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enshi:
I believe if she agrees she really is sorry and ready to change.. If she doesn't, I will block her line from calling and texting me there and then..

I have keenly followed my threads of yesterday and seen every comments where so many think I am weak and new in this guys game..
Brothers I have been on the part of hit and run chop and clean mouth for as long as I can remember..
The truth is there comes a time in everyone's life when he begins to reason for the nex things that be..
I have five younger ones all boys [color=#000000]they need to be directed[/color]and I have hanged my boot for them to pick..

Man is not getting younger . I love the babe and I need an assurance. Since she has betrayed my natural assurance I can only trust her again based on artificial natural science..

She didn't cheat for money nor material things she ... We had an issue for a week and this happened..

1StopRudeness:
Mr healthserve....I know that having closure on a matter is really good, but when it comes to all this lust relationships the best closure is the one u derive for urself...
there’s no point telling her to go ask him for reasons.... that’s just showing the dude still has a lot of power over him and what he will say will help her move on...that’s crap.....and we humans can be very cruel we know how to play the blame game and play victim. we always make it look like our ex is at fault......And because she’s still in love she’ll be bitter blaming herself cos the guy will definitely play victim.....
Blackivy29 pick urself up...let it ring in ur head, no one determines ur happiness but u...ur ex owes u no explanation for walking away, he’s a chicken and scared cat, not bold enuf to talk to u, he’s even probably wicked not caring how u’ll feel...
... tell urself u are great girl... it’s his loss at the end of the day

Blackivy29:
I just wanted answers. When we broke up, he gave me none. Rather he was dribbling me like a ball. I was confused. If he had a good reason, i would have left him. But now that i got a chance as to why the love of my like broke my heart, i wish i hadnt. Hes blaming me in that innocent way. And he believes it. Because he doesnt know its me.

Bishopvic:
Good day my country people pls am in dilemma and need your matured advice.biko am not good in writing thank you. their is this girl I met 3 months ago via my friend girlfriend. about 2 weeks of our hangout she moved in with me and I realized she was into runz. Which I asked her to stop and i also told her our relationship conditions which she agree to cooperate with.conditions is we are not getting married and I advised her to stop her wired life styles of runz,smoking,drugs and getting a better life for her self. And yes am very proud of her she has stopped all this and seriously looking for a job.(was not easy sha) I won't blame her though she has a rough parental up bringing by the age of 20 she is already into full-time runz and living weird life styles.by 22 she was a victim of human traffic for sex slaves in one of West Africa countries she escaped and got her freedom early this year after she was 5 months pregnant.(her escape leed to the arrest of the people involved in the trafficking) she aborted the baby early this year after so many attempts with help from her mother. 2 months after abortion she is already back to the streets(She will be 23 next month) hustling from one guy house to the other 3 months ago she met me I advised her to stop and yes she has stopped. I actually want to help her by giving her little change to help her self but she might not mange it well. now my problems is I believe she is overstaying in my house am not that kind of person that keeps visitors for long(already told her these) also all my friends be like I should discharge her before something go wrong like she might get pregnant or be filling over comfortable in my house ( and yes she is really feeling comfortable these days) secondly since I don't know her or her baground she might be of harm spiritual or physical. i actually want her out but she will cry heavenly and say she don't want to stay with her mom or her girlfriends she is likely to go back in to her old life styles which she don't want to, as all her friends are runz girls things like this week me especially when she is emotional and be praying for me for all the help,money,gift and support I have render her to change. But I still want her out of my house as I can't be living with someone I am not getting married to I have never done that before.

Blackivy29:
Im so angry. He called my wicked. I cried for him. I dont get guys, simple. Im straight forward. As im typing im also chatting with him.

Blackivy29:
I've complained alot here on nairaland about my ex boyfriend who broke my heart for no good reason.
I need answers, so i created another fb account ( i know, thats immature, but i wouldnt get over him if i dont know the truth). I sent him a friend request and we started chatting ( i used a guys profile.) i complained that i had a gf who broke up with me with no cause and my ex came out too. According to him, i did the same thing too. Wtf! He sent me a message stating that he had a new gf and that i was stupid. But he didnt let that all out. Yes, i did ask him if he wanted us to split and he was like, "if thats what you want" i wanted him to say no. But he didnt. He told me (my other account), that he broke up with me because he didnt want to be a source of unhappiness in my life.
He is naturally sweet and he likes pleasing me. If i tease him that im angry, he would take it seriously and apologize. Then i would have to explain that im joking. Typing...

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subtlemee:
It's surprising how a guy can't take just one cheating mistake but we girls carry this burden on her head effortlessly like nothing forgiving every minute especially married women married to cheaters ....forgive her this once which I know it won't be easy and it will bring trust issues but for how long will you continue running away? Very faithful girls aren't many except you are stingingly rich

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realitybaba123:
hello guys,i am so down emotionally right now and i think i need to share this to at least hear your advice too
i met this lady during my service year,and we have been so cool together,i love her so much and she loves me too..fast forward to this year,i took her home to meet my parent,and they really like her so much,that my mom confessed her spirit works with her,my mom and i went to her pastor and we prayed about her,pastor said shes good and we are cool together,i gave her name to my bro and sis to help me pray about it too
,they said we are cool together.
Her mom called her she wants to meet me,but before that she should send my name to her,which she did,i just called her sometimes last week and i can feel shes not sounding well from her voice,i asked her what happens and she said her mom said where she went to,they told her we are not good together,i was so surprised and asked her if God has becomes two...because i think we were suppose to hear the same thing all over...now her mom keeps telling her she should breakup with me,and that she doesnt want to hear anything about me agaiin...she has been so down and said nothing can make her breakup with me..please guys,kindly advice,what do you think we can do in this kind of situation..i am so tired and depressed already
please matured mind should only advice here...if you have never been in my shoes,you will not understand what am passing through right now