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It happen after my breakup with my girlfriend around September 2018 I decided to stay single and make more money as guys here advise. I have not been into any relationship since then because things are not really going well with me. I scout in a room where we are 3 in number my determination is to make money and start a new life. Since I don't have any good education background (Stop my education at JSS3) I Know is not going to easy to get a well paying job. I resigned from job where I work as security (My salary was #18,000) after 3 days that I resigned they broke into our house and stole my laptop and phone. This make me go back to square 0.
I start job searching again I was lucky this time to get a job of 26k after 3 months I request for salary increment because I work as Laundry person (I wash with ordinary hands), House-Keeper and Portal. They agree and increase my salary to 32k.

Around August, September last year I was able to raise money to rent my own house (Single room) and start my own business (Mini importation) that is how the problem start, I feel so lonely anytime I am at home alone because the business don't require much of my time, I have a dispatch rider that help me do delivery anytime I have order. And I also deliver myself sometimes. I have to ask one of my female friend out if she can introduce me to any of her friends that is responsible. Then she introduced me to this lady. After a month on phone call we decided to meet because she learn work at ogun state while I run my business at Lagos. She then open up to me that she has a boyfriend, I told her that is fine. And I am someone that don't like to share my woman with anybody, that is the reason that lead to my last break up. I was just thinking maybe I could start that this time around. After we meet I develop feelings her.

Then it happen that 3 days ago she visit me for the first time and pass a night. She then told me that she has only have sexual intercourse with only her boyfriend, I don't believe her but at night when I was trying to make love with her I think she might be saying the truth. During the day time when she was with me her boyfriend call her and start to para (angry) when he find out she is with another man, though she told him she is with her male friend. From the way the guy speak on phone I can see that the guy really love her. The guy and the lady mum do talk on phone too. But after that night I just find it difficult to let this girl go even when I know the truth. She left the next morning, I called her that night and ask her where she is and she told me she is with her boyfriend. I was angry that night, then I send her text that I will not be calling her or receive her calls for the next few days, (She is not in any social media network) she called me 3 times after she received the message but I don't pick her call

I was just thinking if I can win her heart since she is not married with the guy yet or I should just let her go because I am emotional weak person, then I can not afford to lose much on woman that might not be my at the end. The business I am running don't yield much yet, I just need advice on how to handle the issue here. Thanks you and God bless you

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