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Ladyhippolyta88:
Stop calling me bae and call it whatever selfishness may just be it.

BAE : Busy Arguing Emotionally that's the bae I called you


Selfish partners tends to have a lesser possibility of lasting in a relationship or marriage, because they are always bothered and cared about their personal wants and emotions

Ladyhippolyta88:
Yes o nobody is perfect we all make mistakes. I can forgive depending on the case at hand but I can't forget in other words

Now, you are typing

Ladyhippolyta88:
if an idiot cheats on me we can't stay together that is if I have not done something worse to him already and I would never love to set my eyes on such a human being again.;>

@Bolded, that's you can't tolerate him if you haven't done something worse to him you will only tolerate if you'v done something worse to him

Bae, isn't that selfishness?

ZiniZi:
https://dailynaija.com/post/virginity-is-female

Everybody Deserves To Be A Virgin...

Virginity is not reserved for any particular gender per se. It takes two to tango for crying out loud!

Men are actually also expected to be virgins too. If there is any way the society would correct that anomaly that virginity is only reserved for girls, it will be really great.

It is about time the society started making virginity demands from men also. Or is it because it might be difficult to tell which man is a virgin and which is not because of the nature of their sexual organs.

For a fact, it appears rather nauseating to delve into a discussion to see a man bragging about how many ‘keys he has unlocked’ only to see a woman trying so hard to stay away from the discussion to avoid being labeled.

If there is a way the society can correct this anomaly it will be really great because in reality, it takes two to tango.

A girl doesn’t lose her virginity to herself; just the same way a man doesn’t lose his virginity to himself. It doesn’t even make any sense.

Really, the society expects rather too much from the girl child far less than what they expect from the guys and it is all shades of wrong.

We can correct this anomaly.

Everybody deserves to be a virgin.

Stop crying dear , loosing your virginity to a man who isn't your husband isn't the end of the world clean your tears all is well

I understand your pain,
I understand how bad you feel being a non-virgin
I know how tough and painful a woman feels to see people praise and hype virgin women especially when she's not,
I also know how cheated ladies feel to see how non-virgin men and women are being taken in the society despite the fact that both genders lost their Virginity,

But, the Bitter truth remains that they can NEVER be seen as the same, no matter how hard you try, virgins men and virgin women can never be the same, stop deceiving yourself, deep inside you, you know the truth.

There are some gender societal views that cannot be changed, no matter how hard you try.

Before I forget. If you must complain on how the both genders are being viewed in virgin aspect.

Also, ask yourself.

Why do women demand financially from men before sex that they'll both enjoy? isn't that cheating?

Why do men take full responsibility of kids that are being owned by the man and the woman?, isn't that cheating?

Why must a man pay to have sex that the both parties will enjoy? why?

Believe me!


A male virgin and a female virgin can never be the same ,that's the bitter truth.

Ladyhippolyta88:
First of all I won't go into a relationship with someone who does not have emotional control if people can control their emotions male or female there is less tendency for cheating.

Yea, your re right about emotional control it helps

@At bolded, less tendency still doesn't mean there's zero possibility of cheating less tendency of cheating means that the possibility of cheating is there, but very little.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not supporting cheating, just want to let you know that some partners are worth forgiven if you really know his/her level of honesty, we ain't perfect.

Ladyhippolyta88:
I don't buy that useless story of people who cheat still love you what nonsense why didn't the cheater put him/her self in the same shoes as the partner and how they would react or feel.To me there is no excuse for cheating.

This babe na die hard

Humans tend to make mistakes

Ladyhippolyta88:
You are playing with fire leave me alone LOVE my foot I am not that stupid to be blind because I am in love .:@

I so much love playing with fire, it makes me strong

@bolded, I perfectly understand your meanness , but wait ooo, do you mean you don't believe that some infidelity attempt can be a mistake and unintentional

Ladyhippolyta88:
I am not fake and do not use the type of women you see around to compare with me you can't generalise use the word some.I can withstand anything but not cheating I won't argue with you because you don't know me I won't tolerate nonsense and cheating included;>;>.

Far from what you understood in my comment, i'm not doubting your say or point yea, some ladies are like you, they so much detest cheating, but I'm trying to let you know that most women can tolerate when they are inlove , and judging from your scribbles, a lady who so much detest cheating that she can kill for it, can be seen as a lady who can LOVE very well

Ladyhippolyta88:
Just like you yeah we are all fake.You don't know me so don't use that on me.As for the bolded he can't try it .That is if he does not want to end up in hades.

Did you say "Just like me"? , you think am fake?


He can try it and be forgiven by you , you think LOVE can't change your aggressive mindset

Women can tolerate when they are inlove

Ladyhippolyta88:
You don't know me personally so you can't draw up that conclusion I am not like the others, I am not a humble person and I don't have patience as a virtue either so I don't take nonsense.

Cyber characters are so fake you and I knows that.


@Bolded, don't you think those attributes can make a man cheat on you?

After smoking with your babe around 1:30pm undr sun, then put Terry G's music 'Akpako", and start fvcking.

Believe me brO, the sex will be magnifying, electrifying and glorifying.

Try it.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Try me.

I so much like your type
Agile and mean on net, but so humble and meek in real
I'm loving your way

Ladyhippolyta88:
I won't say a thing I would act anything is allowed including m....d.....er.

Na so we de hear

As a celebrity, you have a point because most of you lives a fake life even when married, hence prompting a failed couple goal.

But still, do well to know that most couples have been setting goals and achieving them, what didn't work for you might have been working for others.

When you marry a keeper, there are goals you set and work towards.

Your opinion, thou.

Warisdis?

THREE TALKING POINTS


- It's a consensual sex : Highlighting from what you scribbled, the sex you'v been having with him is consensual, he didn't force or rape you, neither did he threaten your life if you deny him sex, so whatever legal punishment you intend giving him , do well to know that all those sex was on a mutual agreement, hence giving you a lesser chance to win any case suppose it's been taken to court or anywhere.

- Your job : Do well to know that whatever you do against your boss concerning your issue might have you loose your job.

- Your emotional trauma : It's no news that women feel bad and emotional disturbed when being taken advantage on, this issue is a case where you'll be left with no other option that to choose between your job and your emotions, if you can't continue with what he's doing, quit the job, if you love your job, be ready to accept anything that follows.


ADVICE

Quit the job if you are being hurt, our happiness should come first.

If you can't quit, find a way to make his wife your friend, then go as far as claiming a false disease with fake medical reports




lalasticala , myndy44

BaeMercy:
Ask Google

Nne, biko start going.

BaeMercy:
Because Of Your Poor Mentality You Have Easily Assumed That I Am A Yoruba Girl. I Am not A Yoruba I Just Don't Support Studipity

U well so?

KendrickAyomide:
Speedy is cursed.. his Fathers juju is affecting his brain... Over 20years in America No reasonable thing to show for it.

Are you better than him?

What have you shown your people after all your years here on Nairaland?

Truth be told, she said nothing wrong!

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BaeMercy:
You're Too Old For All These
Grow Up

Yoruba Granny spotted I don't like Yorubas, I love them just like I do to other tribes.

Take my comment personal and die with your pepperish Yoruba anus.

sekxyqueen:
don't tell me you have forgotten so fast

Ada, what am I forgetting?
Throw more light, I like fvckery gist

sekxyqueen:
abii oo,,the one that disvirgined you join

Dem de disvirgin man,

Nne, gist me... How does it look like?

I neva do before

AryEmber:
Non virgins are vexing like kilode!

I'm yet to know the cause of there pain

One of them is above me now

What exactly are these people doing in that house?

Ayam not understanding,...Is this not the same program that one Bisola was washing a man's d*ck with her mouth?

What kind of 90 days packaged porn is this?

Shayneward1:
Yoruba girls are ugly and dirty, who wants to date them?

You mean oooo the only thing that's romantic about them is that you'll never lack pepper while dating them.

Even when they urinate, pepper will start growing where they urinated

Just look at how they are all showing us the pictures they masturbate with

Crush kor, Cockroach ni

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cococandy:
you think too much of yourself offended over something that is natural

What nature?

cococandy:
I actually did. Lots of them too. Proud of it as well.

You don't need to tell me, it was written all over your comment that you are far from a virgin!

Keep fvcking and being proud

cococandy:
I want you to stop living in the 18th century.

Oh! 18th century you called it, huh?
You obviously called it 18th century because you as a lady feel cheated to see how non-virgin men and women are being taken in the society despite the fact that both genders lost their Virginity, right?

Now, permit me to ask,

What century would you call the fact the some ladies demand financial needs from men for sex, when both of them are still going to enjoy it. What's your take on that?

cococandy:
Oh you do now, don’t you? Tell me when last you were a woman. Or you just know what you want to believe in order to feed your inbred narcissistic misogyny. The one that makes you tell your things and convince yourself they are the truth as long as it fits into your preconceived idea of man up here woman down there.

I don't need to be shot with a gun before I know how painful it feels to be shot.

cococandy:
it only matters to dumbos like you who have nothing more to look forward to in life than sex.

Lessen the insult and make a point

@Bolded, you said people like me have nothing to look forward in life than sex.

Were you not the person that typed that you'v had sex with different men and you are proud of that?, weren't you?

Or were you raped?

Weren't the sex consensual?

Stop being a hypocrite, please

cococandy:
good people are a rare gem.

I understand your pain

Virgins are rare gem, deal with it

But don't misunderstand me, you might be currently arguing with someone who likes non-virgins

cococandy:
argh what brought me back to this section Someone mentioned me I think. I almost forgot how dumb folks get around here.

P.S show yourself some love and educate yourself on more issue beyond sex and vagina issues.

Say no to deceit , i'v told you that before.

Your profile shows you'v always been active herein.

cococandy:
We are actually talking about my vagina here? Who I have had sex with? And when?

Apologies once more if you got offended because of "Virginity" I never intend to.

I never said you slept with people, neither did I wish to discuss your "Vagina" because it doesn't worth my discussion.

I just want you to stop deceiving yourself by comparing a man and a woman's virginity, i know how tough and painful a woman feels to see people praise and hype virgin women especially when she's not, just like most ladies up there commenting , but the bitter truth remains that a man and a woman's virginity can never be seen as the same in our society no matter what

Virgins are rare gem, find a way to understand my harmless point

Still love you, dear

cococandy:
we
Leaders of tomorrow.
Among all the possible things to discuss. No wonder we are going nowhere in terms of development. All our priorities are wrong.

I mean I’m not disappointed or anything. I didn’t expect any better.

Mrs/Miss cococandy

This is romance section, the virgin discussion is going on as result to the thread and post of Reno!

If you want to be a true leader of tomorrow, kindly move to politics section to learn more about leadership.

cococandy:
Hurting conscience?

There is no appropriate emoji right now to show you the look on my face. You’re a child

Say no more darling, i perfectly understand you,

Calling me a "Child" proves that you are hurt, hence wanting to get back at me.
I mean no harm, never meant to make you feel bad because of "Virginity"

But, it's okay, just know that loosing your virginity isn't the end of the world, just be the woman you are I know it wasn't your intention to loose it to the wrong person, but all the same, keep your cools.

I love you dear