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[quote author=overcomersfaith post=38231877]These group of people are judge harshly especially among Christian which am once a partaker but with the help of the Holy Spirit, I realize it is a painful state to be and often times they are helpless and to cover up their weakness and ignorance, they blaspheme against God and the Holy things through words and action as well. (I beg to stop here because this is not where am zeroing in for today).



seriously don't get that!

Now to play a good game with that curve...

Can you say a NO to a SHELL contract of $4,500N per month and a[b] YES [/b]to an employment in Osun state?

If the answers to my questions aint positive, then u aint obsessed with that curves enough!



#IranuAbasha

its true...

it just implies, your spouse should, after marriage, be your best friend!

how you wan take know if she barb ya bwain sef...

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#obinrinLoBaAiyeJe

what is your definition of[i] fundraiser?[/i]

1st is gay marriage, then lesbian relation, after animal sexing human, now machine own wan join... abi ko fe da fun oyinbo ni! and you guys want me to be blaming the existence of technology! but why

common gerrarahere!

aint coming to 9ija! ase guun!

Get seated with your partner in questions, make her see or list reasons why it wont work out. If either of the party fails to see the reasons, just move on with life. with that, you've saved your self from any discussion of...he|she is cheating and all stuffs...

Estharfabian:
That's way outta the question...

you don't wanna get bored now...and I wanna show you some action too!
LOL

Estharfabian:
tell Me all those stuffs...I'd probably get bored.......they get Ridiculously boring sometimes... Some girls Love actions too..."Like, Hey dumb silly ass Girl get me some Ice-cream. will yah?" ...same with boys too...""
who's with me?

how about if I tell you... 'get ya ass straight, I wanna cum' .. don't really good at such words jor...but I can be dirty atyms sha

swallow your wah? , even if she does, is there a reserved balls

eemo re o!

funlord:


O.p! You forgot to add "swallow my balls"! They love hearing that the most!

take it or leave it, it goes a long way telling her she is beautiful...facially. how do u feel if told you are handsome...by anybody? besides, who marries a worwor lady anyway! [b]beauty they say, lies in the eyes of the beholder[/b[size=8pt][/size]]!

Cutehector:
Facial beauty aint a compliment. Just tell her she's got a beautiful heart

1. "I respect you"

"I know that it might seem old-fashioned, but men and women are different," explains Dr. Eris Huemer, a licensed marriage and family therapist featured on Bravo's LA Shrinks. "We don't think the same, talk the same, or respond the same to similar situations. Women want to feel loved, cherished and safe. Men want respect." Since men often withdraw when they don't feel that respect, it's worth giving him the positivity he craves. "A man wants to know that you are focusing solely on him and that he is your priority. When you do focus on him, you will get so much in return."

2. "You look BEAUTIFUL"

It may sound obvious, but men enjoy a good ego-stroking, especially when they're not trying to impress. "Whenever my fiancé groggily tells me I look nice in the morning, before I head out the door for work, it makes me feel unstoppable for the rest of the day," says New Yorker Charles C., 30. "It's one thing to hear it if we're going out to a nice place, but when she tells me I look dapper when I'm on my way to the office, it gives me a renewed confidence."

3. "Thank you"

It's easy to overlook the small gestures, like when he swaps out his toothbrush head for yours or straightens up the apartment even if you're not having friends over. Instead of issuing a passive aggressive, "it's about time!" thank him. "Catch him doing something right every day," says Lisa L. Payne, life transitions coach and author of What If They Knew: Secrets of an Impressive Woman. "Whether it's that he made your coffee just the way you like it, or holds the door for you, tell him how much you appreciate his efforts and, above all, be specific about what he did and how it made you feel. That way, he'll know exactly what he's done well, and he'll do it more often."

4. "I trust you"

You've probably got this one covered, but communicating it is all in the timing. "The best time to share your feelings with your guy is just before or during sex," says Georgianna Donadio, PhD, relationship expert and author of Changing Behavior: Immediately Transform Your Relationships with Easy to Learn Proven Communication Skills. "At that time, levels of oxytocin, a hormone that enhances feelings of trust, love and intimacy, are elevated, making it the very best moment to love talk with your partner. It's also the ideal time to let him know what you want from him in the relationship, as he will be the most receptive and open."

5. "I'm listening"

Men communicate differently than women, tending toward reticence when they're upset. When this happens, don't badger him, but do let him know that you're there for him, and when he does begin to talk through his issues, don't interrupt him or offer any unsolicited opinions. Let him feel safe and unjudged. According to Mindfulness and Acceptance: Expanding the Cognitive-Behavioral Tradition, couples that really hear each other are happier in their relationships, and experience lower levels of depression and anxiety.

6. "I'm sorry"

My fiancee and I are fortunate enough that we don't fight (too) often, and when we do‚ it's usually hunger-induced. However, when I am driven to the point of crazy and my low blood sugar turns into an assassination of his character, I need to remember to leave the room, take a few deep breaths — or sips of drink — and apologize. When an irrational fight arises out of a silly situation, the best thing to do is to apologize before it escalates into something bigger, and a lot meaner. He's not always the enemy. Sometimes hormones, or even lack of calories are the culprits.

7. "You make me better"

He loves you and will do anything for you, so when you find yourself trapped in a routine and feeling somewhat spark-less, the biggest compliment you can give him is a reminder that he's improved your life. Remember this morsel from talk show host and Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man author Steve Harvey: "We men will do anything humanly possible to impress you. You're the driving force behind why we wake up every day. We drive fancy cars because of women. We dress nice, put on cologne

8. "That was delicious"

Men have a primordial need to provide for their women. While their intentions are typically good, their culinary skills might be lacking. Reward him for his efforts nonetheless. If you lambast him for dry chicken, he'll feel insecure, and won't want to try again. Sometimes it truly is the thought that counts — especially when Chinese take-out is just a phone call away.

9. "I'm proud of you"

"Men are very sensitive to performance issues," says Dr. Sue Johnson, author of Hold me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love. "They worry about disappointing you. Telling him that he's the best, most loving man has a megawatt positive impact. Men need reassurance that they are doing a good job. Most times when you ask a withdrawn man why he started to shut down, he says, 'I just didn't know what to do. I couldn't seem to get it right, so I just gave up.' Reassurance and validation is like an inoculation against this."

10. "It's not your fault"

We all have bad days, and it's easy to take out the anger you feel towards your boss on your husband. Although you may know deep down that it's not actually your man you're upset with, he still might take your mean words to heart. Instead, level with him about why you're cranky. He'll be your best advocate.

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You can ask the gods #middle-finger

IamRespected:
biko when will some people have sense ?

This is an opportunity for the husbandless ladies... call the number now!!!

12 Eliminate every appearances of fire extinguisher while doing so

UnknownT:
11. Attend Mountain of Fire Ministries

Na until u reach 32 b4 u know say na crime to dey single at your age ...kip eating dos wedding cakes o...I know say kids born nowadays too stubborn! dem no go even call u aunty

KashyBaby:
Naaahh...I never fit on this til now...
Still happy being single

25 iclusive

hardayolah:
Sorry

ok

IT IS CALLED LANTERN!


I used it,broke it..and pman bought another one! almost broke that one too

casualty or death recorded

In my own little understanding, until we Christians start to know we need to be saved, then the unbelievers, through Christ in us can be saved too.

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ok... anyway anyhow, out of the uneasiness comes a solution ... #simple

na so e b now...

ylaa:
ALWAYS IN wARRI

warri people no dey carry last na... patapata na draw. even dem babes no dey gree for draw te]

Thank God am able to read the last paragraph

ok

ok

Are you really sure you guys are dating

[i][/i][i]even if that guy is an undergraduate...say second level of university, you still advice he leaves home[[/i]quote author=hertz9te post=37898689]any young guy still living with his parents and depending on them at 23 lacks focus.life is not easy,it takes a while getting used to ,23 is a rip age for any young guy to leave his parents or gurdians ,go out and experience life for himself.
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it's no wonder we have people without a sense of direction ....let the hustle mould you,shape you for future challenges,,,,
23 is a very ripe age,by the time you are 28,you should understand life better,get your priorities straight and be gearing up for marriage.

that's what I think,,,,what do you think?[/quote]

seriously!!! I almost said that once...in the pas t

Remilekun101:
Most of the comments are Hilarious

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