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Romance › Re: The Trick I Used On My Girlfriend In Order To Know She's Been Cheating On Me by dmcdad: 5:46pm On Oct 14, 2015

IceDude:
Nairalanders pls u guyz should help me beg my lovely Onstelly. I love her so much but its like she wanna break up with me.......if she doesnt forgive me "I would rather kill myself than commit suicide" . @To whom it may concern

You are like me. Rather than commit suicide, I just kill myself whenever I feel like. cheesy

Romance › Re: The Trick I Used On My Girlfriend In Order To Know She's Been Cheating On Me by dmcdad: 5:42pm On Oct 14, 2015

gift407:
nt even wen u re married?

If you do that when you are married, how then do you hope to make babies?

Romance › Re: The Trick I Used On My Girlfriend In Order To Know She's Been Cheating On Me by dmcdad: 5:22pm On Oct 14, 2015

uzo4real:
...and when they are caught, they start forming tears asif they were charmed intially.

No mind them. All crocodile tears.

Romance › Re: The Trick I Used On My Girlfriend In Order To Know She's Been Cheating On Me by dmcdad: 5:19pm On Oct 14, 2015

obiak4:
me too

Me three.

Romance › Re: The Trick I Used On My Girlfriend In Order To Know She's Been Cheating On Me by dmcdad: 5:18pm On Oct 14, 2015

Sweetyie:
Not uu

I know. I am speaking for him.

Romance › Re: The Trick I Used On My Girlfriend In Order To Know She's Been Cheating On Me by dmcdad: 5:17pm On Oct 14, 2015

Sweetyie:
OK. Can I be ur next girlfriend?

Yeah you can.

Romance › Re: The Trick I Used On My Girlfriend In Order To Know She's Been Cheating On Me by dmcdad: 5:04pm On Oct 14, 2015

mizzyboy007:
the moral lesson is that you should stop sleeping around.

Lol... That girl don suffer today. cheesy

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Romance › Re: The Trick I Used On My Girlfriend In Order To Know She's Been Cheating On Me by dmcdad: 5:02pm On Oct 14, 2015

happney65:
Na why una dey have unprotected sex in the first Place?My take has being,No condom,no sex.Fact

Gbam!

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Romance › Re: A Lady Just Proposed To My Cousin by dmcdad: 4:43pm On Oct 14, 2015

gassdon:
The people that about to be married = bride
The people marrying = Groom
Now:
The girl wants to marry the cousin (She = Groom)
The cousin is about getting married ( HE = bride)

Ha ha ha ha ha ha. Nice analogy.

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Romance › Re: A Lady Just Proposed To My Cousin by dmcdad: 4:30pm On Oct 14, 2015

gassdon:
Just wait and collect your Cousin bride price!

New development but is good for African culture to help naive men sharp sharp.

Groom price you meant?

Romance › Re: A Lady Just Proposed To My Cousin by dmcdad: 4:24pm On Oct 14, 2015

48noble:
Clouding his judgement and sense of responsibility with her gifts and offers just to have his baby.

Hmmm... I need not say more. You know better than I do cause I guess you havw probably seen her, and know first hand what she is like. So, you are in a better position to adjudge.

Romance › Re: A Lady Just Proposed To My Cousin by dmcdad: 3:39pm On Oct 14, 2015

48noble:
Invading someone's future

What do you mean by this?

Romance › Re: The Trick I Used On My Girlfriend In Order To Know She's Been Cheating On Me by dmcdad: 3:37pm On Oct 14, 2015

Tabh:
These are the Demerits of getting married or maintaining a relationship but then,it is almost compulsory.
We can't be too careful.

You are right. But the emboldened post was in reference to HIV positive candidates. Lol. I wasn't referring to normal relationship or marriage settings. I don't have a problem with that on a normal circumstance.

I was referring to the fact that being HIV positive means one would have to take extra steps, as there will be a special way of craving the indulgence of your supposed spouse and his or her family on the matter on ground. The process of convincing them to allow you go ahead with the marriage and all would be one hell of a mountain to climb. As for a couple with one of em being HIV positive, special steps would be taken in order for them to have sex and all. Another wahala on its own. Not to talk about childbirth. HIV wahala go too much abeg.

On a separate note, I must confess a lot of people ain't worth it in terms of having any form of union with them. As a man, it's hard to find ladies who are worth my time and everything. A lot of people just don't have anything to offer.

Romance › Re: A Lady Just Proposed To My Cousin by dmcdad: 3:03pm On Oct 14, 2015

48noble:
I don't fuk around with words...I'm frankly speaking

Cool then.

European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Fc Barcelona Fan Thread: "més Que Un Club" by dmcdad: 3:02pm On Oct 14, 2015

raumdeuter:
Neymar has been injured, He has not been playing NT games.
Only for his club 4 goals 1 assist. tell us about Hidden Pius Ikedia

European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Fc Barcelona Fan Thread: "més Que Un Club" by dmcdad: 3:01pm On Oct 14, 2015

homesteady:
ohhh.. I get it now!

But I thought they have stopped this FP stuff?

For where? Why do you think Madrid sold Maria? Cause they wanted to acquire Hamez's signature right? If Maria had not gone, they wouldn't have been able to fund it because of the same rule.

Romance › Re: The Trick I Used On My Girlfriend In Order To Know She's Been Cheating On Me by dmcdad: 2:58pm On Oct 14, 2015

Tabh:
Glad there are men who still believe in equality as long as it is not abused and they are not intimidated. Thumb up.
Back to the matter,the guy did well by letting her go,he believes in love and commitment, good for him.
On his end note,he did well by highlighting the moral of his story. Know your status,I'm sure this is his first test though so he's really happy.
I don leave matter for Mathias o,I no fit Talk again.

Thanks for your understanding. Glad we could come to terms.

Seriously, HIV no be better matter ooooo. Forget say money fit help to sustain the body and all, but the thought of it alone is heartbreaking to say the least.

You wan marry, extra caution. You wan born, extra caution. Anything you dey do na extraordinary caution you go dey apply. I no like such controlled life abeg. That's even when you have the money. The average man go just kick the bucket before you know it.

Romance › Re: The Trick I Used On My Girlfriend In Order To Know She's Been Cheating On Me by dmcdad: 2:53pm On Oct 14, 2015

brutalkhleo:
before you kill your self on top another person matter laugh small... Mumuni entered a mosque carrying a brand new cutlass and asked: "who is a Muslim here?" The whole mosque went as silent as a grave yard.
Mumuni asked again "how can a full mosque have no Muslim?". No one replied.
Mumuni then grabbed the nearby young man and went out with him and told him "son come help me kill my goat because i don't know how to do it".
After the young man had killed the goat, he told Mumuni that he didn't know how to skin it and that Mumuni should go back to the mosque and get someone else to help him do that.
Mumuni returned to the mosque with the cutlass dripping with blood. When the IMAM saw Mumuni again in the mosque with blood dripping from his cutlass, he immediately shouted "MY BROTHERS IN CHRIST, PRAISE THE LOOORD OOOOO!"
The whole mosque responded:
"Halleluyaaa
Where una dey eyin eniyan...you can now continue arguing lol

You just made my day with this. Thanks. cheesy

Romance › Re: The Trick I Used On My Girlfriend In Order To Know She's Been Cheating On Me by dmcdad: 2:52pm On Oct 14, 2015*

Larryfly:
My brother, love blinds. If i insist, it ll be as if i am doubting her fidelity and she will start crying over the place. I decided to stop having sex with her but whenever we meet I just loose control cos she is the only girl i have sex with and her body is irresistible. But the risk involved just hit me now. I m confused.

Well, I get your point. I really do now. But then, the risk involved should be the determining factor here and not what think about her or what she would say if you decide not to. If this were to be your wife, then it would have been a different kettle of fish.

It's for the safety of both parties. The thing is, often times people allow themselves to be carried away with the phantasm and the pleasure that flows in the air. Only if you could take a step back and do that little thing (condom) which could ultimately be one's saving grace, then the fear will be minimal and the rate at which people contact HIV would be drastically reduced.

The day a friend told me she has HIV, infact, not someone I know in person. I never saw her before then, and till date have not met her in person. I had tears in my eyes all through that day. I was in the church for it was a Sunday, playing the keyboard during mass (Church service) and my eyes couldn't stop dropping water. I was just imagining I was the one in her shoes.

Enough is a word for the wise.

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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Fc Barcelona Fan Thread: "més Que Un Club" by dmcdad: 2:40pm On Oct 14, 2015

homesteady:
I've been hearing about this 10 million Euros stuff, can you explain more?

I will try.

Owing to the size of our squad (that is the amount of salary that is being paid out) and coupled with the fact that our debt is at 300+million Euros, we can't afford to spend anything higher than 10million with the FP regulation. If we were to be able to sign above that amount, we must sell or have additional means of generating revenues.

Alternatively, if we can secure the Camp Nuo naming rights deal before the end of the year, it would automatically remove that barrier because we would have secured another source of income outside the usual, it would also allow us to offset some of our debts (as UEFA says every club must pay around 10-15% of their debts every season to be able to operate properly.

In conclusion, the factors that affects that amount are but not limited to: the players' salary, the club's income, the external debt the club is owing, lack of new sources of revenue, and non-sales if players.

Romance › Re: The Trick I Used On My Girlfriend In Order To Know She's Been Cheating On Me by dmcdad: 2:26pm On Oct 14, 2015

emmboy:
Thank you so much for breaking it down to her and I must say, it's like I explained everything to you in details personally cos you really understand the whole thing and also you seem to have a good eagle-sight about relationships. You have my 1000 likes.

Thank you sir.

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Romance › Re: The Trick I Used On My Girlfriend In Order To Know She's Been Cheating On Me by dmcdad: 2:24pm On Oct 14, 2015

naughtynaughty:
Raw is sweeter..u don't eat groundnut wit its back nah. Jxt have 1 partner shikenna!!!

How can you tell for sure that you are the only one? Trust or no trust, HIV no be malaria oooooo. Make people take time ooooo.

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Romance › Re: The Trick I Used On My Girlfriend In Order To Know She's Been Cheating On Me by dmcdad: 2:22pm On Oct 14, 2015

Owliver:
ohyh she's innocent and her friends are the bad eggs. what a petty ediot people like her are wicked. Op thank God you are done with such a person.

No mind the scallywag. cheesy

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Romance › Re: The Trick I Used On My Girlfriend In Order To Know She's Been Cheating On Me by dmcdad: 2:21pm On Oct 14, 2015

pinceprinz:
So, b4 I begin to straf a she-goat, na to show me her result wey no pass 2wks afore-fukc remain oh

Nice one op

Result or no result, placker with a condom. Even with result, you know whether as una dey date, she just run on quickie before coming over to your place?

If you can't abstain, use a condom. No amount of trust should make anyone placker raw. Haba!

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Romance › Re: The Trick I Used On My Girlfriend In Order To Know She's Been Cheating On Me by dmcdad: 2:19pm On Oct 14, 2015

Tabh:
I read it all and I got the message he passed esp aabout not trusting your partner and having yourself checked at intervals.

Everything still boils down to lack of trust,if i would doubt someone,theres no point going into a relationship in the first place.

Your intuition may not fail you here,No,I do not know what relationship is all about,i can only sqy it's total waste of time. I've been there so I'm talking from experience.

You wouldn't mind me here,I'm a full time advocate for the emancipation of the womenfolk,somehow,it is naturally built in us even you as a man would find fault in a woman. 10x before alloting one fault to the man,~~you may choose to deny it.~~

There is a vast difference between not trusting anyone at all, and having a hint about someone playing on your intelligence, and then working to find out what it is. This is where you are getting it wrong. That is if you so choose to admit it.

He said he suspected something, not like he didn't trust her from the get go. There is a difference between both and that's where you are getting it all wrong.

Meanwhile, I admitted in my initial quote to you that what you said about a possible change of scenery from what the OP earlier envisioned. That is, maybe he could have been the one with the positive, and inturn infecting her, who then inturn infects the other guy. I admitted that but you wouldn't notice such because you are hell-bent on fighting a lost battle. Lol

For the records, I stand up for the womenfolk. I believe so much in the chain or golden rule: do unto others what you would want them do to you. This makes me an advocate for equality. Contrary to what a lot of men and even women belief, that it's in men's nature to cheat. I don't believe in that. I believe we make our decisions and we should account for them. People just look for easy means of backing up their misdeeds.

As for you, you should be more objective with your views. Fighting for a cause doesn't mean one should be completely blind to see the other side. It doesn't mean you shouldn't take full cognizance of the glaring facts. I am saying this in relation to your stand on this issue. To you, the guy is all faulty even though he stated it categorically that he suspected she was having an affair(meanwhile, he didn't say he never trusted her from the outset).

Heck, even if he did suspect from the outset, are you saying we are in a relationship (just an example) and I see you having certain discrepancies as regards our relationship and as opposed to what I used to know about you, and I shouldn't ask and also be on the lookout because I trust you completely? Are you saying people don't break the trust others have in them? So because I trust you, you give me a silly excuse once and I take it without doubt and yet you continue on such trend and I shouldn't be on the lookout? Are you even human? Lol... Because if you are from planet earth you should know better.

Babe, make we leave matter for mathias. Let truth be told, the OP didn't do bad to suspect she cheated on him because he saw the signs. Don't misinterpret that to be that he never trusted her from whence they started.

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Romance › Re: The Trick I Used On My Girlfriend In Order To Know She's Been Cheating On Me by dmcdad: 1:25pm On Oct 14, 2015

tosyne2much:
I come learn from this thread no

Ohh ok. I don get partner wey me and am go learn together then. cheesy

Romance › Re: The Trick I Used On My Girlfriend In Order To Know She's Been Cheating On Me by dmcdad: 1:21pm On Oct 14, 2015

tosyne2much:
Nawa oooo

OP, what about people like us wey neva get under skirt before ? Do we also have to conduct an HIV test ?

You wan start again abi? Lol

Romance › Re: The Trick I Used On My Girlfriend In Order To Know She's Been Cheating On Me by dmcdad: 1:16pm On Oct 14, 2015

Tabh:
The trick I used to know my girlfriend is cheating on me.

That's his topic, he never said he knew she was cheating,he only used trick to get her to confess which worked for him. If he trusted her at all,he would not always accuse her of cheating.

I'm sure if he had tested positive to HIV,he would believe she infected him meanwhile it could be vice versa.

Guys don't ever accept responsibility for whatever happens to them esp if it involves a woman.

It is now vividly clear you didn't read the OP's post. Please, go up there and read it again. You took cognizance of just the title of the thread to make up your comment.

In the first paragraph, he made mention of the fact that he had a feeling she was cheating on him. What do you think could have triggered this feeling of his? Did I hear you say signs? Of course! He must have seen some signs to know something was actually up. It's a good thing he wasn't completely blind with the whole lovey-dovey thingy. He was able to make use of his senses to tell something ain't right.

And for the records, if you have doubts about someone or something in a relationship, the best thing to do is ask, which he rightly did. To fault him with that means you have no idea what a relationship entails or how things are being done in a relationship, courtship, or marriage as the case may be.

Would you have had him trust her blindly and take everything she throws at him hook, line and sinker? Sorry to ask; do you even know the rudiments of a relationship? Do you know communication is the bedrock of every relationship? And when doubts begin to surface what do you suppose is the best way to handle them? You don't suppose it's best to talk them over with your partner?

For all I care the OP did everything accordingly. He had doubts, and to clear them he inquired from her on several occasions, albeit she refused to tell him the truth. And in the long run he did his trick and lo and behold, it worked! And you are faulting him about not trusting her blah blah blah... Na wa ooooo.

Makes me wonder... Why is it that in every issue that comes to the fore, especially against the female folks, some of you are always quick to object it even without having full knowledge of what such an issue entails? It seems some girls take pride in what some people call the "gender-war." Shouldn't you be more concerned about what is being said, rather than who it's being directed at?

Too many questions.

Like I said from the get go, read the piece again and you will have a better understanding of what transpired. Reading the title alone could be misleading at times.

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Romance › Re: A Lady Just Proposed To My Cousin by dmcdad: 12:57pm On Oct 14, 2015*

Sunexy:
At least, she ain't a gold digger

Lol... Abi ooooo. Afterall, the average Nigerian girl no fit buy her guy boxer shorts sef not to mention engagement ring.

@op, if this is true as it were, then you should wait to see if she really did buy what she said she bought. It could be some prank you know...

And for the records, I presumed this cousin of yours to be you. Enough of all these third party thingy on NL. It's always my friend, brother, sister, cousin blah blah blah... Nobody wan dey come out plain again.

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Romance › Re: The Trick I Used On My Girlfriend In Order To Know She's Been Cheating On Me by dmcdad: 12:43pm On Oct 14, 2015

brutalkhleo:
but seriously for you to cheat it means you are no longer interested in the relationship ....so end the relationship and feel free to do whatever you like

Abi...

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Romance › Re: The Trick I Used On My Girlfriend In Order To Know She's Been Cheating On Me by dmcdad: 12:42pm On Oct 14, 2015

jimmyolasun:
because they aren't prepared for the exam.

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Romance › Re: The Trick I Used On My Girlfriend In Order To Know She's Been Cheating On Me by dmcdad: 12:42pm On Oct 14, 2015

jbazic:
HIV the only exam everybody wanna fail.

The only exam people fail and them go dey happy. Chai! cheesy

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