₦airaland Forum

PulaPower:
Look at people that want a better Nigeria

how is punishing the innocent a trajectory for a better Nigeria.

if Govt have not failed in its responsibility will parent be throwing there kids over the fence cos of 5k

Curious345:
Normally she was probably sent the by the family to test your potency. The wife may be aware her mom could be aware so they assumed that if you have intimacy with her and she gets pregnant then you have passed.

No wife will live her sister in the house with her husband and travel and not expect the contrary.

Sometimes if the elder sister cannot get pregnant they send the younger sister or the cousin a trusted cousin to get pregnant to her behalf.

But when the husband cannot impregnate any of them then they assume there's a problem

complete gibberish

zero8zero:
You were already borrowing to pay subsidy . Tinubu saved your lazy ass.

@least when we know what we were borrowing for and felt the impact

Now Tinubu is collecting more loans, no accountability, no impact and we dont even know where these loans go

Ojuntana:
Recovery from what?
The economy was already growing at over 3% before you took office so it's not as if you took Nigeria from recession
Inflation has worsened since you took office
Interest rates have almost doubled and Nigerians are now paying more for living expenses than any time in history
Debts have increased
Dollar value of govt income has reduced
Unemployment has not improved either
Shall we talk about exchange rate that has plummeted?
So what exactly is the economy recovering from?
I think it's becoming obvious that these guys are taking Nigerians for a ride
They just throw around figures as they wish without any thought for what they said previously
N930bn is just about $930m while this man previously said $20bn was being used to subsidise fuel every year by the previous administration. So if $20bn was spent on subsidy, how come you're only able to save $930m out of $20bn? Where's the remaining $19.1bn?
I'm more convinced that these guys don't have any clue what they are doing with the economy!!

The most annoying thing for me is there academic resume, phd in harvard hiv in oxford But when you listen to any of them speak .. you wonder where is the school

outside govt/politics these people are intelligent but the moment dey work under politics ... smh

Dynamicboss:
FYA, only few millennials in their early 80’s gave birth to Gen Zs. Maybe you wanted to state Generation X who are most parents of Gen Z. Millennials gave birth more to Gen Alpha.

Besides, parenting doesn’t ascribe to any particular generation. It is a shared responsibility between father and mother to nurture their children to be well behaved from childhood. Will you say prophet Eli during Samuel era in the Bible that gave birth to two irresponsible children is Gen Y (millennials) ?

i like that you made a point and back it up, But if out of bible 80 books Eli wayward children are the only example you can cite ... i will give that generation an A

imagine we wan write bible now, do you know how many Eli children we have, infact there wont be space for jesus or david story talkless of solomon

crossfire:
Can we see how social media has made young nigeria to talk and act like moroons,every body is just commenting bullshit,have u guys sit-down to ask ,y wld young boy between the age of 19 n 21 just kill an Uber driver,u fools just concluded, have u guys gotten first hand information. People just come out to talk bullshit. Am not in support of the killing,but atleast people shld not just just into conclusion. Mumu children for nairaland

why not be the correction, be the detective and whatever excuse you find i hope it justifies

otipoju:
Spare the rod and spoil the child.

When kids are young that is when you can teach them anything. Once a child is twelve, its too late.

Our woke counter part will never agree ... they will say hire a therapist, dialogue or deny the child biscuit thats correction for 5yr old that steal schoolmate toy home

Stilloracle:
To God I'm having tears in my eyes just reading
this woman's interview. Same way i cried when I watched the video.
Like how on earth can U hit a child like that? Howwww What kind of devil is in your heart? I'm sitting here looking at my 5 years old son and imaging someone doing that shitt to him. .. may God let me not commit murder if such happen.
[b]My father used to hit me like this as a child. Till now i cant get over it [/b]I'm still traumatized. I hate him till now

Finally someone admit, i was beginning to feel like only me grew up in Nigeria, people are just acting like these things are new nd we dont watch parent beat there kids outside

your father did hit you rite, evaluating your life today are you a better person or his disciplinary action made you a terrible person.
i pray God gives you more grace to hate your father the more, e no concern us

Kobojunkie:
Whether you choose to term it a privilege —reward only available to those who qualify(earned privilege)— or you classify it as an incentive( a motivation for doing good work), the fact here is that these are ideas to help you raise your kids without needing to resort to violence. 🙄🙄🙄🙄

Wow !! so caning or beating my child is now violence .... weytin person no go hear from our so called " Woke" elite

Incentives is to encourage a child to do beta it doesnt "correct" bad behaviour ... @these point i think you lack basis


look at the gen Z we have today mere chilling around dem you will know something is mixing in them, make una continue with fake lives on social media decieving yourselves

Kobojunkie:
1. I am afraid it can be just that simple. What I described earlier is just what the 6.5-year-old settles with. I didn't even say anything about what the 12-year-old accepts or the one older than that works for.

2. That is instead what you assume.

3. Even as far back as the 80's my own mother knew that she only needed to bribe me to golden morn, suya, or even a new book from the bookstore to get me to do chores at home. Again, Privileges can be as simple as I described. Ultimately, what most kids want is to know that they have your attention. If you are not able to afford the Nintendo Switch for instance, they will settle for a kid or a pizza if they know that you are at least thinking of them. 🤔

Oga i think you are mistaken incentives for privilege, in your context that "incentives

although privileges can act as incentives but incentives cant fully act as privilege

if its what any child next door can get, thats not privilege, like i said in the 90s maltina na privilege, our parent promise us bicycle, how many children around fit get that


For you just say incentives

Kobojunkie:
I currently use cake, sweets, candy, garri and ekpa, hot cocoa, noodles, and even fried eggs to bribe a 6-& half-year-old boy into doing his homework, chores, and being a good boy at home and at school. Those are just some of the privileges he enjoys when he does well and he works really hard to keep the goodies coming his way.

like seriously 🤣 thats raising a "Pikin"

Oga even if i dont know anything i know privileges are not "Basics" or regular things ... groundnut privilege kwa 🤣 noodle

privilege is getting what other children wont get on a normal day .. if noodles is a special treat that child should be with social service 🤣🤣
in the 90's gameboy, discman, mr biggs treat are privileges esp. drinking maltina your playmates that day

Kobojunkie:
Use myself as a case study how?

thought you knew "priviledges" beta... i was born in local Nigeria cant relate

Sulele04:
Your education is definitely a waste though, infact your case should corroborate that good education does not necessarily equate expensive education.

I mean see how you turned out, you don't think different from a motor park tout. There is literally no deductive or fact based reasoning in what you type just pure okoto moew gibberish of "na so them take train us oo".

Fooolll I am sure it was your type that justified killing of Twins by the Efik tribe after all nah so "out papa dey do"

Who gives a Bleep about what "Jesus christ" supposedly do, do everybody subscribe to the same bullshit beliefs as you. I say you be illiterate sef.

Infact I am sure you are one of those religious extremists that crucify people on how you think they should leave their life, meanwhile do all sort of terrible things behind close doors. I know your type se.

The abroad that you are talking about why don't you go and beat people's kid and claim that you are correcting them make you land for better prison & get child abuse record for your CV.

lol !! like you were literally shouting, beta check ur bP

I dont know what good the society or parent stand to benefit if discipline is abolished , we are in present society where parent hardly have time to monitor or raise there kids, if we serve a deterrence to teachers to the point they fear for there lives to correct a child ... it all coming back to backfire on us
i am a product of discipline and No amount of america accent or wokeness you feel can intimidate me.

i am africa i am Nigerian and i am fvcking proud of my heritage .. i dont copy copy whites cos i understand "Peculiarity"

Kobojunkie:
Nigerian parents are busier than parents in foreign countries where the suggested ideas are the norm?

2. Do you understand the meaning of the word privileges?

3. Huh?

I am open to sensitization, use yourself as a case study

codemaniacs:
My parents never slapped or raised there hands on me...

tribe has something to do with it because the same way people from different religions can't tolerate each other is the same way people from different tribes can't tolerate each other...

in saner countries, her slaps will be treated as a crime of hate against the Yoruba boy.

have you read anywhere that P:eter Obi condemned the woman who was slapping the boy

these your arguement ehn .... sleep in jesus name

Sulele04:
You are an illiterate it is very obvious.
"Beat the rod, and spoil the child" gibberish I am sure that is a reasonable excuse to abuse children.

If in 2025 you think the best way to discipline a child is physical abuse it shows how inept, and pathetic you are. I am sure no country beats their children more than us yet we turn out scammers, cultists, corrupts individuals like no other I am sure those guys were not beaten in their childhood. Otondoo.

E no go far sha.
When you born your own children beat them anyhow you like, with anything from canes, to pure wood, knife and even pressing iron sef.

Just don't even as much as slap another's person pikin else anything you use your eyes see collect am like that you hear. Filthy scum

i doubt your parent can afford the schools i went to from primary to uni.

what special about 2025, did jesus son of God not chop horse whip, so who is my son to be above cane
lol ! caning is now physical abuse ... sumtin wey im papa papa chop ... whats even wrong with some you claiming halfway woke

i tell you what, we are scammers, cultist and most corrupt cos of a failed system & economic hardship not because of morale deficiency

i can see you argue like a woman , i beat me child but like i said "in Moderation" ... even abroad i have watch black kids open up there mom beat them, it as to be mom 😀

BoldBrainz:
Very same mentality that's giving birth to the morally deficient children we're seeing in the streets on a daily basis today.

No one is supporting her high-handedness and she's already being punished for it, but let us all not pretend as if practical discipline has become a taboo in our society, which was what she probably intended.

But trust Nigerians on social media such as these clowns to always exaggerate matters especially when they emanate from social media. Forming woke over nonsense. Na only for Internet them sabi get outrage, and always over seemingly minor issues.

Always majoring in the minor! Make una go nail am to cross parade am for streets of Lagos na. Hypocrites!

You know what very annoying ... these social media madness of always over reacting we dont take it to politicians or govt

What Tinubu and his associate politicians as done to Nigerians under 2yrs is it not worst than a teacher slap,

Temitunz:
Timeout, Loss of priviledges, Grounding etc

Timeout ... from parent that are hardly home, inside these economic, even parent no get time out

Priviledges ... Maybe for the otedola, davido kids, on a reality what priviledges does an average naija pikin has ... smh

Grounding ... where is the money, its so bad children are the ones raising parent now doing yahoo
how old is peller, naa that one parent go ground

codemaniacs:
Arrest is not an overkill... Luckily for the woman she is Nigeria where people chant unity and overlook violence just to maintain the illusion of unity...

the woman committed a crime of assault against a 3 year old, crime as a result of hatred against Yoruba people..

the woman should be spending at least 5 - 10 years in prison..

you don't go to another person's ethnic nation and mistreat and be violent against them in their own nation..

Can you say your own parent never slapped or raise there hands on you

what as tribe got to do with anything here, if you had gotten the right amount of slaps as a child you wont be reason like some genz on kolos

Sulele04:
It is not an over-reaction you are such an hypocrite I am sure if it was your child you won't be saying the same thing. If your 3yr old child returned home deaf go & pat the teacher on the back you hear if e reach your turn.

You are being obtuse trying to use your own unfortunate case of abuse to justify another abuse.

If nem dem use omorogun nack una head for your house let it end there, you can even use knife too if omorogun is not effective.

Just don't do it to people's kid ok, nobody cares if that's how your parents raised you ok keep it in your barbaric family.

after sacking the teacher, detaining her, someone is still asking for justice If thats not over reaction then death sentence must be a benchmark

hypocrite how ! i will beat my child if he errs and my position on these matter gives me out, i support discipline

lol ! there is no one in my age group or born 80's backward that dont share a similar experience as mine, shout to our Naija mothers " Abàrá" naa factory reset

if i beat my children 20% of the beating i recieve as an hyperactive kid, dem go disown me for life ... time have change nd thats my believe "Moderation" is best we can do

spare the rod n spoil the child, therapy is not for naija breeds

Temitunz:
Teachers should learn to control their temper.. there are other ways to correct a child misbehavior than beating. I am a trained and licensed teacher and I speak from experience

Gud !! so what are these ways and how effective as it being on Genz turnout

Sulele04:
You are absolutely sick in the head if you think this is a minor issue, just recently was it in the news that a child was beaten to death by a teacher I don't think it is up to two months sef too.

A teacher repeatedly abusing a child to the point that if it wasn't leaked it wouldn't have stopped to add with he had to be hospitalised as a result of the slap, if you watched the slap sef if nah you dem slap like that you go dey nurse your hear ni, you are sick in the head se trying to trivialise this.

Useless animaals if you like abuse so much when you born your own children beat them to death if you like nah your problem, but if you do am to another person pikin make e no be say nah person like me else you will be fuxkkked up so bad ehn you will think it is more than a slap.

What is bad is bad, the teacher over acted buh considering how the case is going there is certainly over reaction

As a child some of us grew up in the days of koboko, teacher go beat you for school even for house you fit chop omorogun or wire from your own parent ... But today we thank God

The teacher as being sacked i did think thats enough

Ishilove:
This woman failed her son abeg. I don't know if she is a weakling, or if it is just condition that has made so 'gentle'.

As for the school, they need to be questioned. Why did it have to take a social media uproar for them to take action, even after the pastor reported??

This kid was failed by those who should have protected him.

Failed her son ke !! aunty what should she have done, pull out a samurai sword or hire a terminator

I guess these whole social media thing is about fakeness, hypocrisy and we give tew much credence to nonsense,

The teacher errred no doubt, but the reaction is overboard because 100% of those taken up the case against the woman experienced severe punishment even than that, both from parent and school teachers

Every region/race has it own peculiarities, all these therapy and frank edo dialogue to correct a child is not meant for Naija breeds, discipline is sancrosanct if it didnt kill our grandparent, our parent ,Us then why will it sudden kill our children now ... moderation is all needed

what deterrence are we sending to teachers now ..... hands off or look away

Manny21:
And they sey money no dey

Money in the hands of few is literally Money no dey, if you check the ratio or % of those that spent that #4.2bn if e no reach 5% of naija population

cococandy:
This is hilarious

look at freedom advocate

Obaaderemi2:
You don't understand. We're not talking about producing children . We're talking about sex. What happened to family planning? Couples can still have a lot of sex without producing kids from it. Families are even getting smaller in Africa too. And don't gaslight us with that common idea that black people only think about sex. People all over the world are all doing it maybe even more than black people. Martin Luther King jr was once caught on tape saying: "Fucking is an anxiety reductor."

Dont mind that oversabi village headmaster, i guess china and india with a over 1 billion population are africans/black

Obaaderemi2:
Exactly what I was telling the other guy @ bolded. Your wife starts acting up, find another woman on standby to save yourself unnecessary anxiety.

These as gone beyond acting up, dont you get .. its one thing for women to complain nd lock up there legs But when your woman that encouraging you to cheat or look outside thats completely on another level

its not sumtin to call pasuma over and start dancing, esp. if he has thinking faculty

sumtin is Up

despite the topic mentioned cross river, my mind still jumped to ogun state ...

i need to stop alcohol, smh

Villagesquare:
Igbos Shine both when Nigeria is bad and when it is good. This my standpoint view is backed up with the evidential reality of what the Igbo business men did this December. Anybody that it in the Eastern Nigeria this festive season will not believe that this is the same Nigeria where cost of 1 bag of rice is 100k. There was an unaccountable number of events and this last year saw the highest influx of people in the recent times. How are the Igbos doing this. It is simple. Igbos are business people, therefore they are not always at the tail end of the adverse effects of inflation. Infact a business man confided in me that Last year was his best Year. Other tribes should realize that no matter how they try, they can't kill that spirit of Igbo man. If it can't happen during the war, it cannever happen now. Igbo esika

You sat down and these is the nonsense you could come up with;

In your petty mind you went round the SS and Sw states, street 2 street to conclude detty december happened only in the East

i guess my friend that bought rx350 to mark xmas .... didnt use money cos he is yoruba.

only igbos dey make money, the ones in my area must be fake igbos. chest beating yii nonii

njelrapheal:
So no hope for me like this

Your choice is the limitation here, a 2004 car is a very old car if you ask me, most registered big daddy you will see have a long date of naija plate ... so it not a surprise they are having engine problems,
people believe toyota is rugged and thats how they use it

if you want naija used cars like buy n drive you will have to setup the model/year ... check cars pertinent to yahoo boiz , lexus, muscle, spider, venza, honda , benz

its much easier to get buy n drive from those options, think cars that compel pampering thats where to find buy n drive the most

GboyegaD:
Is the school thinking of making it free for students by including the cost in the tuition fees? That way it can reduce the burden of paying daily and also well discounted for the students whether or not a student choose to use the bus.

C'mon, is it everyday a student in the university have class/lectures ... so how will the school compute each student actual cost without ripping anyone off

Forceful inclusion of school bus fee in tution means striking out competition or other school shuttles ..

choices is fundamental, let student chose what they can afford and decide there pace

pocohantas:
Even if she doesn't go in for his death, she should go in for statutory rape. I wouldn't know the attraction people have for kids. Then mask it as kids grow too fast. They be looking 25 at 14. Nahh, you know what you are doing. You know that is a child.

dis one never liked children anyways .. very relatable