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laribari:
Obviously u are confused.

My points are valid, simple and straight.

1. How can a man who earns 50k live in such luxury that you claim?

1, It could be an apartment rented by a friend.
2, It could be an apartment rented by the wife because the story didn't claim the man as the owner of the house.
3, There's a possibility that the house was rented when he had a good job, but lost it to his current one.

laribari:
2. In an ideal world especially in Africa, how many couple have different rooms in a flat or duplex? The percentage is very little. So must the OP fall in that class?

Yes, it's possible for him to fall in that little percentage you scribbled about.

laribari:
Staying in a diff room means a lot and their sex life will suffer. People are wiser now! White couples won't do it not to talk of blacks.

We aren't arguing about their sex life here, don't derail the cliche of argument because you are loosing, we are arguing the possibility of couples having different rooms named after them and yet sleeps together in a room

laribari:
3. The OP is looking for sympathy and it's clear. OP painted himself as a poor man (who lives in luxury as you claim he has rooms) but his wife is better off in terms of earnings, yet she's sleeping outside.

You aren't wise in arguing.

You earlier doubted the possibility of that story being real, now look at you authoritatively concluding the Op's mind.

laribari:
Condom and money!

1. Condom because he is not satisfying her sexual since they share separate rooms, so she's flirting.
2. Money because she needs money despite she's probably earning well since he is broke.

Which of the two is the OP accusing her of?

The Op didn't accuse her of anything, he simply gave us a narration of what happened, he didn't accuse.

Learn how to comprehend a simple story before commenting, it's important

laribari:
You are confused as the story. Argue on!

You are useless as the "K" in "KNIFE"

laribari:
OK now u have taken it to be that he probably was rich before becos I have made it clear that such a setting you are painting (having separate rooms and still live in one) is luxury which will mean 2 or 3 bedroom for the couples alone. You are very funny honestly and a typical Nigerian man who will argue to the last even when you are wrong.

Did he say he was rich before? Yoursef answer me!!!

This is simply psychological, a brain work. You have to analyze things before talking. The OP painted a picture that makes him the victim so that he will attract sympathy and if he lost his job or was rich before, he will quickly state it just to sweeten the story and give an excuse for why the wife was cheating on him.

Did he explain why she cheats? Whether he was impotent due to accident after their kids? Or If he was terrible in bed? Or if he doesn't have time for the woman based on work or being busy? The only thing he said was money in her bag just to accuse her and attract sympathy.

If the woman earns well, money "may" not be the reason for doing that becos I have listed possible reasons. However, all is still bad but I'm just saying the OP is creating a picture that would make him get sympathy and accusing her indirectly.

If he was rich before, trust me he would say it because that would put the woman in a more guilty position that she's cheating becos he is now poor.

Oga use your head naa! The man's story is not neat and that's why I didn't believe it.

Young man, stop making mockery of yourself by sounding pointless with all your epistle.

What exactly are you arguing about?

You are just typing with no direction, highlight a point and counter my instances.

Boring

laribari:
Yes naa! That's still luxury for someone who earns 50k and the wife's room is also a suite cos it has separate bath room.

Baba use your brain naaaaa! Just give up arguing. Even the point you made makes little sense because it still doesn't fit the kind of picture the OP painted. You wan just argue.

Firstly, u didn't see where he said she has her own room, after I showed u now, u dey wan twist am. Having a room inside a room.

See below naaa! Wetin the guy talk nor clear enuf? Which one is room inside another room? They clear don't share same room.

You called it luxury because he currently earns 50k, what if he use to earn higher before that made him acquire that apartment.? answer!

I can't remember telling you that I didn't see where OP wrote that she has her own room, I simply asked you highlight it for me, so that i'll clear you on that fact that couples having multiple and different rooms doesn't necessary mean that the couples don't leave together in a room.

laribari:
Baba, if you dey read, dey cool down. As seen above, the wife has her own room and obviously he will have his own too.

You alone should cool down and read a possible meaning to story lines brO, having different rooms mustn't mean you don't leave together in a room.

Some rooms in buildings just bear the wife's name, even when she's living together in her husbands room.

Think brO........Think.

Chikita66:
I see you everywhere, like every fuvking where. Get a job dude.

How did you manage to see me everywhere if you had a job

Always pissed off when she sees a virgin thread....dem steal ur own from you?

Abi na rape as usual

TITOBIGZ:
chai, my guy you too wicket wallah.

That's not wickedness ma Nigga .

Even the OP NOSE that I'm not wicked.

No one should be wicked because no one NOSE tomorrow, only God NOSE tomorrow.

lefulefu:
Tonto dike dat was mocking 1 minute men iyam sure she wont even have strenght to ride a pingolo for just only three minutes .anyway dead wood ladies are no different from sexdolls .but guy there are babes dat are daring in za oza room oo .and as for virgin guys how dem wan know say dem be virgin if dem no talk am out .if d guy is coded and sharply understands what d girl wants he"s already a winner.

Biko leave Tonto dike, she was indirectly trolling her ex-husband , u no grab?

Lol, the worst thing wee go do a virgin-guy, na to de make mouth give experienced lady....Em name go be sorry for za oza room... ... A big winner for that matter nh , who wan carry last

Yea, some ladies are daring during sex, but they are few, just few ...Others na just sex-doll dem be

DrinkLimca:
see the way I'm laughing and tears dripping out from my eyes.

Lol, Ma Nigga

That's the truth nh.....Nobody NOSE tomorrow, how I wish a Nlander NOSE the parents of this lady so that they'll come and see for themselves.

But, it's obvious nobody NOSE her parents.

lefulefu:
some virgin guys have learnt the intoto from porn movies.forget dat tin jor. Most virgin guys are as corrupt as they come...forget some of those virgin male pretenders on nairaland dat will be claiming innocence and shouting male virgin upandan. If u lock dem with babe for room na d girl go break door comot escaping only her panties with her bra less boobi swinging left and right. And for dose babes wey tell u say dem expect d guy to do all d work ...they must be lazy girls.na dose type go lie down like dead wood while d guy is doin all d job. Tell dem to give u cowgirl style..just only two minutes dem go tell u say dem don tire.

Ma Nigga , No matter how much a guy watch porn or shuffle sex skills, his experience won't be compared to that of a guy who bangs steady ....Forget forming most guys de fear during their first time, make dem no fall hands, leave these social media forming by guys

Most ladies expect men to do all the works, the only thing most of them sabi na to give BJ, then lie down like fools make you de hustle on top their body , if not for hymen, it would have being difficult for men to know a virgin, because both virgins and most of non-virgins are boring during sex.

They so much hate that cow-girl , because the work is left for them to do , even reverse cow-girl, they hate it.....But they'll want you to do missionary.....Very boring and lazy fellows

IamAirforce1:
Your papa

So someone cannot praise your babe's beauty in peace again


Well, who NOSE , the picture might be deceiving.



I love her NOSE , it's looking like a soup of last year ..Very sexy

You girlfriend is so so beautiful and sexy.

Look at her nose, very sexy.


No one NOSE tomorrow, she might give birth to a Nland mod in the future.

Women don't like virgin men, that's the bitter truth about women and virgin men, the only time a woman will pretend that she wants a virgin is when she's being questioned about her virginity, which hurts them so much they'll now in defence pretend they want virgin men, that's just the fact about them.

I'v met truthful ladies, many of them, a woman once told me that women loves experienced guys, they don't want virgins.....I had to ask WHY?, which had her reply and told me that MEN does the major works during sex, they do most of the work and for a woman to enjoy sex, the man need to be experienced, unlike when you are having sex with a virgin lady, there's no much difference between a virgin and non-virgin ladies during sex, because you as a man will still be the one to ignite the fun. That's the truth about them, deep inside them they hate virgin men, but will claim they like them whenever their virginity is being questioned.

Truth be told, being a non-virgin man doesn't have disadvantages .. it rather have many advantages that's the truth, while being a non-virgin woman v'got a lot of disadvantages ...No man will be happy to marry a woman who has sagged breast and wide pussy as a result of her previous sex partners, every man will love to marry a woman with tight pussy and standing boobs, that's why they clamor and craves for virgin women......And no woman will want to marry a man with less experience, every woman will be happy to marry an experienced man, that's why they clamor and crave for long lasting men with experience.

It's just like car and it's driver, every driver loves a brand new car, while every car needs an experienced driver

Drops pen.

laribari:
You too funny! Save your zeal and energy because that is a fake story. So you believe all these things bloggers?

Someone that earns 50k and painted a picture that he is not doing well financially has money to stay in an apartment that he and his wife have separate bedrooms. Did he tell us what the wife earns? NO!

If the wify wants to be doing runs, will she be the one carrying condom about? She get diick? Haba! That is a joke becos ordinarily it won't happen.

That story is just focused on 100k and a pack of condom, then he concludes she's with a man. Since she has money, why can't she have 100k she probably wanna use for something? I'm sure Na the man get the condom but he's dumb enuf to remember it.


Anyways, let's pretend the story is true? Why on earth will a man allow his wife to sleep in a different room? Na you push her outside with your own hand ooo! Even if I have a mansion, Na one room, one bed, else you will be creating a gap and you won't know it until your spouse will just lost taste of you.

Did the story say that they leave in different rooms?

Preshy561:
how can you even know a target market when you are not even one..you ain't even a market not to talk of being a target..stupidity

Stop dodging the question


Are you a virgin?

Preshy561:
lool...I can only consider answering your question if you are a virgin too..

in two months time?,,yeah..in two months time on nairaland

Answer him...Are you a virgin?

Chikita66:
Kindly get lost.

Why are you ladies like this?
So a man cannot love a virgin in peace
Nawao

ubunja:
women need to be reminded of their one-sided world view. with them its always Me Me Me.

When you tell them the bitter truth.....They'll say you are trolling them

When you don't asslick them...They'll call you broke and jobless

Hahahahahahah.....Foolish girls everywhere

ubunja:
better than virginity-less.
in 2 months i will have a job again. can the same be said about your virginity status??

How do you expect a lady on this forum to be a virgin

ubunja:
c'mon humour me. dont be 1 sided like that. we never asked to see your own cars and houses when you were raving on about your love for men with cars and houses.

He/she was begging slaye money when he sold his land,

Beggars everywhere

ubunja:
quoting people for a living aint bad. remember you had 1 job!! and literally fvcked it up.
you had virginity to deliver on your Wedding Night but now...

MhizzAJ:
It is better to marry into a life of riches and wealth with an old man than to be with all these chewing gum boys that don't have direction,some of them don't even have anything in their name

You are right shaa.


And some of them don't even have conscience, they'll use and dump ladies like a piece of shit.....They'll be breaking their heart unnecessarily after fvcking them to stupor .......They'll ask a lady out when her boobs are still standing, then after fvcking and banging the hell out of the lady, when her boobs start sagging that you can even fold and tuck it in your trouser, they'll dump the lady like their rag.



These chewing gum boys eh!....They are wicked

Shea?

Oyindidi:
Thought you were speaking from experience

I'v seen a lot of people separate after the so called blood covenant and nothing happened.

Nothing atall.

One of them is married with a kid now

Shugavee:
come n beat me

Oyindidi:
Have you entered into a covenant with a girl before?

Not atall, I'v not.

The major problem is that partners of these days no longer pay attention, learn and observe the necessary things they are suppose to observe from their partner while courting and dating.

They date with misplaced priorities, they don't put to test to dictate some possible unforeseen trauma.

Oyindidi:
The one wey dey pursue op and him girlfriend

Blood covenant is a scam


That's deceit to the highest level.