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Op your post is imbued with regrets which ofcourse is part of human frailty and clearly indicate that you are ready to change. From your story I inferred that you were not born gay. It was an act you nurtured while growing as a child to adulthood. Progress can be made to this effect if you are determined to change. However I have some few questions for you.

1. Do you feel guilty because you know and feel that such act is bad or you feel guilty because society abhors it?

2. Do you feel guilty because you may not be able to marry or maintain a successful marriage?


Marriage target should not be your priority for now until you have fully worked on yourself. You wouldn't want a situation where you'd be married with kids and still have gay tendencies. This will subsequently lead to break down of the marriage and inter alia, viz divorce.

What do you do to help yourself.

*Seek counselling.
*Find people who have successfully transformed from gay to straight and ask them how they did it.
*Success stories could trigger the zeal to change.
*Become close to God. Odds are God plays a pivotal role in such a situation. It's something you cannot do on your own.
*Start hooking up with girls....It's time to start getting laid..Yes you need hot gals in your life.

The day I became a man and started taking responsibility for my actions and also take care of other people.

Op, Couldn't understand your write up at all. Exits thread.

Some will start turning gay. Imprisonment in Africa is like condemnation.

Some will start turning gays. Imprisonment in Nigeria is like condemnation.

Teempakguy:
Djeezy . . . seriously? I'm a guy so there's no way you could have guessed what I was thinking when you caught me staring at your pix.

Hahaha funny you. Yea right.

Someone should watch n describe what he or she saw. Can't waste my mb.

Just tell her period. Even if it offends her. Leaky big butt u call it.

Lying to get babes ain't my thing. They love the real me.

If I like the name my ex bears I can name my child. Ain't nothing like naming after my ex. Then again, depends on how the relationship ended.

Too skinny.

Observing.

Vickybee:
I don't really know. He just opened this thread.

I think he has an ulterior motive behind it.

lol okay.

Vickybee:
Sending my greetings.

lol...See u. Howz u? What's d prob btw u n op?

Anything good.

Vickybee:

did u miss road?

Where is the picture.?

Nigerians and overload.

Why can't she allow us see her nipples. Never ever...

Raping in turns? There's nothing funny about that.

henribj:
that's the whole idea
man should not be limited in his thinking
how your side? hope good

Good bro. Howz u?

Smh. Sometimes it's the other way round.

henribj:
1. what if you love the second person only because of something which you are currently not able to get from the first person
2. what if your relationship with the first person ended and now you met and are in a relationship with the second person, only for the first person to come back, and you know deep down that you still love the first person, who then do you love more?

Quite logical. You just thought outside the box

joshuaidibia:
I dislike peeps like you that thinks themselves 'Superman'... Go try that stuff with Naval officer daughter.

Do you know if I have a naval officer in my house or someone more higher. Now stfu.

Is marriage by force? You only end up like that when the DPO's status is higher than yours As for me nobody can try shiit.

After having kids. Ofcourse yes.

And supporters from the two opposing sides will come here and bash themselves.

I did it. I spoilt sha from secondary school. I was mostly desired by the female folks.

Eye opener. Nice story.

ginawest:
rip to the dead

Did you read the story at all?