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whiteroses:
eww i hate shy guys i dunno how i got this idea but i always thought if a guy is shy he's very much perverted within, as he dey with is sly innocent look if he grabs you in the dark you go no say shyness na camouflage

Am sure, u are talking from experience

Tyrabarbara:
he wants sex buh because he sees you as a friend, he wouldn't even initiate it. except you give him the green light, then he can have the mind to approach you for sex. guys can not maintain a platonic relationship, their phallus wouldn't let them.

Don't be so sure.
Actually, it is difficult especially, if the girl is very pretty.

Tyrabarbara:
he wants sex buh because he sees you as a friend, he wouldn't even initiate it. except you give him the green light, then he can have the mind to approach you for sex. guys can not maintain a platonic relationship, their phallus wouldn't let them.

Don't be so sure.
Actually, it is difficult especially, if the girl is very pretty.

Yayjay:
Hmmm first guy is a "fine boy" who has d tendencies of cheating be it at or against his own will as girls are always chasing.
To the best of my knowledge, he has never been married and have got no kids. Also, he is a very religious person hence has got very slim chances of cheating.
Great idea on getting a private tutor but I hope he doesn't get embarrassed or offended at my suggestion.
Many thanks

U welcome.
Don't u think there is a difference between a God fearing and a religious man?
Ponder over this.

wristbangle:
How do u expect guys who are battling to eat half square meal in a day to love you OP that eats 5 times daily ?

All the benefits for man, na una dey enjoy am pass. Person dey find work, na woman go grab am fast due to yansh power.

Nigerian ladies only understand that love means money and broke dudes have no business falling in love according to them.

. Badt guy

wristbangle:
How do u expect guys who are battling to eat half square meal in a day to love you OP that eats 5 times daily ?

All the benefits for man, na una dey enjoy am pass. Person dey find work, na woman go grab am fast due to yansh power.

Nigerian ladies only understand that love means money and broke dudes have no business falling in love according to them.

. Badt guy

Zedoo:
In this 21st century....

Later make we no sha hear say the guy come ballout dey find other things....
It could be pretense...guys Wey I know Wey our mind dirty pass anything

. Na true sha

Zedoo:
In this 21st century....

Later make we no sha hear say the guy come ballout dey find other things....
It could be pretense...guys Wey I know Wey our mind dirty pass anything

. Na true sha

Sharing apartment together doesn't mean that there must be a form of attraction between them.

Op, you didn't mention there gender, why?

It is totally appalling.

Zedoo:
Then he better not want mouth action too.
You cant blame women....

Mehn I see no reason why somewhere ure enjoying will be disgusting you to look at.....

Hypocrisy at its peak....

Una wan still dey 1980's

The problem is that, the girl likes sexual adventures unlike the guy who prefers traditional way of expressing love.

Taiwo20:
May you live long. But what if she ask you to shave her and would you.

You are funny

MaQuin:
ok

yes

Testing good

[quote author=AshawoGirl post=53164858]Because she did not give u fork u are complaining. Is fork ur life? U then post her pix. When last did u give a disabled begged. Your name is sorry hmm!

[very funny=Pokiyo007 post=53160391]1.The anger of a penis doesn't destroy the vagina.
2.There is no virgin in a maternity ward.
3.A child can play with it's mother's breasts but not with the father's testicles.
4.The man who marries a beautiful woman and the farmer who grows corn by the road side have the same problem.
5.When you see a woman sitting with her legs open never tell her to close them because u don't know her source of fresh air.
6.He who says that nothing lasts forever has never tried Hausa perfume.
7.The only woman who knows where her man is every night is a widow.
8.An erected penis has no conscience.
9.If u go sleep with an itching anus u are sure to wake up with smelly fingers.
10.The day a mosquito lands on your testicles is the day you will know there is a better way of resolving issues without using violence.[/quote]

Don't be surprised, there are mumu men out there that will gladly accept it.

My advice is, if u know that the first guy is not the cheating type that may later come back from abroad with another girl claiming u are no longer on the same level with him as his reason, you can choose to wait for him because there is a tendency to connect easily and grow up together from grass to grace.
If your instinct tells otherwise, I think it is better you go for the second guy to avoid wasting your time. Are u sure this second man doesn't have a child or children out of wedlock, because it is difficult to find a rich man in this present day Naija in his 40s not being disturbed by females, but if u are alright, no problem.
Concerning his English, na English u won chop? If u are not OK with his English, u squeeze out time to teach him or you advice him to get a private tutor.

There is nothing bad with your request but he didn't welcome the idea, so it is better u wave it away, because there is no way u can force him to do it against his wish.
The guy took it too far by saying, is he your Barber, he failed to understand that, the statement could go a long way to have a negative effect on your self confidence n self esteem by declaring it disgusting, perhaps he has been there severally feeling heaven on earth.
What is wrong by saying "babe you know I love you but what you asked me to do is against my personal philosophy, am sorry."
Above all. u need to bury the hatchet, because his refusal might not be a true reflection of not loving u or loving u less.

Clueless human being, how will Nigeria move forward with this type of human being as a minister in a country that boasts of over 180 million people.
As a minister of solid minerals, what footprint have u laid down, before spewing this rubbish.

Very PATHETIC.

Well said, I pray for His grace

I love that, the guy is a confirmed nigga.....no dulling

Both men n women but women know how to suppress their sexual urge when they are feeling it while men find it difficult to hide it.
At times, it all depends on individual, because some ladies are sexually active than guys.

Op, so this is how u think? am disappointed.

Omotola Jalade, I know....Mercy Johnson, I know but who is Anita Joseph?

[quote author=fragilebeing post=53071665]No sir, it is not all about pleasing people around me.
I want a decent and affordable environment where I can train my son and get a spacious shop. [Alright, you have a point there. Good luck.]

I can't practice no 4 & 9
No.16 is not logical at all, so she shouldn't say sorry anytime she does something wrong to me. I should be the one saying sorry every time like someone who doesn't know his right? Op, all these are possible in the western world but not in Africa especially, in Nigeria because it will surely backfire.

I think it's more logical to remain in that one room apartment for now since u have been there for some years I guess, than to be in a hurry to upgrade your standard of living Just to please people around you, unless you've become seriously uncomfortable in that apartment.
I think you should concentrate more on how to invest the money saved to you and your wife's business and nurture it for sometimes before thinking of renting new apartment because by now your business would have gathered a firm base to stand the test of time. Therefore, relocating to Lokoja is not the best option.

Op, being a broke guy doesn't mean the guy is lazy. This life is a mystery, I've seen someone who works for just five hours earning more money than someone who works for ten to twelve hours daily.

Op, so this is the most reasonable matter you could come up with. Your timid description made it more meaningless, I am sure u are still a teenager.

Look at a man who lacked common sense claiming badoo. He will later spend triple amount or more that he would have paid his land lady initially.

Ebi npaa ni, edakun eyin obirin e fun lounje

It has been predestined for them to learn in a very hard way this season