₦airaland Forum

Amarabae:
Fashion, Food, Gossip, Ceremony, Social Media etc bring women together.
Btw Beer Parlour bring men together more than football.

I totally disagree, football bring men together more than beer parlour. ln short, u can't compare the two because the difference is very clear.
Is it those who usually go to football centers week in, week out to watch their favourite club matches, not to talk more of thousands of spectators that watch a single match in the stadium.

dadavivo:
look, knowing celebs doesn't make anyone successful. That you know rich people doesn't make you successful. If as you said she's being in the spotlight, Don't you think we should vote her out of the house, so that upcoming people go fit blow too. Since it's that way

To be in the spotlight is different from being successful. We have seen so many actresses who had graced the TV screens of Nigerians before but failed to be successful.

Is this Uche guy for real? the guy is seriously desperate to be popular and relevant.
Am sick and tired of the way some Nigerian guys have suddenly developed a loose tongue.

sirusX:
So you just kemenized her...just like that

Hahaha! he studied kemen, a very hard course that is capable of causing spill over in the university.

sirusX:
So you just kemenized her...just like that

The guy has PhD in kemenism

Atlas mountain

TheSonOfMark:
There's no such thing as predestination. There's a reason why humans were given the power of choice.
Choices determine your fate. If predestination were real, the power of choice would have been taken away

It's your choice to cheat or not. You are not a dog or he-goat ruled purely by instincts; in this case, sexual impulses that must be satisfied at all costs.

It's your choice to stick to the terms of the emotional contract with your woman. It's your choice to fight the alluring, tempting invitations by other women or give in to them.

I wanted to argue with u before but when I discovered that u don't believe in destiny, I decided to ask u the following questions since u sounded like an alpha male and I will be glad if u provide the answers.
So u want to tell me that all the things that have been happening to u consciously or unconsciously were direct impact of the choices u made?
You also want tell me that, all the choices u have made, always bring fort the outcome u exactly desire? and no one has ever turned out to be the direct opposite of what u expected? If there is, what do u think is the cause?

Mizk:
i get that you're not an advocate of infidelity in marriage,

But quit making excuses already, men are prone to things that can make them become an infidel due to what they see, you're indirectly saying, if you see a firmer boob and ass than your wife's you'd go for it

And I'm telling you that since you're already married you should respect the vows and suppress every urge to cheat,


Women are also prone to becoming an infidel due to what they see, ok?

You expect them to stay faithful while you cheat, because you're too weak to control your libido

The last time I checked, women can only be influenced by money and sugarcoated words they hear.
If I have my way, I would beg God to change your gender to male for 3 months whether u will be able to cope.
whether you like it or not marriage is full of ups and downs and infidelity is one of those ups and downs.
The same marital vows u talked about says "for better for worse till death do us part", so for this reason, when u leave your matrimonial home, u have already violated the vow.
If u really consider yourself as a strong woman, u need not to run but to face the challenge and surmount it. This life is a life of vicissitudes so also our marriages.

Mizk:
i hate one sided arguments, since you're in support of promiscuity in marriage, you should also make it clear that both of them should have that liberty to cheat, it should be vice versa, if he's cheating i should be cheating too, chikena

Why am i supposed to be the obly one fighting to keep a marriage, its not a do or die affair and we both had our lives before we got married

I can see that u failed to understand my write up, didn't u see where I said " am not an advocate of infidelity in marriage"?
If u won't be biased, u and I know that men are more prone to things that can make them to become an infidel owing to our visual sensitivity.

Everybody is shouting "women shouldn't settle for less" but what has been predestined can't be changed.
Funny enough, women are getting married to potential cheating husbands everyday. Probably, some of these men had no intention of cheating on their wives before marriage but they would later succumb due to incessant seduction from the opposite sex who find them irresistible. Some people will quickly conclude that real men should be able to resist any temptation but temptation is in degrees.
If you are the type that got married or will get marry to a faithful man by luck, u would really need to thank your stars, because is not by power or by expertise and if u eventually falls in to the group of not so lucky ones, what is expected of you is to assess your marriage to know where the problem comes from.
Am not in support of those women who leave their matrimonial home hastily as a result of infidelity from their husband and at the same time, am not an advocate of infidelity because it's one of the sources of disaster in marriage but above all, nobody is infallible.

Drienzia:
Work on your self esteem. I see a good job opportunity coming your way. Pls be prayerful, so it won't pass u by

Pls. am patiently waiting

What can you say about me

Good write up, op.
If our women can practice what u put down, our society would be a better place.
It's unfortunate that our women underestimate the power they have in influencing the society.

truthsayer007:
Naaa, you can't bait me

Going back & forth with u doesn't add anything to my bank acct. I'm not your average NL guy. So i'll just let it go.

Why must u engage yourself in this unnecessary argument, because no matter what u say, some people would still want to perform laboratory experiment on real life issues.

At this junction, I want u to lock up as a nigga that u are.....If u know what I mean.

freecocoa:
I'd like to see proof that it actually happens, not some concocted stories with no means of verification.

I can see that u are one of those people who believes in realism school of thought but the fact is, there is more to this life than meet the eyes.
You can criticize or analyze but truth remains untampered.

Christane:
I dnt belive someone can take someone star dat z a total lie ..cus ur star determine how great u re going to be nd dat wil lead to d fulfilment of ur destiny ..nd z said destiny can only be delayed bt neva denied ...if a poor man z destined to be great no matter wat z gonna be great ...
FACT-ur star can nt be taken it can only be cover nd dat wil lead to d delay of ur destiny ...some stars shine brighter dan the other dat y dy re poor,average, rich and super rich people on earth ...

This your comment is born out of ignorance, if you are the type that attends one of these genuine deliverance ministries, u would have discovered the truth.
There are lot of stars that have been stolen unknowingly which will only take the grace of God to be restored back to the rightful owners.

CSTR2:
Physical beauty used to be the main thing for me maybe 5-10 years ago, but not anymore. Not after my varied experience during the whole dating phase.
The pretty ones just leaves this shallowness after you have truely gotten to the dating part that makes it feel like you can do much better.
It is not just a stereotype anymore. A lot of very pretty girls are dumb, and it is scary to think your kids are going to be inheriting this dumb woman's IQ.
The smartest ladies with great family building prospects are not very stunning facially. Nature has a way of compensating, i guess.
The very pretty brainiacs are as rare as a unicorn.

You can say that again n again

luminouz:
Wife of Leonidas ko....wife of Matthias ni.....such women only follow warriors like Leonidas... Not indomie slurping e-warriors like u!

lol badt guy

luminouz:
Wife of Leonidas ko....wife of Matthias ni.....such women only follow warriors like Leonidas... Not indomie slurping e-warriors like u!

lol badt guy

tensazangetsu20:
This is a lie. There are 5 men for every one woman out there. There's a man for every woman but there's never a woman for every man.

Absolute fallacy! on what premises did u derive your conclusion? I don't think u live in this part of the world.
May be u are one of those guys from Greenland.

Bro, take a chill pill to unravel the mystery behind her unending sermon. I perceive that the girl will be the materialistic type, if not now but in future.
When u eventually marry this type of girl, she would be a source of enormous pressure when your finances starts going south and we all know that nothing is constant because this life is a life of vicissitude.
This is the right time to know whether your relationship with her will be able to stand the test of time or not.

Op doesn't have a thorough idea of what he posted because I expected him to throw more light on the subject matter.

yarimo:
Thank you for your understanding that I am entitled for my opinion, your explanations are all noted

You are welcome

yarimo:
kogi state is not the only state owing salary in the country alone abeg. Falake is fighting bello because he lost out to bello. Falake is fighting for himself not for the good people of kogi state .it Is better for Falake and co to stop deceiving themselves thinking they are deceiving the people of kogi state

If your insinuation is to be considered, don't you think Bello created the avenue for that, by not doing the needful.
Let me shock you again, as a result of last screening exercise, most of the workers on level 14 have been placed on compulsory retirement.
I am not trying to change your perception because you are entitled to your own opinion.
The person that put on a shoe is the one that knows where it pinches.

yarimo:
Falake claiming kogi people are dying of hunger as if kogi state is the only state dying of hunger. I SMH for FALAKE

Stop criticizing the man blindly because Kogi state is experiencing double tragedies of hardship, both from the FG n state govt. As am typing this, the governor is still owing 70% of the workers, 11 months salary.

tens4real:
have you visited other state? I or what will. You say about the north east and does in. Idp camps?

Mr. man your comparison is wrong, how can you compare people in distress in a camp as a result of crisis to a whole state where 70% of the civil servants have been deprived of eleven month salaries after working, for God sake and coupled with incessant screening exercise in the state capital.
So tell me which state has done similar thing?

Bloggers have been craving for traffic since the time immemorial

what have achieved since you assumed office?
You are here complaining that people in some quarters are trying to frustrate your effort. You can't even pay civil servants salary. Rubbish

This is not always the case. Don't be surprised that the looser might have a less swollen face, because sometimes in life, fate could be so cruel to us by throwing a challenge that looks insurmountable to our paths which would need higher price to be paid before victory could be achieved.

Yayjay:
There is really, perhaps i should have said he is God fearing cos dats what I actually meant.

Alright

Walecoker65:
Don't mind that baboon Bro

wow! she is really a baboon

Walecoker65:
Don't mind that baboon Bro

wow! she is really a baboon

Ishilove:
Please ignore her. She's not mentally balanced.

I think so too.

tit:
If he like let him come there with angels.
He will spend time in kiri kiri

Read your post again and you will discover that, no atom of sense in it.
How could you be so mean to the extend of putting down the above statement. Do you have any personal beef with him?