I am a 31 year old guy.

I met this babe,now 25 in 2017 while she was in her final year in the University.

We started going out and I developed so much love for her.

Though I observed that she was the kind of babe who loves material things d very month we met but felt that all women love good things and comfort and nothing wrong in taking care of my woman.

Three weeks after we met,she demanded for an iPhone and I bought a brand new iPhone 6+ for her @ #180k then.

Two weeks later,she demanded for #70k to celebrate her birthday.

That she needed it for photoshoot and sit out with her friends which I gave her.

Subsequently I had spent so much on various demands ranging from school expenses, dressing, grooming and others,running into hundreds of thousands at different times.

Obviously, she is someone who loves social media so much and loves to flaunt her beauty and style as she is no doubt very pretty.

There is no day she does not take pictures to upload on facebook,Instagram and her WhatsApp status.Competing in social media stunts with her friends and others.

She is also very used to eating outside as she did not think of going to d market to say she wanted to cook for herself,let alone me.

She was always eating at fast food restaurants and I spent about 20-25k weekly on patronising fast food for her.

Sometimes,she even asked me to buy for her friends and siblings.

I also gave her 15k every weekend to make her hair and nails and #50k monthly as pocket money.

At d end of last year,she demanded for an iphone x which I bought for her at d rate of #380k.

Despite all these,I was still tolerating her until she graduated and wanted to go for NYSC.She insisted on serving in Abuja and requested that I worked her posting with #100k which I gave her and another #200k to get all her materials for camping and pocket money.

When she left camp,she insisted that she didn't want to share room with anybody, that I shld rent a self contain for her @ #700k which I did by withdrawing part of my long term savings to do and another #400k to furnish d house.

Since she resumed in her primary place of assignment she uses Taxify @ #2k daily and instead of cooking,she orders food online to be delivered to her at home.Most times,#1,500 per meal,which is at least a minimum of #3k daily.

I was giving her #70k monthly as feeding & transport but b'cos she eats out,had to demand for more pocket money and I increased it to #100k monthly which excludeds now #20k for her hair and nails weekly.

She also sends her clothes to d dry cleaners as she does not wash her clothes herself.

In the last 6 months she has demanded for a total of #120k in total to buy clothes and I send data of about 4gb to her weekly which she exhaust in no time b'cos she spends most part of her life on social media.

Always talking about d babes who drive Benz in Abuja,how they dress and how she wants to be famous on d social media.She even talks about her friends who sleep with politicians and earn #200k and above.

I just bought human hair of #40k for her last month.

Hmmm

I was already getting tired when she told me on my visit to Abuja two days ago that she wants an iPhone xs max.That she is tired of using her iPhone x that I just bought for her November last year.

She said two of her friends just bought their at #410k

That was her welcome demand from me.

Right now,am so exhausted with her and still love her so much which makes me feel that is d reason she is taking advantage of my love and generosity.

And why I ve been sacrificing all I can to satisfy her needs is b'cos I don't want her to lack anything or go get them from another man outside but it seems she can never be satisfied regardless of what I do.

Moreover,since I arrived Abuja she has refused to pick some calls in my presence and d excuse she gives me is that she does not want anybody to disturb her.That d calls are from her female friends but no names,just d numbers appear.

I spend bulk of all my earnings as a consultant with a construction firm on her and even tampering with my fixed deposits I ve been rolling over in d last five years just for her,to make her happy.

I now feel she is just with me for the benefits.

This is a girl I ve made up my mind that I want to marry b'cos I love her so so much but am beginning to ve a second thought,while I don't want to loose her to another man b'cos I ve sacrificed a lot of my time,emotions and finances on her.

I am still here in Abuja but so unhappy. No peace at all.

I am just tired,confused and need ur advice pls.

Bro, when is part 2 of this Nollywood super story is coming out....?!

MrBrownJay1:
Bro, when is part 2 of this Nollywood super story is coming out....?!

Bros, this is a fact.I just didn't mention names but if she sees this post,she will know it is from me b'cos it is 100% exactly what has been happening I swear!

I wish men can value their money Same way girls value their pussy.

As a normal human being and if I am to take you as my brother, I will call you a big mugu.
Why would you do so much for someone that does nothing for you?
Tell me one thing she has ever contributed to your life.
I know you have so much cash to spend around, but guy you ain't her only money bank
SHE DOESN'T LOVE YOU.
SHE IS NOT A WIFE MATERIAL.
ask yourself these questions:
Would you be able to cope with all this rubbish did the rest of your life?
Would you like your children to be trained this way?
What will happen when you don't have money again?

donaldtruman:


I also gave her 15k every weekend to make her hair

Blaaaaaaaaaa, no lady makes hair every weekend no matter how rich she is, so this fiction is horseshiit, but let's say we believe you, means you spent close to 2 million Naira on a girlfriend, not bad, for a guy on nairaland.

izzou:
Is she on nairaland?

She visits Nairaland but am not sure she is a member.

donaldtruman:

Bros, this is a fact.I just didn't mention names but if she sees this post,she will know it is from me b'cos it is 100% exactly what has been happening I swear!

If that story is remotely true then this man deserves ANYTHING and EVERYTHING he is getting from that babe. Expecting anything different from someone you have taken care of and fed for so long, would be the crazy part here.

The above is the true Oxford dictionary definition of MUMU

My gee.. I won't lie to you, she has pressed your mumu button..

Rich boy

donaldtruman:
I am a 31 year old guy.

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I am still here in Abuja but so unhappy. No peace at all.

I am just tired,confused and need ur advice pls.

Is like you are collecting 10million salary every month.

Considering the expenses you have incurred as a result of her endless demands, you should continue with the relationship on one condition, that's if you can cope with the boomerang effect of her actions.

PUSSYHOE:
I wish men can value their money Same way girls value their pussy.

He values his money, that's why he's spending it on someone he value, duhhhh.

Fountainofyouth:



Blaaaaaaaaaa, no lady makes hair every weekend no matter how rich she is, so this fiction is horseshiit, but let's say we believe you, means you spent close to 2 million Naira on a girlfriend, not bad, for a guy on nairaland.

I swear on to u that I give her #20k in d last 6 months every Saturday to make her hair and nails.
It's difficult to believe but all u ve read is d fact.
She makes her hair weekly.
Which is about #200k monthly with her #100k pocket money and dry cleaning inclusive

Seriously some weak men are in trouble....

Fountainofyouth:



He values his money, that's why he's spending it on someone he value, duhhhh.

Does she do the same? sleeps with him numerous times with mind blowing styles?

donaldtruman:

I swear on to u that I give her #20k in d last 6 months every Saturday to make her hair and nails.
It's difficult to believe but all u ve read is d fact.
She makes her hair weekly.

Let's practicalize this, send me 50k right now let's see if you're really what you say you are, I'll dm my acct number to you right now, deal?

PUSSYHOE:
Does she do the same? sleeps with him numerous times with mind blowing styles?

You can ask him, he is right here.

Fountainofyouth:


You can ask him, he is right here.

You answered the first for him.

Fountainofyouth:



Let's practicalize this, send me 50k right now let's see if you're really what you say you are, I'll dm my acct number to you right now, deal?

Bros,this is not jokes o.U can't expect me to send money to a stranger.
I ve been doing all these for a woman I know and love so much and want to marry,not b'cos it is convenient for me but b'cos I want to make her happy.
But unfortunately she is abusing d privilege.

Fountainofyouth:



Let's practicalize this, send me 50k right now let's see if you're really what you say you are, I'll dm my acct number to you right now, deal?

lol

PUSSYHOE:
You answered the first for him.

Becos he said what he does for her, not what the girl is doing for him.

PUSSYHOE:
Does she do the same? sleeps with him numerous times with mind blowing styles?

We ve not been 2getger since she moved to Abuja.I ve visited her about three times.
Besides,even when we were 2gether in Akure,we didn't ve sex to d extreme but occasionally as I was not after sex but sincerely love her.Not sex.Otherwise, I would ve dumped her long time ago

Local man has only had groundsnuts and cassava flakes as meals through out this week. Globacom Nigeria gives him a free data bundle and a surprising good network connection , it is in his court to decide what to do with the free data.

An intelligent man would use the data to read about xenophobia, write an eBook , publish on a free popular book site and come to nairaland to inform participants to purchase his book. A dubious man would spam nairaland with comments of buying and selling cheap airtime packages. A sexually deprived man would post pornographic videos and images on nairaland.

Op, an hopeless **** at 40 opens a new nairaland account and chooses to troll.

I have dated a semi celebrity before and she never wrecked me that much.

Fountainofyouth:



Blaaaaaaaaaa, no lady makes hair every weekend no matter how rich she is, so this fiction is horseshiit, but let's say we believe you, means you spent close to 2 million Naira on a girlfriend, not bad, for a guy on nairaland.

no mind the guy jare, he suppose Dey give 15k everyday for hair na, make we kuku know say he sabi lie well well

donaldtruman:

Bros,this is not jokes o.U can't expect me to send money to a stranger.
I ve been doing all these for a woman I know and love so much and want to marry,not b'cos it is convenient for me but b'cos I want to make her happy.
But unfortunately she is abusing d privilege.

If you can spend millions for a girlfriend, a little amount for a stranger shouldn't be a problem to you, right? So therefore, you are not what you say you are, probably a little bit of made up fiction will make you sleep well tonight ain't it? Lol.

donaldtruman:

We ve not been 2getger since she moved to Abuja.I ve visited her about three times.
Besides,even when we were 2gether in Akure,we didn't ve sex to d extreme but occasionally as I was not after sex but sincerely love her.Not sex.Otherwise, I would ve dumped long time ago

Fountainofyouth:



Becos he said what he does for her, not what the girl is doing for him.

You see? she will never value him enough to do it. No be naija girls?

Durhleepee:


lol

I just had to be practical.

I just like booking space

donaldtruman:

I swear on to u that I give her #20k in d last 6 months every Saturday to make her hair and nails.
It's difficult to believe but all u ve read is d fact.
She makes her hair weekly.
Which is about #200k monthly with her #100k pocket money and dry cleaning inclusive

lmao, guy calm down jare, which kind yeye line be that one, you think say we wear pampers ne?
you Dey swear, swear dey kill person?

Fountainofyouth:



Let's practicalize this, send me 50k right now let's see if you're really what you say you are, I'll dm my acct number to you right now, deal?

Begi Begi...osho free...lol

dinak1:
As a normal human being and if I am to take you as my brother, I will call you a big mugu.
Why would you do so much for someone that does nothing for you?
Tell me one thing she has ever contributed to your life.
I know you have so much cash to spend around, but guy you ain't her only money bank
SHE DOESN'T LOVE YOU.
SHE IS NOT A WIFE MATERIAL.
ask yourself these questions:
Would you be able to cope with all this rubbish did the rest of your life?
Would you like your children to be trained this way?
What will happen when you don't have money again?

The guy is lying joor.
Someone who's bored just created this crap and you fell for it?
Not even celebrities fix their hair weekly, that part just are me know that this story is fake.

So many things in the story doesn't follow at all.

If this happens to be true, I think the OP is a dead man walking with this woman.