₦airaland Forum

henribj:
lol
you don dey find these girls dem trouble o
no let them remember you

Before nnko!
if dem no sha get money for marykay, person go sha package!

henribj:
haaa, you no need powder nah
meanwhile which color of powder? white powder or brown powder??

The two

Wanna use the brown as foundation!

henribj:
hahahaha
oya guys do the needful.

#Applyingpowderonmyface!!!

nickkylawve:
it will tk me upto 5days nd 6hours to read this OP tk note*

if u wont read.. then don't comment

henribj:
in the first place, its not for women
its for males.

thanx jare.... no mind her! she z waiting to be flirted

stop her before its late. She resolved to using the pleasure machine due to your negligence. Try relaxing and stressing yourself less @ work, then try satisfying her the best way you can in bed.
And mind you, try not to say no again whenever she is ready. it is her matrimonial right!

nickkylawve:
I swear I didn't read tht OP pls summarize it to me

better not read even the summary, except you ready to get in bed wiv HIM

Tapout:
and if she's not in the mood??

be understanding, probably backout. But if u know her weak point, then I bet she will play along carrying her mood with you!

Before I start, criticism, new or better ideas and correction is welcome.
#standtobecorrected

You're at the corner of a NL room , doing some mindless chore when suddenly you find yourself face-to-face with a little cutie who's gazing back at you with that glassy, wide-eyed look that all us guys with one track minds love to see. You smile and make some ridiculous remark about something totally pointless, but she lights up anyway and gives you a rockin' return smile like mumu she be. You might even get a flash of that doe-eyed, "take me" look. Pre-occupied with the weighty decision of Cheesy Poofs vs. Raw Onion Crunchies however, you have no time to humor her along any further.

So after this brief but enlightening exchange of pleasantries you turn away and ignore her. You then spot the girl a few minutes later while up at the counter checking out, but now she won't even look at you -- or she gives you that quick "too bad" look and vanishes into the parking lot. A few minutes later while returning back home you think to yourself... "Geez, was that chick flirting with me or what?..."

And so it goes... another unlikely SURPRISE chance to hook up with a hot little number shot down the tubes. All because you either forgot in the moment or don't actually even know how to respond to a sudden flirt that sneaks up on you. Hey, been there my friend... this used to happen to guys ALL the time! Not all that frequently mind you (ha!... I wish) -- but whenever I DID happen to stumble across a surprise flirt like this the result was always the same... down in flames!

That's because my response to a flirt that sandbagged me was always predictable: complete and total lock-up. A perfectly juicy opportunity lost forever -- something to grit my teeth over later on that night when I think about it over and over again, wondering what I could've done differently.

I have thought about this problem in depth and I've tried to look at it logically and without emotion as much as possible. Here's what I think: that a lot of this failure to engage can be chalked up to simple DISBELIEF even more than fear. Disbelief in the sense that by the time the gravity of the situation sinks in past my cynical BS filter and I realize... "hey, this chick is flirting with me!" the magical moment is gone and the opportunity lost.

This is why I believe that an absolutely critical social skill when it comes to being good with women is the ability to switch mental gears and spring into action at the VERY FIRST SIGN that a chick might dig you! Don't waste time pondering why this could be happening or anything else, just act! Go ahead and connect with her FIRST and get her number or PIN or NL username if you want or whatever you can, and THEN sort out all your anxieties later. You know, all those useless academic questions such as: "would this girl be compatible with me", or "what's wrong with her that she's flirting with me?..."

Alright then, with this basic idea now firmly established let me share a few of my thoughts on this ONE particular maddening aspect of gaming women: the surprise flirt.

1) Don't Freeze-Up wondering why YOU could be her guy. The single biggest killer in this situation is hesitation. Like so much of the sport of gaming women, timing is everything. However, in this situation minutes don't matter, SECONDS matter. When a chick opens a sudden flirt you literally have a window of opportunity available to you that's measured in mere seconds. You should almost see a ten second counter open up over her head that immediately begins running down 9....8....7.... to remind you of how little time you have to act in a way that plays perfectly off her opening volley.

The big mental block here is a defeatist self-image of yourself as not being "flirting material" or "worthy". But while you're wondering why a chick this cute would actually be flirting with a lowlife such as yourself, precious seconds are tick, tick, ticking away -- and with it goes your chance to score a number!

Therefore:

MAJOR FLIRTING RULE #1: If she's not immediately seeing the reaction that she was hoping to see from you, (that you are socially skilled enough to respond to a flirt) the woman will almost always take this as an immediate rejection! Once that happens she will pull back (I've actually seen them physically snap back) and the flirt is OVER. Women have no tolerance for rejection, and will rarely ever try to bull their way through it like a guy would, especially here on NL . Therefore, you must be very careful to seem IMMEDIATELY open and accepting of her offer to flirt around with you, and take up the verbal volley with good humor!

MAJOR FLIRTING RULE #2: You never know what any other person in the world considers to be their "type", so don't let the question of what "she" might see in "you" even cross your mind for an instant. Who cares? You've seen tons of hot chicks hooked up with gross, grubby dudes, haven't you? Just accept her judgement and GO WITH IT! No over-thinking of what's going on -- no suspicion of motives, no paranoia, no disbelief. None of that junk must be allowed to intrude into your mind at this critical moment when you're "on the clock". That crap will only result in a freeze-up, and once that happens it's game-over.

2) A Sudden Flirt is always your chance to shine. It doesn't matter if your silly little joke is lame or if your words are stuttering or smooth (or even exactly WHAT you say to her) -- the important thing is that you are attempting to react to her gift of a flirt in a positive way that reflects those good feelings right back at her. You are playing the game! Your willingness to pick up a flirt speaks volumes about yourself... and it's all good stuff! It says that you are active socially (and therefore something of a catch), that you have good self-esteem, you're pleasant around people AS A REFLEX, and so on.

This is the best way to communicate these sorts of qualities to women... with your ACTIONS rather than your bragging words!

Think of it this way: you've been given the opportunity to put yourself over with a deliberate charm rather than being forced to apply a load of "pick up artist" blather -- and you should always SEIZE this type of chance with enthusiasm because they doesn't come by too often. A woman initiating a flirt is taking a big personal risk to give you a fat GO signal in the only way that she knows how -- admittedly a bit awkward and the entire "surprise" thing is somewhat unfair -- but unfairness ABOUNDS throughout the universe of man-woman affairs of the heart. Why should this aspect of it be any different?

3) Let Her "Win" the Flirt. Remember, SHE started this and so it's HER play. That means if you pick up her flirt and give it right back in a fun and friendly way, then SHE WINS! By that I mean you've confirmed her charm as a woman... she "won" your male attention! Get it? This sort of thing is thrilling to a woman and puts her in an instant happy / satisfied mood from which you can naturally be expected to seek to want to get together with her again soon. It plays into all her most dreamy "chick flick" fantasies!

Anyway, once you've spread around the good vibes you should then...

4) Follow Up Immediately. Get her name and number and pop it straight into your cellphone, or use a paper... whatever you have to do to make it possible to hook up with her again before she forgets about you or has second thoughts. Even better, offer to meet her somewhere within the next 1-3 days at some "happening" place... a nightclub, corner bar, a nearby special event, whatever. Whatever fits YOUR particular style and is centered around a place that you would normally frequent and know something about. Figure out what this actual place should be IN ADVANCE and have it stored in your noggin always ready to whip out and use at key moments like these!

Don't overthink this: simply INVITE (don't "ask" and especially don't beg! ) her to meet you at XYZ Club this Friday night... you know they have great steamed clams or killer Buffalo wings, etc. Make it a safe, public venue that you would usually hang out at... somewhere she would certainly know about if she lives in the area. Invite her to meet you there for a drink or to watch you play softball(if she loves it). "You seem very charming (cool, fun-loving)" is all you need to say. Even if she is not

Simple words spoken WHERE THEY ARE WELCOME will rock her world!

Inviting her out to a public party spot also has the added benefit of making you seem like a social, happening guy -- rather than nervously asking for her "magic 11 digits" like some porn-bookmarking nerd. Tantalizing a woman to JOIN YOUR WORLD as opposed to doing you a favor by even agreeing to see you again makes a rockin' statement about your High Male Status! Such impressions may be unspoken and subliminal, but this is what makes them so psychologically powerful as well.

So in review, DON'T EVER WONDER "WHY ME?" -- LET HER WIN THE FLIRT -- HAVE A STANDARD PLAN FOR FURTHER CONTACT. Write these simple but effective rules for responding to a flirt down on a card and stick them onto your bathroom mirror so you can stare at them every morning hovering right next to your heinous, unflirtable mug . This will drive these concepts deep into your brain so that the next time you get hit with a surprise flirt from some little hottie right next to you, you'll be able to react cooly and professionally within seconds.

Almost as swift as the glint of lust sparkling in her eyes!

Tapout:
all for the sake of punany?? ....shi't mehn

if its your real boo, its all worth it mehn!

Codyt:
Lemme wait for their comment before I can say anything

e go better make u voice am now o

x6blade:
My sister.............................Jesus is the answer,wait he's coming soon

Holy blade

Before I begin, criticism, new or better ideas and correction is welcome!

When it comes to making love, women are generally more into the FANTASY aspect of the erotic build-up than they are the simple thrill of getting undressed with someone they know and love (or maybe DON'T know and/or love) like most of us guys.. So how to make a girl erotic in a way that we really want her to be? Well, enticing a woman to yield to your deepest and most secret desires requires that you gradually draw her into your worldview by making yourself into a unique High Value Lover, and then doing so again and again on a consistent basis until you secure her complete and total enchantment. At that point, like it or not, she's yours.

You weave this seductive magic by CUSTOMIZING each and every experience in bed for her based on some careful investigation on your part. Great sex for most women can be defined as erotic in a way that she doesn't consider inappropriately perverted with a man who has learned to deliver the goods in a way that she enjoys, time after time. Imposing task? Not necessarily. Here's a three step plan to help you navigate this special road into the erotic heart of any woman...

1) Search For Her Erotic Weaknesses

The first step is to figure out what sort of cheap sex tricks will send any particular girl into orbit. How?... Experiment! Maybe she likes to be dirty-talked or verbally coaxed? Perhaps she wants you to control her in some way? Or maybe she wants to control YOU? Try all sorts of things with her... spanking, tickling, toys, take some nasty pictures, do it out in the bushes, try some stuff in the shower, swap positions, etc. Use your Indecency powers here that you've spent years (likely all by yourself) "cultivating". Some of this mayhem may turn her off, but there's usually SOMETHING that will get a woman red-lining off the meter -- and it's your job to discover what that is and then learn how to play it like a fiddle!

If she refuses to go very much beyond plain vanilla missionary-style, then you may have run across a chick with low sex drive or other pressing issues on her mind that she feels must be more important. Rather than be angry about it, count your blessings. It's fortunate to uncover such crucial knowledge of incompatibility about a partner as soon as possible because it will head off a ton of future misery. Turning someone this sexually uninterested towards your more open-minded, erotically-experimental direction can be an impossible task. I've always felt that the best sex occurs between two child-like adults, and by that I mean people who don't take themselves too seriously. At least not to the point where they feel sex has become "kid stuff" and somehow beneath their dignity. People who've taken on too much responsibility in life are likely to end up this way by middle-age. Just a warning.

Anyway, regular work between the sheets will eventually uncover where all her high water marks are located, and her limits as well. Keep notes on what you're doing to make a girl erotic and of her reactions to your experimental prodding -- silly as this may sound. After you fill a few pages of such notes, go back and search for clues. Look for those things that she seems to enjoy the most and figure out a few clever ways to focus in on them.

Now you're ready to lock her Heart up tight, and lock Yourself into the drivers' seat!

2) Become Her "Drug" Based on that Weakness

Once you think you have some idea of what a woman's erotic weaknesses could be (in the sense that she has an intense desire or a "weakness" for certain sorts of positions, fetishes, fantasies, etc.) then you're ready to zoom in on them, expand upon whatever they may be and make them more elaborate. The idea is to become really good at delivering the best CUSTOM sexual experience that she's ever had... and do so time after time.

If she wonders what the deal is with your sudden enthusiasm, just tell her that she makes you feel uninhibited like no woman ever has before. This freaks many girls out because most women think that all guys are natural sex-fiends to some degree and don't realize that it often takes someone SPECIAL to actually bring this quality out in them...

And for you, that person is HER!

Such an attempt to reach out and connect your soul with hers through raw physical pleasure makes a powerful impact that cannot be easily dismissed. The rush of adrenaline that accompanies such feelings will serve to weld these unique moments deep into her unconscious mind. And they will all be connected to YOU... you will always be "that guy" who did "that thing" the night you were both together at "that place". Now you're beginning to see Romantic Enchantment in action!

3) Get Her Addicted to You

Look, most people pretty much wing it when it comes to sex – they know a few basic moves and make the rest up as they go along. The fact that you have 1) studied your "prey" and determined what really turns her on, and 2) are making an effort to satisfy her in specific ways that tie into these revelations, will surely paint you as a totally different breed of cat.

And that's good!

Before long you'll be seen as a champion among all the men she's known -- and really, you'll hardly have done anything all that amazing. You'll just be doing things with a little more purpose, direction and creativity than the average Joe. That's male seductive power in action.

While the task of enchanting a woman is mainly one of carefully feeding her thrills and absorbing her fears based on what you've learned from your study of her sexual proclivities, one warning however... never bust this illusion by announcing what you're up to. Don't say, "I'm going to make you addicted to me!..." For that matter, NEVER reveal that you're actually seducing a woman either. Once people begin to think they're being manipulated they will throw up massive resistance.

Like a stage magician, a trick is only cool as long as you never reveal how it works. If you show the audience how the string runs up your sleeve they'll think ‘oh, that trick was easy', and then suddenly the whole thing sucks.

As for technique, that's simple... women just love for men to TALK IT UP in bed!

What exactly to say, what's your angle? Work up the not-so-obvious: tell her all the enticing stuff she longs to hear, but never ever expects to. Tell an older woman that she's TIGHT like a young chick. Rave about a thick girl's voluptuous body. Tell a 25 year old she has a sultriness that belies her real age -- one that makes her seem more like an experienced middle-aged seductress. Mention to a skinny girl that her long arms make her look like a statue in an art museum, or that you absolutely LOVE the way that her shoulder blades form little angel wings. Skinny girls often think they're not all that sexy because they don't have enough curves. Not as far as YOU'RE concerned, though... you love it!

Notice the pattern here?...

No one wants to be themselves! Especially women: they all want to be younger or older or shaped differently or whatever... anything but plain old them! This is why you need to think up a new TWIST every time that you make love to a girl -- so it appears as if you are unraveling her bit-by-bit like a delicate flower, each layer more wonderful than the last! And you are the very FIRST guy to ever see her in this way... as this fantasy creature that she never dared dream of being. Only YOU can see through the ordinary and view the extraordinary in her!

Few women can resist this sort of lavish attention spilling forth from their lover... it's intoxicating! This is how you make your girl more erotic and more fun in bed: by deliberate action rather than relying on dumb luck to steer you into the theoretical "right person" who just happens to have a sexual compatibility that matches your own.

You need to mold and shape the person that you're already with into that right person through your deliberate actions.

This is also the way to establish a position of POWER for yourself in all your relationships -- a way to have women "eating out of your hand" before very long. This is not achieved with the vinegar of nagging and begging, but with the Honey of your presenting to her a rare and unique sensuality that she's unlikely to ever find in the arms of any other man...

It's all done by becoming her sweetest addiction!

http://www.highstatusmale.com/

choose not to comment

Who Is fooling who?
#gameOftheCheaters

offering of eternal life and offering of condemnation...
one died for mankind and rose again while one didn't...
one urged us to pray for our enemies while one urged us to make people serve by force...



The most dangerous thing God has ever left mankind with is the ability to make CHOICE

nickkylawve:

that's wah am talking abou

nickkylawve:
we are faithful u don't need to worry about that

we don't just beat ladies, I assure you of that!

nickkylawve:
Dear future husband...
please I beg u, m also praying for you..
please if you know you wouldn't love me purely, truthfully and faithfully, remain where you are. If you know you would go chase after girls that look hotter than I am, please remain single..
If you know you will lay your hands on me, I can help you find contract at a wrestling company now..
I beg you! I have a fragile heart.
I will try my best to be the best wife in your world if you play your role well.. Thank you!

Dear future wife...
please I beg you, n am also praying for you...
please if u knw u wil cheat on me, lie and be unfaithful, remain where you are.
If u knw u will chase men that richer than I wil be, please remain single
If u knw u will keep nagging and giving me attitude, I can help u get a contract with nollywood.
I beg you, I have a fragile heart, soul and body.
I will try my best to be d best husband and father in your world if you play your role well. Thank you

Saraki’s trial was not the change mantra of the All Progressives Congress (APC) Nigerians bargained for.


What does the monarch knows about politics anyways!





my simple logical comment.... He who wants to get rid of a community crisis must start from his own house!

It is understandably misunderstood by Saraki himself
because the level of him having an understanding of misunderstanding himself is high!


On the contrary, why is Mr senate Puzzled
isn't he aware of his coming to the CCT Besides, if surely his assets declaration in the past
wasn't framed and he is confident, just defend yourself...that's all!

Now that, even kwara state has lost their respect for him, I await to see how this goes.
Some will say the action at the eid praying ground is from the other party, true or not,
just a simple thing would have saved him from much shame.... step aside for the mean
time or simply resign!

#JustMakingCommonSense

av u found my brown italian shoe please?

nely:
as in not that am married but am engaged in a very serious relationship that will lead to marriage.. USE UR TINY BRAIN

1st grade dunse! then u simply include engaged' rather than single...
or ur English teacher forgot to tell u there is a difference!