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Crime › Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Dobson43: 4:04pm On Jul 01, 2020

Bestbeelieve:
How about he made me sign it under duress?? Best thing is just to shoot a small video of this many talk....these days its necessary o! No time for stories that touch.

We can collabo and do a video version!!!! You read I hold the camera make she dey shout I do the do

Crime › Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Dobson43: 12:59pm On Jul 01, 2020

angelfallz:
I didn't abuse you. I just spat out.

Don't spat out here. That's violating social distancing ethics

Crime › Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Dobson43: 12:43pm On Jul 01, 2020

Blackmiserable:
She has no case.

When the thread started, the full reply the doctor gave in his defense wasn't available. And yes she has no case.

Crime › Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Dobson43: 12:41pm On Jul 01, 2020

angelfallz:
They were both drunk. You are trying to make it seem like the man was not drunk. Men like you, Tueh!!

Can you actually make a point without being abusive?

Crime › Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Dobson43: 12:34pm On Jul 01, 2020

Blyzz:
I don't know what you two are arguing abt. Is like you and the other guy didn't read the entire write up. They both had the drink at home, not in a bar of outside their home..

Those pictures weren't there when we started the argument

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Crime › Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Dobson43: 12:29pm On Jul 01, 2020

TemmyT002:
Bros, your opinion doesn't hold water. It's okay.
Watch law series to see how courts work

Your opinion doesn't matter here either. We ain't discussing movies here. If you don't have a valid point to make, go back to watching series.

Crime › Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Dobson43: 9:45am On Jul 01, 2020

truthhurts2:
No lady would dare sign that lailai...

Olympus wan fall be that

Bros we go try na.

There are cases where you to score but she doesn't want to submit then you go drop that agreement but run your parole within the confines of the law.

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Crime › Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Dobson43: 9:42am On Jul 01, 2020

itsme01:
What matters in a rape case is corroborative evidence and not your word vs my word

State of being drunk and intoxicated would actually mess up her case rather that help her case, especially if it was established she wasn't forcefully fed alcohol and not a minor

.

What actually counts here is consent.

Crime › Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Dobson43: 9:40am On Jul 01, 2020

MoneyMindset:
that dbanj case sef, the gal just wait make en blow first SMH

Bro, na better Brain you carry jor

Crime › Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Dobson43: 9:40am On Jul 01, 2020

itsme01:
A tenable medical evaluation report must show sign of force especially bruise in the ladies private part, do you honestly think that lady showed any form of resistance

The operative word here is consent, my friend. She may not have a bruise on her private or show any form of resistance but she can make a case due to her not consenting. A drunk lady cannot resist.

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Crime › Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Dobson43: 9:33am On Jul 01, 2020

itsme01:
The point to establish is simple "consent" ... The lady is an adult and no court of law would buy the baseless allegation that the guy force fed her alcohol against her wish, drove her from bar to his house also against her wish, and then gain consent from her... It would take a Professor of Law with SAN to push the lady's irresponsibility solely on the guy's shoulder since she isn't a minor or mentally retarded

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It's very nice you pointed out the bone of contention here: consent. Under law, you are not supposed to violate a lady under the influence of drugs or alcohol.

Nobody made the assertion that the guy fed her alcohol. You made that. If he was that drunk, how did he manage to drive her back home? If he was able to coordinate his motor skills in driving her home then he should be able to understand that her consent was needed before he had sex with her. If he was that drunk then we should be reading about their auto accident or obituaries.

We live in uncertain times and should get consent to avoid such stories such as this that touch.

What are we even debating about? We all know the lady just want to soil his reputation. How?
They are adults.
Agreed to meet.
He sponsored her visa and trip over. Which would have come at a hefty price.
Was she supposed to play hide and seek while with him?
She cohabited with him for a period of 4months.
They had another round of sex.
He provided her with her basic needs.
He paid her flight fare back.
These circumstances collaborates the guys innocence.

But the excuse we were both drunk alone isn't enough.

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Crime › Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Dobson43: 8:58am On Jul 01, 2020

When it comes to sex.....there so many unique circumstances in place. Ladies are capitalizing on this matter now especially if you have a lot to lose. Dbanj comes into play

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Crime › Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Dobson43: 8:54am On Jul 01, 2020

luminouz:
Reason well. The excuse is good enough. Why should he be prosecuted for his actions when drunk.and the lady not questioned too? THEY WERE BOTH DRUNK. stop with the shalaye stuff. Other logical men have called you out.

You made good points in your 2nd paragraph

Brother, I am glad you agreed with the other paragraph. If the case centered on just the sex scene after their alcohol intoxication, and the lady cried foul and took the case up immediately after submitting herself for medical evaluation and filed a case in the police station. Brother, that man would find it hard to get out of that matter. It seems like an injustice here but it is what it is.

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Crime › Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Dobson43: 8:33am On Jul 01, 2020*

itsme01:
What matters in a rape case is corroborative evidence and not your word vs my word

State of being drunk and intoxicated would actually mess up her case rather that help her case, especially if it was established she wasn't forcefully fed alcohol and not a minor

.

Bro, it seems you really don't understand the finer points of a rape case. There is a matter of premeditated rape. A guy can get the lady drunk and claim that he was infact drunk as a skunk. He can repeatedly rock the lady under the cloak of drunkenness.

There are cases where the guy has laced a sex date drug with the ladies drink and has had his way. The lady the next day has no recollection of what happened. That too can happen. So I'd like you to understand the context I am coming from.

It is the finer points here like how many bottles did he take. How many did she take? Was he actually drunk or was he faking? A forensic investigator can recreate these circumstances and extrapolate concrete evidence here. Finer points here can get the man into a sticky situation.

But I also agree that you do have a point there too but things can swing the other way.

But what impedes the case here are other circumstances. A second act of sex plus still living with the guy for a period of 4months while the guy sheltered and took care of her. Moreover, the guy sponsored her visa trip from Nigeria and back and took her on a date and these things happened. Under these contexts, guy, the lady is aggrieved and wants a pound of flesh. These I pointed out in my previous submissions.

In all, this is simply a case of a relationship gone wrong. It's just an act no big deal. Go your way if things don't work out.

Updated. The reply given by the doctor was not available when I dropped this message and others above. For those in love with calling guys simps ride on.

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Crime › Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Dobson43: 7:55am On Jul 01, 2020*

legionISproteus:
THEY WERE BOTH DRUNK.

THEY, in this context, is the pronoun for two people. So she wouldn't get into trouble for having sex with a drunk guy, but the guy should get into trouble for having sex with a drunk girl, abi?

I'm happy you're not a judge

Update: You too Dobson43, I had to include you here

My dear, learn to comprehend. I mentioned that a smart lawyer can turn the case on its head since it's debatable how drunk both parties were especially the guy. Guys can get a lady drunk and pretend they too were under intoxication too. That way, he could have his way. But his case can be blown to pieces by a competent criminal lawyer who knows his onions.

My guy, we both know a lady cannot travel from Lagos to Abuja to see a guy without sex already been on the table talk less of travelling from Nigeria to UK. And we also know she didn't come visiting to play Ludo with the guy nor did she spend 4months alone with a man who is neither her father nor her brother just for the sake of visiting. We also know that under usual cases of rape......the assaulted party runs and seeks redress immediately.

I am just pointing to the fact that the excuse that they both got drunk that the doctor gave is not a enough.

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Romance › Re: Watch How This Nigerian Pretty Girl Prepare A Popular Philippinos Meal by Dobson43: 6:48am On Jul 01, 2020

Romance › Re: Woman Spent £100,000 On Sri Lankan Toyboy Cries After His Murder by Dobson43: 6:40am On Jul 01, 2020

And the sensationalize every Nigerians as scammers!

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Romance › Re: Woman Spent £100,000 On Sri Lankan Toyboy Cries After His Murder by Dobson43: 6:40am On Jul 01, 2020

Love date scams dating drillings 101

Romance › Re: No Real Man Ever Beats A Woman! by Dobson43: 6:27am On Jul 01, 2020

DeGenius3:
Niggarr?

(I'm NOT A Nigga)

Punish A Nagging Woman?

I Can't tell You "Ways to Punish A Nagging Woman"

Well, take out time to think about what she's always nagging
about.

Sit down with her and talk about the issue(s), Define the issues
that's making her nag

Then be a negotiator. Find a ground that makes it a win-win
situation for the both of you

My little contribution though

You have absolutely no solution there. When you want to address an issue. Better have a solution.

Christianity Etc › Re: Whenever I Am Hurt, And I Cry, Something Bad Must Happen To The Person by Dobson43: 6:21am On Jul 01, 2020

BluntNigerian:
Why won't all these people cry on top of These Evil Politicians Matter??
Or are they not hurt by the wicked politicians??

Wisdom!!!!!!!!!
The white men used their witchcraft.......get it, witch-CRAFT to create lofty inventions. Africans and pull them down mentality.

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Crime › Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Dobson43: 6:02am On Jul 01, 2020

That they both had sex when they were both drunk can actually land him in hot water. A smart lawyer can turn the matter on its head.

As it stands, the lady has scores she wants to settle with the man and she is willing to go any length to tarnish his image.

I have advised my fellow men to draft an agreement before engaging in fuckery.

...*AGREEMENT BEFORE SEX!*
Due to the current and numerous allegations made by women, which include rape and many other sexual misconduct towards women, there is now an agreement to be signed before any poking "*action*".
Please print a Copy which can be used in the Court of Law .

*AGREEMENT BEFORE SEX*......
I, __________________________, the undersigned Female Partner (herein referred to as the 'Screwee'), am about to enjoy sexual intercourse with________________________ (hereafter referred to as the 'Screwer'), certify the following:-
1. THAT I am above the lawful age of consent.
2. THAT I am not under the influence of any narcotic. N(s).
3. THAT the afore mentioned Screwer did not use any force, threats, coercion or promises to influence me.
4. THAT I, the Screwee, am in no fear of him whatsoever.
5. THAT I do not expect or wish to marry him.
6. THAT I do not know if he is married or not and neither do I care.
7. THAT I am neither asleep nor drunk.
8. THAT I am entering this relationship with him; because I love SEX and want it as much as he does.
9. THAT in the event that I receive full satisfaction, which I expect, I declare in advance the capacity and willingness for further participation at regular intervals.
10. THAT I will not act as a witness against him nor will I file charges against him in the event that,
(a) I contract an STD
(b) I become pregnant
(c) I feel that he is violating any legislation - moral, legal or otherwise.
*SIGNED BEFORE JUMPING INTO BED ON THIS* ___ *DAY OF* _____ (MONTH) ________ (YEAR) AT ______ (AM/PM)
________________________________
Signature of Screwee :=-...
PS: Not taking anything for granted...erryting is now strictly bizniz...

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Family › Re: Why Are 80% Of Divorces Filed By The Wives? by Dobson43: 8:47pm On Jun 30, 2020

Wives generally are annoying

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Romance › Re: You Think Your Dick Is Short? Measure It With A Tie To See The True Length by Dobson43: 8:45pm On Jun 30, 2020

Romance › Re: I Met Her On Facebook And We Made Love But I Think She Has Used Me For Ritual by Dobson43: 8:43pm On Jun 30, 2020

stella55:
women do take semens with the aim of having flawless and fresh skin.
since you're unhealthy and having weird dreams go to Lab if nothing is found consult your pastor

So this your beaurifool skin is as a result of robbing seaMen.

You look good though.........conTINue

Romance › Re: Why Do Footballers Wear Bra?? (Photos) by Dobson43: 8:38pm On Jun 30, 2020

FeliciaOja:
This thing I noticed especially at the end of the game when players take their shirt off
You see them wearing a black bra.
What does this actually mean??

Is Bra now a new fashion for sports men??

Romance › Re: Man Fakes His Arrest With Police To Propose To His Girlfriend by Dobson43: 7:18pm On Jun 29, 2020

Got weed

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Romance › Re: Regina Daniel Puts To Birth. by Dobson43: 4:30pm On Jun 29, 2020

Wishing them Congrats is in order

Romance › Re: My Obsession With Boob by Dobson43: 4:29pm On Jun 29, 2020

All the pumping without doing the do

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