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nairalanders na wha 4 ohnaooo se how all of ona just they juke with person life, a be ona no kno saye love na very good thing to person life why oh na they tak am for juk i no like ùo n'pas bon, c'est n'pas bon, parle un francaise

pouqui

looking for a cute girl within the ages of 23 to27, any one redy to date if redy then lets start

thanks for ur kind sugestions but what we are saying here is true love that has to do with heart

oluwafemi113:
if am right you can`t ask a babe out, if yes
brother act fast before you rich 45 yrs old, just go meet any babe you see first thing tomorrow tell her how good she is
and let see if it we work out and not even if you do n`t love her but try that and see, and do that time to time with babes
you go become master by the next month if you can try this and it works for you

i have not being able to love throughout my poor life, but now that i do am i maen should i say am in the side of it please Nairalanders help give me the courage to carry on.

obosoc:
Everyone seems to support the idea of having friends but not everyone knows how to keep their friendships healthy and growing. This article describes three mistakes that people do which harms or destroys their relationships.

NOT COMMUNICATING IN A HEALTHY MANNER - Communication requires effort. Assuming what the other person is thinking or doing can be very deceptive and can lead to incorrect conclusions. In order to understand the perspective of the other person, you must be willing to ask good questions, show respect while the person explains and then discuss the situation. Sometimes, miscommunication requires that the individuals forgive themselves and each other before they can move on. One of the consequences of poor communication is stress for not only the individuals but also for the friendship. The best thing to do to avoid this, is to have honest and frequent conversations with the other person,

TAKING IT FOR GRANTED - Often we don't miss something until it disappears. There is no maintenance in life. Things are either growing or stagnating and this concept applies to all things including friendships. When you take a relationships for granted it is usually because you have forgotten the value of it or have forgotten to value and treasure it. It is not wise to assume that a person or relationship will be there at our convenience. Being thankful for your friendship needs to be a constant attitude - present not only in your own mind and heart but also in the conversations you have with and about your friend.
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To Read the conclusion of this Log on to www.moneyspills.com/forum and go to the romance and dating board

thanks for your contribution am on my way to you are forum

why are girls taking valentine more serious than the normal love?
i have come to realize that alot of or 2/3 of the girls all over the word takes valentine much more serious than any other time ment for sharing of good times or love. its now a crime for a guy if he happiens not to take his girl friend out on valentines day, i think this has to stop please lets look for away out cause its really really becoming unbeareble

place you opinion now!!!

thanks

thanks but needed more of ur help ok

drwhopl:
guy if this girl says u should be friends,then jes chill.i wouldn't want you to put your hopes on her,try another girl.i bet you that once u can divert your mind to another girl,she's gon be doing the running,just don't act as if you are desperate or else she'll play you like a violin.

be cool,calm,and calculative.

at times,loving just one girl that doesn't love you might just be a waste.imagine her agreeing on the first instance,and coming back to tell you she's not in again.dude don't let no girl play you like that,be sharp.


thanks man but you she, true love is stronger than that control of a man, do you think that i've not try leting things be, i've tried and yet the more i try the more it grow worst, just like the sickness of a man, treat it quick enough and completing your medication heals you, remaining and hoping kills faster than any other thing, see i can do every thing just for me to spend the rest of my life with, now that i know living without her is a hell for me, please guys tell me some thing impressive for i to do in other for us to be happy.

you'll be suprised that asking her out was a mistake,she would have given you the lay,but who knows you might have blown it.

one advice "boys no they toast again oh."

i just got to know recently.

thanks man but you see, true love is stronger than that control of a man, do you think that i've not try leting things be, i've tried and yet the more i try the more it grow worst, just like the sickness of a man, treat it quick enough and completing your medication heals you, remaining and hoping kills faster than any other thing, see i can do every thing just for me to spend the rest of my life with, now that i know living without her is a hell for me, please guys tell me some thing impressive for i to do in other for us to be happy.

dollyn:
@poster.Did u mean.CAN SOMEONE TELL ME THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN LOVE AND FRIENDSHIP.i was a little bit surprised when i saw"defferent".
wel don't think the girl wants u 4 a relationship maybe she just likes u on a friendship basis.u don't need to force yourself on her by trying 2 change ur attitude since she said she can't cope with it.though i think u should still try and change ur temperament 4 ur own good.so dear,i know u would find someone who will truly love u and not play games with u.best of luck.

am sorry ok, but it seems you dont understand the pains i passes through every blessed day, i take sadness, pains and sorrows as breakfast, launch, and dinner, am having a sleepless night, not only that i've reduce from my normal size, at every minute of my life pains is the only companion that i've goten so far. please i think i know the real thing i feel for her and that is true love. just keep joks and help me out thanks man!

topup:
[color=#cc0066]There is 99.9% chance that you do not love this 'girl'.

Why do I say this?
- Well from what I read, you have not mentioned a single detail about what you 'love' about her, and if these are of the following:
- her smile,
- her hair,
- her figure, then yes the same verdict still applies.

You will know when you love someone.

I don't believe you can truly love someone you don't know, and it seems in your post that you two needed to become friends first (she said), which would assume you weren't friends to begin with. If you love someone you don't know, then when you do get to know them, you may not love them anymore and I don't believe love is that temporay that it just fades and fizzles out that easily. . sorry.

Just cutting what could be a long-er story short.
It's okay, if you are worried about finding another girl to 'love' there are a million and one![/color]

thanks for your kind sugestions and you are advices, but as for your judgement they are not right cause i really do cherish her and you telling me that i should no the perticular thing i love in her is not ok. you know what? i just love her i mean every thing about her the smiles, the way she talks, even the grand she matched i do love all, please i sick advice from you guys and ladies out here kindly advice me on what to do because am lossing nurts every second, remember its under per second basics that am losing it ok. thanks for your contributions

see guy am dying incase you dont know.

am crazly in love with this girl, i told her about my intentions but at first she said we can only be frience later she agreed to my proposal after days passes she come up refusing again but ye i still love her so much, the more i try for us to live in harmony the more things fall apart, right now am confused cause she dont even want to set her eyes on me but to be candid i have not done any thing wrong which she also said but raither complain that am tempramental and people complain about me yet i real need her and am willing to let go of my temper because i know i am ready to do every thing possible to have her as a life partner, please what should i do in this case.

Ms. Lurker:
if i love you then i'm not worried about how much money you have.

this is you and your belives but thousant of girls in Nigeria belive that money is the basic thing that berings love to an exestance and keep it alife

thanks and God bless

thanks for all your contributions.

sista-jay:
You can tell by the way she acts towards you. Money ain't love.

thanks for you are contributions am really grateful you see this is what i've being passing through. please advice me on what to do. thanks

Pap:
Have you ever come in your pants for her picture?

You could try stalking her and slowing trying to rape her whenever you are alone.

please guy thanks for you are concern but i cant rape her cause my conscience will not allow that and rapiest

but all the same thanks for you effort

how do you know about a girls love for you?

is money a love?

what do you do about love and friendship, i feel so much inlove with a friend but dont know how to explain my self and also scared of losing our friendship if any thing goes wrong, but the Godsple truth is i dont want to lose her by any chance nor our friendship

please give me your points of view

thanks and God Bless

i store my girls name HONEYMUMMY OR MY SAINT, TAKE IT IF YOU LIKE IT OR LEAVE IT. cause i Love my baby!

MrCrackles:
u get time oh!!

JJYOU:
it can work. get yourself a good job. save money. make loads of calls, emails and travel to see her as much as necessary. if it is already serious, make sure the parents know you are on scene. more importantly,keep yourself pure. keep your word and be faithfull

i hope it do work for me as well as it has being working for others, i wish myself goodluck too!

one how old are you. come to think of it cant you see that she just want some cool money to do one or two things, may be you are not giving her money and that is why she played that game to extract some change out of youre poket to meetup some of the things she feels or needed so much. well to me all you have doing is to give her a chance for one on one talk then she can come out plain and explain to you more better. goodluck man!

well guy you are the person that is wearing the shoese and no where it inches, so if its ok for you then just go on cause this is not an issue, its none issue because there is noting that you will do that can pleased all the people in you are life time while your still on planet earth so remember hold age is just a number in the site of LOVE, and come to think of it, its just 2years, please if i were are you i will just stop sicking peoples openion, enjoy you are youth with youre love jor.

jay bee:
uhm r u sure? have u ever been in one? e-love, over the air love,?

please all i need is answers i think you guys are in good position to help me out of this.


dns4lv: help

kaysy:
i think it works based on different things
1 something must make u so special to her
2 she have to trust u
3 ur unconditional love for her counts
4 this is time to show love from a distance

just ensure ur relatnshp is based on faithfulness and trust
nut never the less, anytin can happen so long as the other eyes is not there, so be sincered ok? make her se ur sincerity frm ur actions not just "baby am sincered am serious"

well thanks you for you are support and concern over my problem am really grateful, and just as yu said am going bring the true picture of my seriouseness before her not to just say it and not practicing it, ilove you are advice thanks once more.

well my dear its not you only that is encountering this ugely sutuation but at thesame time am also a living testemone, in my case am not from a rech background but am hard working and so am a good looking guy as a matter of fact, you see at all time of my life am all ways unhappy person because a lot of people have failed me in the name of love, just to court it short, the last girl that toil with my heart makes me to get tired of girls, one day we were going out in the night so we were sported by a theme of police so they ask me where are we going so i replied saying i and my girl friend are going to have some good time, so they now ask me again who are you i then give them my ID card and they lets us go, after ward she took the ID card from me and on the card it is written computer engineer, she then ask me are you an engineer i replied; yes to her, this a girl have ben gone out with for over  two months and, she has never ask me what i do for a living or to show concern, after that day, a week later she come demanding of thirty thousand Naira 30,000.00. this a girl i know never get serious with her life for once, asking for such amount of money that she want a business of her own, so dear they are every where all you need doing is to be patience with your self and wait for the right one, may be who knows i might be the luck man standing!!!!!!! i can see laughing now any way take care and stop being warried ok. i like you are topic and you too bye for now!!!

jay bee:
I take it that none is on the horizon

AreU4real:
Do what you are supposed to do, study so you can further yourself,and just trust your girl, but remember if it is meant to be it will be. You'll know, good luck!

THANKS AND GOD BLESS FOR YOUR KIND AND WOONDERFUL CONTRIBUTION TOWARDS MY SUCCESS.

dns:
what will you do while leaving your girl to a distance place for a study, a course that will last for a two years, please guys advice me on what to do guys thanks.

DNS4LV. WELL THANKS FOR YOUR ADVICE ON WHAT TO DO. BUT YET MAKING LOVE TO HER ON PHONE WHILE AM STILL AWAY FROM HER DIDN'T YOU THINK CAN MAKE HER GO WILD IN HER FEELINGS AND CAN EASYLY MAKE HER TO LOOK FOR CERTISFACTION SOME WHERE ELSE.

ONE MORE TIME THANKS I APPRECIATE

DNS4LV@ GUY LOOK YOU ARE NO LONGER A CHILD YOU SHOULD NO BY NOW THAT LADYS LOVE ANY THING CONCERNING SEX, LOOK IF IT WILL MAKE HERE HAPPY WHILE CHARTING WITH HER ON THE PHONE DO IT, IF IT MEANS YOU MAKING LOVE TO HER PHONE DO IT, THE ONLY LIMIT YOU HAVE IS WHEN THINGS ARE OUT OF YOUR REACH.

DO YOU KNOW HOW TO MAKE LOVE TO A WOMAN WHILE ON PHONE?
HAVE YOU DONE IT BEFORE?
IF YOU HAVE NOT PLEASE DO TRY IT CAUSE IT WILL MAKE HER LOVE YOU MORE.

TAKE CARE MY GUY.

DNS4LV@ SEE GUYS LOVE IS SOMETHING WE don't THINK OF BUT YET HAS THE MOST IMPORTANT PART OF THE LIFE WE ARE LIVING!

ITS NOT HOW YOU DO IT BUT HOW YOU FEEL, AND HOW IT HAPPIENS, MEANING YOU don't NO BUT YET IT HAPPIENS
LETS BE REALISTIC HERE THERE IS THIS FORCE THAT IS BEHIND LOVE AND WHEN EVER IT COME'S, IT'LL TAKE AWAY YOUR STRENGTH AND REPLACE IT WITH SOMETHING MUCH MORE DIFFERENT FORM YOUR NORMAL SELF, RENDERING YOU POWERLESS.

SO GUY PLEASE YOU FALLING INLOVE IS NOT BAD BUT THE KIND OF PERSON YOU ARE FALLING IN WITH MATTERS, IF THE LADY IS UP TO 36-39 AND YOU ARE NOT UP TO THAT, THEN PLEASE I BEG OF YOU TO RETREACH YOU ARE STEPS. I THINK THIS CAN BE MORE THAN ENOUGH FOR YOU, CHEERS MAN AND GOODLUCK BYE FOR NOW!

what will you do while leaving your girl to a distance place for a study, a course that will last for a two years, please guys advice me on what to do guys thanks.

please guy its not what u think about the whole thing this a girl i love so much, and really ready to share my life time with her. i just want her by my side all day long and life time as well. u guys should try and tell me what to do not hading to my troubles, please!

shegirl71:
Oh Ok,And what was the reason she gave for not wanting to date you?And your step mum's younger sister's daughter that is nt very good Place to be,she is somewhat family.

all she could say is i love you but i cant