₦airaland Forum

Talkisneeded:
So you want to live with a man that you’ve got lacing your drink with substance for 20k,but working in a hotel that feeds you once and pay 40k is a no to you…


Once you begin doing the do sha,you’d see the discarding the game,and na because you no rate your man sha











But again,what’s life without proper bedmatics skills seff,I’m here to solve all your woes

But 40k is too poor, I've been promised better job offers. However I love my man, it hurts that he's no been talking to me because I turned the job down.

Feldie:
why haven't you relocated back home? What are you still doing in the place you served at?

I'm job hunting, I went home for a while then came back to look for jobs.

hakeemhakeem:
Since you have finished your service what are you still doing in guy house?go to your parents home or bf place to stay. You missed been drugged twice, you may not escape the next one. Except you are not ready to date your BF again

There are no jobs in my home state where my boyfriend and parents reside, I feel there are more opportunities in Abuja.

I just rounded up my youth service last month and I'm actively job hunting in Abuja. The first interview I had in a hotel offered me a job as a waitress for 40k per month. My boyfriend advised me to take the job since they offer accommodation and feeding once a day. He felt I could start from there why I look out for better offers instead of staying at home but I have some issues.

Towards the end of my service year I had some issues in the corpers lodge and I was evicted. I ended up staying with a guy who was an admirer because I didn't have elsewhere to go. My boyfriend has been uncomfortable but he couldn't do anything since he lives in another state and provide alternative accommodation.

I've been rejecting the guys sexual advances for the few months I've been living with him, he's been professing love and introducing me as his girlfriend to his friends. He's extremely over protective and jealous even though we are not dating. I've caught him slipping Spanish gold fly into my drink on two occasions and then he would attempt to gave sex with me which I've resisted.

My boyfriend sees this as an opportunity to get away from the house, buy the guy discouraged me from taking the job because he feels the salary is too poor for a graduate and market women make more. He even offered to give me 20k every month till he gets a better job for me.

Now my guy is angry that I turned down the offer and has been reacting badly, he thinks his opinion doesn't matter to me. Even my mom told me to reject the job.

What do you guys think? Did I make a mistake rejecting the job?

whytevardy:
After your Nysc.

You didn't care to look for a job.

You didn't care to learn a skill.

You didn't care to think of how you can help those people that trained you in school.

All you cared for,is looking for toasters that helps you financially.

Mr.Lalami my OG, please share the good news once again.

I'm not done, just left camp recently

My ex boyfriend broke up with me shortly before I went for service, citing irreconcilable differences. It coincided with a period that he had a setback in business that made him lose a huge amount of money and left him in debt, I tried my best to support him but he still accused me of lack of empathy towards his situation because of a comment that I made.

It has not been easy for me since I left for camp, and I'm still suffering, most times I feed from the goodwill of toasters. I've been receiving a huge amount of attention from men in Abuja though I haven't given in to any because I think I'm still in love with my ex. I miss him a lot and I haven't found someone that I can share that kind of bond with.

I've been communicating constantly with my ex since we broke up, in fact I still tell him everything that goes on in my life including about my numerous toasters. He's been supportive although not financially. He tells me that he misses me too but unfortunately he can't sustain a relationship now because he can barely feed at the moment. He once told me that we're just casual friends and it hurt me to the extent that I nearly had sex with one of my toasters just to forget him but couldn't stand any guy touching me.

There's a man that has been on my neck for a while now, he's been helping me financially but I'm not attracted to him and I don't think I can date him. All my attempts to put him off has failed so far. He took me out for breakfast this morning when my ex called, he noticed I was with someone and insisted that I was in the guys place, I suggested a video call in order to convince him but the man wouldn't let me make the call. He got angry and almost caused a scene insisting I must tell him who he is to me, I was recording the conversation and forwarding to my ex who told me to stop playing games. He told me to either date the man if I want to or tell him plainly that I'm not interested.

I couldn't give the man an answer because I still need his help for the main time. My ex got angry and called me a confused and self centered person, he said I should go on and date the man just because he's my meal ticket just because I told him that the man has been the one feeding me.

The man on the other hand told me to tell my ex to stop disturbing me since we are no longer dating, he was visibly angry and wanted to call my ex to threaten him to hands off me. He still ended up giving me a modest amount of money after the whole fracas.

Now I don't know how to handle my ex, he hasn't told me that he wants me back and even if he does it might not work because he's broke at the moment and I will have to keep talking to other men which he doesn't like. I don't get intimate with any of them, I just friend zone them till they eventually give up and leave.

I need ideas on how to go about this issue please.

Adunn1ade:
Ok. Seen. Can you please modify the message? Help to delete my email address. Thanks

Alright
Done
I just received the alert ma.
Thanks you so much, I really appreciate your kind gesture🙏🏻🙏🏻
God bless.

Adunn1ade:
Ok, send your acct number to

Thanks a lot, I will do that just now. My mail is Anbiandoojennifer093@gmail in case an imposter reaches you before me.

[quote author=Adunn1ade post=128675469][/quote]I will pay it in as advance payment while I still struggle for the rest.

Goodlady:
Shey happy screen don cost reach over N60K ni?
What am seeing here is those regular 4 gig ram and it's lappy mi suppose pass N30K - N40K.
I use laptops too.

Another person told me 47k, if you are in lagos and knows where I can get it cheaper I will appreciate.

KillingJoke:
What's your location??


I'll repair it for you for free

Good afternoon sir

PastorOlokonla:
Go to the market, inquire and give me the cost.

You will need to prove to me you are genuine?

Good afternoon sir, just got back from the market now and another technician quoted 47k for the replacement of the laptop.

Adunn1ade:
OK, let me know.

Good afternoon ma, I just came back from seeing another technician and he quoted 47k for the replacement of the screen.

Aesthetical:
Where are you located ?
If you are in Ekiti I have a monitor I’m not using and I can also give you one of my pc till you fixed yours

I'm actually in makurdi Benue stage so I don't know how we can go about it.

Izprince:
Abeg Link me up with the job make I dey help you run am small small... When you repair your laptop I go give you d job back biko

Okay well-done, you are doing well.

Adunn1ade:
How much in naira to fix the laptop?

I'm will take it to another technician and revert ma.

WantsandMore:
Toyota ladipo mushin.

Thanks for your contribution but I'm not based in Lagos.

MrBrownJay1:
why dont you ask your below BF to help you?



all these people with fake stories on NL to get handouts....

I no longer have a boyfriend because I'm no longer dating the guy, like I said I'm open for any verification, I can even provide the site I work on and evidence that I am working.

WantsandMore:
If you're in Lagos get ds tokunbo 17" monitor for 8k

Where is the shop and can I see the monitor?

Horerku:
So sorry brother, but i won't mind if you can help me with how to get a remote job too. I have a laptop

It's someone that actually referred me to the job, I will ask my boss if he needs workers, I'm a sis by the way.

PastorOlokonla:
Go to the market, inquire and give me the cost.

You will need to prove to me you are genuine?

Alright sir, I will find a way to go to the market tomorrow and ask around. I'm open to any manner of verification.

KillingJoke:
What's your location??


I'll repair it for you for free

I'm in makurdi Benue State sir
I will really appreciate

SavageResponse:
I think it's just the screen of the laptop that got broken, the motherboard and other critical parts should still be Ok

Here is how you can improvise, if you have a flat screen TV, I would suggest you get a HDMI cable and connect the laptop to the TV or external screen so you can use it for the meantime to do your work

Thanks for your contribution sir, but I don't have a television.

SavageResponse:
Since it's borrowed I think you should have been more careful with it



By the way, why are you quoting the estimated repair cost in dollars, are you not in Nigeria?

I'm not knowledgeable about those things, the guy said he will have to order for it online because the laptop parts is scarce. If I had money I would have taken it to market myself and inquire from others.

2shure:
Sell it and buy mini of at least 4gig ram

The PC is not mine, so I don't the liberty to sell it.

Jewessgratitud3:
Laptop wey you supposed dey handle like egg . How did you manage to let it crash like that? Hian!

I hope you get help soon and this time make sure it's permanently on the floor to avoid any more accidents.

I was carrying it from my bed to the table before I slipped and fell.

slimjohn2k5:
Use ur TV screen or buy a cheap monitor.
Money no dey naija now

I don’t have TV sir

I started a remote job this month with a pay of 30k. It has not been easy but I’ve managed to survive largely due to the advance payment that I’ve been collecting from my understanding boss.

Just few days to the end of the month, I’ve been dealt a devastating blow that has put my job in serious jeopardy. My work laptop which is even borrowed fell and the screen broke, going blank instantly. I don’t know where to start from as I don’t have a dime on me. A tech guy that I asked said the laptop screen would cost me $40 minus workmanship. I spoke to my boss but he said his hands are tied because laptop is a requirement for the job.

Please I plead on the good people of nairaland to help me save my job. Everyone that I have asked have had one excuse or the other to give so this is my last resort. I am open to any sort of verification.

I started a remote job this month with a pay of 30k. It has not been easy but I’ve managed to survive largely due to the advance payment that I’ve been collecting from my understanding boss.

Just few days to the end of the month, I’ve been dealt a devastating blow that has put my job in serious jeopardy. My work laptop which is even borrowed fell and the screen broke, going blank instantly. I don’t know where to start from as I don’t have a dime on me. A tech guy that I asked said the laptop screen would cost me $40 minus workmanship. I spoke to my boss but he said his hands are tied because laptop is a requirement for the job.

Please I plead on the good people of nairaland to help me save my job. Everyone that I have asked have had one excuse or the other to give so this is my last resort. I am open to any sort of verification.

Modified:
So I took the PC to another technician and he quoted 47k for the replacement of the screen.

Hope I'm not late

immortalcrown:
I feel your pain. If you are honest here, he is bad. "If" because I have not heard his own side of the story.

But why do you blame Nairaland? He is not the first guy you dated. Your previous relationships ended without Nairaland. Why do you act like Nairaland is what caused a breakup in your life for the first time?

Also, you spoke about bashing of women on Nairaland. Aren't men equally being bashed?

He has posted our issues here a couple of times and everybody supported him, it just reinforced his beliefs that he is doing the right thing.

Jeon:
This is why I have nothing to do with any NL male.
Because most of them have many monikers that's been used for chameleonic purposes.




No one should tell you that ur relationship with him is over.


You can never win him again, no matter what you do. Just move on and stop wasting your precious time.

I wish I could, but he has a very strong hold over me, I always go back to him no matter what, I have guys rolling on the floor just to get my attention but I just crave his attention.