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RomanceInteresting Men Interest Women by donyjohn(op): 2:29am On Dec 04, 2014
Did you ever feel like it was hard for you to get women interested? Did you wonder if there was any 'secret' that you were not aware of that would make women start to show some interest in you? Well, there really is no secret, that reality is... you have to be interesting if you want to interest women. It might sound like kind of a tongue twister and I suppose that it is, but it is also the truth.

Conversation is a really big part of connecting with a woman, right? Of course it is. And in order to have conversation that captures a woman's attention, it cannot be boring at all right? You bet. The best way to actually have good stuff to talk about is to live a life that is interesting. Boring guys make boring conversation. And boring guys end up being boring to be around most of the time.

To get a woman into the idea of dating you, then you don't want to be boring to her. That's like the kiss of death to most women. So, you need to have things to talk about that actually capture her attention, her imagination, and move her emotions. It's not going to happen if most of your free time consists of playing video games, watching television and just basically hanging out and doing nothing.

It's easy to get a woman interested in you if you have things to talk about with her. You don't have to worry about coming up with clever lines or any other fluff, because you actually have some substance. That goes a long way, especially if you want to date a woman who has her life together and has a good career and goals in life. A quality woman.

I get asked questions all of the time relating to how can a guy make a woman feel interested in them and the simplest and most true answer is to live a life that is interesting. Pick up some hobbies. Learn about some cool stuff that no one else really knows about. Do that and mix in a little charm and humor along the way and now you have a lot of ways to pique a woman's interest and make her think of you as a guy she would like to date.

Fascinate her. Not many people can fascinate someone, especially when it is a single guy trying to fascinate a single woman. It just does not happen every day of the week. If you can make her feel fascinated talking to you, then there is a really good chance that she will want to be more than just friends with you.

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RomanceWhat A Woman Wants - Don't Make This Assumption by donyjohn(op): 2:24am On Dec 04, 2014
It's kind of funny to me how when guys go looking for information on what a woman wants, they kind of expect to find one answer that is going to be applied to ALL women. Well, just in case you did not already know it, not all women are alike. So, the idea that there is one answer for the question, what do women want, is flawed right from the get go. Of course, that does not stop guys for looking for that one all-encompassing answer.

If you really want to know what a woman wants, then the best way is to ask her. Yep, it's that simple. Kind of. Most of the time, you don't want to ask direct questions, but more indirect ones that lead her to telling you the truth about what she likes, what turns her on, etc. If you are too direct, then chances are you will get an answer that sounds good, but is not exactly the truth.

For example, if you ask a woman straight out what kind of man she likes, she will probably give you the answer that sounds the best... but is not really the kind of guy that she actually dates. Like, when a woman says that she wants a nice guy, yet her track record shows that she really only dates bad boys. That kind of thing.

You don't want to make the assumption, though, that all women are going to want the same things. I grew up in a very diverse city. And by diverse, I mean... really diverse. People from all different backgrounds, races, income classes and religions. So, I knew right away that not all women want the same things in life or in the guys that they date.

If you are ever going to really get good with women, then you have to learn not to go by assumptions. You have to learn that what you really need to do is to ask the right questions when you talk to a woman. You also need to learn more than one way to build attraction with a woman, or else you are only going to be able to attract one type and not be able to get a taste of the variety that is out there.

It might be a nice dream like idea to want to have one answer that applies to all women, but that is about as likely as me winning the lottery tomorrow. And I don't even play.

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RomanceHow To Get Women To See You As More Than Just A Friend by donyjohn(op): 2:19am On Dec 04, 2014
You know, if I had to make a list of the top three complaints that men seem to have when it comes to dating, I would have to include getting caught in the friend zone as being one of those three. It's such a common situation and it winds up happening to men of all ages. It's hard to think that as much as you want a woman to be your girlfriend, that all she will ever seem to see in you is a friend. Yes, friendship is all well and good, but it certainly is not the same thing as having a girlfriend, is it?

There are specific reasons why this happens. Most of the time it is due to the fact that the man has approached her in the wrong way and that sets a course that leads them to being friends. You have to approach a woman from the very get go in such a way that she does not think of you as being just a friend to her.

Here's some advice on how to get women to see you as more than just a friend:

1. If you are attracted to a woman, don't try and hide it.

A lot of the time when a man gets stuck being just friends to a woman, it has a lot to do with the fact that he tries too hard to hide his attraction for her. You obviously do not want to be so obvious that you end up looking like a love sick school boy, but at the same time you cannot completely hide your attraction. If you do and she does end up seeing you as being nothing more than a friend, you really only have yourself to blame for that.

2. The way that you talk to her has a lot to do with it.

Want to get a woman to see you as more than just a friend? Then you better not talk to her only the way that friends do. Talk to her more like a guy who is getting to know a woman he wants to date. Find ways to use conversation to connect with her. Most of all, find ways to talk to her that make her flirt back with you.

3. Do not try and bargain your way into her heart.

By this I mean, you can't expect to trade favors for her affection. You cannot expect to be the kind of guy who will do whatever she wants and then end up getting to be her boyfriend because of it. All you will usually get is the friendship plus a never ending list of favors that she wants from you.

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RomanceDating Beautiful Women - How To Attract Women Out Of Your League by donyjohn(op): 1:18am On Dec 03, 2014
It's natural for a guy to want to date beautiful women. After all, we are driven by our eyes when it comes to the women that we are attracted to. What can be frustrating for a lot of men is the fact that they probably will never really get the opportunity to date those beautiful women that they cannot seem to be able to take their eyes off of. If you think it would be like a dream come true to date beautiful women who are out of your league, then keep reading.

The first thing that I would like to encourage you to do is to stop thinking of certain women as being out of your league. That's basically telling your subconscious mind to always think negatively when it comes to the women that you can attract and date and why do that to yourself if you don't have to? Not only that, I would also suggest that you begin to explore the reasons why you think that some women are too good for you.

Here are some tips on how to attract women out of your league that I hope you find helpful:

1) Beautiful women are just like every other woman in most ways, they just look prettier.

This is something that is mostly true. There are some things about beautiful women that are going to be different, but on the whole, they are like other women they just come in a prettier package. So, really, there is no reason to think that you have less of a chance with a good looking girl than you do with an average looking one.

2) The reason why you think that they are out of your league is due to your inexperience with them.

I find that most guys who think of good looking women as being out of their league don't have that much experience being around attractive women. If you did have that experience, then you would not feel like they were out of your reach. So, you may want to gain some experience just being around them.

3) You are going to have to be secure when you go out with them.

Here is what is going to happen when you go out on a date with a good looking woman. Other guys are going to check her out. And they might even flirt with her right in front of you. She is going to pay some attention to how you handle that and you want to handle it well.

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RomanceHow Do I Make Her Feel Turned On By Me - Tips To Turn On A Woman by donyjohn(op): 12:25am On Dec 03, 2014
Wanting to make a woman feel turned on when she is around you has to be one of the most common and natural desires that a straight man can have. Whether you are in a relationship or you are single right now, it's only fitting that you are going to want to be confident in knowing that you can make a woman feel massive amounts of sexual attraction towards you. When you do know that you can make a woman feel that way, the amount of sexual confidence that you will have is mind boggling.

Most men will never really know what that feels like, though, because they will never get to the heart of what they need to know and what they need to do in order to make a woman feel that kind of attraction to them. Being able to get a woman really turned on certainly is a skill that is priceless, but you do have to put in some sweat in learning what it is that you need to do. Of course, it's kind of fun doing a lot of the "figuring out," so you probably won't mind it too much.

Here are some tips to get a woman turned on that should put you on the right path:

1) To make her feel turned on around you, you want to keep up with your hygiene.

This is one thing that you really don't want to ignore. It doesn't take much to smell good. $ 40 will get you a decent smelling cologne and as long as you remember to splash it on every now and again, you shouldn't have to worry too much about your hygiene. Of course, you also don't want to neglect the state of your breath, so keep a little mouthwash or some mints handy as well. Kissing a woman with fantastic smelling breath can be quite the turn on, with bad breath, it is a turn off.

2) Women do get turned on by the right words, so get used to using poetic language when you can.

Okay, so you don't really have to become a poet, but being able to weave together some really enticing words is a good way to turn on a woman through her mind. This is something that you can do even when you aren't the best looking guy, so don't pass this up as a bona fide way to turn on a woman. Being able to whisper the right words into a woman's ear when you are out at a club can get her home with you really fast, and the sad thing is, most men will never realize that this is possible.

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RomanceGetting A Girlfriend - 3 Things You Need To Do If You Really Want A Girlfriend by donyjohn(op): 11:38pm On Dec 02, 2014
Usually, when you really feel like you want something, the faster you are able to get it - the better. Well, when you feel like you really want a girlfriend, it's probably a lot more exciting to think about getting one soon as opposed to having to wait a long time to attract a girlfriend. Is it possible that you can attract a woman and make her want to date you in a short period of time? Yep, as long as you know what it is that you have to do in order to make her feel that way about you.

Here are 3 tips for getting a girlfriend fast that you need to know:

1) You can't just "positive think" your way into getting a girlfriend.

While it is great to be positive and have an optimistic outlook on life, it's not really going to be what helps you attract a woman and make her want to date you in a short period of time. Don't fall into the trap of thinking that you just have to employ a little positive thinking and everything will fall into place. You have to become an action taker if you want to attract a woman in a short period of time.

2) You have to be able to make her feel attracted to you when you are talking to her.

You can't expect a woman to feel like going out with you is going to be fun if she ends up feeling like it is a drag to have a conversation with you. For that reason alone, you really need to be able to engage a woman in a fun and flirtatious conversation. Anything less than that is going to end up making it harder for you to make her feel like she wants to date you.

3) The more sexual tension you can make her feel, the more likely it is that she is going to want you.

While most guys think that all they have to do is be really nice and they will be able to attract a woman that they really want to be with, you want to do a little more than that. When you are able to make a woman feel sexual tension around you, the odds that she will feel like she really wants to be your girlfriend are going to go way up. That's what you want, right? So, you better figure out how to make her feel sexual tension and a lot of it when she is around you.

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RomanceHow To Get A Date With A Woman You Are Interested In - 3 Tips That Can't Miss by donyjohn(op): 11:27pm On Dec 02, 2014
When there is a woman whom you know for sure that you are very much interested in, what is it that you really want to be able to do? Probably get a date with her, right? If you are really attracted to her and think that she is good looking and fun to be around, you are also probably a little bit worried about whether or not she is going to say yes or no to going out on a date with you. Well, what if you didn't have to worry about that?

Follow these 3 tips that can't miss and you probably won't have to worry because she probably will say yes to you:

1) Initiate conversation with her as soon as you can.

You don't want her to be just some woman you like to look at, you want to get to know her a little bit before you ask her out on a date. One of the reasons why guys usually get turned down for a date with a woman they like is because they ask before they really establish any kind of rapport. You want to have some rapport with her before you ask her out on a date.

2) Don't talk to her like she is a guy, be playful and flirtatious with her.

Talk to a woman in the wrong way and you'll end up making her feel like there are no sparks at all between you and her. That's not a good thing if you want to get her to say yes to going out on a date with you. There has to be some flirtation going on between you and her and yes, it does have to be a two way street. You don't want to be the one doing ALL of the flirting, you want to see her flirting back with you.

3) Once you know that she is having fun talking and flirting with you, suggest that the two of you hang out later on.

I like going about it this way because there is a lot less pressure when you ask a woman to hang out with you than there is when you ask her out on a date. You will be a lot more likely to hear her say yes to you when she doesn't feel like there is any pressure behind spending time with you and it is so easy to turn a "hang out" into a date, so this is usually the best way to go if you want to hear her say yes to you.

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RomanceBest Friend To Girlfriend - How Do You Make Her Want A Relationship With You? by donyjohn(op): 11:22pm On Dec 02, 2014
It's not that rare for a guy to start having feelings for a woman he is friends with. There are plenty of these kinds of stories playing out all of the time. However, there is a little bit of a difference when that female friend of yours is more than just a friend to you, she is your best friend. That can make an already complicated situation seem all the more complicated. Since you do feel like she is your best friend, and hopefully she also feels that way, you probably don't want to lose her, but you can't help but to have romantic feelings for her at the same time. What can you do?

THE REALITY YOU HAVE TO FACE -

As much as you might like to, you really can't try to turn a female best friend into a girlfriend without risking the possibility that you might lose her friendship along the way. Once you make it known to her that you have those romantic feelings, it is inevitable that the dynamic between you and her is going to change. It might not be fair that it has to be that way, but who said that life was fair? So, the first thing that you have to do is weigh out the pros and cons of trying to turn her into your girlfriend.

Pros -

You will have the chance of being able to get physical with her.

You won't have to wonder about the "what if" anymore.

You will probably be extremely elated if it DOES work out.

Cons -

You might lose her as a friend.

You will lose the fantasy of you and her, it will either become real or not.

Getting rejected by her might hurt more than getting rejected by any other woman has hurt you before.

WARNING - BEFORE YOU TRY TO TURN HER INTO YOUR GIRLFRIEND...

The upside is definitely good if it does work out. You'll have the woman you want as your girlfriend and that will be an awesome feeling. I know, because I have had that experience before. It feels better than you can even imagine. However, I have also experienced the downside of it not working out. When it doesn't happen, you end up losing her as a friend, at least in the way that it used to be. Things change between you and her. You might find that all of a sudden, she doesn't want to hang out with you one on one.

However, even when it doesn't work out, you still get the satisfaction of knowing that at least you tried. There are plenty of guys out there who will never try to turn their best female friend into a girlfriend and they will continue to want her without ever having the chance of making that a reality. They will have to watch her date other guys. They will have to see other guys string her along, knowing that he is going to dump her.

You don't want to live like that if you don't have to. You don't want to have to suppress your real feelings for her and try to fake sounding happy for her when she tells you about that guy she just met that she is going to go out on a date with. Even if it doesn't work out, you'll at least know that you had the courage to try.

HOW DO YOU MAKE HER WANT TO BE YOUR GIRLFRIEND?

I'd strongly recommend that you don't come right out and say that you want to date her right away. Doing that is not really going to help you out much. She is probably going to get weirded out if you say that you want her as more than just a friend. What you have to do is get to work on making her feel that way about you.

Here are some tips that should help you out with that:

1. You can't make her want you if you stay in the position of being her best friend.

Not right now, at least. You have to find a way to change that dynamic between you and her. The easiest way to do this, is to have a short period of time where you don't spend that much time with her at all. You want to slowly ease out of being her best friend and you can't do that if you are still around her all of the time, acting like her best friend.

2. You have to make her feel curious about what's going on.

You don't want to make her feel like you are mad at her or that she did anything wrong and that is the reason why you have disappeared for a little while. The best thing to do is to get busy with other things so that you really do have a good reason why you are not around that much anymore. Plus, when you are actually busy doing other things... it's only natural that she is going to be curious about what those other things are. You want her to be curious.

3. You need to then come back, but acting in a different way around her.

This is one of the most important pieces of the puzzle. If you come back and go right back to being her best guy friend, nothing is going to change. She is not going to suddenly want to rip your clothes off and fool around with you. She is just going to go right back to seeing you as her friend and nothing more. You have to become a flirt when you are around her. You have to make her smile, make her giddy just to see you.

4. When you can tell that she is definitely starting to feel attracted to you, you have to make your move.

Without making the move, nothing is going to change. So, this is another one of those things that you have to do if you want your best female friend to become your girlfriend. This has to happen when the time is just right, though. And it also has to feel natural. It has to feel like both of you are just getting caught up in the moment.

IS IT WORTH IT?

Having been on both sides of the coin, with it working out and it also not working out, I can say that it IS worth trying to make your female best friend become your girlfriend. The feeling that you get when you and her are finally together as a couple is AMAZING. When you finally get to see her looking at you with both love and desire in her eyes... it makes it all worth it in the end.

Even when it doesn't work out the way that you want it to... it still feels GOOD to know that you tried. And to know that you don't have to fake it around her anymore. You don't have to act like being just her friend is cool with you. Because, you know that it isn't. You know that it SUCKS to know that you would be the best guy for her, and to have to see her go out with other guys, some of whom turn out to be total jerks.

Ultimately, it is up to you. You are the one that has to live with the decision that you make. You are the one that is going to have to either keep on acting like you are just a friend while at the same time having secret fantasies about being with her or taking the plunge and seeing if you can make it REAL.

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How To Get Better At Talking To Girls
RomanceHow To Communicate Sexual Interest With Women by donyjohn(op): 12:22am On Nov 23, 2014
Being able to communicate with women is a really vital part of dating skills a man can possess. And guess what? Most guys are severely lacking in this category. To be able to communicate your sexual interest with a woman will allow you to get beyond the friend zone much more quickly and easily. And this is what you really want to be able to accomplish. Don't lie to yourself. We are men and we want women. End of story.

So, how should you go about communicating YOUR sexual interest with women?

1. Flirtation can go a long way in this area. You don't want to be the guy that plays it safe with her. Playing it safe is code word for Not going to get any. You have to be able to convey that you do see her as a woman that you would like to date. There is no use in trying to hide that fact.

2. Inviting body language. This is something that almost every guy needs help with. Body language accounts for a large proportion of the impression that you make on a woman. Use your body language in the wrong way and it's a quick trip to the friend zone. Use it right, and you will be the guy that she thinks of when she is alone at night.

3. Teasing her with innuendo. Now, you don't want to go overboard with this. A little too much sexual innuendo with a woman and you come across as a sleazeball. Just the right amount and you are fun and provocative. Dash in a little sexual innuendo with her to remind her that you ARE a man and that you do find her sexually attractive.

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RomanceHow To Make Her Think Of YOU - And Only You! by donyjohn(op): 12:17am On Nov 23, 2014
As a man you want to be able to stir a woman's emotions to the point where you are the only man that she thinks about. Just picture it for a moment. You approach a beautiful woman for the first time and for days she literally cannot get you out of her mind.

Sounds perfect to me.

Most men don't have this experience with women. Instead, they have it the other way around. They meet a woman and they are the ones that cannot stop thinking about her. They are the ones that are going crazy out of their mind trying to think of ways to impress her.

Wouldn't you like the shoe to be on the other foot for once?

You can make this happen. See, most men out there, they do nothing to leave a lasting impression on a woman. At least not the kind that they want to leave. You want to leave her in a state where she has to call you or else it will drive her CRAZY.

How can you make her think of you and only you?

You have to stir those emotions from the onset. When you approach a woman, you have to be ready to trigger her emotions and make her think of you in a way that causes sexual tension. The good kind. Don't approach her as most men do and start to immediately seek HER approval. She will definitely have a strong impression of you as you are not doing what every other guy does when they approach her.

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RomanceDating Tips For Men - How To Create Instant Attraction With A Woman by donyjohn(op): 11:14pm On Nov 22, 2014
You know one of the most hypnotic feelings that you can give to a woman, is to give her that ultra rare feeling of instant attraction. You know, that feeling that there is just some incredible, unexplainable chemistry between you and her? For most people, not just guys, it's not an everyday occurrence to get that feeling of serendipitous instant attraction. Yet, if you can pull this one off, then you can bet that you are going to end up having an easy time getting a date with her.

How do you give a woman that feeling of instant attraction?

Here are 3 dating tips for men on how to create instant attraction with a woman:

1. You need to give her an instant feeling of rapport through the proper body language.

Okay, so 90 percent or more of communication is NON-VERBAL. So, why do so many guys waste all of their time trying to figure out the perfect pick up line, when at best, this is only going to weigh in about 10 percent? Your body language can be much more effective, especially when you want to give a woman the feeling of instant attraction. Body language communication happens on an instinctual level, just like the feeling of instant attraction. Pay attention to your body language, get it right, and make YOUR move!

2. You need to get her laughing.

If you were to sit down and ask 10 single women what is the most attractive quality that they could find in a man, probably at least 4 or 5 would rate a sense of humor being at the top of the list. And the others would probably rate it number two or number three. Why? Because a woman does not want to date a man that is going to end up being no fun at all. If you can show her right away that you can make her laugh, you are going to score some instant points with her.

3. You must be able to incorporate some physical flirtation.

To really make her heart go a flutter, you need to incorporate some physical touching. Physical touching helps to create that feeling beyond just trivial attraction and puts you more on the level where she wants something to happen. You can't shy away from physical flirtation, it has to be a part of your "tool box" if you are going to make her want you right off the bat.

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RomanceHow To Make Her Want You Bad - 3 Tips To Make Her Feel Massive Desire For You by donyjohn(op): 11:08pm On Nov 22, 2014
You want to be able to make a woman feel massive desire, don't you? You are not just satisfied with the thought of being able to make a woman like you, you want more than that. You want to know how to make her want you bad. So bad that you are all that she is able to think about. Is that too much to ask for or is there a way to do just that and trigger a woman's attraction so that she is feeling like she just has to be with you?

Well, if you know what to do to make her feel massive desire for you, then you should be able to make her want you bad. The thing is, you do have to have somewhat realistic expectations in that, you can't expect to give yourself some magical power that you can tap into right away. It takes some time to learn what to do to make a woman want you and even then, you do run the risk of not getting things right all of the time.

Still, there are a few things that you can do that will make it easier for you to make a woman feel massive desire for you. Here they are:

1) She will want you more when you give her less.

It's funny to think that giving her too much attention could be a bad thing or it could make her want you less, but it really can. Ask any woman what it's like to deal with a guy who just clings on to them and they will tell you that it's not a fun experience. You want to show her that you are not a "cling-on" and you also want her to feel like she is looking forward to being with you.

2) She will feel massive attraction for you if you are able to use conversation without being boring.

It's the simplest way to make a woman attracted to you if you are not boring when you talk. Yet, a lot of men are when they are talking to a woman that they like. You don't want to lose her interest the moment that you open up your mouth. If you do, don't expect for her to want you even a little bit, much less badly.

3) The quickest way to make a woman desire to be with you is to know how to tease her.

There are plenty of ways to tease a woman and you want to know a few of your own ways that you can use to tease a woman you like so that she wants you. If you really know how to tease a woman, then you can easily make her feeling like she is ready to tear your clothes off.

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RomanceTechniques To Make You MORE Attractive To Women by donyjohn(op): 10:18pm On Nov 21, 2014
To attract women, you have to understand the psychology of female attraction, and most men are not really cut out for this. However, if you want to be able to attract beautiful women, then you HAVE to be able to get a grip on what attracts a woman and what techniques are going to be most effective. Otherwise, you could end up wasting all of your time trying to use the wrong methods of attraction, and still end up NOT getting the girl!

You have probably been told over and over that to attract women, you have to be a little bit of Prince Charming and a whole lot of knight in shining armor. Well, the truth is, you don't have to put on either one of these personas and you can still be very attractive to a woman.

Here are 2 techniques that will make you seem more attractive to women:

1. You have to demonstrate to a woman that you are in no way at all needy of having her attention or approval.

The more distant that you can be from coming off like you need her attention and affection, the more successful you are going to be, PERIOD. Women are not attracted to guys that have to be at their side all of the time, and they are not attracted to guys that will bend over and do anything that she says just in hopes of making her like them. If you have been trying to get women to like you by being everything to them from the moment that you meet them, then you NEED to stop as quickly as possible. You need to START being able to act as if you do not need any female attention at all, and that alone will give you a boost in the eyes of a woman.

2. To really make yourself appear more attractive to women, you need to be pre-qualified.

Well, how do you get pre-qualified and look more attractive to women? When beautiful women see you around OTHER beautiful women, they automatically will start to look at you with a lot more interest. You seem to be the kind of guy that appeals to good looking women, and that alone is enough to make a woman more curious about you. This is why it can be so beneficial for you to make friends with attractive women, so that you can "pre-qualify" yourself to attractive females.

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RomanceHow To Deal With A Woman That Plays Hard To Get by donyjohn(op): 9:54pm On Nov 21, 2014
One of the most frustrating experiences for any man to have to deal with when it comes to dating, is trying to figure out how to deal with a woman that plays hard to get. Let's be upfront and honest, when a woman plays hard to get, it can be nerve wracking. One minute, you think that you are gaining some ground with her, and the next, you are not sure that she was really ever into you.

Don't let it get you too mixed up, though. Just as the sky is going to stay blue, women are going to play hard to get with you. When you can handle this, and have fun with it, you will see that it really is not a bad thing at all. I mean, you can really have fun when she is trying to play hard to get with you.

Here's how to deal with a woman that plays hard to get:

1. Realize that it comes with the territory.

Any man with any experience is going to know that trying to attract women means that you are going to have to jump through some hoops or pass little tests that she will throw your way. And pretty much all women will toss you the proverbial hard to get runaround. So, don't get too antsy, and just realize that it is all a part of the dating game.

2. Make her come around by switching it up on her.

One of the "traps" that men fall for when a woman plays hard to get is, they proceed even harder with their pursuit. It's kind of like a game of cat and mouse at that point, and you are just going to end up feeling frustrated at the end of the day. Instead of doing what she expects you to do, pull back and let her come after you. A man that plays hard to get does not come around every day of the week, so you will definitely take her by surprise.

3. Get her a little bit jealous.

Now, I am not talking about doing something that is going to get her red hot with anger, here. But, little things that make her just a tad bit jealous can make her come around. Let's say that everything seems to be going well, and she starts to play that hard to get role. If you just hint at the thought of dating someone else, or you let her think that there are other women, then she will feel like she has to do something to keep your interest.

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RomanceHow To Get Better With Women Almost Instantly by donyjohn(op): 7:42pm On Nov 21, 2014
For most guys, the idea that they can get better with women seems a little bit far fetched. Almost too good to be true. I understand that line of thinking. If you are not used to getting great results, the idea that you can suddenly start to get them seems straight out of a fantasy world.

However, most guys are limiting themselves in their ability to get better with women and they don't even realize it.

Once those limitations come off... The results can be amazing.

And they can happen fast... as in almost instantly.

Limitations are just chains that bind us and keep us in a "box" and most of the time, those limitations are completely unnecessary. They are there because we have been conditioned to believe that they are supposed to be there. That it is supposed to be the way that it is.

Let's explore one limitation that most guys have that cripple their chances of having a lot of success with women.

It's the idea that you have to "compete" with other men.

It comes from the idea that women are scarce.

So, if you find one that you are attracted to, you have to do everything and anything to try to win her over.

It totally doesn't have to be that way at all.

Competition breeds anxiety for most men.

So, if anything, the idea that you have to compete for a woman's affection is a quick route to feeling anxious.

Anxious is not attractive.

Without realizing it, if you feel anxious... you are pushing women away from you.

You are giving off that "vibe" that they may not be able to describe, but they know they don't like.

You don't have to compete with other men.

There are PLENTY of single women out there.

Plenty of good looking women who will have the personality that meshes with yours.

If you get that idea out of your head... right away, you'll be sending out a different vibe to women. Instead of repelling them, you'll be attracting them.

And the results that you will get will be apparent right away.

Another limitation that most men have is the fear of the approach.

They will see a woman they are attracted to and hope that she will somehow just approach them. You'll see this all of the time in clubs and bars. The guys standing in the corner, checking women out, but never actually approaching a woman.

It is a BIG limitation.

If you can't make an approach, the only hope that you have is that someone will introduce you to a woman or that you'll find that one in a million who decides to approach you.

Not exactly a winning strategy, wouldn't you agree.

So, why is it so hard to make an approach?

Most of the time, it is because you have already decided what the outcome will be in your head. Without even testing to see if you came to the right conclusion.

What I mean is, a lot of guys assume failure. Assume rejection.

However, that is just something that they are assuming in their mind.

Not something that they "know" for sure.

Approaches become EASIER when you make them.

You really can't read a strategy about approaching women and feel the confidence that you need to feel. It has to be developed through actual practice.

Kind of like shooting a basketball.

You don't get better by reading about how to shoot a basketball.

You get better by picking it up, hitting the court, and taking your shots.

Reading might help you make some improvements to your form.

But, it is the actual practice that really makes you get better. And it is watching the ball go in that gives you the confidence that you can make the shot again and again.

Each approach that you make gives you more confidence for the next one.

And just like basketball where you are not going to make EVERY shot, you are not going to win over every woman that you approach.

That's just something that you have to accept.

The quicker you do, the quicker you can move on to the next woman and the next.

And then, you will get to a point where it does become easy, you will feel confident and you'll actually find that you are better than most guys are.

The instant that you decide to make approaches instead of just "checking women out" is the instant that you move closer to success.

Another limitation that I want to touch base on... is the idea that you need to be rich to attract women.

It's a common belief that guys have.

So, if they don't have a lot of money, they assume that they have to be lonely.

Or settle.

Most of the time, that is not true at all.

It's true that there are some women who are only interested in a guy with money. That is something that you do have to be realistic about.

However, most don't care all that much.

As long as you can support yourself and you are not sponging off of them... The amount of money in your bank account is NOT a major factor.

These 3 limitations: The idea that you have to compete, the fear of approaching women, and the belief that you have to be rich are unnecessary in most situations.

Once you drop them... you will instantly get better with women.

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RomanceHow To Get Her Turned On - 3 Easy To Follow Tips For Turning On A Woman by donyjohn(op): 7:34pm On Nov 21, 2014
Okay, so if you find yourself with a woman that you are really attracted to and really like a lot, chances are you are going to get to a point where you want to do more than just talk with her, right? You are going to want things to progress to where you can be intimate with her and in order for that to happen - you have to know how to get her turned on. Now, most guys like to think that they are established experts at this, but really - most are relying on hope and luck more than anything else. This article will help you so that you don't have to rely on just hope and luck. You'll have the skills needed to actually make sure that she does get turned on by you.

First Tip to Get Her Turned On -

Most guys are ready to go at a moment's notice. However, it's not always like that with a woman, even if she likes you and is attracted to you. You have to ease into things a little and the first thing that you need to do is to make her feel like you are both really connected to one another on an emotional level. This is where you have to do some talking, some playful flirting, that kind of thing. You need to do this to guarantee that you can move onto the next tip.

Second Tip to Get Her Turned On -

Kissing does wonders to get a woman aroused and we are not talking about a couple of kisses and then you are off to the races. Take your time, kiss her intimately, and make sure that you don't just kiss her on the lips. The neck is a good spot, some women like their ears nibbled on a little, some don't. You want to get to know exactly where she likes to be kissed.

Third Tip to Get Her Turned On -

Make sure that the setting for where you want to be intimate with her is not a turn off. You'll have more luck if she feels comfortable with where you are with her. Meaning, make sure that you will have privacy, that things are clean and smell nice. You don't want to take her back to an apartment that looks like a frat house just had a party there. Use music to set the mood, just make sure that it is an environment that you know she is going to be very comfortable in.

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RomanceTips On How To Seduce Women - 3 Tips That Take Little Effort But Pay Off Big Tim by donyjohn(op): 7:28pm On Nov 21, 2014
You might make the assumption that in order to seduce a woman, it takes a whole lot of effort and that might put you off to the idea of learning how to seduce women, simply because you don't want to have to spend too much time learning techniques to make it happen. While it is always going to require some effort to get better with women and it is always going to take some effort in order to learn what it is that you need to do in order to seduce a woman, it doesn't have to take as much as you might think.

Here are some tips that are only going to take a little bit of effort, but are going to pay off big time when it comes to seduction:

1) You never want to attempt to seduce a woman when you don't smell good.

Something as simple as picking up a really good smelling deodorant and a matching cologne is about all that it takes to make sure that you don't smell bad, but it does have a big impact on how a woman reacts to you. Of course, you want to also make sure that your breath isn't going to be offensive either, so pick up some travel sized mouthwash and keep it handy at all times.

2) All it takes is a few choice words to get a conversation started.

Getting better at talking to a woman is always going to help you become more successful when it comes to seduction, but don't think that you have to be perfect at making conversation. Getting the conversation started is really the key and sometimes all it takes is a few choice words to get a woman talking to you. Don't mess up your chances and recite some line that you overheard. Come up with an original line that you can use to get her talking and see the difference.

3) She is going to have to feel like there is a lot of good sexual tension going on between you and her.

The more of this you can make a woman feel, the more likely it is that you ARE going to end up in bed with her. You don't want to wimp out when it comes to making a woman feel a lot of the good kind of sexual tension, because that is sometimes the only thing that you need to do to take things to that next level with a woman.

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RomanceRe: 7 Signs He Is Only After Sex by donyjohn:
RomanceRe: Why Do Some Girls Get Interested In Guys Already Dating? by donyjohn:
Run away from such girls because they will get interested in someone else already dating when you date them.




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RomanceRe: How Did You React, When Your Girl Friend Asked You To Change Her Wardrobe??? by donyjohn:
I simply told her I don't have money!



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RomanceRe: Public Display Of Affection: Good Or Bad? by donyjohn:
Very very wrong. Don't do it.




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RomanceRe: Whose Duty Is It To Call In A Relationship? by donyjohn: 3:00pm On Sep 22, 2014
There is no bargaining on who is to call, the guy is to do the calling.
RomanceRe: Should A Woman Be Allowed To Marry More Than One Husband? by donyjohn: 2:59pm On Sep 22, 2014
That is barbaric and our culture does not accept it.
RomanceRe: by donyjohn: 2:55pm On Sep 22, 2014
Work on your Sef_Esteem
RomanceRe: I Thought It Was Her Greenlight... Now I Ruined Everything!!! help me?? by donyjohn: 2:53pm On Sep 22, 2014
This is what happens when you are waiting for the green light and you are "colour blind"....*sigh*
RomanceRe: *being A Virgin Till Marriage Who Is It Most Difficult For:guys Or Ladies* by donyjohn: 2:48pm On Sep 22, 2014
Guys can remain virgins till marriage but girls just can't hold themselves.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Poetry. by donyjohn: 2:45pm On Sep 22, 2014
Don't do that! Sorrows comes at night but joy comes in the morning. Everyday is a new beginning.
RomanceRe: . by donyjohn: 2:42pm On Sep 22, 2014
All girls do this when they are madly in love.

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