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Wumzygold:
Hi people,
I have a bf who really frustrates me. We have been dating for more than a year now and he get angry at little things...he insults me both privately and publicly whenever we quarrel.

Worst is he smokes sk and doesn't see anything wrong with it...he goes through my phone Everytime and even reply my messages sometimes. I can't have male friends cuz he calls me a prostitute whenever I talk to a guy.

The day I went through his phone I discovered he was asking so many girls out or either ask them for nudes or sexchat. I got angry and broke up with him but my dad had to settle it so I let it go.

The one he did last was when he asked me to come online on WhatsApp and it took me some minutes to do that and when I finally did I saw his messages saying I was busy with another guy which is why it took me long to get online and lots of insults.

I didn't reply to the messages and we didn't speak to each other for a week...he called and texted the next week but I didn't reply to any... I don't love him anymore and I want to break up with him but everyone including my family and his knows about our relationship.

.i can't explain to anyone what happened or they would try to get us back together.
Two months ago I met another guy and we have been going out a lot..he asked me out recently and I haven't replied him yet but I found out he womanize alot .

.I also found out that he has slept with most of the girls I know but when I asked him he said that was his past and he didn't have a gf then... I decided to give some space btw us cuz of his history with girls...

My bf is still calling with different numbers and threatening me since he found out am going out with someone else.

I don't know how to get break up with my bf and get him off my back.. I like the new guy a lot but the girls won't just stop calling him and my friends advised me to go back to my bf and forgive him since there is no perfect guy but I don't love him anymore and I don't want insults either....

Should I give the new guy a chance or let him go?
How do I tell my family and friends about my bf without them getting us back together again.

Please kindly advice
Thanks.

speerechual:
Hi Beautiful people of nairaland. I troway salute. Please I really need advice now. Please no one should insult me because this is something every man has passed through once in their lifetime.

I am 24 years old and I am dating a girl who is 20. I have graduated and I am waiting for my nysc hopefully this November. I have been dating this girl for two years and four months now. I was the guy that disvirgined her and she has been dating only me. The issue now is that she is in school, rivpoly bori to be precise. I have been doing my little best to fend for her because she is from a poor background and her father is late. I bought the jamb form she used to get admission into the polytechnic. Even now she is in school I do send her money often. Recently I discovered she is dating someone else who is also a student and a member of her church there in school. She admitted to sleeping over in his house twice but she says they didn't have sex, they only kissed and cuddled. I went to her school and had a heart to heart talk with her and she said she is confused on who to choose between my humble self and the guy. She says I pushed her to date him because I insulted her family which I actually did. I suspected her of cheating because she was always sleeping outside the hostel under the guise of going to night class and her phones are always switched off whenever she goes to night classes. That was when we had issues and I insulted her family of which I had immediately apologized. Please and please guys, what do I do now? I really love her and I want to get her back but she frequently sees the other guy almost every day. She is billed to finish her exams and return on Friday and I live too close to her house. Please guys what do I do Move on or try to win her back?? Thanks in anticipation of your sweet and kind hearted advices. God bless you all.

Blackivy29:
Oh God! Save my heart. And body too. I am so tempted.

Even the word. Men. Is enough to drive me crazy. I hate to fall inlove but i am. I need someone. I dont want to but i do.

im so weak. Deadly desires of the flesh. Im falling badly with no one in particular.

I miss having a boyfriend. suh much.

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