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@Op, this is why humans like yourself are the most folish and inhuman animals on earth. You are a leech, a more wicked specie of parasite, a wicked person. If the new guy loses his job what happens then? If the broke guy according to you lands a fortune tomorrow, will his seriousness show? Gold diggers everywhere. Mind your business man. Her happiness is where her heart is.

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Fvckyouall:
You are obviously a kid.
And yes animals practice homosexuality, baboons are well known for lesbianism and over 50% of sex in giraffes occur between male giraffes.


Homosexual peeps fight for gay rights cause in African countries it's punishable by death. if fornication or idolatry was punishable by death or imprisonment people would fight for it.
What people do with their lives does not concern you and as far as they don't pose a threat, you should mind your own business living your lonely meaningless life.

so go and suck breast kid

You are obviously gay or gay sympathiser. The question was a simple one. "is homosexuality a sin"? According to the Bible which was introduced to us by the same people who are not recanting?

For a while now i have been thinking about it. Trying to understand it deeper. Researching and trying to prove to myself that i am the crazy one and not the world but the more i try the more ambiguous it all becomes.

The Whiteman introduced the Bible to Africa. They brought civilization to us. And in a lot of ways it became obvious that the African way of life was crude and some of them inhuman. Eg. The killing of twins, human sacrifices etc which we also saw reasons with them on and had such practices abolished.

The Bible they introduced to us clearly stated at 1st Corinthians 6: 9 "Or do you not know that unrighteous people will not inherit God’s Kingdom? Do not be misled. Those who are sexually immoral, idolaters, adulterers, men who submit to homosexual acts, men who practice homosexuality" . Homosexuality was named as a sin and which would make someone miss the kingdom of God.

So why are homosexuals fighting for gay rights? Because it doesn't make sense. Should Fornicators, Thieves, Idolaters also start fighting for their own rights?

The same Bible said God made Male and Female of every animal including man and woman. How come animals don't practice homosexuality? On what is the gay rights based?

I do not approve of killing or hunting down gays, i actually have gay friends who i see as humans and not as gays. They know their boundaries and i dont condemn anyone for sinning. So a gay person is same to me as a fornicator, a thief or just anyone else who is a sinner but my issue right now is "WHAT IS GAY RIGHTS"?

Do they have a license to sin? Why is their sin more to be tolerated than the sin of thief or that of adultery? Why are they fighting to legalize their sins? How is this sin recorded in the bible different from the rest other sins mentioned alongside?

Its really confusing and very annoying to me that instead of a sinner to beg for forgiveness such one is busy trying to legalize their sin. We are all sinners and it is absolute madness to want to legalize an obvious sin. It is so unnatural.

So my fellow NLers make me clear on what practical, logical reasoning is gay rights based?

iammo:




No matter how sentimental Nigerians are while picking sides, the law doesn't care about sentiments, judgement would be based on verifiable facts and not mere sentiments

They should have cleverly made him confess in his own words, rather throughout the video he was barely apologizing without stating his actual offense or reason for the apology


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Go and watch the video again. This time pay attention and you will hear him confess

I'm sure innoson will do his wonders on this one.

nairalee:
That's why I was complaining the other day. People just carry this matter for head like today gala meanwhile the perpetrator Don admit dey beg. Defenders of the indifensive dey online dey fight for rubbish

Exactly the same way all those APC touts keep defending Buhari. Make dem no worry shaa

Crusty3:
you cheated on her oga...no dey embellish tales.
who sees chats of two years ago and picks offence
abi na so she dull
nonetheless,u just dodged a bullet.
never be around overly jealous people,and people who can't handle failure is one of my mantras

Have u ever been dished this type of unfounded accusation you just dished me? I'm sure you'd knw how it hurts to be told you did something you didn't. Anyway i didn't cheat on her and i called the relationship off since. Just decided to bring it here to hear a broader views cos her folks and my friends have been on me to reconsider and. I even had to pack out of the area and would have changed my sim if not that its very important to me.

DUNKA:
bros na God ssve you from a mad woman. The lady is mentally unstable and if this small thing which is a non issue could trigger her reaction what if something else comes up tomorrow? Your story go trend on Nairaland fa. Be wise and flee for dear life from a total nutcase

Thanks a billions jaree.

evanstinobbc:
You get mind oo, you were still SIMPING with death, after a girl almost stab you, you still sleep at thesame place that night, still dey act the good guy for morning. But all thesame thank God you weren't killed.

My brother na the good guy role work the magic oo. Was just being wise.

Freestainworld:
Run away from that babe before they write gone so soon for you, don't listen to her cry's, even avoid eating at her mum's place because after pleading with you, and she sees that you didn't give in, she will come for your head with full force, she may even poison you.

Thanks a billions. I have stopped since and even moved out of the area.

Xenry:
Long story, but here's the summary: the Op's gf lied to him that she's a virgin while she's not. He later went to her school to spend some time with her and sleep over there. During romance, the girl wanted to be on top, she had a knife, probably wanted to stab the OP because he has been with other girls in the past.
But the OP SIMP-ly forgave her later. Like WtF? I ain't cool with this!

Thanks for the summary. Yes I forgave her but I had to call it off. I'm no Simp really. Just that her folks and my friends keep guilt tripping me saying since I already engaged her I should not just quit because of one mistake. But I can't take that risk..

Please my fellow NLers help me evaluate my decision on this matter. A friend told me I over reacted but I think I need a broader assessment on the issue. Without wasting your time let me get on straight with it.

Note.: It's a long read. Forgive my typos and wrong English

About 3 years ago I met this lady. A student of a popular school in Abeokuta. Studying a medical science course. I saw her everyday at her mother's shop where I ate in Lagos . She was usually cheerful and friendly. I took to liking her and I started gisting with here. That was how I knew she was a student and she was around on break.

Fast forward to 2 months later we were already dating. The holidays met with ASUU strike so we had more time to spend with each other. Eventually strike was called off and I even took her to shoprite to shop for back to school stuffs.

During this period her folks noticed we were very close and when she told her mom I got her "back to school gifts" the woman thanked me but she got suspicious though she didn't show it.

Her father too usually came around in the evenings and because I now frequented the restaurant for lunch and dinner, and sometimes stayed back to watch football matches which brought I and the dad closer, the man developed strong likening to me too.

Eventually she left for school and I now more of a family friend was always around their restaurant after work. I even forgot I could cook. We talked from morning till night on phone. Sometimes I'd be online with her while at their shop. She'd even be listening to her folks talking while we gisted cos she loved attention.

One day she asked me to come visit her in school, due to the distance we arranged I'd spend the weekend with her so I packed my backpack litely and went visiting the first time.
She had a roommate though they had separate beds. At first I felt uneasy but she made me understand is alright cos her roommate too had a guy that comes around from time to time. Well I eventually relaxed and vibed we with her roomie.

All along we never shared more than kiss because according to her she was still a virgin and would like to keep it that way so I never bothered her. So when I visited it was same thing as usual. I left on Sunday.

The next semester she invited me again but due to work I didn't hv much time, she nagged and nagged until I was able to get another free weekend and I went to see her again. When I got there I noticed her phone was bad and she used rubber band to tie it. I had to dash her my own phone as I was returning to my base.

When I got home I called her twice she didn't take my calls so I felt she could be charging the phone. So I called back late at night she still didn't take the calls after several rings so I called her room mate to call her attention to her phone.

The roommate asked me if we had any issues? I told her no then she asked me why she's not takin my calls and has been crying since I left. I got really confused cos I left her happy so I asked her to put her fone on speaker so my girl could hear me. I started calling her all the pet names i know thinking it was probably my departure that broke her down emotionally.

She eventually came around or so I thought, and we agreed I should visit her more often.

By this time we have really made much progress in the relationship. I had gotten her engaged, awaiting her final papers so we could start on the marriage plans. I was much closer to the family now.

So 3 weeks later I went to visit her again. I noticed she was a bit withdrawn and being a very sensitive person I knew something was amiss so I started prodding her. I noticed she had so much bottled up but I didn't know what it was. Since she wouldn't talk I gave her some space and she cooked, after we ate I started asking her what the matter was. She eventually opened up :

Remember I dashed her my phone when I visited her last? It happened that I forgot to log out of my Facebook account so she had access to my mails and chats. She read everything. Funny enough the last chat between me and any girl on Facebook was TWO YEARS BEFORE I MET Her. She opened up and told me that this was why she refused to take my calls the last time I left. And since then she felt heartbroken.

I reassured her that I had no one else but her which was true and I could swear with anything. I was ready to marry her and I loved her and those chats were old chats and yes I was rough but not anymore. She kept going about why those girls were so shameless. Why would they send me nudes so cheaply. What did they even see in me that they were jumping on each other.

I allowed her vent and talk all she had on her mind and then calmly pacified her, begged her and calmed her down. She told me it's alright but any day she ever catches me with a girl she will kill me. We laughed and I promised her I'd never cheat on her.

To make her happy I stepped out to get a bottle of Eva wine. When I got back she'd had her bath and arranged the room cos her roommate went home for a week. We drank the wine I bought and after drinking she told me to sit down and answer her questions.

Again she asked me what I have with her roommate, at that point I almost lost my cool but I just remained calm. I told her once again that I'd rather die than to cheat on her with anyone. If not that her roommate is her friend I wouldn't talk to her on the road talk more to have anything to do with her. Well I knew she was still nursing so much anger on her mind so I was being very careful.

When I returned from buy the wine I noticed she was on her nightie. In the 2 years we dated and all the while I've visited her she never wore that when I was around. She'd wear non revealing clothes so why would she wear nightie this night? Well I kept my cool.

After we had the wine we cuddled up on the bed and was gisting. She started making moves on me and I asked her if she was sure of that? She said yes. Shebbi na wetin make all the girls no won commot eye for ur body. The way she said it was so cold that I felt fear creep on my spine. I told her yet again I was sorry but non of that happened in her Era.

She wanted us to make out but I controlled the whole matter cos I knew she was pushed. She then said I see, so you don't find me attractive. You were lying to me all along. If I truly love her why would I find it difficult to make love to her. I got very confused. So I reciprocated the romance and we started I noticed she wasn't a virgin as she claimed though I didn't flinch about that.

I noticed she was trying to let me be under while she is on top but something kept telling me to stay on top. And I noticed her hand was clutching the bed so when I noticed she was intensed I pulled out her hand trying to turn her around that was when I heard a clanging sound on the floor. Lo and behold she was clutching at a kitchen knive all along.

I screamed and jumped. Out of the bed and seized the knive immediately and she instantly burst into tears. I swear down I felt afraid. I started piecing everything together. "turn of the light," I refused. "let me be on top", I refused. All these were so she could have a go at it.

Well she cried and explained that she was very jealous and angry that other girls had her man before her. She swore she had never slept with a man before but she is a chronic masturbator that's why she's not a virgin. So she's a virgin technically.

Well, I told her I forgive her and I understand her anger even if I don't. I cudnt sleep that night. I was very alert. Thank God daybreak finally came. On Sunday so I had my shower and dressed up told her I was going to worship God. She laughed and told me hmmm it's good o you wey no get Bible. No wahala, I'll prepare breakfast before u return.

So I went to church and when I returned I had my phone on my ear as I walked in answering fake call like a doctor called for an emergency case involving the American president. Immediately I got off the phone I told her I needed to leave. She wanted me to eat but I told her no time. It was past 12noon and I needed to be in lag before 3pm. That was how I left. She walked me to the park.

On getting to Lagos I called her and told her I have digested all that happened and it's best we stayed apart. She cried and raved, called her folks who in turn called me too, my friend told me I was overreacting but I know what I saw.

Please NLers what would you advise me to do. This is a serious matter and not stories as some would like to think.