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FuckBots:
You want a girl that will be using torch light phone and will suffer for you without any concrete reason at all?


Baba go village. No be everybody like suffer like you. Forget women and make yourself.

Starz825:
Cost of maintenance...that point got me cracked up..
Na Honda car..

Pharmtj:
pretend like you are broke to your babe and see how reactions, you will see the answers to your question

jedisco:
To answer your question, most young dudes don't spend crazily on a lady. It's more common with older men who have only money to offer. People can get money from different sources but other jobless ladies using expensive gadgets shouldn't be your excuse for what's going on in your life. Fact is I've noticed that dudes with more money spend relatively less on ladies than their less bouyant counterparts as ladies tend to stick if they see you're loaded and have a clear plan for life even if you don't spend much on them

From what you said, the girl is milking you.Her utterances show she wouldn't be with you if your cash sources dwindle and she's likely sleeping around given the company she keeps too.

I've once seen someone do something similar but on a much smaller scale and the end result was devastating for him. The girl simply saw him as weak. Once a lady begins to see you as weak, you'd loose any respect she has for you.

Don't be fooled by her beauty. There are more beautiful ladies out there. Call of the relationship, cut your losses and move on!

BTW, don't you think your expenditure seems over the top moreso given your job role which may not have long-term security? I make over double of what you earn but haven't and don't see myself spending anything remotely close to that on someone I'm dating. You have to invest for your future.


P.S I'm still trying to wrap my head around your story and wondering if It's really true

lordU3:
Bros you be proper fool for love. Who even tell you say the girl get love for you? You no get mama abi sisters? How much you dey give ur mama? I no believe say 9ja guy go still fall mugu like this unless Juju join am.

richard870:
Wow! C'mon man, nothing could be clearer than all the signs she has shown. Mhen, you are exactly what most girls pray, fast, fantasize and day dream about, yet you are being treated like a garbage bag by some girl who has been brainwashed by wayward companies

My advice for you bro, kindly go out more with friends to cool places (not clubs o) , but places you are likely to meet elegant and refined ladies who aren't desperate like this lady.

PS: Please leave her before she drains you of your sanity

sedutrice:
For you to open a thread about it means that you are not comfortable with the spending.
Anyway, I don't know if this story is true sha. But that your job that is paying you that huge amount that you can spend lavishly on someone else. Biko, can you link me to the job?
I promise I won't spend stupidly on a man. I too want to be able to be giving my mother 15k weekly for hair, 25k weekly for eating out. And I don't like seeing that techno phone with her, I want to be able to buy her IPhone.

If this story is true, leave that girl . Do it this very moment. If not you will end up in face me and face you house, drinking garri

saintsylve:
I like your responses and how you are able to control your emotions on the insults so far.

Just let the lady go, find a responsible lady. Also, don't love the physical appearance alone but characters .

TYglobal:
Don't be fooled oga, any girl that is not working and spends a lot is a classified olosho even your so-called girlfriend that's if this your story is even real. And to your question, no you're not the only man doing so, there are other men that have the money and spend it on their woman but like this is unreasonable, money that could open a big business or something better.

jedisco:
@donaldtruman

A quick question... Is this your first relationship?

Brunosamel:
I don't mind but you are a big fool, mumu! How much have you spent on your mother and siblings.... You are here posting garbage... Better set you life straight and dumb her or she will dumb you when you can no longer afford her materialistic junkies...

FromZeroToHero:
If you believe this co.ck and bull story it means you can also believe that a tortoise can fly.

TooGod942:
Do not give her money for the iPhone she asked for................






Then you will see that she is just their for the money nothing else

boiz2men:
I thought as much. You want NL girls to send you DM . some hungry fools will sha

boiz2men:
We think we don't have sense? Post your transfers to her here?

These apps keep history.

boiz2men:
You are a yahoo boy. So easy to see.

A legit hustle will not spend foolishly

abdulazeez1002:
DAMN, may I never be these foolish in my life

Mcslize:
Bro, I am speechless, my mouth is wide opened as I am reading through the amount you spent on a runs girl. Hmmmm brotherly, what kind of love are you feeling that's making you spend so much on a girl? Is that the kind of lady you want to make your wife? This lady will surely run you down financially if you do not factory reset your brain.

I am so sorry for being blunt with you. I just need to be blunt to show you that I, your fellow age mate is highly mad at you right now.

Is this your first time of falling in love? Even if it is, it doesn't still require you to be this financially invested in a materialistic lady that is just hanging on you to suck you dry financially.

This is not love. This is madness for Christ sake. Money you will use to invest in your personal life is what you spending on a runs girl? If you don't know what to do with money, pls there are Orphanages out there, if you give them all of that money you spent on that runs girl, they will appreciate it and pray for you.

My advice for you is; sit down and ask yourself if that is the kind of lady you want for a wife. If you are convinced that she is the one, then continue with the spending. And trust me, by this time next year you should be running from one bank to another, calling friends up and down looking for money to borrow to impress that runs girl.

kingkakaone:
I don't have any business with you and your story please, I don't also have inputs for such lies.

Please count me out, at least your thread is gaining the attention you wanted.

oghenerobo91:
How much is ur salary.
Can't fall for this. Not even in my dreams

kingkakaone:
The guy is lying joor.
Someone who's bored just created this crap and you fell for it?
Not even celebrities fix their hair weekly, that part just are me know that this story is fake.

So many things in the story doesn't follow at all.

If this happens to be true, I think the OP is a dead man walking with this woman.

Fountainofyouth:
If you can spend millions for a girlfriend, a little amount for a stranger shouldn't be a problem to you, right? So therefore, you are not what you say you are, probably a little bit of made up fiction will make you sleep well tonight ain't it? Lol.

PUSSYHOE:
Does she do the same? sleeps with him numerous times with mind blowing styles?

Fountainofyouth:
Let's practicalize this, send me 50k right now let's see if you're really what you say you are, I'll dm my acct number to you right now, deal?

Fountainofyouth:
Blaaaaaaaaaa, no lady makes hair every weekend no matter how rich she is, so this fiction is horseshiit, but let's say we believe you, means you spent close to 2 million Naira on a girlfriend, not bad, for a guy on nairaland.

izzou:
Is she on nairaland?

MrBrownJay1:
Bro, when is part 2 of this Nollywood super story is coming out....?!