₦airaland Forum

LordKO:
The meaning of feminism is as ambiguous as the meaning love. Therefore, personally, I don't see one who posses the qualities you listed as a true feminist - to me those are wannabe feminists, they're simply small-minded. This class of feminists usually posse sexist, arrogant, conceited and domineering attitudes. Also, they're hypocritically disingenuous - they're like their small-minded men counterparts.

Meanwhile, true feminist are proponents and practitioners of egalitarianism, conscientiousness and first between equals in romantic relationship/marriage (with the sane man as the first of the equals). They simply abhor subjugation in any form and guise. Believe you me, they're the best set of females to associate with. They're usually not just only smart and clever but equally insightful, outspoken, selfless and unassuming.

I love real feminists.

God bless you brO, you'll live long.

Real feminists are big turn on to me, I so much love and respect them a lot they are so fun and dope to be with very smart and intelligent set of people

It just annoys me to see these dump, numbskull and empty headed ladies form feminist on Nairaland,

They are just frustrated set of people,

strike a conversation with them and watch them flop

She looks like a yoruba version of sex doll.
So, i'll rate her -5/10

Ladyhippolyta88:
Seriously you annoy me at times but I would try to ignore you.

Feminist baby

Saying your re a proud feminist got me laughing

MensCabal:
Actually feminist is a failed course not because it is wrong, but because women are looking at it wrongly. Men and Women can never be equal by doing exactly the same things like a Woman being a taxi driver just as a man can be the same or a woman being a construction engineer just as men can do same. Nope that is not how things work. In a Company, like a transportation service, women are meant to dish out the tickets while men carry the load and are the drivers of the buses, that is teamwork and division of labour...

Most women forget that feminism is all about killing the discrimination against women and not actually being equal to men in strength and power, but in their own unique ways

Nigga why bothering yourself?

What made you think all these nairaland ladies wee neva grow better breast know what feminism is all about.

Read the comment above this one, she couldn't even answer the simplest question a feminist should answer

Itiboribo everywia

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sekxyqueen:
wanna have a profound knowledge about this feminist of a thing..
as a feminist, what can you offer to the society..
?

For the first time on this forum i'v seen you ask a sensible question

Don't get it twisted, just kidding

Ladyhippolyta88:
You are not in my life so you can't decide for me or tell me what I am by the way you can continue laughing.

Na so

Awon Nairaland strugglers funny set of people be forming feminist when they lack the idea of what the word "Feminism" is all about

Still laughing hard

You ladies will not kill me

Ladyhippolyta88:
Proudly feminist.Thank God the OP said Nigerian men.

You are not a feminist.

Do you even know what "Feminism" means?


Can't stop laughing

Peachess:
Bleep off is no insult. It's just like telling someone back off.

Tell me, why will you tell me to back off when you earlier said that all opinion will be welcomed

Peachess:
You guys are the ones not brave and intelligent enough to have a conversation. I was civil until you guys started using the b word on me because I was stating my opinion and I didn't insult anyone until you guys started it. Like I said, you guys are scared of brave female who can say her opinion so you resort to using offensive and derogatory word. The last time I check if you're truly intelligent, you won't insult anyone for stating her views.

Did I? No, but you rather did by telling me to fvck off

Had it been I was in the mood for brawl, I would have clapped back in a heavy way



Wait oo!! did you say something about you being brave

AryEmber:
Did you just insult his mom? This is shameful, a shame on womanhood.

My dear, tell her!

She opened a thread and typed "All opinion will be welcomed" when she knows that she isn't brave and intelligent enough to tolerate, argue and discuss whatever that might follow up.


So pathetic how frustrated some ladies can be.

The man trying to prove something to his side chick.

Peachess:
Oh sensible man, please tell me the best way to get the opinion of the people. Well you're even one them so I'm surprised by your response. So you using the reaction of sex dull to compare this issue is just dumb cos this are two different issues. I'm not talking about morality here, I'm talking about the truth,

What truth are you typing about?

You earlier said That the society made women to depend on men, that the society makes women lazy to work, that the society aren't okay to see a woman being successful than man [/b], hereby trying to justify the laziness of African women , hereby, trying to support the motion of women depending on men , isn't it?

What a funny mindset

Peachess:
what majority of men think if they're asked that question.
I don't want any argument [s] so stay the Bleep away from my mention. [/s] At the end of the day we all have our own opinions and I'm not forcing mine on you. So Bleep off. [/b]

You said all opinions will be welcomed
So, less the insult and argue responsibly and intelligently If you are running out of ideas and point, just concur that you made an error by saying that our society are responsible for women's laziness and lack of being financially dependent , not telling me to fvck off it shows that you are struggling to defend your motion and point

Back to the topic.

You said, at the end of the day, we all have our own opinion, i'm ain't against your opinion.

I'm harmlessly asking you to tell and explain to me why the society should be blamed for the laziness of women in Africa

Simple

IamLEGEND1:
Sarcasm. That was all that last line was.

Fact brO

JULIE1925:



Chaaaii...I doubt if Jude will do that...

Smh!

I'll kill her first to prove to her that I'm man enough.

Then, kill myself and run away to avoid being arrested for murder and suicide

IamLEGEND1:
African society has problems with women in places of power.

You have a point.

But, blame not African society, rather blame African women, majority of them thinks no far on how to develop and leave a remarkable achievement in the society.

The life achievement and objective of most African women, if not all, is to get married and bear children they rarely think otherwise.

Take a look at the ladies around you, the ladies you'v met online and offline, their top priority in life is marriage, hence leaving them far behind the attempt of being recognized in the society, talk more of handling power.

Peachess:
Create a thread and ask how many men will love marry a woman more successful than them. Listen to street interviews where they've asked such questions. How many men would love to work under a female boss. The truth is the percentage is small because most men are scared of successful women

Wtf!!

Did you just use "Creating of thread" to back up your claim?
Like, did you just use "Street interview" to back up your claims?, if I must say dear,that was very poor of yours that's not a concrete and intelligent point to justify the laziness of African women
apologies for condemning your point



Now, if I must go with your kind of petty point.

What do you think will be the reaction of men concerning sex doll in street interview?

-Create a thread on sex doll and watch how men will endorse the development.

Now, judging from the possible reactions you'll get, are we to agree that sex doll is a nice development to humanity?

Does the major positive reactions justify that sex doll is a good thing?

I ask again, how did the society make African women lazy that they'll always depend on men?, prove and explain that without the reference of "Street interview" and "Creating of thread",

I'll appreciate, if you do

Peachess:
Here is where I give up because most African women are truly dependent on men. Well you won't blame them that much cos society made them that way, making them believe it's not okay to be more successful than their men.

I don't get, why won't I blame them?

How did the society make them that way?

What and how did the society note that it isn't okay for women to be successful than men?, throw more light, please.

I'm lost!

MissWrite:
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Lmao! , that's exactly what I'm talking about. Yeah, maybe I shouldn't have said society "judges it" rather society is "disgusted by it". But you guys are putting a lot of pressure on some emotional guys who would want to be affectionate with each other, and send each other the kiss emoji with no strings attached.

Funny enough, women thinks they are more affectionate and loving to themselves than men by publicly showing Lesbian attitude

@Bolded, we ain't putting pressure on emotional claimed affectionate guys, we are simply giving no room for gays to publicize their sh*ts while hiding under the shield of "Affectionate attitude" just like some ladies.

MissWrite:
I know the Op has a point: society condones lesbianism. I agreed to that in my post. But I don't agree that all women have lesbian tendencies . Like I said: women just find it okay to be affectionate with each other in public because society is not disgusted by it. We don't have to hide it or suppress it. Whereas you feel the need to bloody a guy's nose over calling you "boo".

@Bolded, yea, maybe not all, but I can be justified if I generalize while using it as a point just like how you used "3-some, 1:2 ladies" to scare through your point

Don't say the society isn't disgusted with women publicly showing affections Lesbian attitude to themselves, rather say that women aren't disgusted with it, the society should be made up of men and women and you and I knows that men aren't okay with such sh*ts with women.


I still stand with my claims of blooding a guy's nose if I hear boo If a guy holds my hand after 3 seconds of handshake na head butt go follow am sharp sharp

MissWrite:
Lol! Yes.

It's not "lesbian attitude"; it's affectionate attitude. Look at that picture up there and tell me if it would be awkward if those were two sisters, or a mother and a daughter? But that's the point, isn't it?

Oh fvck!

Did you just call that "Affectionate attitude" ? you seems to forget that there's much similarity between "Affection" and "Sexual fonds" especially when the two same gender parties aren't bloodly related

Get me, i'm not against women publicly showing affections to each other, i'm just trying to let you know that there's a point in the Op's thread if only you view it in a different angle or African societal pleasing angle.

MissWrite:
Men don't feel comfortable being affectionate with each other because society judges it

I really don't think the society judges it, any prove of that?, I just feel it's a natural sh*t with men, they just feel disgusted with it.

MissWrite:
Someone up there was blaming feminism for that Society isn't even a feminist's ally (at the moment); it's unquestionably male (not female) and chauvinistic (not liberal). When we talk about it being a "man's world", it just puts men at the top of the food-chain (or social cadre); they've got full expression. So if you're looking for someone to blame, look to yourselves. When you're ready to endorse hand-holding amongst yourselves, we'll learn to accept it too. If you want to call your paddy boo, then let's fight that male chauvinist pig, that is society, together.

A man should call me "Boo" and watch me punch his nose

Don't forget to send us pictures of cigarette, wine and red cup in her labour room

*Modified*

*Modified*

What are we captioning?
She thinks that we don't know that she's farting
Look at her face well, she just farted "Poooooooo"

MissWrite:
I don't believe that all men are promiscuous. But those who are promiscuous are naturally so. I also don't believe that all women are not promiscuous. And those who are promiscuous are naturally so. And if promiscuity were a crime, then people would have to exercise self discipline to regulate their actions. Every human being (of sound mind) has the ability to refrain from action; it's on this premise that laws are even possible. We have the ability to suppress our urges. The fact that you're hungry does not justify stealing food from someone else. The fact that you're aroused by a girl does not justify raping her. And if an angry belly or blue balls would keep us out of jail, we do it.

Endorsed, I quoted waiting to confirm if you believe that men only are promiscuous in nature. But, since you clarified otherwise.

Bravo to your points!

MissWrite:
Sorry. This has now become a conversation about promiscuity instead of homosexuality, as per OP. Anyway, there are parallels: people who are naturally gay are compelled to deny their urges because, unlike promiscuity, homosexuality is a crime here. But, like with promiscuity, there are no victims (or are there? If someone's upset stomach counts )

Bother not, it's cool learning from any topic, whether related or not.

MissWrite:
Yes. I said earlier, "the more popular mix..." . This implies that there is a comparison between two items. And then I said, "for a heterosexual man". Which do you think is more popular amongst straight guys, doing it with two girls or a guy and a girl?

1:2 ladies, if I must say.

But still, that doesn't justify the fact that you must generally use "1:2 ladies“ when trying to make point with 3-some shii.

Keep it neutral.

MissWrite:


Okay, I'll try to give you a more comprehensive list...
1. Football players
2. Basket ball players
3. Hockey players
4. In fact, any team sport
5. Or team sport supporter
6. Or a team sport coach
7. Indians
8. Guys who have been through an ordeal together
9. Guys who haven't seen each other in ages
10. Guys who have been saved by their co-worker from getting fired
11. .............I'm tired.

Lol, Most of your instances are just revolving around sports, likewise the ways of women

Most kinds of ladies publicly show lesbian attitude, even when they don't fall in the classes of the above listed instances of yours.

Man2utd:
See someones way of thinking, and you think this one can add anything to Nigerias development..

What development?

Kissing development?

You'all should keep deceiving yourselves with western lives.