Hello Nairalanders,

For those who have not been following my previous thread. There is a link for it below.

I thank everyone who encouraged, insulted me, advised me and lend their voices in the previous thread. You are all appreciated and God bless you all.

The last few days have been a total nightmare to me as I lost concentration and became uninterested in everything I normally do daily and lost confidence and half my of my weight.

I took the test because I wanted to be sure she is a changed person, have peace of mind, migrating my family abroad this year of which DNA evidence will be required of which I wont want to disgrace myself publicly. Despite the fact that none of the children bears any resemblance with me which was one of the many reasons I took the test.

After waiting for several days for the results to come in, they finally arrived. It is with gladness and joy in my heart, I announce announce the result of my paternity test. They all came back positive. All the children are mine with a 99.9% probability.

I became so happy that my family thinks I just won a lottery. I am a happy man today. As for my wife, I no longer care what she did in the past but for the fact that they are my children, I will love her forever.

I wont be able to talk further because she must not find out what I just found out she is a Nairalander. Peace-out and God bless you all.


https://www.nairaland.com/6402342/finally-took-children-dna-test

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addexx:
When will the results be out.

Update:
I had to stay away from this post for some time due to some health issues I suffered due to excessive thinking and depression which got me hospitalised.

The result will be out by Friday as advised by the DNA clinic. Either way, I'll come back and post the results here. Thanks!

merieam16:
My own is, hope it's nt all his life saving dat he used for DNA because na letter to poverty be dat o and he later he will tell his wife dat he was defrauded nd dez no money with him

How can I become poor because I paid for a DNA test? Remember I have been taking care of them right from when they were in the womb.

fineboynl:
op how much it cost?

It is not as expensive as people make it seem. It cost 100k per child. The most expensive one is the pregnancy DNA test.

Queengel:
what will you do if one is not yours

In the event one or none of them is mine. I will kick her out and adopt them legally as my children. They have the right to know if I am their father or not. If I don't do this, the biological father may show up later in the future cos anything is possible.

badaru911:
We are waiting eagerly to hear the result ooo...

I can't wait to see the results as well. I hope this ends well for me and my family.

EJanni:
Let the sleeping dog lie, you said no. Please don't kill yourself with high BP.

I won't die because of high BP. I care more to know the truth. The kids will forever be mine as i have formed a great bond with them

CalliDora1:
Ok. Good of you and good for you.

Oh.. so the result is not out yet? Sha no slump before that day. I can imagine the tightening feeling in your chest now.

We anticipate the results with you..

My brother, this DNA thing is not for the faint hearted. I lost weight appetite and now looking frail.

Hello Nairalanders,

I have been having some doubts about my children which I stated in my earlier post but I couldn't summon the courage to do it.

My wife kept giving me reasons to suspect her so I had to man up and take the test secretly. I took the test and samples were submitted few days ago but the doctor said it will take 7 to 10 working days for the results to come back.

Ever since I took the test, I haven't been myself. Am so restless and anxiety is killing me while I keep praying the results comes out favourable as I know it could mark the end of my marriage if there is a bastard among the children.

Men in the house: Can you share your experiences conducting DNA on your children and what was the out come. My hear beat is so loud right no. This is the moment of truth. So help me God.

Update:
While I was at the DNA clinic waiting for my samples to be taken. I saw a couple who came for a different type of DNA test. The lady is two months pregnant while the guy wants to know if the pregnancy is his before assuming responsibility of the baby.

He was charged a million naira for the test and was told to come back for results in two weeks time. I wish I knew this was possible as it would save me from what am currently passing through. Aside the cost implication, I will advise every man to take their pregnant partner for test before assuming responsibility for any pregnancy. I just learnt something new!

Note:
I will update this thread once the result comes in the next few days. I hope I'll be a happy man afterwards.

Women hate taking care of a child that does not belong to them. I hope men feel the same way too.

Sluvist:
He is giving his wife a licence to welcome sperm donors into their marriage. Though, he may not be married yet.

Will you forgive a woman for bring home a bastard. Men in the house, Do you agree with me?

Mgbadike80:
The op is a liar, i checked his moniker and discovered that he likes creating stupid stories like this and ask for advice.

These are real life situations. Just that I have to remove some aspects just incase my wife comes across this post as she is a nairalander.

Juliusmomoh:
@op,
Are you sure u are the real son of your father ?....

I look 100% like my father. Just can't post pics

thesicilian:
Everyone's now shouting DNA upandan when 90% of them can not even afford 2 square meals a day

I think I can afford it. Not everyone here is as poor as you think.

Oluromantic:
Sometimes I wonder what the difference between a man and a boy is. Why should you tell her for God's sake. Just take your boys out after telling your wife you want to go for a free malaria vaccination organized by your office or something like that.

If the test confirms they're yours, keep the secret forever, if it doesn't, blow the alarm. That's not wickedness.

Thanks for the advice. The children all have hairs on their body while I and my wife don't have any including our parents.

Hello House,

Am not gonna bore you with long speech and epistles. I got married several years ago to my wife and we had two lovely sons and a beautiful daughter.

Before we got married, she cheated on me twice and I forgave her and she turned a new leave afterwards which I love and appreciate about her.

The first child a son looks a little like my wife with eye and body physique and same eating habit.

The second daughter has her nose, body physique and eating habit but different complexion.

The third son looks nothing like anyone we know even her relatives and mine. The only person I can match his looks to is their family pastor before she got married to me. He has his hair looks and a strange eating habit different from anyone in the house.

I have been trying to talk to her about the looks of the children for years but I couldn't summon the courage cos I fear she may harm me without leaving a trace to protect her secret if she's hiding anything. I have checked their eyes nose ears and feet but none of them matches mine.

Should I tell her my concerns about the looks of our children? Or run DNA test secretly and live with it without letting her know.

Please advise.....

"There is a bomb on the plane."

No pilot wants to hear those terrifying words but 49 years ago over the skies of Australia, the captain of a Qantas passenger jet received the alarming message.

It kicked off a frantic search aboard the Boeing 707 aircraft, the payment of a ransom equivalent to $15 million today and a nationwide manhunt in what became known as the "Qantas Bomb Hoax".

The incident started on May 26, 1971 when a "Mr Brown" phoned the Federal Government's Aviation Department and told officials there was a bomb in a locker at Sydney's International Airport.

After the police bomb squad rushed to the locker and opened it, they discovered a deactivated explosive device composed of gelignite that could be detonated at a set height.

Officers also found accompanying written notes explaining a similar device had been placed on Qantas Flight 755, which had left Sydney bound for Hong Kong.

The messages went on to explain the bomb on the plane had been set to explode if the pilot flew below 6000 metres.


Another note from Mr Brow demanded a payment of $500,000 (equivalent to $15 million today) from Qantas in exchange for instructions how to dismantle the bomb.


"Frantic search on plane"

After the discovery in the airport locker and police experts carried out tests confirming it would explode at a set altitude, concern turned to the safety of the 116 passengers and 12 crew on-board Flight 755.

The plane's pilot, Captain William Selwyn, was told the grim news by radio as it flew over Queensland and his aircraft was diverted back to Sydney.

Passengers were told a "technical issue" was behind the return to NSW.

Capt. Selwyn - a World War II air force veteran - kept the jet above 6000 metres while other crew members desperately searched for the bomb.

During the ensuring six hours, the aircraft circled Sydney while police and Qantas executives attempted to negotiate with the bomber by phone.

With the jet's fuel running low, by the late afternoon the airline agreed to hand over the $500,000 cash to Mr Brown in central Sydney.

The Kombi van and ransom bungle

Mr Brown told Qantas bosses a yellow van would pull up outside Qantas House in Chifley Square in the CBD on the evening of May 26, 1971.

The driver would identify himself by dangling his keys out the window.



Although the bomber warned against police tailing the vehicle, detectives planned to intercept the van.

The operation centred on four unmarked cars containing officers who - on the signal given by other police inside Qantas House - would pounce on the vehicle.

It remains unclear what happened but probably due to a mix-up they never received the signal.



After the airline's general manager stuffed suitcases of cash inside the Kombi van waiting at the kerb, its driver - a man in wig, fake moustache and glasses - drove away unhindered.

"Unfortunately, the plan didn't go the way in which it was designed," then-police commissioner Norman Allen told The Sydney Morning Herald in June, 1971.

Nationwide manhunt for Mr Brown

A few minutes after the ransom payment authorities received a phone call telling them there was, in fact, no bomb on the Qantas plane.

The Boeing 707 landed safely in Sydney.



Police now turned to catching the hoaxers behind the outrageous extortion.

A reward of $50,000 was offered for information leading to their arrest and Scotland Yard and the FBI helped Australian police narrow down the list of suspects.

Then in August 1971 a breakthrough came when police arrested English migrant Peter Macari when an acquaintance became suspicious of his newfound riches and tipped off police.

After listening to the tape of Mr Brown he identified the extortionist as Macari.

In 1972, Macari was sentenced to 15 years prison after pleading guilty to demanding money with menaces and other charges.

Eight years later he was deported to Britain - on a Qantas plane.

Ningen:
Well, It seems you only planned as far as “putting your penis into another woman”.

Actually, I pity your wife.

Dude, I read your post 3 times.
There isn't any atom of remorse for infidelity!

You subconsciously believe that the heavens have granted you licence to cheat and a happy ending awaits you. You are wrong. Soon you'll dance to the tune and take responsibility.

I advice you confess to your wife asap.
Bare it out to her. Let her to decide to stay or not.

Be careful on how you break this news to her because you can easily drink from the wrong cup & fly to meet your ancestors. I hate your type.

I was never proud of what I did since I know its a sin and I have asked God for forgiveness. Whatever my decision is, I will surely tell her.
You don't need to pity her as her future is secured even if we fall out. God has used me to help her own a chain of businesses worth several millions. Anyway thanks for your input.

adexpa:
Oga, I know you have had many advice but my own is that you should calm down and relax about the whole thing since the other lady is not giving you dead line. Many people are giving you straight answer cus they are not in your shoes. Calm down and do more spiritual investigation about that new woman before you take your next move. The mistake you made is not obeying instruction that you should hold on a little more before getting married. Just calm down. God will help you out. I can relate n i practically understand what you are going through. Many people don't understand spiritual connection between husband and wife, when you marry your own wife the speed at which things turn around is always a mystery. I have had many testimonies on how things turn around for many people immediately after marriage n that is the favour part of marriage that Bible mentioned( he who find his ordean wife obtain favour). God will see you through brother.

Thanks for your input. It took me six months to summon the courage of posting this thread. I swear they can never understand what it feels like until they are in my shoes. I have tried to end this affair twice but we always ended up together and stronger. The lady also confided in me that since she met me, her life has turned around for the better.

daddytime:
Lol

Poor wife.

Hugely disrespected, unappreciated and undervalued.

You and your pastor are both confused and oloju kokoros.

If you indeed believe the charlatan of a pastor then you need your head properly checked.

Sound check: Ask yourself why he waited for you to explain all to him as you have done here before he started forming some nonsense prophet?

If that your wife head and chi get your time ehn you go see your papa begin call am mummy.

You better appreciate, value, love and respect your wife before attributing your success to someone who isn't contributing any shit to your life.

If you like no take my advice but follow that your pastor.

Thanks for your contribution. I really appreciate it.

AskProf:
Congrats!

Really? I never said I married her yet.

Pubichairs:



Have u discussed marriage plans with her, don't waste that lady's time, ship her to me I need her services too

I haven't discussed any marriage plans with her yet. She is free to leave the relationship anytime she wants.

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