₦airaland Forum

madlady:
^^^No sweetie your English is fine, I understand you well well.

This word seems to have changed it's meaning.
I have always used this word in the context of going out on a date, dinner, or whatever.
I am a black British Jamaican, this how I use this word.
I am very surprised to find out the new meaning.

well u can say that; but to honest the word date is broad, and it is use in defferent ways, as it asume its context based on the phrase, and complecity of one statement. one word deployed in divert ways of things.

S.D

madlady:
This what you call your date, this is a very big shock to me

madlady fuckmate is not date but to be more vivid to thepelican who do not understood the meaning of date, at least he can now know that when one talk about date its, not all about going on a launch date or dinner, but has to do with ur life partner some one whom ur courting with.

english no be my language, and i no dey write english to pass or get C, 4 NL

Ebonyeyes:
Iv always said NL is not English 101. As long as I get the gist, im ok. My only pet peeve is text typing

Flashfast tink say na only him go school during the time of free education, i no blem am becos him go evening school with touch light him think say i get time to dey kill my self becos of one post, flash mak i tell u no go do this ITK 4 interview if not u go fail go back house oooh. am a Nigeria in a Nigeria chart.

Thanks any way, !

ThePelican:
I-must-create-a-thread syndrome is your problem, poster.

be 4 ever u creat d thread 4 ur father confess say u never call ur fuckmate ur date be4 , becos i no u dont have a fiance

na only go school go form your dictionary and live people to use their own way express them selves. even bombabile english we done see, and we done hear am tire.

cambridge e'tudient carry go.

please this one na Niger delta time, when the Hausa and Yoruba they do their own no wahala so we too na our turn.
please president give all the appointment to Niger Delta nothing dey happen if na fight we go fight.

martinosi:
It was bound to happen, after all when Acting President
formed the Presidential Advisory Council and
put Theophilus Danjuma (Army rtd) as the Chairman
of the Council, the writing was on the wall for the
all FEC Members appointed by Yar-Adua.

All of you are saying its a bold move lol!

Goodluck is just a Minion of the Elite Military Oligarch
that rules nigeria behind the scenes (Shadow Government).

As i said before Theophilus Danjuma is the leader
of Nigeria right now (God-Father) untill the next election in 2011.

Dating is now a normal thing for pleasure were as its not suposed to be so, please why do you ladies date guys? explain to us, then i will explain why guys date you ladies.

its normal cos like me when i was every little, their's this my little friend too, that we do play 2gether, and one day she bed wet and the sister beat her and said to her do you think any man will marry you if your bed weting, i felt sorry for her but was angry with the sister for beating my friend, and immidiatly we left the sister present i told her not to worry that i will marry her weither she bed wet or not, so she sharked her head as an acceptance. and since then as am growing up she never depart in my memory, when i started doing girl friend i tried to find her but could not, in inspite of 14 years of lost contact i still look for and find her, and today we are together. that is first life for you. any thing first for me is unique

i no belem u saybi na too much grama dey cause Nigeria wahala, i no say u be one of dem. if u like oooh go camebridge dat one na ur cup of tea.

ThoniaSlim:
Learn to spell another correctly and I will tell you the reason!

why cant we 4get about condom out of our sex life and face the realities of life, nockout STD by remaining faithful wit your guys naira landers ladies, let me educate u on faithfulness it simply means one man one woman period. stay glue to ur partners and be save 4rm STD's Thank you and God Bless as u mak the wisest decition of ur life

sweet words to guys or gal's are not true 4rm the other side, well i always say to my girl that with her around me am fit 4 life and without her am not fit 4 life. but 4 me saaay its the truth so are the words u say to ur guys/girls really?

I've come to discover that some girls are naturally not capable of building their own afairs, i meet a girl who told me that she is always moved by the instances of good looking guys, that when ever she meet a guy who shows interest in her she dont know but she will drowp the existing one for no reason and give her self to the new guy, but at thesame time, she let me to understand that she is not finding it forny. please could it be that she is not proud of her relationship or what?

please post your own view on this issue thanks.

S.D Ngoji

am waiting on ur sugestions hlp.

well its not that am that tempramental but get angry on issues that are not right, i dislike anything that has to do with human maltreatment, and how ever i hope for her return, all i want is some little tips of making work when u truly need them.

thanks all!

all you need doing is fisrt of all send him is bosom friend to talk to him meanwhile dont hide the friend the sutuation, so that he can understand with you, and let the friend plead for an audience with him for you, after ward go on and tell him all he need to know about your past live, so many a times we fail to do the right things at the right time. you should have tell him about this guy early enough so were as this thing that just cameup will happine he will understand what is going on. let me advice u further more please as 4rm today onward be sincere with ur man and be prioud to be in relationship, that break alot of guys winds or tosters.

thanks

Goodluck

SAT

sure, and honestly i can do anything to make my woman com back all i need is solutions

i think this is not what we all know about been in relationship and serving God, the list i expected of her is not even 4 she to rise her voice on me, but she mak my life a living hell. if she come up with the idea of we inmaining in courtship, that would heve been understandable. but in this case its on the reversed side.

I never new that i can be sad untill December 18th 2009, when my girl start to hot me with her unfair judgement/words, i love her so much and see also knows it too yet she took side with lonelyness to know every thing i keep inside. i love her with everything in me, i give her the totality of my existence, yet she is now calling me names, she now knows that i have no character, too angry, and not easy going. she said she dont love me, all the things that we shared that make her to vow, and also pledge to love me till internity has been forgeing. the must suppriesing thing is that on the 1st of December is when she made vow to love me till internity. pls i need a help from u all. i've been hospitalised 4 2good times, and also right now my health condition is still very bad, am not fit 4 life to be honest with you all. i believe she is my life wire, if u may ask why? according to her she just want to serve God that is why she is living, that she is not living me 4 an other man, though i believed her but what is killing me is that why open the relationship raither than we remaining in courtship and stay astain 4rm sex, ontill we finally get married. instead she go about telling friends who are concern about it that am difficult and she dont love me, the things she is saying about me are not right which she know, am quit tempramental yet not to her everything about her is my basic priority in life, and my temper only goes for people that her inhuman. to be candid i want her back no matter what, am scared of my self right now without her around me. advice on what to do.

well thanks alot 4 ur contribution, u see wit supriese me too, becos this a girl that has promise and make vow 4 me but 2day am more like a cheat to her, see says that i should just take her like a sister, knowing what we've been through, the memories is killing me, cos i truly love her but just like you said she is not feeling me anymore. thanks anyway its just that my heart is brocken.

Well! my good people of Nairaland help me find a solution to my problem. my Hermajesty and I are have a serious issue as she has decided to leave me, saying she want to serve God. we were ok and doing well even if i dont have a sound background of wealth i try my best for her and in different ocasions, weve always vow to ourselves and also to God that we are not going to live each other that we going to get married, the lent of committement and pledges we shown so far only is enough for us never to breakup, but today we are likely apart. i have tried to refresh her memory of what we have shared so far and our vows and pledges to always be their for each other, but all seems to prove abortive. i have come to a conclusive agreement to let her be for a while, but my worries, is that out of sight is out of mind they says, am really scared of lossing for any man, cause i know right in me that i can never find any other person to replace her in my existence. so please i need you are helps tell me what to do my brothers and sisters, you know relationship is not conflict free but conflict resolving, though her mum and sister loves me alot and they always asured me that all is going to be alright, but yet my heart is still missing the pleasant asurance my hermajesty use to give me.

you know love is from the mind soul and body, and i can do anything if that will bring back her confidence in me as well as love!

please there is these issue that has being burging my life and that is falling in love with a childhood friend whom u cherish so much. whom as practical being part of ur family.

nwajohn:
it might mean nothing because most time people say things that the don't really mean. She may say she don't need any man but its not from her heart.

but could it be that possible? i think its serious becos see actually means something and that is why she is not willing to see me at all. i've possibly try all which has being suggested to here in Naira land but yet no avail. i think see really means something. thanks any way my kind regards.

cool guys nice suggestions. i love u Nairalanders keep it real.

hi guys am still waiting 4 ur support.

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its ok by me guys i really appreciate u guys and u inpaticular Gentlelady ur truly a gentlelady, thanks and may the almighty God Bless u all.

a pleasant morning to u all my Nairalanders, i do really appreciate all ur efforts on this issue of mine, and am still reckoning on u all for further assistance, and i no u guys will not disappoint me. i will try all which u have suggested so far, the walk issue and the third party sturf, all i'll do, and am assuring u guys that am willing to go extra miles for love, and if its going to be on my path i believe i can split my pride on the floor just for her to be happy, i do respect her and cant afford to let her go even if she is the one at fault am ready at any time to appologies to her inrespective of the blame or fault on her on own path. i strongly believe she equaly no how i cherished her but all thesame i'll still try harder to know more of her reasons and to know what i've done wrong that i can't be given the chance of fair hearing.

Thanks guys and good luck

cash ur fun but dont forget that i'm in trouble that i need ur assistance

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well i thank u all 4 ur divert opinions, but u see we have been 2ther for long and this person in question is the one who i have or we have always planed 2ther, i just return 4rm my travel, i initially went for a course outside the country but to my gratest suprise since i came back i've being calling her to come over but she never turn up, but atleast while i was out there i call are regularly we spent 15minutes online or lowest 6minutes when ever i call. yet i never new what the matter is, i return to this country since march could u believe that she even could not come and wait for my arrivial, not to talk of seeing me uptill now. so i strongly believe that i've not done any thing wrong to her, how come after refusing to see me since 4rm march it june that she is calling to tell me that she just want to be alone that she feels nothing for any man any more. this is the sutuation on ground that's why i ask u guys to atleast help me with ur own opinions. and i do appreciat all that you have said so far, but i think i still needs more. thanks and God bless as u help me.

i still remain ur dns

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i do understand this one hooo nairalanders please help me. 4 instance ur girl just call u one telling u that she has no feelings for any man that she want to be alone, and that is just the she feels what do u do, and what does it mean. help hooooo!

please the good people of nairaland help me cause am lossing it, am madly inlove with my girl friend i thought being a mere friend for some time will help remedy the sutuation but to be candid things are really geting worst instead of being cool am geting it hot, i think, and i believe i've come to love her with everthing in me. but she have a life which she do tell me sometime, and a daughter, but yet am not in any way discouraged, am willing to do any thing to have for the rest of my life, infact having there means such alot to me which i cant express. words alone can't express my love for her. please tell me on what to do.

if u can help me talk to her. here is her email: sexillia@yahoo.com

thanks as you help me achieve my dream and i pomise am going to invite you all on our wedding day, if only you all can join heads together for my common success.

so all of na they fear the problem wayeeee they for love, i sorry for love nairalanders.