₦airaland Forum

ILoveToFuCcK:
You've not fυcked her?

I havent ooo...

Dont want to get myself in soup.

TrapQueen77:
She wants to settle down but u ain't ready, are u?

Tell her straight up.. It will surely gonna hurt her but thats the only way u can tell her and stop giving her false hope.

Its not about ready or not.

The fear of unknown.

I saw her past facebook pictures, she was a beautiful lady, but now old age has made her look ugly.

I also saw her past facebook comments (years ago). She sounds like a feminist.

plus, doctors says, its difficult for a woman above 30 to get pregnant. All these are bothering me.

I met this lady recently on a social app. I started having feelings for her at a point in time. She is so crazy about me. She wants us to tie the knot, but I am having a rethink.

Why?

She is a 33 years old single lady. She is five years older. That is not the only issue, she says she wants to get married latest February next year and she is ready to foot the bill.

According to what she told me, she said men have jilted her in the past. She said she lost a relationship of 8 years. The guy went away with another woman.

However, I ensured I did not have any sexual relationship with other chat ..flirts...I love you stuffs. She tried for us to have s.ex, but I found a way to give her excuses why we cannot have se.x. Because I dont want a situation where she will claim I used and dump her.

My mind is having doubt. I dont know why she has not gotten married at age 33. Does she have a problem? I asked if she was married before she said No! I dont really know her past as such.

My mind is strongly against marrying her, but the love I have for her is making me feel guilty as if I am about to hurt her.

FYI: She is a made woman, but I have never collected any money from her. I did not take advantage of her sexually or financially. I ensure I pay the bills, dates e.t.c.

Am I a beast to dump her?

Laveda:

berryice:
Ve been supportive with prayers nd advice..not cash

Typical

Ifakiland:
op a gal just dumped u rite? pele.

Dump gini? Noo.

The way Nigerians paint Nigerian girls. They make them look like they dont do anything other than request.

JeffreyJamez:
Change your crowd.

The NIgerian Lady I know always requesting...they dont give...Even the rich ones. They still think you have to pay for the date.

Laveda:
I've been supporting, still supporting..

Its rare to see a Nigerian lady supporting.

I have seen many guys sponsoring their girlfriends in school. I remember my days in the University, there is this banker guy that paid for his girlfriends school fees, rent her a house give her money up-keeps. He visits her nearly every week.

The above is an example. I have seen guys going miles for their woman. Even in securing jobs. Encouragement..e.t.c.

Guys, have received such supports from your girlfriends?

Ladies, have you supported your guys in their career path. They say, behind every man, there is a woman. What type of woman are you?

Are you the type that looks for ready made man?