₦airaland Forum

rooqee120:
He's done with NDA, already in d service...

jeytee:
Na wa oh o.o...are folks from chad and other neighbouring countries allowed on nairaland?...im sure this guy is not from Nigeria...just look at what Buhari has done in just a few months

mayorkyzo:
Ajala the traveler...

Tomasboy:
But hope say you geh blood sha?

HardMirror:
Don corleone. Baba I hail o !!!

Elzends:
Buhari needs to create more jobs

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rooqee120:
he's a 1st Lieutenant
God! He can sleep for Africa... Lol

Cutehector:
She fit don insult one of dem lords...



Babe sorry eh.... Chai.. it's really a pity.

Babzilla:
Whats in the terrain? Mountains?
I would assume that the Army is trained to fight in all kinds of terrain available in Nigeria (except on snow) or am I missing something

rooqee120:
Lol... Thank u... wat do u mean by term? is it same thing as the rank? pls pardon my ignorance o, I jxt dey understand dis things small small

Topestbilly:


Husband is the rightful owner (landlord) while the child is a tenant, children wil definitely leave it at a point but men na till death do us part..

As for me that's my favourite part and ain't takin poo with no child. U know the 2sides are not equal so I can let em (babe) have the bigger one when she's breast feeding us.

RadicallyBlunt:
Eiya dat boi tear am o.

Use dangote 3x cement close am back na.

dachaste:
D babe is just 22? My dear d tins running tru d heads of most 22's are crazy.

U sure d gal is ready to be tied down?


Truth is she don wanna loose u yet she's not ready for marriage



Shikena

boujaye:
is this salary inclusive of egunje ?

DankemzI:
Mehn this people are sophisticated. See Solar panel....

WebSurfer:
The way the Nigerian Army came back Alive since Buhari became president is very commendable. Kudos and More determination to you all.

SleekMallam:
SleekMallam is an advocate of justice.

Babzilla:
This mysterious sambisa they say its the size of enugu How long does it take to capture a regio that size? I wonder how long it will take if sambisa was the size of togo

frankzone:
Capture of this capture of that, advance to capture this n that, tot they said bh ain't controlling any territory

Tekevwe:
I got married to my husband a some months ago. Before we got married we dated for a while and my husband was the smiling type, though I noticed he bones a lot with his siblings.

Our courtship was great. He used to give me practically everything I wanted (affection and care) even before I asked. He showered me with so much love that I thought I was dreaming. I saw some other qualities in him and felt he would make a great husband.

The first week of our marriage, my husband changed, started boning round the house and withdrew into himself. His office rent was due that month so I felt that was cause and let him be. Several months down the line and things re d same or even worse. He gets home boning, eats and goes straight to bed. If I try gisting with him he answers in monosylables and you can see the disinterest on his face.

The only time he smiles at home is when he wants to be intimate. That's the only time he's soft with me now and the only time I feel connected to him. I asked him if I offended him in any way and he says no, that the pressure of providing for a new family is getting to him.

I didn't play hard to get cos I don't believe in such so I don't know why the change.

There are some other qualities I discovered in him that I never saw while we were dating. I jokingly told him he has changed and that day he smiled and said he had to give me all I wanted cos he didn't want to lose me since I'm a pretty girl. Now that we re married its like he can't be bothered with trying anymore.

Also deep down I don't tink he loves me and feel he just married me cos he isn't so young anymore (almost 40) and he's parents were mounting pressure on him. He's snappy with me now which never used to happen.

He also has a wall built around him that I can't seem to penetrate. I feel so depressed each time I'm home, being married to a man I feel no connection to.

I don't know if this is what marriage entails. If it is, then please, married folks should hint me so I can adjust my mindset to this new change.

Also, what can I do to break through and get through to him?

rooqee120:
No wondeeeeeeer.....my fiance is always sleeping at d slightest opportunity, small time, he don sleep. Now I can understand, I won't take offence again...lol

Cholls:
my sister are this beautiful ones in IDP campsite?