before the borrowing.
Trust me.
But our indigenous loan apps have to learn to do better. Defaming defaulters online won't make people pay.
Conditions are very important when giving out a loan. Don't just assume the person will pay, until they are comfortable doing so

Yeah. We are thinking about it

I've learned the hard way

Pusyiter:
You are right
People need you only for their self aggrandisement
No one needs you just because you are you!

Thanks

Emma1Oj:
if no one do, I DO! I heart you. All I need is a chance.

Thank you for this

tollyboy5:
You need yourself more. You need your happiness

Thinking that people need me

madone:
i don't have such guy. Don't waste another woman's man.

I want a decent guy. But no marriage

madone:
There is love in Africa. Quote or dm me to link up with nice decent Nigerian guys for marriage... please be responsible bf you contact me

Some decide to stay and work on their relationship because our society frown at breakups and divorce. Thank God, for social media has come to liberate those living in bondage

Nobody should be worried over situations beyond our control. The Lord's will, will be done. And Las Las we go dey alright

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Mind your business

Negative effect of social media

Divorce does not mean your children with suffer. It simply means...

You can't force these things on anyone
Know when it's infatuation and not love
Love yourself first
Remember, no one can complete you except yourself

Indomie and egg and mineral
Once a day for 3 weeks

She no get ulcer? Wow

No.
I realized now that marriage is not for everyone no matter how hard you try to fix things. Marriage is not for me.
Was once married for 11 years, I almost lost myself, my life, I have promised not to marry again

Lasgidi to the moon.
We will get there some day.
One day all our citizen biometrics on BVN, Drivers license, NiN, International Passport, Voters Card, IPPIS, Jamb e.t.c. will be synchronize to one data base.
Just one day

Thanks I have learned.
Am not pained only disappointed I didn't succeed. Your own karma is loading too. It's just that, you won't be courageous enough to spill it here.
It's all good though

Monzze:
it might be karma hitting you hard. Relax and learn.
The more you fight it, the more you get wounded

A lot of married people are sexually starved.

Oh, thank you. I had trauma when I also lost my 6years old daughter due to this marriage crisis. My mum took me in for months. I think am okay but a professional evaluation should be profitable too. Thanks again

Magnetic010:
Sorry for what you’ve been through- I know you might not want to hear this but I think you should see someone; like a professional. You might be dealing with some emotional trauma

pansophist:
Lots of people these days are not marriageable. Men and women.

You just hit the nail here. Oil Dey Your Head
It's also not healthy to marryy out of pity
Trust me, a lot of people do.

pryme:
Have you given up on getting married again? or you have settled for being single but married.

I have given up on marriage. It's not for me.

Reminderz:
lol like someone up there says, lot of people are not marriageable or have the proper attitude and personality needed for a good relationship/marriage... madame you might be the problem yourself... fix yourself...

And if am not the problem? I bounce,

I'll soon settle for that. No commitment.

TheZeezle:
That's for sure. But u Sha dey knack? Abi if marriage no dey for everyone but every women needs good knaackerdemos.

Greed or whatever, Nigerian society will never let you leave until you have almost collapse or death is involved. Before they start to reason with you. I have learnt that, red flags continue to fly higher as the years go by.

People don't change.
They only pretend to please you temporally.

Monzze:
seems you're too greedy to let go and you keep on getting served

I want to spoil myself biko. I need time to heal my brain and mentality first

sacajawea:
Eeyah sorry. Oya come let me Spoil you small
Sugar baby treatment

How about those that didn't marry for financial security and the marriage still didn't work out because they other party is not ready... Well, Only matured minds will understand I need not try to make you see any point here

Fiscus105:
Using ur own toxic predicament to generalise.


Not until you girls stop marrying for lust instead of pure love and for financial security.

These does not guarantee successful marriage