I ve been making efforts to get a girlfriend since I lost a toxic relationship but I seem to be indecisive that I can't even make a choice as beautiful babes are just too numerous.

No doubt, what a man or a woman shld be after in a relationship is d inner person,the heart,not just dwelling on the physical appearance which has made me so confused.

The problem I ve now is that I need a humble, decent and good mannered baby but at d same time I want her to be beautiful.

However,so far,my observations about the ones that ve beauty as a plus are either too proud,arrogant,lazy,dull and materialistic.

They don't believe in a life of contentment and can push u into crime with their demands and cost of maintenance.

Most of them don't interact intelligently.

All u hear them talk about is social media,latest iphones,like d one I just met yest and how to flex.
Nothing more.

Is it that one can't find a humble and responsible babe that is pretty?

As it seems that d humble and responsible ones are not physically attractive and ugly but d challenge is that I need a responsible one that is also pretty and even these pretty ones are too numerous that I am too confused on how to make a choice.

So,I don't really know if my attention on getting a beautiful babe is out of lust,natural for me as a man, just abnormal or not sure of what I want in a woman.

While I agree I ve to care for my woman,I just don't want to fall into wrong hands again especially into d trap of a materialistic babe,which is d core challenge in finding a babe in Nig now.

Just confused though.

Advice pls!

You can find a humble and responsible one, in fact, to my own knowledge, they are every where, may be of little anyway.

But, You can't have it in all (I. E criteria) , some aspect are needed to be managed

Good luck

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All ladies except virgins are demanding and sluttish. Whoever it is, you think, has a good character and behaviour is nothing but a good pretender.

If you wanna get the kind of lady you are looking for, then you'll have to mould her yourself, because it won't be advisable for you to go for virgin ladies since you aren't that ready for marriage.


Thanks.

You want a girl that will be using torch light phone and will suffer for you without any concrete reason at all?


Baba go village. No be everybody like suffer like you. Forget women and make yourself.

Cost of maintenance...that point got me cracked up..
Na Honda car..

How much is in your account that you want to have babe?

Go an Marry! Manchelor!


Like said above... You must manage some aspects of your life partner.

As for those "humble" ugly/not so pretty ones, it's when you ENTER that they Will SHOW you!
Or trap you with BELLE!!!


DO NOT PUT IN YOUR MOUTH, WHAT YOU CHOOSE NOT TO CHEW.

Starz825:
Cost of maintenance...that point got me cracked up..
Na Honda car..

FuckBots:
You want a girl that will be using torch light phone and will suffer for you without any concrete reason at all?


Baba go village. No be everybody like suffer like you. Forget women and make yourself.

Hmmm...So,if I can't afford an iPhone for my babe,I shld park well?

So,besides torch light phone,there are no other befitting android phones that I can buy for her?

Did I mention torch light phone or said am stingy to care or provide for my woman moderately and reasonably?

So,to u,materialism is now a norm,culture and has come to stay amongst babes?

Na wah o..

No vex..

no mind them,any lady that need Android phone should get it herself.relationship is not source of income....any girl if you catch chop her!

See yourself as a parent(leader) and a lover to any girl you like, there's no lady that doesn't have the potential to be of bad character and it doesn't depend on the beauty, but if you exude discipline in your approach, she will be the one to give in to the things you want and not the other way round because she's going to respect you because she's going to look up to you, but the moment you treat her like your mate, you are going to feel like you are on your own in the relationship and you are not going to love the way you feel. In the meantime, stop believing that there's a woman that is not materialistic, every woman is materialistic and is not a bad attribute of their creature but the bad ones are the desperate ones

Tajbol4splend:
See yourself as a parent(leader) and a lover to any girl you like, there's no lady that doesn't have the potential to be of bad character and it doesn't depend on the beauty, but if you exude discipline in your approach, she will be the one to give in to the things you want and not the other way round because she's going to respect you because she's going to look up to you, but the moment you treat her like your mate, you are going to feel like you are on your own in the relationship and you are not going to love the way you feel. In the meantime, stop believing that there's a woman that is not materialistic, every woman is materialistic and is not a bad attribute of their creature but the bad ones are the desperate ones

Good one..

donaldtruman:
I ve been making efforts to get a girlfriend since I lost a toxic relationship but I seem to be indecisive that I can't even make a choice as beautiful babes are just too numerous.

No doubt, what a man or a woman shld be after in a relationship is d inner person,the heart,not just dwelling on the physical appearance which has made me so confused.

The problem I ve now is that I need a humble, decent and good mannered baby but at d same time I want her to be beautiful.

However,so far,my observations about the ones that ve beauty as a plus are either too proud,arrogant,lazy,dull and materialistic.

They don't believe in a life of contentment and can push u into crime with their demands and cost of maintenance.

Most of them don't interact intelligently.

All u hear them talk about is social media,latest iphones,like d one I just met yest and how to flex.
Nothing more.

Is it that one can't find a humble and responsible babe that is pretty?

As it seems that d humble and responsible ones are not physically attractive and ugly but d challenge is that I need a responsible one that is also pretty and even these pretty ones are too numerous that I am too confused on how to make a choice.

So,I don't really know if my attention on getting a beautiful babe is out of lust,natural for me as a man, just abnormal or not sure of what I want in a woman.

While I agree I ve to care for my woman,I just don't want to fall into wrong hands again especially into d trap of a materialistic babe,which is d core challenge in finding a babe in Nig now.

Just confused though.

Advice pls!

Toast them by astrological compatibility. These are the most responsible women in the zodiac: Virgo, Taurus, Capricon and Pisces. But Capricon nor dey love oh and Taurus can be temperamental. Above all, pray make the one you meet nor be olosho

condemn:


Toast them by astrological compatibility. These are the most responsible women in the zodiac: Virgo, Taurus, Capricon and Pisces. But Capricon nor dey love oh and Taurus can be temperamental. Above all, pray make the one you meet nor be olosho

Materialistic materialistic! What do you guys understand by that word, anyway? Mtcheww.

PrimadonnaO:
Materialistic materialistic! What do you guys understand by that word, anyway? Mtcheww.

Lack of contentment and possibly Greed!

Why do you need a girlfriend?

Oga Dona lemme tell you something. These eye catchy hoes that be prowling in sexy clothes would never be loyal to you, me or anybody it’s inate in em. Why bother dating one and creating tons of heart and pocket aches for no reason when you can just be a playa and fvck em and go?
Think about it

So na only materialistic you see for the whole post? SMH Ladies feeling attacked For no reason.

whether virgin or non virgin she'll milk you dry if she wants to.

donstan18:
All ladies except virgins are demanding and sluttish. Whoever it is, you think, has a good character and behaviour is nothing but a good pretender.

If you wanna get the kind of lady you are looking for, then you'll have to mould her yourself, because it won't be advisable for you to go for virgin ladies since you aren't that ready for marriage.


Thanks.

donaldtruman:
I ve been making efforts to get a girlfriend since I lost a toxic relationship but I seem to be indecisive that I can't even make a choice as beautiful babes are just too numerous.

No doubt, what a man or a woman shld be after in a relationship is d inner person,the heart,not just dwelling on the physical appearance which has made me so confused.

The problem I ve now is that I need a humble, decent and good mannered baby but at d same time I want her to be beautiful.

However,so far,my observations about the ones that ve beauty as a plus are either too proud,arrogant,lazy,dull and materialistic.

They don't believe in a life of contentment and can push u into crime with their demands and cost of maintenance.

Most of them don't interact intelligently.

All u hear them talk about is social media,latest iphones,like d one I just met yest and how to flex.
Nothing more.

Is it that one can't find a humble and responsible babe that is pretty?

As it seems that d humble and responsible ones are not physically attractive and ugly but d challenge is that I need a responsible one that is also pretty and even these pretty ones are too numerous that I am too confused on how to make a choice.

So,I don't really know if my attention on getting a beautiful babe is out of lust,natural for me as a man, just abnormal or not sure of what I want in a woman.

While I agree I ve to care for my woman,I just don't want to fall into wrong hands again especially into d trap of a materialistic babe,which is d core challenge in finding a babe in Nig now.

Just confused though.

Advice pls!

You are looking for a beautiful girl that will be humble and not materialistic to date. It will be much more easier for snow to fall in Sahara desert than to find these three attributes in one girl in Nigeria, especially between the age of 18-26.

Korllami007:


You are looking for a beautiful girl that will be humble and not materialistic to date. It will be much more easier for snow to fall in Sahara desert than to find these three attributes in one girl in Nigeria, especially between the age of 18-26.

Hmm...

Korllami007:


You are looking for a beautiful girl that will be humble and not materialistic to date. It will be much more easier for snow to fall in Sahara desert than to find these three attributes in one girl in Nigeria, especially between the age of 18-26.

Hmm...

Modernist:
So na only materialistic you see for the whole post? SMH Ladies feeling attacked For no reason.

No mind am..
Na all these ones dey form office on top person head.

donaldtruman:

Hmm...

A girl that has at least 3 to 5 admirers per day then you can calculate it per month. Definitely, she will meet guys that's 10 times better than you in every aspect. And you think that type of girl will be humble? Humble kor humblesmith ni.
Since you don de Waka how many beautiful girls you don meet wey no de arrogant? Oya judge yourself.
The only advice I can give to you is to help them participate in their hoeing phase they are passing through.

Chase a cheque never chase a b*tch

Korllami007:


A girl that has at least 3 to 5 admirers per day then you can calculate it per month. Definitely, she will meet guys that's 10 times better than you in every aspect. And you think that type of girl will be humble? Humble kor humblesmith ni.
Since you don de Waka how many beautiful girls you don meet wey no de arrogant? Oya judge yourself.
The only advice I can give to you is to help them participate in their hoeing phase they are passing through.

Real hoeing phase

You crazy mhen. I laughed out aloud couldn't contain it. Thanks goodness I was eating something pepperish, u would have "killed" me.
Post no more till tomorrow

Korllami007:


You are looking for a beautiful girl that will be humble and not materialistic to date. It will be much more easier for snow to fall in Sahara desert than to find these three attributes in one girl in Nigeria, especially between the age of 18-26.

PrimadonnaO:
Materialistic materialistic! What do you guys understand by that word, anyway? Mtcheww.

Expecting others to buy for you things you can't afford to buy for yourself and feeling entitled about it.

scaramucci:


Expecting others to buy for you things you can't afford to buy for yourself and feeling entitled about it.

Absolutely!

Never in the history of nairaland has come here to say the ladies in his harem are ugly.

1. He must have a bevy of ladies in his harem
2. They are all beautiful and shapely.

Who con dey date the ugly slay Queens?

Nairaland men, take am easy as una dey hype una sef small small.